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Tamires: 2:59am On Dec 10, 2023

Most of the guys here, na only mouth Dem get
They do the opposite of what they say online
Girls, if u take them seriously, na OYO u dey 😅 grin

1Sharon(f): 3:50am On Dec 10, 2023

Mcslize:

I won't lie to you. Nigerian men have this hustling spirit in them than the female folks. My point isn't really about our female folks working in fintech companies, but the truth is that majority of the female gender run away from works that require their brains.

I once sent a lady who told me she needed a job a link to learn a digital skill as an add up skill. And it was even free as they were running a free training as at the time. I told her to sign up and learn. To my surprise she didn't. I kept on reminding her until the training expired.

So you see? Most of our ladies don't like engaging in things that require brain work or looking for ways to make money online. Only few ladies have ion for such and can compete with guys.

There are so many ways to make money online. But how many of our ladies will take the time to make research? Very few.

After graduating from school, the next thing they think of is how to get married to one rich guy that is waiting for them out there.

My advice is that ladies should try as much as possible to learn how to make money for themselves just like the guys, instead of hoping to get married to one imaginary rich guy that will never show up. If I am making money and my woman is making her own money, the love will be sweet.

That's why guys are now having a change of mind to go for ladies that are doing well for themselves. It must not be a work that requires brain. We just expect our ladies to have this hustling spirit in them like the men so that they can have a stable source of income to live on.

A lady that has her own money won't be concerned about material gains from a man and no man outside can use money to lure her into bed, rather she will be more concerned about getting a genuine love and attention from her man.

That's actually my point. They should develop a hustling spirit to make money just like us the guys. With that, the whole financial load won't be on us. You should be able to take care of your basic necessities as a lady and we do our best to love you ladies and still get you girls gifts here and there without any feeling of entitlement from you girls. It makes us men to value you more and the love will be sweeter.

Before nko? Isn't a man supposed to have a hustling spirit undecided

There are many women in STEM. You both just aren't on the same wavelength so you don't cross paths. Even the women that are well to do, do not want a poor man, they want a man on their level or higher.

I've always maintained that Nigerian women should have their own money, so they handle their basic needs so no man can show off to them. But there is nothing wrong in a woman wanting to marry a rich man as long as his finances aren't his ONLY qualifier.

A man being rich is the equivalent to a woman being pretty. Both of them have options.

If a rich man and an average man asked to marry your daughter, who will you choose ?

Let's face it, do you really want a woman that's richer than you? undecided

She wouldn't want to date you either.

Myhusband(m): 6:59am On Dec 10, 2023

Badadvisor:

So far he got no idea about her past no big deal, but placing her on monthly wage is lame.

You know who and who dey your babe around or your wife before you guys got married.
What you don't know is unimportant and you can't tag the guy a stupid person.
But the salary part is out of the line.

no be every man dey marry loose lady, for a you to deflowered a lady at the age of 29yrs in marriage you think say na beans?

I won't say more than that

pansophist(m): 9:31pm On Dec 10, 2023

Mcslize:

After the whole matching, the guy got asked how much he would be giving the lady every month as his girlfriend. He then mentioned 200k monthly. Could you believe this stupid lady said that was too small for her class as a lady? That she bought a BMW for her ex boyfriend. That if the guy won't do 1 million monthly, she won't match with him.

It pains me when women confuse high taste with high class.

I mean, if I consider another man to be high class, then he should not depend on my money to be high class, and same goes for women too. I can understand if a lady wants to date a certain class of men because she is wealthy herself,

But for a hungry girl to think because her ex took her on a lagos to abuja flight and ate in a chinese restaurant, so therefore, she is high class, is just plain stupid. High class people have their own money, its that simple.

The guy is the idiot, he enabled such girls to think they worth anything by mere declaration, instead of actually being high class.

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naijapikin2(m): 11:04am On Dec 11, 2023

mono26:

No, but l will let her know that she better hussle too to become rich before marrying a rich man. Then to you that asked, what happens when the rich she married becomes poor all of a sudden and she herself was not rich b4 ? Probably, you will advise her to go & marry another rich one quickly. quote author=naijapikin2 post=127388216]Just one question for we guys.

Will you allow your sister to marry a poor broke guy

Me I won't my sister to marry a broke ass nicur.

After all I've to at least have some manageable funds myself before I marry. Abi?

Exactly the point. I'd advise my sister to struggle on her own at the same time get married to someone who is also Handy. Not that she is okay financially and the man is complete leeching on her finances.

All my sister's are very ok.. but I still won't advice them to marry a broke guy.

Is it not the two that will pool funds together

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YoshihideSuga: 4:01am On Dec 13, 2023