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Gerrard59

DrFunmisticGlow:
Men please learn how to look after yourself. Cook, clean up after yourself, please don't sleep with a woman without protection if you know you are not ready to be responsible for her and the child.

Sound.

Lexusgs430:


Someone already talked about tenancy agreement, not been too necessary..........

I just have a tick box I maintain, during visa applications......

So if she stays for 5 month's, you want to plant MIL in a hotel...... 🤣😀

Apply with your current accommodation and give us .........

I meant for short visits.

Lexusgs430:


So those very occasions you're around, when you finished your shower and your MIL is still in bed....... Where would you change your boxers and cream your naked body..........😂😜

Part of your requirements for a successful visa application, is accomodation suitability......... You would also have to submit your tenancy agreement, to MIL application....... I don't think the accommodation, in its present form is suitable....... But what do I know........😀

Abi you wan dey explain to home office, you go explain you go tire ...... No evidence.......😄🌹

Quick question.

Peradventure the accommodation is not suitable and you pay a hotel room for them, is that acceptable enough?

Gerrard59:


This has been the reality for those who migrated during 2010s till 2015. It is usually toff at the beginning, but it gets easier as time goes on. Today, the situation has worsened due to the tightening of immigration rules, rise in nationalism amongst the usual immigrant-accepting countries, global economic crises, terrible and worsening situation at home in Nigeria. Those who moved in 2010 no get the same complaints as the present set. Nairaland threads dating to that period validate this.

Lastly, it helps if the person is single and does not have a child(ren), regardless of gender.

This last bit quite important, helps you makes decision without the bother of how it'll affect the other party and even if the japa fails, you have only yourself to worry about.

Or even if you're married, delay child bearing while you and your partner hustle it out till you gain stability.

A friend of mine got his wife pregnant shortly before they went to the U.K last year October, now he's the only one working and they both are reliant on his income only.

Good thing he's on scholarship though but things would have picked faster if they both pool in their resources. Don't even understand the rush especially as they got married last year September.

Every mallam with him kettle.

Regex:


This is nice Nwanne. I deh Serbia like this...😂 😂

When are you returning?

Goodenoch:


Hi, thanks for explaining this.

Do these appointments need to be sequential? i.e. I have a holiday booked for May but if I want to add a couple others to it to apply for multiple entries can one be in say July and another in October?

Absolutely yes.

Just make sure they've all been completely paid for: flight and accommodation.

tensazangetsu20:


The problem is the country you went to. There are cheaper countries even in europe but you chose UK. Anyway as bad as it is there, I still believe the UK suffering get expiry date. Nigeria suffering is for eternity.

Treadway:
she will not be handed a hefty sentence. Watch as everything will unfold. She's white, and with her self-defence argument best believe it would be downplayed to involuntary manslaughter. Just wait and see.

At the bold, "and a woman too."

Regex:


I went from UK. Returned back to UK. I'd be going to Serbia tomorrow.

Nice one.

I myself just returned from Greece.

I've been thinking of going to Italy in March

pocohantas:
When they claim #TeamForeignGirls, you would think they are dating the doctors and auditors.

But it is always the foreign girls with drug problems, mental issues or unhinged sexual fetishes. Imagine dating OnlyFans model and bashing black women for that all his life.

You sef, you no dey forgive.

fastseo:


are you in the UK? Let me ask
And if yes are you a student?
Because I am in the UK and I am a student.

Like I said who wears the shoe knows where it's hurt.

Lots of school are sending students away due to economic hardship. From Scotland to England most had given February as last date else they withdraw your CAS.
Even before now lost are doing more than 20...still de collect pst As in many. Can you even pay your bills with 20?

Nigas weh de sell 2k monthly for school forums na 20 give them?
SO LIKE someone said this is public forum.. No be everything I go vomit or argue with u so rest.

You talk too much.

Honestly!

Aaaaarghmed:
imo,no marry o,most women are just looking for where to chop.calm down find better person.No show d person say you get small thing .if not,she fit turn you to her family helper

hustla:



I dont understand this part o

What I meant is that if you apply to enter the Schengen area using Greece, you'll get quicker dates for appointment but the catch is that you'll only be able to use the visa once or twice (Single or Double Entry to the Schengen area) and I'm sure you'll probably prefer multiple entries as you might want to visit other countries.

So if you want to get quicker dates using Greece as entry point and at the same time get multiple entries to visit as much Schengen countries as you want, you'll have to fully book and pay for holiday in three different Schengen countries (including Greece) which will be presented to the V.O to get a high chance of getting multiple entries.

Does the above help?

hustla:


Thanks!

Man just wan get stamps

Try Lithuania.

Greece also, though you have to have booked and paid completely for holidays in three different countries lest they just give you single or double entry.

Gerrard59:


Thank you for your explanation.

Apologies for the question, but since it is an anonymous forum; why did you leave those churches? If it was based on relocation, why did you leave the north? How come those churches are not popular amongst Christians in the south? How come they don't have branches in major cities in the south (apart from cosmopolitan Lagos)? Finally, what is your opinion about the young women who are ? Say compared to their counterparts in those other churches I mentioned.

You don dey find wife Gerrard?

How many times una wan ask this question ni to ri olorun:
https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/7981487/man-50k-monthly-salary-he

Gerrard59:


She is Asian. My bet would be on the Philippines and to a lesser extent Vietnam. This one our people dey apply the "white" tag to every fair looking individual.

But e get white European woman wey never come across Nigerian food at all?

In a way, they're white by virtue of their skin colour: has that same paleness and texture as their European counterparts.

I'd even go further and call them "White Asians".

If she is Asian, there is a high chance she might like our food as theirs are equally spicy if not more.

If she from Europe, there is no way she'd like it: the food's spiciness will be deafening to her senses and this is made worse if it contains any atom of Chilli pepper.

Depends!

toujurs:
That's the problem with Nigerians, Most Nigerians are daft. We are so used to unexplainable source of income. Even when it's obvious a particular lady is doing prostitution, fans don't care, all they know is that she drives a benz. And lives in a massive apartment that we all know the hair endorsements and skin care endorsements put together can't afford.

We don't like to see, real hustle. Like funke akindele.

Seconded at the bold.

Nice one Kaisha.

pansophist:
Consider Latvia, or other baltic countries. If you're single, more reason why you should. If you are handsome, you better pick it right away.

Firstly, the surest way to stay in Europe permanently is via family reunion. As a single student, you can find the love of your life and legitly become a citizen in about five years.

Also, degrees from the baltics are EU certified, so you can get a job anywhere on earth. Also, it's really cheap to live in, with tuition fees as low as 3k a year.

Also, it's in the Schengen and EU, so you benefit from free travels without visa to all EU countries (except Ireland). Also, you can work as a student unlimitedly.

Also, their ission process is really simple, they don't even require toefl or IELTS from you. Also, their student visa is almost certain if you get an ission.

So many 'also's, for you not to give it a try. The only downside is that you might have to travel to Egypt for your visa. But if you can through that, you're almost assured a visa.

Since most Nigerians won't go through that stress, the few one that does usually get their student visa. So you must be willing to pay the price for what you want, otherwise you don't deserve it.

Viruses:
Food don done for justwise, baba quiet since until the 'immigrants without plan' topic start.

Someone congratulated him for winning award seff e no answer, got me thinking he's no longer here. Now I know exactly what to post if I wan hear from am.

jedisco:


Continued naira devaluation might have meant home sources of funds might not be able to meet up.
Also, influx of care workers + dependents has meant usual 20hr jobs have not been as easy to come by.
Some also didn't have reasonable funds initially and now have to face the reality

I wonder how many would fare in the longterm (after PSW) with the new work visa rules.

And schools have become more stringent with payment conditions.

Evolutionism:


Na person say make una MuMu and no Wise.

Life Is All About The Predator And The Prey

Why don't you "Mentally Lazy and Decayed Anamus" too start exploring the world so you can be advanced in Civilization.

Na to dey pack Twelve Wives and born useless unproductive malnourished shildren una sabi with una empty bald heads

You are absolutely right about the bold.

In life, you're either playing someone or you get played.

Evolutionism:


Na person say make una MuMu and no Wise.

Life Is All About The Predator And The Prey

Why don't you "Mentally Lazy and Decayed Anamus" too start exploring the world so you can be advanced in Civilization.

Na to dey pack Twelve Wives and born useless unproductive malnourished shildren una sabi with una empty bald heads

igbsam:
Wahala wahala wahala....

Out with a couple of friends, one of the guys works as a health care assistant. Moved into the uk in 2022 as a dependant. Currently earns £1605 or thereabout as take home pay after tax. Due to child care, he couldn't work more hours, said this is the reason he's earning such doing his 40hrs a week and claimed he is comfortable as his wife earns almost same too being the main applicant sponsored.

The wahala there is that, another bobo that works in construction blatantly told him, that is not a decent pay despite him covering 40hrs shift a week. Na so kasala burst o! Clash of egos, ironically, both of them just entered same time. Construction oga said he earns above £2k after tax. Told them even £1500 after tax is a decent pay, but the arguements is now causing a scene. I don book uber leave them. Our new entrants should take it easy

What's your take on this £1600 a decent pay after tax or not ?

These are the kind of nonsense I am sorry to say you see black people (especially daft headed Nigerians) arguing about.

I see three unintelligent people in that gathering: the construction guy for not being able to empathize, the health care assistant guy allowing himself to be drawn into such an argument when the best line of action would be to ignore and lastly you for bringing such question here.

My reply is harsh and maybe unnecessary but it's the truth.

pocohantas:


Your wives and mothers are always the best. Normal...

pocohantas:


Heya. But men are sleeping with other people's gfs and wives. Are you not bothered that one of your child could be outside, DMerciful? Your child might be struggling in Ogbomoso as we speak.

pocohantas:
Your ex-wife is taking care of the kids while you are busy trying to disvirgin your new girlfriend, yet you are still pained?

Why are the kids with her 247?
Did she stop you from coparenting?

If women can cook, submit and stay with cheating husbands for the sake of their kids. I don't see why this lesser scenario is hard for men to do. For a gender that doesn't benefit from marriage, this is an ideal arrangement if you ask me.

Focus on the kids.

pocohantas:


Then allow them discuss what you care about.

Why are you so insatiable?? If they say they don't care about marriage, you attack. Now they are discussing how to hook you into marriage that doesn't favour you, you attack again. Nawa o!!!

EbenezerTriumph:
7 month old relationship no sex and we just broke up and I didn't see her pants.
Have I lost?
I paid her rent, bought her a phone and usually gave her upkeep every month

Jeez, you guys!