True.
Just read the details now on Sahara Reporters.
RIP to him
Should have focused on taking proper care of his health instead of dragging governors seat with his deputy.
Now none of all those matters anymore
Peter532:
Don't let peer pressure tension you.
I am 36 entering 37 few month from now and I still live with my mother.
My dad is late and my mum is aged, I see no reason going to rent an apartment when the one I am living can easily be mine.
I just need to refurbished it and I am good with my wives and kids.
I know some negative people will come to catch me witch saying I am for the death of my parents and so my kids Will wished for me too when I am aged.
That's where you are wrong no one is praying for anyone's death.
It's contentment.
I am planning on taking my relationship life serious and bring an offspring next year. Just a mini introduction my fiancee family that should do till we are ready to tie the knot.
bestman09:
Everything should not be kept secret in life. A man was building a house secretly in felele area, Ibadan without telling his wife or any relation and suddenly died due to an accident in 1996. Because no one knew his family, that land remained fallow for over 20 years till 3 years ago when some omonile fought over the land as one set of omonile sold the house to someone else without settling the other side, that's how people knew about the reason why the land has been idle for a long time. However the matter was settled but the family of the man that owned the land remains unknown and the said land has been resold to someone else.
It's fair enough to hide some things to friends, but family? Noo
It doesn't matter, the living should hustle theirs. When I make money I will do the same. I can't be alive n be fighting for my own money bcus you are my wife
In celebration of his birthday, Lady Mrs. Gift Emmanuel has showered hard currencies on her husband, Amb. Dr. Lawrence Oloche Emmanuel (MON), who is the Chief Executive Officer (CEO) Promiseland Estate, located in Abuja the nation's capital.
Amb. Emmanuel woke up to chains of surprises on Tuesday as his beautiful wife had "ambushed" him, along with their beautiful kids and some family .
They all appeared in customized quality T-shirts bearing the image of the celebrant.
At the blaring of the sound of "happy birthday to you" from a saxophonist, the well prepared wife made it clear that she was out to surprise her lovely husband for the love he has shown her over the years.
She quickly reached out to properly packaged wads of cash, which include Pounds, Euro, Dollars and the local currency, all in packets and highest denominations.
She was not done yet, she also quickly reached out to her handbag where expensive ornaments have been laid, which includes golden necklace, expensive Jacob & Co wrist watch and many more.
While the crowd cheered, hailing her with a shout of "e choke", she started decorating her husband with the expensive gifts, as the surprised husband simply echoed with excitement, "I love what I'm seeing".
One of the visitors in the house shaded the women who were watching, urging them to emulate what their fellow woman has done.
A thanksgiving and reception was equally held on thesame day courtesy of the lovely wife too.
This comes as the husband unveils the humanitarian arm of his business, Promiseland Foundation with a whopping sum of N100m.
Stamina777:
Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.
So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.
Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time
Please what should I do
She will never agree. Unless she very old or ugly. Nigeria ladies dating are like business transactions. Only guys date blindly or solely on beauty.
A very fine neighbour of mine have lots of handsome male friends that comes around sometimes to sleep with her when ever she's honey but when she wants to marry whe went and marry a 45 year old ugly witch men.
Women apply sense die when it comes to marriage. Not all though, mostly the beauty ones
Sirchiboy:
We keep blaming the government but our parents is the cause of 90% of the problems we face today.
As a man, you know you can't even feed three square a meal or pay your rents yet you still go ahead and get married.
Start giving birth to kids you can't cater for yet you keep blaming the government.
You are worse than the devil himself.
For ladies, age is the reason. For guys , pressure and deceit from the lady
Sirchiboy:
We keep blaming the government but our parents is the cause of 90% of the problems we face today.
As a man, you know you can't even feed three square a meal or pay your rents yet you still go ahead and get married.
Start giving birth to kids you can't cater for yet you keep blaming the government.
You are worse than the devil himself.
Queendiamond398:
My husband prefers been busy on his phone with his numerous exes, divorcee and single ladies than gisting with me if we are together, i have always want him to have peace of mind but it seems he doesnt think of that about me
Am begining to find peace gisting with his friend anytime he comes to visit, some persons may say i saw the handwriting on the wall before i married him,Hell NO! .He succeded in making me chase all my friend both male and female away but now have numerous to chat with and laugh and please himself.
He thinks his smart but i pity him, is just my home training that is limiting me to do some kind of evil things ,we will go for party or club he will leave me and go and be sitting in midst of other ladies, while some men will come and sit with me and making advances at me and he doesnt know. Some of his friends that are as useless as him and come with their wives or Fiance doesnt know young and energetic men do have quickie with their wives at the rest room
My religion and the way i value my body can't make me to stooop so low to do all those things but why will a man choose to neglect the wive to be dieing of boredom .
Because of lack of attention my Male Colleagues always try to take advantage of that and be chatting with me till midnight without him even seeing it.
We lived in a separate room that this his attitude can make someone to be cheating without him knowing but i dont want to do that Please someone should help me out
Please am dieing slowly i have confronted him so many times but he will tell me i dont have the right to tell him what to do
Seriously we all get tire of each other . Marriage could be boring. One person must be pushing more than de other
Queendiamond398:
My husband prefers been busy on his phone with his numerous exes, divorcee and single ladies than gisting with me if we are together, i have always want him to have peace of mind but it seems he doesnt think of that about me
Am begining to find peace gisting with his friend anytime he comes to visit, some persons may say i saw the handwriting on the wall before i married him,Hell NO! .He succeded in making me chase all my friend both male and female away but now have numerous to chat with and laugh and please himself.
He thinks his smart but i pity him, is just my home training that is limiting me to do some kind of evil things ,we will go for party or club he will leave me and go and be sitting in midst of other ladies, while some men will come and sit with me and making advances at me and he doesnt know. Some of his friends that are as useless as him and come with their wives or Fiance doesnt know young and energetic men do have quickie with their wives at the rest room
My religion and the way i value my body can't make me to stooop so low to do all those things but why will a man choose to neglect the wive to be dieing of boredom .
Because of lack of attention my Male Colleagues always try to take advantage of that and be chatting with me till midnight without him even seeing it.
We lived in a separate room that this his attitude can make someone to be cheating without him knowing but i dont want to do that Please someone should help me out
Please am dieing slowly i have confronted him so many times but he will tell me i dont have the right to tell him what to do
You need to call a meeting and sit him down.
Mind you if you don't make money on your own sorry. It will be difficult. Happened to someone I know.
Are your friends good looking to begin with? Maybe the beautiful ones didn’t want them
Though I don't believe in looks and character stuff, until I entered UK. Abdul( tall handsome Yoruba guy, who has been in UK for 5 yes) walk up to me when we are at work, and told me bro go and marry but make sure she's not very beautiful. I asked he y. He said ladies are obsessed over their beauty and it gets to their head because of this she will hardly stay ( can't be kept as a UK wife)
Saw his comment and had a big laugh, delusion is really bad for his health 🤣
If he knows how powerful a lady you called your wife is in the UK. He won't even say that rubbish. Most UK men marry ugly or average ladies bcus they are more calm and considerate. I'm yet to see any of my friends whose wise is finer than them. If them de 9ja de will never marry most of those ladies. So if the want to search for ladies the go for character over beauty bcus in reality most fine ladies have bad character
I have been wondering If it is Truly possible for a girl to get over her ex especially when she has the chance to meet him again. I know when you don't see it will seen like it's all over.
Why I am asking is ALL my exes, anytime I'm around where they are, no matter how bitter they were about the break up always don't hesitate to meet again when I ask them to.
I have not had any resistance from any of my exes to meet again even those we haven't spoken for years due to distance or somthing.
And yes, we do " have fun" anytime we meet even when they are in a new relationship.
That really makes me scared because I feel like the girls I'm dating are also unable to resist a request from their exes to meet even when they tell me how much they won't go back, but it's very difficult to believe especially when there's an opportunity to see again.
So ladies, can you truly get over your ex even when you have the opportunity to meet again?
Jayboi:
Good day everyone. I have been wondering how married men in diaspora with their wives/family in Nigeria cope when they develop sexual urges. I know women can still try and hold body o but men!
For instance, I know up to ten married men staying in the UAE/Qatar with their families here in Nigeria. Infact they visit just once in a year and make sure their families/wives get the best form of comfort. After, they are off again for months.
I don't want to believe they just remain celebate throughout. Or are there Oloshos or prostitutes in the middle east?
Before I marry anyone ... Trust me I would have really dealt with her and trained her to my taste. She would have seen me at my worst and STAYED. So New York won't be an issue with her.
Or I wouldn't marry her in the first place.
I laugh I Swahili. You think say ma dog u de train
Even if the kids are been brutalized by the parents to have a morals ,they will still be astray if they wanted to .Thanks to friends, neighbors, peer groups, television, books e. t. c which made up a physical Environment. [ a [b]person that chose to be useless will be useless no matter the metal hands that was used].[/b]
So all those parents didn't teach this and that to children is just a cheap talks.
Even if the kids are been brutalized by the parents to have a morals ,they will still be astray if they wanted to .Thanks to friends, neighbors, peer groups, television, books e. t. c which made up a physical Environment. [ a person that chose to be useless will be useless no matter the metal hands that was used].
So all those parents didn't teach this and that to children is just a cheap talks.
Kobojunkiee:
Leave her in Nigeria and if she happens to find herself a sickcock in Nigeria same way you find yourself a sidechick on the other side, una go still complain.
Most Igbo men no de ever bring their partner come europ until kids are a bit grown. All my friends dad then where in Europe but their dad do visit.
Men should know that in Europe a woman Will cheap more than Nigeria. I know how many married men my guy the fk for UK.
Most UK boys will make money the next thing na to carry woman come UK. No savings , no plan , nothing nothing. Na make woman come hustle complete your school fees.
Everyone has priority in life. Me na billionaire I want be. If na woman be your priority follow.
luminouz:
See the lives of Nigerian women. Small freedom they turn King Kong for husband.
This is why the redpill is vital for men. Vet, vet and vet her and let her greenlight your ass before you tie the knot so you don't become a poverty alleviation program for a woman.
Many married men in the UK are crying as we speak. I have counseled 7 whose wives turned viragoes because they have started earning money and so they can party and come home late and husband must not talk. One woman threatened to report her husband because she came home late and her husband complained. The next morning, his son looked mournfully at him and said 'Daddy, mummy doesn't love you. I overheard her and her friends discussing how you will suffer'. He almost bought himself a gun to shoot her till I counseled him. This was a woman he trained through nursing school after marrying her.
Is it a wonder why the cases of men killing their women abroad is on the rise? Nope. Infact I expect it to keep rising given the 2020-2023 Japan rush many couples undertook.
N.B: Why is it that when a man makes money, the next thing society wants is for him to get married. Almost everyone in his life will egg him on to have a wife and be 'responsible' but when a woman has money, she believes she doesn't need a man and starts behaving like a Bantu witch to her husband and society goes 'you are an independent woman who needs no man'. What's with money, status and a little bit of freedom that make these naija women lose it? Na poverty mindset or myopic mentality?
N.B: One dude in Scotland,UK committed suicide just two weeks ago. His lawfully wedded wife was caught shagging his friend. He, as the dependant, was working three shifts to the wife's education, despite knowing she cheats. The last straw was two weeks ago when she served him divorce papers. They entered the UK in April.
Should I still continue? Cases boku for my hand. Men, lemme say it again. Swallow the redpill, ingest it, love it,kiss it, caress it, fuq it and LIVE IT. The day you stop being an Alpha and lose your frame, is the day you die. You already started life two goals down as a man. No one gives a shit about you till you make it. Infact, there is nothing you are loved for if not your usefulness. To make it and still fall into the hands of a leech as a wife/gf is a double-triple-combo suffering I won't wish on any man.
STAY PILLED OR DIE!!!
Why don't you leave her in Nigeria. Most Nigerian men are the cause of their problems
The reason women leave men after they go abroad is because marriage is not necessary abroad....the woman is given money by government, the police are responsive, what do you need marriage for??
ednut1:
There is one major characteristic of those men. They used money to entice the woman in Nigeria. You are a 29 years old man doing well, na 19 years old babe you go date or marry. Sponsor her through school, pay her parents rent and siblings bills. Now the bad part- emotionally and physical abuse, her opinions don’t matter, during NYSC you quickly marry and give her belle and prevent her getting a career. you know she cant leave because she is dependent on you.
But when you reach abroad, she can enter lucrative fields like nursing and tech. Starts earning good money and contributing to the bills. With her workload, child care . Many Nigerian men refuse to adjust to the realities and demand she cooks, does all the chores like in Nigeria. You still carry cheating come abroad. With time she begins to see there is no need for you and sends you packing. Many times its payback for patriarchy in Nigeria. Marriages where the man was a good man in Nigeria mostly still waxing strong abroad.
You are a fucking liar. Woman way good don good simple. Stop blabbing.
I won't conclude on that cus there are marriages that even with money, they still gall apart
Oha that's because the have the money.
A lady will marry you because of money and still leave you after she have one two kids for you, knowing fully well you will pay child .
After money every other things follows
Uyi2017:
Let's put money aside, what else is your guy bring into your relationship?
To be honest money is now everything. I used to think Money wasn't everything until I went broke. Jesus!!! Now I see why 20 girls are after me omo!!! .
I cook, I clean i change diapers.
Please all this things are not work o. Until you go broke u go know say house work no be work at all
vickydevoka(m): 6:25pm On Dec 27, 2023 
Maybe the beautiful ones didn’t want them
