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donogaga:
Men, what are your biggest mistakes with women?
Women what are your biggest mistakes with men.
Share them so that other men and women can learn and not repeat them.👇👇👇

1, Over praising a lady.
2, Believing everything a lady says
3, Had the mindset that I had to spend for a lady
4, Ignoring red flags
5, Telling a lady my flaws
6, Realizing that looks are very deceiving.

Emma09:
I am a Man. Make una dey also talk about this issue the other way round. What about men? Shey women too no dey have regrets or biggest mistake men ni? Na the two gender get issues jare, make una no just dey point accusing finger on one alone.

Y'all will be forming fake fairness as if your babe is monitoring your comments on nairaland

Must a thread be about both men and women at the same time.??..What's stopping you from opening a thread about women's regret...?? Instead of coming here to create unnecessary gender war.......yet ..when you see all kinds of women and girls empowerment programmes...women scholarship, widow empowerment....y'all never come out to ask "what about men"??...abi boys/men no need help....?

Anabosee:
Giving her 10 missed call back then when I was jobless and simping. Now I have a good job I don't even have time to call family not to talk of one girl...... now them say I am not romantic....I nor send

Once they start saying you are not romantic,it means you are winning.

SEX is sweet but there's POISON in between the legs!!

A man who can control his sexual urge is a man who can live many years on earth.

Men don't know that some of their downfalls are caused by MULTIPLE girlfriends.

Not every girl has a good spirit.

Some are demons, some has poison in between their legs.
Some women are destiny destroyers; becareful.

1. Do not obey your Erection at all times. Most Erections mislead you to wrong direction.

Control your erection if you don't want to to have few days on earth with much poverty on you.

2. Don't date a lady because she has sexy curves, boobs and shapes.

Those things are just deceptive avoid such, don't fall for what is called the irony of social media.

3. It is not everything you see under skirt that you should hustle to eat, some skirts contain snakes that will bite you and leave you uncomfortable.

Control your sexual urge.

Self control and abstinence in most cases pays a lot.

4. Having many girlfriends doesn't make you a man.
It only makes you a womanizer, a cheat, sinner and a boy.

5. For the fact that you are good in bed doesn't make you a man. A real Man is the man who does not run from his responsibility but faces it squarely.
6. Respect any lady that loves you. Yes, it is not easy for a lady to throw her love on you and your future.

7. The world celebrates successful men.
Nobody will celebrate you for having many girlfriends.

Therefore what is the benefit? Waste of energy, money and waste of Sperm.

, being honest, loyal and faithful that's the TRADEMARK of a REAL MAN....
PabloKay cares 😘😍
Call me the sexrapists doctor

My biggest mistake was leaving Naomi

Perocom:


I was getting interested until you left me in suspense. How do i make a woman do things for me?

Allow her to invest in that relationship. Let her use her money to come over to your house, buy most things herself with her own money. Cook for you, doesn't bill you stu.pi.dly, even when she does, don't give her, let her give you 100% of her time, like she should be the one constantly calling just to check up on you even when you are at work ( women are keepers in nature)

Let her fight over you, some times tell her you don't have money and watch if she'll do everything possible to help you get out of that situation, she can do this by advertising your goods, or market to people online or physically etc.

Bro, let her invest emotionally in you, let her invest her time in you too. Any girl who do all these for you will never leave you, she'll feel pain and cheated if she wants to leave.

I am saying this out of experience. But sadly today, most guys are quick to spend, send money or airtime to a girl just because they want to impress her. This is why you see guys online crying of heart breaks while the girl no even send at all because she invested nothing in him or in that relationship

G0odharddick:
Understand that women are only with you because of what they're benefiting, it could be your attention, money, gifts etc

You don’t win a woman’s heart by doing things for her. You win her heart by making her do things for you

You spoke with a lot of wisdom thou.

no woman, I repeat no woman will ever love you unconditionally. It has never and will never work that way. Even your own biological mother will dance to the tune of that child who provides the more for her. Don't allow anyone deceive you. As a man, it's better you live with that truth or die in self denial. Even God will despise you if you can't solve issues in his house or useful to him.

Now that being said, there a few real, trustworthy ladies.but the paragraph above is still engrained in their DNA regardless.

As a man what to do. You need to make money, you need to keep working hard. A man paying his bills earns serious respect from everyone.

Once you can't pay the bills, even your dog will whine and grind it's teeth at you when you can't buy it's food.

Avoid gold diggers btw, you should get a woman who is purposeful and going in the same direction with you obviously. But live with the fact that the moment you can't provide anymore, things will likely go wrong.

One love

Wealthoptulent:
Marrying ma best FRIEND, NOW "EX"

I swear,dating or marrying your best friend doesn't work.it is a lie some of us believed before until we knew better.

Don't give diamonds to pigs or swines they won't value it.

Give it to only those deserving or with that potential after they have proven themselves/potential to u.

None. I no dey do woman matter again. Life too hard with woman 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅

HEAVEN4444:
None. I no dey do woman matter again. Life too hard with woman 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅

Nice choice. Bob Marley said "No woman,no cry"

Whats your alternative?

endsarrrs:
Men are the biggest mistakes to women

Talismann:
no woman, I repeat no woman will ever love you unconditionally. It has never and will never work that way. Even your own biological mother will dance to the tune of that child who provides the more for her. Don't allow anyone deceive you. As a man, it's better you live with that truth or die in self denial. Even God will despise you if you can't solve issues in his house or useful to him.

Now that being said, there a few real, trustworthy ladies.but the paragraph above is still engrained in their DNA regardless.

As a man what to do. You need to make money, you need to keep working hard. A man paying his bills earns serious respect from everyone.

Once you can't pay the bills, even your dog will whine and grind it's teeth at you when you can't buy it's food.

Avoid gold diggers btw, you should get a woman who is purposeful and going in the same direction with you obviously. But live with the fact that the moment you can't provide anymore, things will likely go wrong.

One love

Do you love woman unconditionally too? If VJ is not in woman, would you even look at her side?

Will you leave son that is caring for you and be running after the one that is not carrng?

You are just wailing and Ur agony is not logical and rational.

WHENEVER YOU ARE IMPOSING YOURSELF ON SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T LIKE YOU AN INCH, THE AGONY RESULTS ARE WHAT YOU JUST VOMITING NOW. GO FOR A LADY WHO LOVES AND YOU TOO DO THE BEST FOR HER AS A MAN AND SEE HOW RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN MAN AND WOMAN SWEET.


NB. Betrayal has nothing to do with gender, know that and have peace.

You can't love women if you understand them and you can't understand them if you love them.

Women No dey give money to man

Women choose men, not the other way around.

A woman who loves you becomes your simp and biggest fan and will do anything to please you and retain you, even if it means going against the world.

If you as a man find such a woman attractive and cherish her like a gentleman, you end up with a soulmate relationship.

I found my own girl and ignored her affections for years until I got sense.

Luckily for me, she decided to keep hope alive till I came around.

Not every man will be that lucky.

Getting married

Greydebz:
This sounds very toxic 🤨

He needs time to heal.

endsarrrs:
Men are the biggest mistakes to women

If men were like women...una for don get sense tey tey...that's why I advise men to hold on to their God given standards, like women do... if u have a body count more than 3 , u don't deserve to be wifed., if u have had a one nightstand b4 or a fling , u don't deservea serious man.. if u are disrespectful, u don't deserve a dime from a man ... if u hit a Man, he should hit u back in return... if u are broke as a woman, u don't deserve to be in a relationship talkless of a marriage

Omo, i did not understand one stuff you typed down there!
Can you reconstruct it, and state it in a clearer form. Am interested in it. Thank you.

Blitzking:

I was raised a player my don piro of blessed memory his scope made me get my wife and understand women in general..but I realised one thing I was always coming across virgins and I mean not 17yr old oo..25 and above so I stopped trying to get close to women and focus on my wife then I met this lady she said she loved men who told her the truth and come out plainly so alas since I already had a wife I lowered down my guard and was truthful with her telling her I was married only for me to realise na she be the no 1 liar..caught her lying several times and then I realise game is game...game is life. All women are liars na you never catch them.

icankel:
not lies ok. Men going through a lot over women just that most of men hardly speak up. Woman will manipulate you to the last and still be crying over your head

You just explained the one I'm currently with. She'll be at fault, and still crying profusely to the extent of swearing at me

endsarrrs:
Men are the biggest mistakes to women

Vice versa..

We be weak humans.

We all just deceiving ourselves with all this our love love talks

However, for any man who has found a good woman...abeg you in the name of God ... treat her right cos if you don't...you go regret am

Why?..

Cos dem no much....we have more men with a good heart than women ..

That's why your ill mannered ex ..the one you left cos of her bad behaviours has higher chances of meeting a good man again than you would ever meet a good woman....

So once you see a good woman treat am well...they are very scarce...very very scarce I mean

I love your first paragraph. Let me add to it. Just be stingy and spend when you have to. Dont bend to her request or expectations.

To your second paragraph, she must not love you die. Though you can still consider dat. But my advice is to invite women who respect your boundaries and you respect hers too. She understands you, and not love. Love will lead both of you astray and end the relationship at the end!

Bede2u:
For me I'm naturally stingy sha. Hard these days for me to spend money i can't afford on a girl. But girls who think they are beautiful should be avoided at all cost by hustling guys. Your small change will never impress her. She will run you into debt. Leave her for politicians and focus on your hustle.
If you want to marry, look for a woman who loves you die, and who you sef like. Otherwise, na stress you just enter

Peacecore:
You just explained the one I'm currently with. She'll be at fault, and still crying profusely to the extent of swearing at me

evaluate the relationship to know if you can walk out now before it's too late to do so. Mine cheated and came back for forgiveness and I forgave her and accepted her in my life. My worst mistake that I don't know how to come out from it. 4yrs relationship.

donogaga:
Men, what are your biggest mistakes with women?
Share them so that other men can learn and not repeat them.👇👇👇

Leading them on and withdrawing completely later

Marrying out of pity
Almost ruin my life 15yrs later

Ruke1991:
Buying expensive things for any woman or throwing cash at them is the biggest mistake any man can make in this life or in the life after. Allow women to struggle and pay their personal bills alone, so that the stress can help them break the follow-come coconut in their brain. Until that coconut is broken, women cannot know the dignity of labour and their brain can never be useful

I disagree with your ascertion.
I don't regret buying expensive gift for the mother of my wonderful kids.
She deserved more than gift.
Moreover, only broke guys complaints about gift given to ladies.
Big boys just smile and move on.
Cest fini

She should see your values and intelligence. Dis will make her trust solid on you, making her to do things for you.

Ofcourse, you must have money together with this values. Money is the foundation!
But lastly and finally, what moves a woman is the way you navigate life. Your principles!

Perocom:


I was getting interested until you left me in suspense. How do i make a woman do things for me?