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Telling a woman my weakness out of Trust ...mehn she. Leaked it out when we had disagreement...

casualobserver:


Trying to be rational with a woman or dealing with a woman like you are dealing with rational people is the biggest mistake a man can ever make.

Do your thing as a man, if a woman falls in line good for HER, if she doesn’t move on!

Can you elaborate this please.

Bede2u:
For me I'm naturally stingy sha. Hard these days for me to spend money i can't afford on a girl. But girls who think they are beautiful should be avoided at all cost by hustling guys. Your small change will never impress her. She will run you into debt. Leave her for politicians and focus on your hustle.
If you want to marry, look for a woman who loves you die, and who you sef like. Otherwise, na stress you just enter

Hmm, deep, but in my case she's very younger than me by age gap. though I like her but she loves me die from my own perspective on, it might be lie on. so what will I do? 🙄

Pablokay12:
SEX is sweet but there's POISON in between the legs!!

A man who can control his sexual urge is a man who can live many years on earth.

Men don't know that some of their downfalls are caused by MULTIPLE girlfriends.

Not every girl has a good spirit.

Some are demons, some has poison in between their legs.
Some women are destiny destroyers; becareful.

1. Do not obey your Erection at all times. Most Erections mislead you to wrong direction.

Control your erection if you don't want to to have few days on earth with much poverty on you.

2. Don't date a lady because she has sexy curves, boobs and shapes.

Those things are just deceptive avoid such, don't fall for what is called the irony of social media.

3. It is not everything you see under skirt that you should hustle to eat, some skirts contain snakes that will bite you and leave you uncomfortable.

Control your sexual urge.

Self control and abstinence in most cases pays a lot.

4. Having many girlfriends doesn't make you a man.
It only makes you a womanizer, a cheat, sinner and a boy.

5. For the fact that you are good in bed doesn't make you a man. A real Man is the man who does not run from his responsibility but faces it squarely.
6. Respect any lady that loves you. Yes, it is not easy for a lady to throw her love on you and your future.

7. The world celebrates successful men.
Nobody will celebrate you for having many girlfriends.

Therefore what is the benefit? Waste of energy, money and waste of Sperm.

, being honest, loyal and faithful that's the TRADEMARK of a REAL MAN....

PabloKay cares 😘😍
Call me the sexrapists doctor
09153887596

Any small talk or thread you guys will rush and demand for subscriptions 🙄

Chickensoup:
1, Over praising a lady.
2, Believing everything a lady says
3, Had the mindset that I had to spend for a lady
4, Ignoring red flags
5, Telling a lady my flaws
6, Realizing that looks are very deceiving.

Gulty of all 🤦‍♂️

G0odharddick:


Allow her to invest in that relationship. Let her use her money to come over to your house, buy most things herself with her own money. Cook for you, doesn't bill you stu.pi.dly, even when she does, don't give her, let her give you 100% of her time, like she should be the one constantly calling just to check up on you even when you are at work ( women are keepers in nature)

Let her fight over you, some times tell her you don't have money and watch if she'll do everything possible to help you get out of that situation, she can do this by advertising your goods, or market to people online or physically etc.

Bro, let her invest emotionally in you, let her invest her time in you too. Any girl who do all these for you will never leave you, she'll feel pain and cheated if she wants to leave.

I am saying this out of experience. But sadly today, most guys are quick to spend, send money or airtime to a girl just because they want to impress her. This is why you see guys online crying of heart breaks while the girl no even send at all because she invested nothing in him or in that relationship

You make too much sense here man.

Chief2410:
I swear,dating or marrying your best friend doesn't work.it is a lie some of us believed before until we knew better.

Thank God I avoided this but then, there are more to this.

Chief2410:
You can't love women if you understand them and you can't understand them if you love them.

Another one 😁

Revolva:
never help any of them , they dont value help and quick to forget

Don't think I will ever learn from this, but one day.

Though not expecting anything in return.

virginboy1:
Buying the illusion of waiting for her as a virgin till marriage.

Another sharp guy pop the cheery.... Cold

About to make this mistake 🤦‍♂️

Ruke1991:
Buying expensive things for any woman or throwing cash at them is the biggest mistake any man can make in this life or in the life after. Allow women to struggle and pay their personal bills alone, so that the stress can help them break the follow-come coconut in their brain. Until that coconut is broken, women cannot know the dignity of labour and their brain can never be useful

Words on marble.

ClassicEvilSpir:
I thought I was impressing her by giving her things, meanwhile there were bigger simps giving her more. Nowadays, I invest less, but receive more. Women do not respond to logic most times.

True talk. They flock towards hard hearted men.

Exceed15:
Being too nice. I stopped it since.

Well done.

bullabong:
Trusting more than necessary...Never trust a woman.

This is true.

RESPECT002:
Never, I repeat, never show niceness to a lady you first meet, thinking she will like you because of that.

It will never end In a good way. .

Make your money and focus on your vision.

Food for thought.

aribisala0:
What does toxic mean?
That is a word a lot of unintelligent females who listen to other females online use. Presumably they believe it makes them sound educated but achieves the opposite effect

My honest advice to you after today avoid that word. It is what cheap instagram models use
Their usual vocabulary if a man is not BROKE , he is TOXIC or CONTROLLING

unproductive parasitic set of people

Well said.

casualobserver:


Trying to be rational with a woman or dealing with a woman like you are dealing with rational people is the biggest mistake a man can ever make.

Do your thing as a man, if a woman falls in line good for HER, if she doesn’t move on!

Best advice to ALL men.

G0odharddick:


Allow her to invest in that relationship. Let her use her money to come over to your house, buy most things herself with her own money. Cook for you, doesn't bill you stu.pi.dly, even when she does, don't give her, let her give you 100% of her time, like she should be the one constantly calling just to check up on you even when you are at work ( women are keepers in nature)

Let her fight over you, some times tell her you don't have money and watch if she'll do everything possible to help you get out of that situation, she can do this by advertising your goods, or market to people online or physically etc.

Bro, let her invest emotionally in you, let her invest her time in you too. Any girl who do all these for you will never leave you, she'll feel pain and cheated if she wants to leave.

I am saying this out of experience. But sadly today, most guys are quick to spend, send money or airtime to a girl just because they want to impress her. This is why you see guys online crying of heart breaks while the girl no even send at all because she invested nothing in him or in that relationship

Boss you too good abeg... How can i know you?

DeeScan:



I get this thing where I unconsciously withdraw when the lady starts mouthing the love word to me .

I feel like I don't wanna get caged with that word ...

That's trauma respond bruhhhh, your body goes into defense mode so that you won't get hurt again... I know a friend like this..

Scamburster:

Hmm, deep, but in my case she's very younger than me by age gap. though I like her but she loves me die from my own perspective on, it might be lie on. so what will I do? 🙄

If you are ready for marriage and feels she loves you deeply, marry her bro. Nothing dey road o.

aribisala0:
Lions eat meat and goats eat grass.

I am a lion and cannot apologize for that . If you don't like it why not go chew some grass?

Do the calms naaa

lovebird65:
Going ahead marrying her even after seeing and her telling me how lazy she is and suggesting a Maid, now I can't pay the maid again and she's gone Now I've turned to the Maid in the house 😢😢

endsarrrs:
Men are the biggest mistakes to women

We're your biggest saviour. Without us, life would be miserable for most, if not all, women

ledaman:
Like I said earlier, It only broke dudes that will always think ladies don't deserved to be pampered or spent on.
How can i be stingy to the mother of my wonderful kids?
Even our Religion preaches women should be pampered and we'll taken care of.
Unless you are not luck with the ones you are with case closed.

Allow us hear word nah, this guy

lavylilly:
It's a misconception to view women—or anyone—as primarily motivated by material gifts or to label those who give generously as "simps." Relationships are built on mutual respect, emotional connection, and shared values—not just what someone gives materially.

Assuming that "women do not respond to logic" is not only unfair but also incorrect. People, regardless of gender, are influenced by both emotion and logic depending on the context. Emotional intelligence is just as important as rational thinking in relationships, and reducing one gender to being "illogical" dismisses the complexity of human behavior.

It's also worth noting that getting more from others when you "invest less" may reflect a shift in your attitude—from trying to buy affection to being more confident, authentic, and emotionally available. If that’s the case, it’s not that women are illogical—it’s that they respond to genuineness over performative generosity.

You use ChatGPT for everything!
Hope you don't use it to cook, eat and defecate too

lavylilly:
I glad you did. Amen.

Ye ye, stop taking credit for work done by ChatGPT

ledaman:
I disagree with your ascertion.
I don't regret buying expensive gift for the mother of my wonderful kids.
She deserved more than gift.
Moreover, only broke guys complaints about gift given to ladies.
Big boys just smile and move on.
Cest fini

But you have damage her for other guys. She keep looking for your standard any where she goes by turning men down. So before you buy gift for a women, make sure what you are buying for her is what she can afford her self as to maintain Ballancing.

ChybuzzDD:


Allow us hear word nah, this guy

Did I asked you to comment on it?

Anenehi:
But you have damage her for other guys. She keep looking for your standard any where she goes by turning men down. So before you buy gift for a women, make sure what you are buying for her is what she can afford her self as to maintain Ballancing.

well, you have a valid points

ChybuzzDD:


You use ChatGPT for everything!
Hope you don't use it to cook, eat and defecate too

ChybuzzDD:


You use ChatGPT for everything!
Hope you don't use it to cook, eat and defecate too

Hahahahahahaha!!