| Pukkalolo: 9:23pm On Apr 22 |
OG316:
Bro can you kindly teach me you and your friend game?....i really wanna learn this game
There are thousands of resources on game out there. But here's a quick crash course on game.
I will make this pretty straightforward by telling you the first important truth that you need to know about game.
Here it is: Attraction is predetermined.
Which means, within 15 minutes of interacting with you, sometimes even before you say a word…a woman has already decided: “Would I drop my panties with this guy… or not?”
Let that sink in.
When you show romantic or sexual interest, she will give you a signal:
Green light. Red light. Or Yellow light.
And how you respond determines everything. Green Light = She’s Into You
She’s curious. She wants to spend time with you. No shakara. No games. No “I’m busy.” She's excited about being with you. Red Light = She’s Not Into You
She’s not interested. Maybe it’s the timing. Maybe it’s your energy. Maybe you’re just not her type. Don’t waste time here.
Trying to persuade a woman who’s rejecting you is the fastest way to lose your self-respect.
Most of the time, she’s not rejecting you, she’s rejecting the moment. Don’t take it personal. Take it like a man, and move on with your life. Yellow Light = The Test Zone
When a woman is giving you yellow light, she hasn’t said yes. She hasn’t said no. She’s evaluating.
Women who give yellow lights fall into either of these two categories:
1. She likes you, but she needs emotional safety.
Or
2. She doesn’t respect you, and testing to see how much power she can have over you and exploit you.
Girls that give yellow light are the girls that mostly give out what the redpill called, “Shit test”
I hate the term “shit test” for several reasons(but that's a topic for another day)
Anyways, There are two popular types of shit test, and how you respond them determines a lots. Shit Test Type 1: “I’m Superior To You”
This is when she tries to put you below her to see if you’ll start trying to prove yourself.
She throw Lines like:
“I only date tall guys.”
“I’m a spec.”
“You’re too short.”
“You're too old”
And so on…
This is where the weak crumble. Nice Guy Reaction:
The nice guy easily fails this shit test because he immediately started trying to prove himself.
Girl: “I only date tall guys”
Mr Nice guy: “It's not about being short or tall. What's more important is that I can take care of you.”
He accepted her superiority. And wants her to accept him. Test failed. RedPill-Junkie Reaction
If that shit test is thrown at a redpill-junkie guy, he would take the bait and want to show that's is an alpha guy…
For example:
Girl: “You are short ”
Redpill-junkie guy: “Yeah, but I have something taller down there.”
Despite the bravado response, he still fails because he entertains her shallow shit test. This shows he indirectly cares about her opinion Test failed. High-Value Man Response
A high value guy doesn’t even entertain the shit test.
For example:
Girl: “You are short”
High value guy: “By the way, this Saturday or Sunday will be a good time for us to hangout.”
He demonstrates high value by ignoring the test and concentrate on moving the conversation forward like a boss. He conveys that he 100% doesn't give a shit about her opinion about his appearance or personality. She respect him more. Shit Test Type 2: “I am not some cheap slut or easy lay”
This is when she says things like:
“I know you’re a player.”
“I only sleep with a guy I am in a relationship with.”
“Is this how you talk to all girls?”
“I don’t know you like that.”
“Let’s take things slow.”
And so on…
With this type of shit test, she's not trying to act superior over you. She's not giving attitude. She's just scared of looking cheap or being used. Nice Guy Response
Again, the nice guy easily fails this shit test because he immediately started trying to prove himself.
Girl: "I know you’re a player... all you want is sex”
Nice guy: “No no, I'm not like that. I really like you… you are special to me.”
Test Failed… He’s trying to win approval. Redpill-Junkie Response
He would want to show how alpha he his…
Girl: "I know you’re a player... all you want is sex”
Redpill-junkie guy: “Yeah, I’m a player. I play for Chelsea.”
She might laugh…but that doesn't make her become more interested. Why?
But she was expressing a fear: fear of being used or fear of being see as a target object for sex
That response didn't neutralize the fear. It only worsen the fear and make her distrust him more… High-Value Man Response
A high value guy will acknowledge her fear, but in a detached way.
Girl: "I know you’re a player... all you want is sex”
High value guy: “You don't judge a book by its cover… but if you don't trust me enough, feel free to end this conversation.”
If you noticed, he didn't try to prove himself like the nice guy. And didn't play the tough alpha like the redpill-junkie.
He simply acknowledges her fear but also gives her space to walk away if she can’t vibe.
This is what women crave. This makes him more appealing and she trusts him more. This balance is crucial—too much alpha wannabe will make her defensive, while
too much niceness will kill the attraction.
In summary
Game is simple.
* Show up.
* Indicate romantic interest.
* Watch the signal (green, red, yellow).
Respond accordingly.
* Lead or leave.
You either lead the interaction with masculine clarity—or you lose yourself in feminine emotional games.
I hope this was helpful
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| trilacos: 2:38am On Apr 23 |
Pukkalolo:
There are thousands of resources on game out there. But here's a quick crash course on game.
I will make this pretty straightforward by telling you the first important truth that you need to know about game.
Here it is:
Attraction is predetermined.
Which means, within 15 minutes of interacting with you, sometimes even before you say a word…a woman has already decided: “Would I drop my panties with this guy… or not?”
Let that sink in.
When you show romantic or sexual interest, she will give you a signal:
Green light. Red light. Or Yellow light.
And how you respond determines everything.
Green Light = She’s Into You
She’s curious. She wants to spend time with you. No shakara. No games. No “I’m busy.” She's excited about being with you.
Red Light = She’s Not Into You
She’s not interested. Maybe it’s the timing. Maybe it’s your energy. Maybe you’re just not her type. Don’t waste time here.
Trying to persuade a woman who’s rejecting you is the fastest way to lose your self-respect.
Most of the time, she’s not rejecting you, she’s rejecting the moment. Don’t take it personal. Take it like a man, and move on with your life.
Yellow Light = The Test Zone
When a woman is giving you yellow light, she hasn’t said yes. She hasn’t said no. She’s evaluating.
Women who give yellow lights fall into either of these two categories:
1. She likes you, but she needs emotional safety.
Or
2. She doesn’t respect you, and testing to see how much power she can have over you and exploit you.
Girls that give yellow light are the girls that mostly give out what the redpill called, “Shit test”
I hate the term “shit test” for several reasons(but that's a topic for another day)
Anyways,
There are two popular types of shit test, and how you respond them determines a lots.
Shit Test Type 1: “I’m Superior To You”
This is when she tries to put you below her to see if you’ll start trying to prove yourself.
She throw Lines like:
“I only date tall guys.”
“I’m a spec.”
“You’re too short.”
“You're too old”
And so on…
This is where the weak crumble.
Nice Guy Reaction:
The nice guy easily fails this shit test because he immediately started trying to prove himself.
Girl: “I only date tall guys”
Mr Nice guy: “It's not about being short or tall. What's more important is that I can take care of you.”
He accepted her superiority. And wants her to accept him. Test failed.
RedPill-Junkie Reaction
If that shit test is thrown at a redpill-junkie guy, he would take the bait and want to show that's is an alpha guy…
For example:
Girl: “You are short ”
Redpill-junkie guy: “Yeah, but I have something taller down there.”
Despite the bravado response, he still fails because he entertains her shallow shit test. This shows he indirectly cares about her opinion Test failed.
High-Value Man Response
A high value guy doesn’t even entertain the shit test.
For example:
Girl: “You are short”
High value guy: “By the way, this Saturday or Sunday will be a good time for us to hangout.”
He demonstrates high value by ignoring the test and concentrate on moving the conversation forward like a boss. He conveys that he 100% doesn't give a shit about her opinion about his appearance or personality. She respect him more.
Shit Test Type 2: “I am not some cheap slut or easy lay”
This is when she says things like:
“I know you’re a player.”
“I only sleep with a guy I am in a relationship with.”
“Is this how you talk to all girls?”
“I don’t know you like that.”
“Let’s take things slow.”
And so on…
With this type of shit test, she's not trying to act superior over you. She's not giving attitude. She's just scared of looking cheap or being used.
Nice Guy Response
Again, the nice guy easily fails this shit test because he immediately started trying to prove himself.
Girl: "I know you’re a player... all you want is sex”
Nice guy: “No no, I'm not like that. I really like you… you are special to me.”
Test Failed… He’s trying to win approval.
Redpill-Junkie Response
He would want to show how alpha he his…
Girl: "I know you’re a player... all you want is sex”
Redpill-junkie guy: “Yeah, I’m a player. I play for Chelsea.”
She might laugh…but that doesn't make her become more interested. Why?
But she was expressing a fear: fear of being used or fear of being see as a target object for sex
That response didn't neutralize the fear. It only worsen the fear and make her distrust him more…
High-Value Man Response
A high value guy will acknowledge her fear, but in a detached way.
Girl: "I know you’re a player... all you want is sex”
High value guy: “You don't judge a book by its cover… but if you don't trust me enough, feel free to end this conversation.”
If you noticed, he didn't try to prove himself like the nice guy. And didn't play the tough alpha like the redpill-junkie.
He simply acknowledges her fear but also gives her space to walk away if she can’t vibe.
This is what women crave. This makes him more appealing and she trusts him more. This balance is crucial—too much alpha wannabe will make her defensive, while
too much niceness will kill the attraction.
In summary
Game is simple.
* Show up.
* Indicate romantic interest.
* Watch the signal (green, red, yellow).
Respond accordingly.
* Lead or leave.
You either lead the interaction with masculine clarity—or you lose yourself in feminine emotional games.
I hope this was helpful
succinctly put!
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| Pukkalolo: 8:28am On Apr 24 |
Thazard:
Hello Guys
I'm kinda curious and I need your outputs.
Most girls or should I say all the girls I got in touch with after loosing over a long period of time.
Whenever I ask them what they are doing for a living right now or I tell them what I do and I ask them what they do in return, they all tend to switch off.
I mean the conversation tends to die from there henceforth. It's just as if they don't want to discuss that part of their lives.
Am I wrong asking what the ladies do for a living?
No brother, you’re not wrong for asking women what they do for a living.
In fact, depending on the kind of relationship you're hoping to build, it might just be one of the most important questions you could ask.
But the thing is… The issue isn’t what you’re asking: it’s why she’s switching off.
Let’s unpack this quickly.
There are two major reasons why women pull away or switch off when you ask what they do for a living:
1. She’s not proud or confident about what she does.
OR
2. You asked it in a way that made her feel judged.
Let’s dive into the first reason.
1: She’s not proud of her job, or she’s insecure about it.
Let’s be honest, asking a woman what she does for a living is a harmless question. I’ve asked women far more provocative things:
“How old are you?”
“Are you pregnant?”
Some women got defensive. Others just laughed and threw the question right back at me.
I once asked a girl, “Are you pregnant?”
She replied playfully, “ wahala! Why are you asking, do you want to get me pregnant?”
Another girl I asked, “How old are you?”
She said, “Hmm…do I look too old in your eyes?”
They weren’t offended, they were playfully suspicious. Here’s the pattern I noticed:
The women who got upset when I ask those provocative questions were afraid of being judged. Not by the question… But by what the answer revealed.
So back to your original situation, Thazard… If a girl switches off when you ask what she does for a living, it’s often because she’s not proud of it.
Now imagine asking that question to a woman who's a doctor, lawyer, or radio personality.
She’ll likely light up and proudly answer and even ask you back:
I’m a corporate attorney at Bla Bla & Partners. You?”
“I’m an OAP with Beat FM… what about you?”
“I’m a surgeon...and you?”
Because those are socially “respectable” jobs, and she knows you’ll likely ire her for it.
But ask the same question to a girl who’s unemployed, doing odd jobs, or engaging in work that society judges—like hookup?
Of course she’s going to switch off.
Not because of the question, but because of the judgement that comes once she answer it.
That leads us to the second reason and the solution… 2: It’s not the question, it’s the delivery.
Here’s what most guys don’t realize:
Women don’t care about the words you use. They care about the vibe behind the words.
If a question feels like a judgment trap, she’ll guard herself, especially if she's not yet very comfortable with you.
But when the same question is asked with validation, and subtle celebration,
She’ll open up like a book.
For example, asking:
“How old are you?”
feels like a subtle attack or judgement trap.
But reframe it like this:
“You speak like a woman in her 30s, but you’ve got the glowing face of an 18-year-old… Let me guess…you’re either 23 or 25?”
Now she’s smiling, intrigued, and ready to play.
Why? Because she doesn’t feel judged. She feels validated… celebrated… and in control.
So in your case, instead of asking:
“What do you do for a living?” sounds like you’re measuring her worth… so she got scared of being judged.
But here would have been a better way to phrase it:
“You give off this queen boss babe vibe… What are you currently doing… Working 9 to 5?, learning a skill? Or doing your own thing?”
Now you’ve shifted the frame:
* You validated her vibe first, so she doesn’t fear being judged.
* You gave her options so she feels in control.
That’s how I ask a woman a personal question without triggering her defenses.
Even a jobless queen might smile and say:
“Honestly? I’m just there o, I'm looking for a job, you have something for me?”
And still feel good answering it, because she feels you are on her side, not against her. Bottom line…
Women don’t care about the question.
They care how you frame their story within the question.
I often ask the lady questions in a way that makes her feel like I'm interested in her soul: not just her title, position, or status.
That’s what makes her feel safe enough to open up to you more.
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| KingEarnest(m): 9:07am On Apr 24 |
Pukkalolo:
There are thousands of resources on game out there. But here's a quick crash course on game.
I will make this pretty straightforward by telling you the first important truth that you need to know about game.
Here it is:
Attraction is predetermined.
Which means, within 15 minutes of interacting with you, sometimes even before you say a word…a woman has already decided: “Would I drop my panties with this guy… or not?”
Let that sink in.
When you show romantic or sexual interest, she will give you a signal:
Green light. Red light. Or Yellow light.
And how you respond determines everything.
Green Light = She’s Into You
She’s curious. She wants to spend time with you. No shakara. No games. No “I’m busy.” She's excited about being with you.
Red Light = She’s Not Into You
She’s not interested. Maybe it’s the timing. Maybe it’s your energy. Maybe you’re just not her type. Don’t waste time here.
Trying to persuade a woman who’s rejecting you is the fastest way to lose your self-respect.
Most of the time, she’s not rejecting you, she’s rejecting the moment. Don’t take it personal. Take it like a man, and move on with your life.
Yellow Light = The Test Zone
When a woman is giving you yellow light, she hasn’t said yes. She hasn’t said no. She’s evaluating.
Women who give yellow lights fall into either of these two categories:
1. She likes you, but she needs emotional safety.
Or
2. She doesn’t respect you, and testing to see how much power she can have over you and exploit you.
Girls that give yellow light are the girls that mostly give out what the redpill called, “Shit test”
I hate the term “shit test” for several reasons(but that's a topic for another day)
Anyways,
There are two popular types of shit test, and how you respond them determines a lots.
Shit Test Type 1: “I’m Superior To You”
This is when she tries to put you below her to see if you’ll start trying to prove yourself.
She throw Lines like:
“I only date tall guys.”
“I’m a spec.”
“You’re too short.”
“You're too old”
And so on…
This is where the weak crumble.
Nice Guy Reaction:
The nice guy easily fails this shit test because he immediately started trying to prove himself.
Girl: “I only date tall guys”
Mr Nice guy: “It's not about being short or tall. What's more important is that I can take care of you.”
He accepted her superiority. And wants her to accept him. Test failed.
RedPill-Junkie Reaction
If that shit test is thrown at a redpill-junkie guy, he would take the bait and want to show that's is an alpha guy…
For example:
Girl: “You are short ”
Redpill-junkie guy: “Yeah, but I have something taller down there.”
Despite the bravado response, he still fails because he entertains her shallow shit test. This shows he indirectly cares about her opinion Test failed.
High-Value Man Response
A high value guy doesn’t even entertain the shit test.
For example:
Girl: “You are short”
High value guy: “By the way, this Saturday or Sunday will be a good time for us to hangout.”
He demonstrates high value by ignoring the test and concentrate on moving the conversation forward like a boss. He conveys that he 100% doesn't give a shit about her opinion about his appearance or personality. She respect him more.
Shit Test Type 2: “I am not some cheap slut or easy lay”
This is when she says things like:
“I know you’re a player.”
“I only sleep with a guy I am in a relationship with.”
“Is this how you talk to all girls?”
“I don’t know you like that.”
“Let’s take things slow.”
And so on…
With this type of shit test, she's not trying to act superior over you. She's not giving attitude. She's just scared of looking cheap or being used.
Nice Guy Response
Again, the nice guy easily fails this shit test because he immediately started trying to prove himself.
Girl: "I know you’re a player... all you want is sex”
Nice guy: “No no, I'm not like that. I really like you… you are special to me.”
Test Failed… He’s trying to win approval.
Redpill-Junkie Response
He would want to show how alpha he his…
Girl: "I know you’re a player... all you want is sex”
Redpill-junkie guy: “Yeah, I’m a player. I play for Chelsea.”
She might laugh…but that doesn't make her become more interested. Why?
But she was expressing a fear: fear of being used or fear of being see as a target object for sex
That response didn't neutralize the fear. It only worsen the fear and make her distrust him more…
High-Value Man Response
A high value guy will acknowledge her fear, but in a detached way.
Girl: "I know you’re a player... all you want is sex”
High value guy: “You don't judge a book by its cover… but if you don't trust me enough, feel free to end this conversation.”...
This is da bomb! Thanks for this.
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| NowYouKnow: 10:49am On Apr 24 |
OG316:
Bro can you kindly teach me you and your friend game?....i really wanna learn this game
No such thing as “game,” bro. Stop wasting your energy chasing tactics, techniques, or trying to decode female behavior through red pill theory. That rabbit hole only keeps you mentally chained to the very thing you're trying to overcome—obsession with women. It pretends to offer empowerment, but all it does is trap you in an endless loop of self-blame and coping.
Here’s the truth, whether it stings or not:
A woman is only kind, loving, loyal, respectful, or nurturing when she’s genuinely attracted to you— PHYSICALLY. You don’t earn that with effort, money, or a confident script. It’s instinctive. If she doesn’t feel it, you can’t force it.
If a girl doesn’t light up, blush, or giggle with that uncontrollable childlike giddiness when she sees you, walk away. Don’t try to “game” her into submission. Attraction isn’t negotiated or earned through persistence. It’s either there, or it’s not.
Trying to manufacture interest leads to frustration, humiliation, or worse—resentment. Nature doesn’t care about fairness. The sooner you accept that, the sooner you free yourself from this delusion.
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| Kipaji: 4:11pm On Apr 24 |
NowYouKnow:
No such thing as “game,” bro. Stop wasting your energy chasing tactics, techniques, or trying to decode female behavior through red pill theory. That rabbit hole only keeps you mentally chained to the very thing you're trying to overcome—obsession with women. It pretends to offer empowerment, but all it does is trap you in an endless loop of self-blame and coping.
Here’s the truth, whether it stings or not:
A woman is only kind, loving, loyal, respectful, or nurturing when she’s genuinely attracted to you—PHYSICALLY. You don’t earn that with effort, money, or a confident script. It’s instinctive. If she doesn’t feel it, you can’t force it.
If a girl doesn’t light up, blush, or giggle with that uncontrollable childlike giddiness when she sees you, walk away. Don’t try to “game” her into submission. Attraction isn’t negotiated or earned through persistence. It’s either there, or it’s not.
Trying to manufacture interest leads to frustration, humiliation, or worse—resentment. Nature doesn’t care about fairness. The sooner you accept that, the sooner you free yourself from this delusion.
Bro, you just summarized what I have been trying to convey in this forum for the last few months.
When I first came into this platform, I was very Red pill. Then, I went 5 months and a half on semen retention. When I came back I no more believed in "game" or the red pill. I have made several posts highlighting the pointlessness of applying "game" to get women to like you.
Here are three of them:
1. https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/2349#134677939
2. https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/2326#134059875
3. https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/8267409/female-answers-only-what-turns#132883555
4. https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/2268#132585118
5. https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/7916223/enough-enough-men-rise#127062115
The brutal reality is that there is virtually nothing you can do to make a woman attracted to you. If a woman categorized you as a sexually unattractive man after meeting you, no amount of game, Redpill sense, or masculine frame is going to change it. The best thing to do is to forget about her and keep it moving. Trying to win her over with "dating drills" and Redpill game is a waste of time, or worse, a self-inflicted humiliation.
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| luminouz(m): 4:28pm On Apr 24 |
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| prophetfire: 4:02pm On Apr 25 |
Alakoriomo:
The moment a single mother post something like this, just know there are men in her DM whining and deceiving and simping for her.
This girl post this on her WhatsApp and I screenshot it
“ Dating a single mother can be challenging, but every individual is unique and I can't speak for all single mothers. It's essential to earn her trust and create a safe space for her. that you are dating a mother, which means she can see through any flaws you might have. If she accepts you, be prepared for personal growth and change. Don't play with her emotions; it takes a lot of courage for her to let a man into her life, so don't take that trust for granted. She appears tough and strong, but she also has a sweet and gentle side. A devoted mother will go the extra mile for her children, and if she truly loves you and feels safe with you, she will do the same for you. Good morning.”
Post it to those useless men whose lives revolve around some useless damaged women.
Useless men with no self esteem at all are the ones that would be interested in such advice.
A damaged single mother is what a man should be wasting his time to please and warm himself into her decrepit life?
To gain what exactly?
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| Fiscus105(m): 3:36am On Apr 26 |
Kipaji:
Bro, you just summarized what I have been trying to convey in this forum for the last few months.
When I first came into this platform, I was very Red pill. Then, I went 5 months and a half on semen retention. When I came back I no more believed in "game" or the red pill. I have made several posts highlighting the pointlessness of applying "game" to get women to like you.
Here are three of them:
1. https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/2349#134677939
2. https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/2326#134059875
3. https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/8267409/female-answers-only-what-turns#132883555
4. https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/2268#132585118
5. https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/7916223/enough-enough-men-rise#127062115
The brutal reality is that there is virtually nothing you can do to make a woman attracted to you. If a woman categorized you as a sexually unattractive man after meeting you, no amount of game, Redpill sense, or masculine frame is going to change it. The best thing to do is to forget about her and keep it moving. Trying to win her over with "dating drills" and Redpill game is a waste of time, or worse, a self-inflicted humiliation.
@ ur bolded, in as much I'm not subscribed to game or whatever when dealing with women, but to say when woman not find you attract at first, thre is nothing you can do. I don't believe that. With heavy manipulation and constant disturbing, a girl that hates you initially would latter fall deeply in love for you. It's in recent times that relationships have changed to love at sight, in the past, it's gradually that woman start loving, until she goes crazy for you, ...no thanks to guy's heavy manipulation that turn girl's head crazy.
....... though, the truth is that, Gen z doesn't have time for such again, and more reason, GEN Z girls, sleeping with different guys, since thr is no genuine love in their hearts again but lust.
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| daharry(m): 8:23am On Apr 26 |
Fiscus105:
@ ur bolded, in as much I'm not subscribed to game or whatever when dealing with women, but to say when woman not find you attract at first, thre is nothing you can do. I don't believe that.
With heavy manipulation and constant disturbing, a girl that hates you initially would latter fall deeply in love for you. It's in recent times that relationships have changed to love at sight, in the past, it's gradually that woman start loving, until she goes crazy for you, ...no thanks to guy's heavy manipulation that turn girl's head crazy.
....... though, the truth is that, Gen z doesn't have time for such again, and more reason, GEN Z girls, sleeping with different guys, since thr is no genuine love in their hearts again but lust.
“With heavy manipulation and constant disturbing”
You’d just be eating your time applying your God given/acquired skills in the wrong end..
These two traits could make you millions if channeled to the right source..
Now I ask, after the heavy manipulation and constant disturbing, what do you get in return?
The dopamine rush of having winning a pyssy over?
Time is of the essence
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| Philosopher1979: 11:54am On Apr 26 |
daharry:
“With heavy manipulation and constant disturbing”
You’d just be eating your time applying your God given/acquired skills in the wrong end..
These two traits could make you millions if channeled to the right source..
Now I ask, after the heavy manipulation and constant disturbing, what do you get in return?
The dopamine rush of having winning a pyssy over?
Time is of the essence
The thing us.
Go for girls that show an interest in you.
If a gurl dies not pick your calls or answer you on watsapp for a week, delete her number.
A girl that considers you will at least chat with you, pick your calls and come to your house. That us a yellow light. It means she wants to give you a chance.
The real waste of time is when a girl does not pick your calls, talk to you on watsapp or even show a willingness to physically see you. It's a complete waste og time tp hp after gitls like that. Girls like that have zero interest in you.
Go for girls that show some interest in you and at least invest something in the relationship. I got my current girlfriend through cold approach but after we exchanged numbers she actually started calling me frequently. She even chatted me on watsapp and did the rest of the toasting. I simply responded to her Greenhithe. Other girls that won't pick my calls, I deleted their number.
Also, as ubunja said, know your tribe. Girls that are religious and Go to church like me. Also, girls that are book wprms like Mr.
2. Respond to green lights.
2. Know the type of girls that like you.
Of course, you make the first approach but after collecting their number, watch out for how they respond to you. It's easy.
Ubumja and pukkalo have mentioned this
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| Fiscus105(m): 12:12pm On Apr 26 |
daharry:
“With heavy manipulation and constant disturbing”
You’d just be eating your time applying your God given/acquired skills in the wrong end..
These two traits could make you millions if channeled to the right source..
Now I ask, after the heavy manipulation and constant disturbing, what do you get in return?
The dopamine rush of having winning a pyssy over?
Time is of the essence
Read my counter-opnion on post I commented, and stop unnecessary distraction in other release heavy frustration within Ur body system.
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| daharry(m): 7:10pm On Apr 26 |
Fiscus105:
Read my counter-opnion on post I commented, and stop unnecessary distraction in other release heavy frustration within Ur body system.
Ok
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| Shugafree(m): 1:08pm On Apr 27 |
Pukkalolo:
There are thousands of resources on game out there. But here's a quick crash course on game.
I will make this pretty straightforward by telling you the first important truth that you need to know about game.
Here it is:
Attraction is predetermined.
Which means, within 15 minutes of interacting with you, sometimes even before you say a word…a woman has already decided: “Would I drop my panties with this guy… or not?”
Let that sink in.
When you show romantic or sexual interest, she will give you a signal:
Green light. Red light. Or Yellow light.
And how you respond determines everything.
Green Light = She’s Into You
She’s curious. She wants to spend time with you. No shakara. No games. No “I’m busy.” She's excited about being with you.
Red Light = She’s Not Into You
She’s not interested. Maybe it’s the timing. Maybe it’s your energy. Maybe you’re just not her type. Don’t waste time here.
Trying to persuade a woman who’s rejecting you is the fastest way to lose your self-respect.
Most of the time, she’s not rejecting you, she’s rejecting the moment. Don’t take it personal. Take it like a man, and move on with your life.
Yellow Light = The Test Zone
When a woman is giving you yellow light, she hasn’t said yes. She hasn’t said no. She’s evaluating.
Women who give yellow lights fall into either of these two categories:
1. She likes you, but she needs emotional safety.
Or
2. She doesn’t respect you, and testing to see how much power she can have over you and exploit you.
Girls that give yellow light are the girls that mostly give out what the redpill called, “Shit test”
I hate the term “shit test” for several reasons(but that's a topic for another day)
Anyways,
There are two popular types of shit test, and how you respond them determines a lots.
Shit Test Type 1: “I’m Superior To You”
This is when she tries to put you below her to see if you’ll start trying to prove yourself.
She throw Lines like:
“I only date tall guys.”
“I’m a spec.”
“You’re too short.”
“You're too old”
And so on…
This is where the weak crumble.
Nice Guy Reaction:
The nice guy easily fails this shit test because he immediately started trying to prove himself.
Girl: “I only date tall guys”
Mr Nice guy: “It's not about being short or tall. What's more important is that I can take care of you.”
He accepted her superiority. And wants her to accept him. Test failed.
RedPill-Junkie Reaction
If that shit test is thrown at a redpill-junkie guy, he would take the bait and want to show that's is an alpha guy…
For example:
Girl: “You are short ”
Redpill-junkie guy: “Yeah, but I have something taller down there.”
Despite the bravado response, he still fails because he entertains her shallow shit test. This shows he indirectly cares about her opinion Test failed.
High-Value Man Response
A high value guy doesn’t even entertain the shit test.
For example:
Girl: “You are short”
High value guy: “By the way, this Saturday or Sunday will be a good time for us to hangout.”
He demonstrates high value by ignoring the test and concentrate on moving the conversation forward like a boss. He conveys that he 100% doesn't give a shit about her opinion about his appearance or personality. She respect him more.
Shit Test Type 2: “I am not some cheap slut or easy lay”
This is when she says things like:
“I know you’re a player.”
“I only sleep with a guy I am in a relationship with.”
“Is this how you talk to all girls?”
“I don’t know you like that.”
“Let’s take things slow.”
And so on…
With this type of shit test, she's not trying to act superior over you. She's not giving attitude. She's just scared of looking cheap or being used.
Nice Guy Response
Again, the nice guy easily fails this shit test because he immediately started trying to prove himself.
Girl: "I know you’re a player... all you want is sex”
Nice guy: “No no, I'm not like that. I really like you… you are special to me.”
Test Failed… He’s trying to win approval.
Redpill-Junkie Response
He would want to show how alpha he his…
Girl: "I know you’re a player... all you want is sex”
Redpill-junkie guy: “Yeah, I’m a player. I play for Chelsea.”
She might laugh…but that doesn't make her become more interested. Why?
But she was expressing a fear: fear of being used or fear of being see as a target object for sex
That response didn't neutralize the fear. It only worsen the fear and make her distrust him more…
High-Value Man Response
A high value guy will acknowledge her fear, but in a detached way.
Girl: "I know you’re a player... all you want is sex”
High value guy: “You don't judge a book by its cover… but if you don't trust me enough, feel free to end this conversation.”
If you noticed, he didn't try to prove himself like the nice guy. And didn't play the tough alpha like the redpill-junkie.
He simply acknowledges her fear but also gives her space to walk away if she can’t vibe.
This is what women crave. This makes him more appealing and she trusts him more. This balance is crucial—too much alpha wannabe will make her defensive, while
too much niceness will kill the attraction.
In summary
Game is simple.
* Show up.
* Indicate romantic interest.
* Watch the signal (green, red, yellow).
Respond accordingly.
* Lead or leave.
You either lead the interaction with masculine clarity—or you lose yourself in feminine emotional games.
I hope this was helpful
Game 101.
Elaborated for Freshers
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| Kaczynski: 1:47am On Apr 28 |
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nigeria needs you. These are troubled times. Stop "having fun".
"Fun" is not for men.
Stop smiling.
Always wear a senator..
Grow a beard.
Be cold.
Be serious.
Be stoic.
Grind for 21 hours a day.
Take a 2min cold shower.
Read manosphere/self-improvement/finance/motivational books for an hour.
Sleep for 3 hours (at most).
Monetize a hobby.
Get a ive income.
Always be ready to hop on a call with your clients and prospective businesses partners.
Never engage in casual sex.
Never drink alcohol.
Never play videogames.
Never consume sugar.
Never consume carbs.
Only eat at the end of your hard day of work as a reward, and never drink to fulfillment. Always stay hungry.
Drink 4L of water daily.
Never do drugs.
Take your pills.
Quit caffeine.
Quit movies, music, shows, videos or any form of "entertainment".
Go to Church.
Never watch porn.
Never masturbate.
Never sin.
Study the biology of female attraction.
Talk to that girl. With a serious face and calculated words.
Be a gentleman with her and with every woman.
Marry and provide for her and her kids.
Become a father.
Sacrifice yourself for your family.
Put your wife's needs above yours.
Grind relentlessly. No "rest" days.
Defend free speech online.
Defend the correct positions.
Enlist.
Fight for your country.
Bear the cross.
Responsibility.
Sacrifice.
Suffering.
Struggle.
It is hard. It is supposed to be.
Put. In. The. Work.
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| akwesenana: 3:56am On Apr 28 |
Una don turn this thread to something else, cause what the fuçk is this?? 
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| JESHAL007: 7:26am On Apr 28 |
CaveAdullam:
DAY 74, REDPILL 2021
Harry is the father, son and spirit of simphood, who was thoroughly taught efficiently in the gynocentric college, ing all his feminization courses in flying colours and undefeated. He is the king and god of betaness. All hail the beta king!
Many thinks "Nigerian women" are the only types of women that act with wiles and caprices, and yearns to engage with foreign women, not knowing that AWALT all over the planet. A man can only manage women responsibly only if he knows their true nature, therefore, TRP!
Meghan, is a typical example of what women are capable of eliciting if the men around her or her husband allows her to wield her internal chaos by granting her explicit independence and impunity. She's efficiently manifesting her hypergamous nature and she's not stopping soon. The straw that will breaks the camels, sorry, Harry's back is the forthcoming divorce papers. Meghan is really doing the Lord's work, as per she's taking no chances in leaving any card behind.
Harry choose a single mother, an alpha widow over royalty and royal privileges. He muffed his ears to one the most wonderful and powerful family in the world because of a woman. He forsaked his allies. He decided to lose quality people and opportunities in order to prove a useless point. Like Candace concluded: Harry is the victim not Meghan. By the way Meghan was never a victim but a storm that was earlier forecasted.
Lessons learnt:
1. Never think twice, it's family before any external woman.
2. Never commit to an alpha widow or single mother.
3. Never jettison any quality opportunity for a woman.
4. Never engage with an unhappy or unlucky woman. Watch out for the traits she exhibits and endeavor to see if there's any simulacrum in her history.
5. Always be the decision maker. For this to be possible, you must be a man of wisdom, courage and intellect. And if you are not smart, you will be oscillated by every winds.
6. Women only come for themselves, you must make sure you don't lose your time, energy, resources over them. Women are consumers, you must treat them like Pavlov did with his dog.
7. You've come a long way, never let a woman make you become jaded. If you notice any sign or symptom of belligerent behaviour, victim signalling, dump her.
8. See beyond a woman's body. Women are in motley, if you lose one today, you will get another better package tomorrow. But if you lose your dreams and time, you can never recover. Let your focus be above women.
9. Women are for fun and relaxation. If you quid pro quo quality and productive time for leisure, at the end you will lose both women and your objective.
10. Don't expose your dirty linens. As a man you must resolve internal problems internally. Rather than showcasing in to the world who will not help you but use it as an advantage to exploit you and identify your weaknesses. Only women does that, never go along with her.
11. Have options in every areas of your life. Option is the predecessor of confidence. Your ability to ignore or exit any termite work, relationship or people is a superpower. You must used your quality time in creating or seeking options. Don't live life by chances or luck but by the opportunities you've laid on ground.
12. Flowers are beautiful and precious, women much better. A gardener don't spend his whole day manuring and trimming flowers; act like him. Give a little tender here and there and face important task mano a mano. : flower fades.
13. Take the REDPILL to eviscerate all traits of simping and betaness in you.
Authority: You first.
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| PinkNature(m): 12:57pm On Apr 28 |
Kaczynski:
nigeria needs you. These are troubled times. Stop "having fun".
"Fun" is not for men.
Stop smiling.
Always wear a senator..
Grow a beard.
Be cold.
Be serious.
Be stoic.
Grind for 21 hours a day.
Take a 2min cold shower.
Read manosphere/self-improvement/finance/motivational books for an hour.
Sleep for 3 hours (at most).
Monetize a hobby.
Get a ive income.
Always be ready to hop on a call with your clients and prospective businesses partners.
Never engage in casual sex.
Never drink alcohol.
Never play videogames.
Never consume sugar.
Never consume carbs.
Only eat at the end of your hard day of work as a reward, and never drink to fulfillment. Always stay hungry.
Drink 4L of water daily.
Never do drugs.
Take your pills.
Quit caffeine.
Quit movies, music, shows, videos or any form of "entertainment".
Go to Church.
Never watch porn.
Never masturbate.
Never sin.
Study the biology of female attraction.
Talk to that girl. With a serious face and calculated words.
Be a gentleman with her and with every woman.
Marry and provide for her and her kids.
Become a father.
Sacrifice yourself for your family.
Put your wife's needs above yours.
Grind relentlessly. No "rest" days.
Defend free speech online.
Defend the correct positions.
Enlist.
Fight for your country.
Bear the cross.
Responsibility.
Sacrifice.
Suffering.
Struggle.
It is hard. It is supposed to be.
Put. In. The. Work.
A lot of irrationality in this post
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| PinkNature(m): 1:02pm On Apr 28 |
akwesenana:
Una don turn this thread to something else, cause what the fuçk is this??
the guy that posted above you is just being an ass
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| Shugafree(m): 10:44pm On Apr 28 |
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[quote author=JESHAL007 post=135153318][/quote]
Nice write up.
However, your use of quid pro quo in point 9 is not correct.
I am refering to caveAdulum's write up on Day 74 redpill 2021.
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| Cooleasy(m): 3:58am On Apr 29 |
NowYouKnow:
No such thing as “game,” bro. Stop wasting your energy chasing tactics, techniques, or trying to decode female behavior through red pill theory. That rabbit hole only keeps you mentally chained to the very thing you're trying to overcome—obsession with women. It pretends to offer empowerment, but all it does is trap you in an endless loop of self-blame and coping.
Here’s the truth, whether it stings or not:
A woman is only kind, loving, loyal, respectful, or nurturing when she’s genuinely attracted to you—PHYSICALLY. You don’t earn that with effort, money, or a confident script. It’s instinctive. If she doesn’t feel it, you can’t force it.
If a girl doesn’t light up, blush, or giggle with that uncontrollable childlike giddiness when she sees you, walk away. Don’t try to “game” her into submission. Attraction isn’t negotiated or earned through persistence. It’s either there, or it’s not.
Trying to manufacture interest leads to frustration, humiliation, or worse—resentment. Nature doesn’t care about fairness. The sooner you accept that, the sooner you free yourself from this delusion.
This comment is with many heavy truths.
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| Trailblazer93: 7:52pm On Apr 29 |
akwesenana:
Una don turn this thread to something else, cause what the fuçk is this??
I tire too oo. life no suppose hard na
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| emmaodet: 7:54am On May 05 |
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Quote of the day .....
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| emmaodet: 12:16am On May 09 |
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Today's Proverb;
No matter how high the price of the horse ride, there's always someone who gets to ride for free
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| Firebox123(m): 2:12am On May 10 |
ubunja:
not banned. Just chilling. Thanks for the Xmas shoutout. Here's to a happy new year.
hope you're good 👍
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| geedot: 8:35am On May 10 |
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Been a long time here, good morning brothers of the RP.
Because you have the "best Mom" in the world doesn't mean your Dad had a good wife.
Read that again.
Because your sister is the best sibling ever doesn't mean her boyfriend or husband married a good wife.
The affection ladies/women show to their blood related family is different from the type given to their partner and his family .
If you're a friend to a lady, you might not see this transactional part of them too much, because their guards are down since you're not asking them out or trying to date them. The moment you bring relationship conversation into it, you'd know and see the true color of that angelic friend of yours.
When it comes to relationship between man and a woman, Men are in love, while the women are in business.
Make money, enough money, travel the world, create new hobbies for yourself but never ever make a mistake of falling in love with any woman. Reserve those love and affection for your kids verified by DNA.
This reminds me of an Instagram reel I saw a while ago, I wish nairaland allowed posting of short videos instead of images only.
Well, the video was about a lady telling a guy "if he wants his house clean, he should hire her a maid", that's she not his house help or whatnot.
The guy then replied, "I agree, I will hire the maid and I will marry the maid".
EOD, she had nothing left to say.
The thing there is, there's basically very little she can offer the man that the maid wouldn't offer as well, if not more than the spoilt brat.
In a nutshell, women are not in love with men, you're like a job to them, a means of survival. I don't how men are so blind to this simple and basic reality about their women they are in sexual relationship with.
They can't love you like your mom or your sis, they don't have the capability. It's how they are programmed.
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| ubunja(m): 9:44am On May 10 |
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| Emodeee: 11:00am On May 10 |
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Ubunja, Emancipating men from pvssy slavery🙂.
How many likes for ubunja?
It's been a while. Release miseducation for us na🙂. Let men learn more.
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| Kipaji: 6:52am On May 11 |
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The average woman is more sexually perverted than the most perverted man.
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| Kipaji: 6:57am On May 11 |
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| Kdtrey5: 12:19pm On May 11 |
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Can an ex ever return back after disrespect and mockery...I mean towards me. She stays in a separate state now and I've lost frame
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| luminouz(m): 6:31pm On May 11 |
Kdtrey5:
Can an ex ever return back after disrespect and mockery...I mean towards me. She stays in a separate state now and I've lost frame
Why would you even want her to?
Forget her!
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