NewStats: 3,259,333 , 8,169,830 topics. Date: Saturday, 24 May 2025 at 05:40 PM 424r1g

Undergroundrul:
I was abused severally by an older lady who lived with us when I was 6. When everyone went to school, I attended a home lesson close to the house and would return home before those who went to school because we closed early. It would be 2 of us only at home. She'd give me directions in what to do while she's undressed lying down. It went on for months. At times I would feel pain and discomfort but she'd force me to carry on. She threatened me never to tell anyone and I never did. Till date I've only told my wife this story and now you.

Eventually she left us and after some years, at her time of wedding, she fell ill and died before the date. I am in my late 30s now but can still every single thing that happened over 30yrs ago. My eyes are watering typing this.

Parents should pay equal attention in protecting their children, both male and female alike. Teach them what's appropriate and what's not when it comes to their body parts. And encourage them to speak up if something feels weird or unusual.

This is where you see that women are evil. For we, men know how very observant and tatafo women are. And we all know that even if no one is around, women are always around

But how come none of them saw all these things happening so that they can say something? Not even your mother, sister, aunty and that oversabi tatafo neighbour that can see Papa Isaiah doing kerewa on the moon.

Most especially as we now see that they already knew that these things happen, yet not one of them said anything to a man.

Tfem2:


Like I said. U do NOT KNOW HOW TO MAKE a POINT.

You are the delusional one, dear

You are the one deluding yourself because clearly my point has already been made and there is nothing you can reasonably say against it

Tfem2:


Wow. May you come to the Knowledge of Christ. What is this? Lol

If you have truly acquired the knowledge of Christ then you would have known that deluding yourself does not change what God has Said.

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Yes I'm married and all my babies did exactly that thing.

As soon as they see anything entering mouth they are coming. And if you delay for one second, dem go shout for your head.

Now my babies have grown up and now it is pot they are dragging with me.

I don dey shout make dem go work go buy dia own food and pot. Wetin. Na my pot be dis na?

You mean nobody in page 1 could see that he is Lying?

advanceDNA:


It is fallacy to reach such conclusion about kids raised by single parents........while two parents family is good and perhaps ideal, ..the issue isn't weda the parent is one or two to begin with....the issue is the person doing the raising, or even the kids themselves that just choose to be ûnfortunate in life..

after all one good head is better two uséle$$ heads..

Exactly

You obviously never get pikin for outside before else you would have known that this is also as stupid as being married to a stupid evil wife.

Hit!

Though I would have liked all the items to remain where they are now but it is still ok.

I was actually expecting something like this

Do you not real eyes that the same wives you are blocking are right here reading this?

jmoore:

Nope, not a lawyer.

Ok

Tenant go kon spoil my house and e no pay caution fee? Dem dey craze

Go build it own joor make we see if it rent no go even high .

jmoore:

If any bank in Nigeria is doing that, they are following the wrong path.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/why-next-of-kin-cant-access-funds-after--owners-death-lawyer/%3famp

Uncle Jay are you now a lawyer?

One of the areas where you get to see that government and legal are Fraudulent Liars.

For NOK under Natural Law means the person whom the Ceased voluntarily chose to replace him and inherit whatever benefit or liability that falls on the Ceased.

Lawyers when would you people break this fraud just as you broke the one that said women cannot travel without their husbands permission?

Or the one that said women cannot inherit.

It is time this rubbish and L.A business should be separated.

True

Firebox123:
Go create your own site for yabbing please 🙏

Seun don already do am for me before until now wey hin won spoil am.

But no wahala. I go dey go dey do my own business till maybe I go forget Nairaland

Samantha125:
Leave Seun alone... How come some of us still have freedom of speech without getting banned?🤔🤔🤔

That is clearly because your own is to talk and go. What people may call shallow.

However, some of us here are very ionate about certain issues and are very deeply invested with their whole lives in them.

And so when such people talk, their words and ion carry weight and value.

So, expectedly these persons would be ferocious in their arguments and so many might be offended and angry and someone may press the ban bottom unjustly.

But this is where a separate fair public tribunal section can re-review it to see whether it is reasonable to remove such comment or to return it back to the thread.

And for me these are the best people to learn from as they appear to have the requisite experience and knowledge needed to the issue of discuss and can shed more light for anyone who was thinking in that direction.

And this is the spot where Nairaland becomes sweet as many viewers get to learn something even if they do not comment.

But look at all these ionless and emotionless talk is making here boring

Everyday247:
StillDtruth, u wan start new civilisation on Nairaland?

No ooh!

Ok, maybe a better version of the old one.

Hot fireworks suppose dey here na. If you look am you go see say e dry and in 10minites you don read everything for Nairaland comot.

Unlike before you fit dey one thread for 2 hours dey vex as you dey think about wetin one commenter talk wey or for the one wey no vex you just to dey think about wetin one commenter bin talk.

You fit even carry am go show person wey dey with you for dia.

And dat time you fit dey that topic d whole dey or 2 before you Kon real eyes say you never read other news wey another issue fit still magnet you there.

Now I don dey delete Nairaland from my daily life as e no dey hot and sweet again.

For me, fight and quarrel na good business attraction for Nairaland.

Seun

You are only 50% correct.

You obviously have not seen that this is the thing they do when they are trying to trap a man so that people would only see that it is the man who pursued them and blame him.

Rather than people seeing that she is the one who has set him up to pursue her through those same things

Now with all these bans flying faster than flying saucers, do you not see that free, sweet speech has been curtailed and people here are speaking like robots?

Yes, on the surface shooting darts aka at someone appears bad but we all know that there are some good shots and there are some really evil ones.

And it is even natural and nice to see that people come in to condemn the really evil ones. And that condemnation is itself a control mechanism.

So, not all sharp criticisms and scathing retorts aka trolliing are bannable offences.

For I know many of us have taken sense and wisdom from these burning remarks ing them even years after as we use it to guide ourselves.

So, Seun not all disparaging remarks are bad and in fact I think it would make Nairaland more interesting if you created a Nairaland court as a section of its own.

And everyone reported aka banned should be immediately transferred to. this section is where their case can be judged by the Nairaland community (Jury) and not just by a single Mod. And if a person is overwhelmingly condemned by fair and reasonable then he serves his ban.

And if it is proven that such sharp comments are within social fair limits, then he is a quited and returned to his normal ability to comment freely.

Not all Yabbings and abuse are bad ooo.

Seun, let us yab ooo. Yabbing makes Nairaland very sweet

Not every thing requires change.

Gbas gbos na part of Naija life. And make we talk true, e sweet well well.

But see am na as gbas gbos and yabis no dey again, Nairaland don dey boring.

Yes, change is a part of life however it is a part of life that some things will never change.

Seun.

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My kind of baby!

How dare you not give her the meatpie?

You think say she no dey smell the beta wack? And you think say she no dey see as you dey put am for d same place she won put am?

Abeg let d baby suck the life out of dat meatpie.

Posts like this have already answered you.

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bukatyne:


Ah Toor!

Sarah, Elizabeth, Hannah, Rebecca, and Rachael were unholy also.

Compare with Leah, Mary, Noah's wife, Job's wife and VIRGINS.

As we all know, one touch baby don enter.

bukatyne:

But the focus of the movie was the infertility and my people say 'someone cannot suffer two predicaments at the same time'

Sorry to spoil your joy but infertility is a Curse laid upon unholy people.

So, the producers do not really know God and therefore are no different from nolly and unholywood producers

Gloriagee:
That blowing was too quick imo. Not even flat, duplex; the exotic cars;

Yes.

Especially with God, you can not blow quick like that. Even Joseph took almost 20years to blow

So, the producers do not really know God

This is where my FIL and MIL's house is like that.

Very eerie, strange place that gives you the shivers. Felt like a house where someone was killed or a ritualist house.

They have heavy curtains covering windows and only select windows are opened for light and air.

And they used black nylon shits to cover their balcony so that no one can see anything inside the house at all.

And the family themselves were very strange people. No one visits them and neither do they relate with even their own family like uncles, aunties and cousins.

They are always distant with people even though they pretend to be warm thus they do not have any friends.

And one day MIL making noise about my poison, poison. And quick quick we knew that was a sign and warning and till the world ends we no dey go dat house again

Thankgod89:


What exactly is incorrect about what I said?
How does my statement align with your response?

Didn’t the path to God used to be dimly lit through types and shadows—such as the priests, the sacrifices, the Law, and the temple?
And didn’t the faithful before Christ live in hope and expectation of something greater?

Hebrews 11:39 says:
“And these all, having obtained a good report through faith, received not the promise.”
This shows they were waiting—they had faith, but the full reality hadn’t yet come.

But your response seemed disconnected and I honestly don’t see how it directly ties back to the core of our discussion.

I say brightly lit. But no wahala

Lies.

Thankgod89:


When I said Christ "reversed the door," I didn’t mean He changed the final destination of death from judgment to something else in general. I meant He reversed its meaning and effect for those who are in Him.

Here’s what I mean:

Before Christ, even the faithful waited in hope (as in Luke 16, Abraham’s bosom).

The path to God was dimly lit through types and shadows—priests, sacrifices, the Law, the temple—all pointing forward.

Access to God’s presence was limited, veiled.

When Christ came, He fulfilled the Law, tore the veil, and brought immortality to light (2 Timothy 1:10). Now:

The way is no longer shadowed—it’s clearly revealed.

The fear of death is broken (Hebrews 2:15).

The promise of resurrection and eternal life is secured.

So yes, death still leads to judgment—but for the believer, that judgment has already fallen on Christ.

Not correct!

In the old, God's Presence was very very strongly felt. If you watch movies of the past you would experience this.

So the people of old had His Spirit to teach, lead and guide them. (This was what left when Christ Said "it is Finished and that is why the world started ending and Antichrists started as Christ had Said)

So anyone who truly wanted to be righteous could do it. Which is why people say today to older ones on temptations and sins "ah your days were better na"

So the main matter of God's visitation was to re pave His Way which had been destroyed by Isreal not keeping His Way and further made worse by the world who ensured that it was covered.

So, God came again, a second time to re pave The Way with a more solider cast that the world cannot easily erase.

thrillionaire:
Ahn Ahn...na person e kill? Why all these gibberish?
You sabi curse na him you never help us finish Fulani herdsmen wey dey kpai Nigerians on a daily? Gtfoh

You no know say hin just kill person with that talk?

Zooposki:


I wonder what gender/devils roam around the world looking for whom to steal, kill, rape and destroy? The world would be 99% peaceful without them.

Don't go there oo. That is your gender. Your very same female gender.

You people have stolen and killed and raped more than men. So, talk dat one.

Fiscus105:

*Wife that claims to be born again, but ready to open legs for total stranger without even stress her an inch.

When you are clean these devils will fvck you in under 20 minutes of meeting you.

That was what happened to me when I decided to follow God purely. On my very first trip to the university, night bus, one beautiful devil stranger came for me.

And that was when I saw that the normal resistance and shit IS A BAD MOVE!