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luminouz(m): 2:28pm On Dec 26, 2024
Happy Holidays

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Tonnyray: 2:41pm On Dec 27, 2024
Rukevwe999:
May the blessings and virility of Baltazar be with you throughout this season.
Happy holidays .
Including the blessing of having your wife pounded hard by other men on camera? grin

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Smartb0y: 6:22pm On Dec 27, 2024
Her circle of friends,the group she hangs out with more often will tell you what you need to know about her.
You want to vet her,this is an important factor, DO NOT IGNORE

She can fake her attitude but she cannot fake her friends,her clique.

Use this to your advantage.

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ubunja(m): 8:37pm On Dec 27, 2024
emmy512:

Complements of the season chief.
I thought u were banned or something.

Figured u should check last post and here you are
not banned. Just chilling. Thanks for the Xmas shoutout. Here's to a happy new year.

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Philosopher1979: 3:00am On Dec 28, 2024
ubunja:
not banned. Just chilling. Thanks for the Xmas shoutout. Here's to a happy new year.

Ubunja, I think this sexual revolution thing is getting out of hand.
1. You said ladies now prefer dildos to the normal human penis. That is a mental disorder on the way.
2. You said some ladies now engage in sex with dogs. That is lunacy and madness in disguise.
3. I think I get the trajectory. Since a penis is now too small to satisfy ladies, perhaps a dogs penis will do. This means there is something wrong basically with the female gender.
4. So I think if this sexual liberalism is not toned down, it will destroy society and produce people who are simply insane.
5. Society needs some level of conservatism to sustain civilization.
6. Imagine if sleeping with dogs is exposed as common among ladies (and it seems it is getting more common by the day) men will just abandon women and wonder if women are even normal.
7. Is there something fundamentally wrong with the female gender.
8. I think too much liberalism and tolerance will destroy western society. No society or nation thrives by allowing anything.
9. Transgenderism and beastiality are the new trends. In the next 15 years it will be a major problem.
10. This will produce suicidal, insane and abnormal people in need of serious therapy.
Merry Christmas and Happy New year

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JESHAL007: 7:00am On Dec 28, 2024
See most gals are unappealing especially when they are fully nude, face ugly with acne or even just average looking have to be amplified with makeup and filter, wearing clothes that would make it seem their breasts is firm, round and succulent, wearing clothes to make them appear fit and curvy, some even do surgeries to appeal to men, my point is that women have low self esteem and inferiority complex more than men and they do alot to compensate, their only saving grace which makes them appear as if they have narcissism is because men are Hot and would give them attention

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Emodeee: 8:50am On Dec 28, 2024
Ubunja, a new miseducation as a new year gift?🙂. Let's do it. Thank you in advance🙂.


Ubunja, emancipating men from pvssy slavery.

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PinkNature(m): 10:32am On Dec 28, 2024
@pukkalolo, rizzputin

Could you please put out a piece advising the younger audience here (25yrs and younger) that will help us navigate 2025 and make good use of this new year and also how to become a better version of ourselves.

Thank you.

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luminouz(m): 3:04pm On Dec 28, 2024
PinkNature:
@pukkalolo, rizzputin

Could you please put out a piece advising the younger audience here (25yrs and younger) that will help us navigate 2025 and make good use of this new year and also how to become a better version of ourselves.

Thank you.


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Philosopher1979: 4:09pm On Dec 28, 2024
This 2025
1. Discover your purpose and talent and work towards it.
2. You are more important than any girl in your life.
3. Your purpose is more important than that of any girl.
4. Girls are just normal human beings. Stop pedestalizing someone that has nothing to offer you and goes to the toilet.
6. Self discovery is the greatest discovery.
6. In my example, I have some ideas that can impact computing and I'm on my way to achieving it.
7. The greatest orgasmnis success and self-actualization.
8. When you understand your potential and are fulfilling it. You will know how important you are.
9. Girls will look like ants to an elephant to you. In fact you will tell them to get out.

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RedpillAdviser: 7:36pm On Dec 28, 2024
If a woman's pussy hates you you're in danger of raising another man's kids because the puccy gets instructions from the womb: How the puccy feels about you is how her womb feels about you and if her womb hates you it's going to hate to carry your babies

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abba190b: 10:16pm On Dec 28, 2024
How can I regain my sex drive back ? Since when I had sex with a pretty lady that her puna smells, I never get an erection nd I don't feel Hot anymore

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killsmith(f): 10:53pm On Dec 28, 2024
Smartb0y:
Her circle of friends,the group she hangs out with more often will tell you what you need to know about her.
You want to vet her,this is an important factor, DO NOT IGNORE

She can fake her attitude but she cannot fake her friends,her clique.

Use this to your advantage.
Better still, never keep a woman. If you have money, give them let them go. After sex, discharge them.

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Pukkalolo: 10:57pm On Dec 28, 2024
ElasmoBranchii:


Yeah so I agree with some of the things you said most especially this part.

The parts I don't agree with are not really worth arguing about but what I want to know is how do you bleep with a woman's emotion to get her emotional attached.

You might have felt that this post was going to be too long so you didn't explain better what you meant. So please create another post for this and please try to reduce as much ambiguity as possible. Thanks.

Since you said I should “try to reduce as much ambiguity as possible” while writing about this.

In that case, I will write about this later on this thread, because I need to reference a lot of experience from my own personal interaction with women. So that you really grab the concept.


Fucking with a woman's emotions is about giving her what I call “Raw Shock Value”


The Raw Shock Value is anything you say or do that gives her a psychological shock.

Anything you say or do that frustrates her ego
or makes her intrigued by you.

Go read my interaction with these girls on these posts, that's an example of me giving them a psychological shock, which made them immediately pick interest in me.



https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/7868239/crazy-experience-lady-restaurant-yesterday

Later on in this thread, I'm gonna talk about it deeper.

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Pukkalolo: 2:05am On Dec 29, 2024
PinkNature:
@pukkalolo, rizzputin

Could you please put out a piece advising the younger audience here (25yrs and younger) that will help us navigate 2025 and make good use of this new year and also how to become a better version of ourselves.

Thank you.



PinkNature,

This is a very interesting and important question.

This isn’t just a question—it’s a wake-up call.

Have you noticed that many people, year in, year out, work and grind but nothing to show for it
No result.

They only get older in age, but their finance, relationships and generally well-being remains the same
 no progress.

A lot of people seem stuck in life
.

A lot people will set new resolution again this in 2025, but before January ends, the resolution would have been forgotten. And just like the previous years, they’d go back to their old lifestyle
 then they toil and hustle till December again. With nothing to show for it.

You know that clichĂ© interview question: “Where do you see yourself in five years?”

In 2020, a lot of people said, “By 2025, I’ll be rolling in cash, living my best life, banging models.” Yet here they are, still stuck in their 9-to-5, struggling to survive the hard economy.

From experience, I noticed a problem
.

Grab some popcorn, let’s go hard on this.

This might be a bit long so I am gonna divide it into part 1 and 2.


Part 1

The problem is most people focus on “desire” instead of “deserve”

You see, desire is cheap. Every guy desires something: more money, new car, a banging girlfriend, or to finally stop doom-scrolling Instagram and start living a life worth showing off.

But the problem is the universe doesn't operate on “desire”. If it does, then all of us would balling, driving porch, fucking models and cruising on private jet. We all desire that; but the universe doesn't operate on “desire.”

To get what you want, you have to deserve it.

There was this rich guy in my hometown. Fire burnt his warehouse: everything gone, wiped out. From millionaire to broke overnight. Most people would’ve giving up right there. But guess what? In two years, he was back to being a millionaire. Why? Because he didn’t just desire wealth—he deserved it. His skills, mindset, relationships and work ethic screamed, “I’m built for this!” So the universe handed the millions back to him.


As long you deserve something, even if you lose it, the universe will bring it back to you asap. But if you don't deserve it, you will grind, hustles, suffer for it, but still not get it. This is bleeped up. But no one talks about it.


There was this guy who told me, desperately. “I’m tired of jerking off to porn,” he said. “I need a girlfriend. Teach me how to get laid. At my adult age I'm still a virgin. I am tired of this.”

I charged him a few bucks for the coaching, then during the weekend, we met at a social gathering where there are lots of girls around. I gave him a crash course on the shameless approach framework, then I pointed few girls; told him to go execute the shameless approach on each of them.

I sat back and watched him in action. 30 minutes later he was back. He smiled and said, “bro, I love this your approach. The girls were surprised by what I was saying. Only one told me she is has a boyfriend. The others gave me their . They were attracted
 I guess.”

I said, “Cool.”

He said, “no girl has ever reacted to me this way. This your approach has some potential.”

Then I told to “start using this approach on any girl you finds attractive and in less than two weeks you will get laid and/or get a girlfriend”

A month later I asked “how far?”

He said he didn't get laid, and he didn't get any girlfriend

I was shocked; I asked him, “Did you used the shameless approach?”

He said “No, after day, I have not tried it again
the approach is too much for me; It takes courage and *don’t care* attitude to execute it.”

Then he made a statement that weakened me to the marrow, he said, “abeg let me be getting satisfaction and pleasure from porn and jerking off for now
.”

That was when it struck my head: this guy “desire” a beautiful girlfriend, but what he truly deserved is porn and jerking off.

Most people desire to make money and achieve great stuff. But If you don’t deserve it, even if it’s handed to you, you’ll push the opportunity way. That’s why lottery/betnaija winners still go broke again. That's why a Yahoo boy will cash big money and spend everything in a less than two month. He doesn't deserve it, that is why.

That’s why a guy will somehow lose the beautiful girl or that amazing relationship.

That’s why most new resolutions fail before February.

If you desire more money but don’t deserve it, you’ll stay broke.

If you desire a beautiful girlfriend and great sex but don’t deserve it, you’ll stay single (or stuck in the talking stage, asking the girl what her best colour is, while she's busy manipulating you).


Anyways,

So
 how do you go from desire to deserve?

Grab a drink, take a deep breath, and let’s get into Part 2.

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Pukkalolo: 2:23am On Dec 29, 2024
PinkNature:
@pukkalolo, rizzputin

Could you please put out a piece advising the younger audience here (25yrs and younger) that will help us navigate 2025 and make good use of this new year and also how to become a better version of ourselves.

Thank you.





Part 2:

If you desire an outcome, you will likely not get it. The universe doesn’t care about what you want. It cares about what you deserve.


When you deserve an outcome, it comes to you almost effortlessly. That’s why some people seem to succeed without breaking a sweat. They’ve done the work to deserve it. But when you’re stuck in the desire trap, you try harder, hustle more, and still end up with nothing.


No wonder the guy who tries too hard never gets the girl? Or why people grind themselves to the bone from January to December and still have nothing to show for it.

Simple: Desire without deserve is like running on a hamster wheel. It’s exhausting, pointless, and keeps you stuck in the same place.


Here’s the harsh truth:

As a guy, your current habits, behaviors, mindset, and environment are the invisible chains holding you down. No matter how hard you try, as long as you’re dragging those chains, you’ll stay exactly where you are.

To switch to the deserve mindset, you don’t need to try harder: you need to let go. Yes, less is more. Stop piling on more effort, more goals, more grinding. Instead, start eliminating.


To level up this year, you need to eliminate or drastically reduce engaging in:

Habits that waste your time (porn, masturbation, endless scrolling on social media and others).

Activities that drain your energy (pointless outings, procrastination
 ).

Mindsets that keep you small (self-doubt, fear of failure, fear of rejection
).

Friendships that add zero value (toxic people, enablers
.).


Eliminating all these things isn't easy: it will feel like you’re losing a big part of yourself.

But that's the goal. If you want to gain something big, then you need to lose something big. You have to let go of something big, to attract something bigger.

the guy who wanted a girlfriend and lose his virginity?

His problem wasn’t a lack of desire: he wanted it badly. His problem was he didn’t deserve it. Why? Because he wasn’t willing to let go a porn and jerking off and fear of rejection.

As a result, the universe looked at him and said, “You’re not ready. Come back when you’re serious.”

And that’s exactly what happens to most people. They cling to their old habits, their old excuses, and their old life; and then wonder why nothing changes.


Set Standards, Not Goals

You want 2025 to be your breakout year? Stop desiring. Instead, set new standards for what you deserve.

A standard means: You refuse to tolerate nonsense from yourself.

A standard means: You cut off unhelpful habits, activities, situations, and friendship or relationships.

A standard means: You step into the version of yourself who deserves the stuff you want.



Stay blessed brothers, 2025 here we go. May God bless us all.

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ElasmoBranchii(m): 5:57am On Dec 29, 2024
Pukkalolo:


Since you said I should “try to reduce as much ambiguity as possible” while writing about this.

In that case, I will write about this later on this thread, because I need to reference a lot of experience from my own personal interaction with women. So that you really grab the concept.


Fucking with a woman's emotions is about giving her what I call “Raw Shock Value”




Alright bro. I figured this was what you were talking about because that's kind of what I do too.

I call it "Playful Banter" and of recent I stumbled on one of Harddon's thread and we all pretty much have the same concept in mind but just maybe different mode of execution and different names we call the concept.

I look forward to your complete breakdown of the concept because I recently came to it's realization after I started cold approaching so I'm still getting used to it.

In the beginning of my cold approach journey I used to ask boring questions but I'm happy that I was able to figure it out on my own. Then I realized that's the same concept a bunch of people have been talking about but I couldn't understand because they weren't clear on what one should do.

That's why I decided to call mine playful banter because I feel it best describes the concept better and I have a post I'm working on that explains it but I look forward to your breakdown of the concept. I would like to learn one or two.

Peace.

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virginboy1(m): 5:39pm On Dec 29, 2024
Emodeee:
Sometimes, I ask myself, what if I did not come across ubunja's miseducation?😼🙂. I'm glad I did🙂. What about you? Like this post if you are glad you did.

I would have probably be married to an olosho in disguised or a single mother.... grin, TRP gave me more reasons to love myself the more and always striving to make my today better than my yesterday in every ramifications. In fact it changed my taste in women....

Redpill is Life!!!

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imustsaymymindo: 6:40pm On Dec 29, 2024
Philosopher1979:


Ubunja, I think this sexual revolution thing is getting out of hand.

Merry Christmas and Happy New year


You worry too much grin.

Merry Christmas and Happy New year

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Wotowotoman: 8:39pm On Dec 29, 2024
virginboy1:


I would have probably be married to an olosho in disguised or a single mother.... grin, TRP gave me more reasons to love myself the more and always striving to make my today better than my yesterday in every ramifications. In fact it changed my taste in women....

Redpill is Life!!!

Love yourself more with chronic daily soapy abi? undecided
virginboy1(m): 9:16pm On Dec 29, 2024
Wotowotoman:


Love yourself more with chronic daily soapy abi? undecided

Nah, Instead of that shits...I hit the Gym always...courtesy of TRP.

RedPill is life!!!

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Emodeee: 12:02am On Dec 30, 2024
virginboy1:


I would have probably be married to an olosho in disguised or a single mother.... grin, TRP gave me more reasons to love myself the more and always striving to make my today better than my yesterday in every ramifications. In fact it changed my taste in women....

Redpill is Life!!!



Ubunja, emancipating men from pvssy slavery🙂.

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PinkNature(m): 8:53am On Dec 30, 2024
Pukkalolo:


PinkNature,

This is a very interesting and important question.

This isn’t just a question—it’s a wake-up call.

Have you noticed that many people, year in, year out, work and grind but nothing to show for it
No result.

They only get older in age, but their finance, relationships and generally well-being remains the same
 no progress.

A lot of people seem stuck in life
.

A lot people will set new resolution again this in 2025, but before January ends, the resolution would have been forgotten. And just like the previous years, they’d go back to their old lifestyle
 then they toil and hustle till December again. With nothing to show for it.

You know that clichĂ© interview question: “Where do you see yourself in five years?”

In 2020, a lot of people said, “By 2025, I’ll be rolling in cash, living my best life, banging models.” Yet here they are, still stuck in their 9-to-5, struggling to survive the hard economy.

From experience, I noticed a problem
.

Grab some popcorn, let’s go hard on this.

This might be a bit long so I am gonna divide it into part 1 and 2.


Part 1

The problem is most people focus on “desire” instead of “deserve”

You see, desire is cheap. Every guy desires something: more money, new car, a banging girlfriend, or to finally stop doom-scrolling Instagram and start living a life worth showing off.

But the problem is the universe doesn't operate on “desire”. If it does, then all of us would balling, driving porch, fucking models and cruising on private jet. We all desire that; but the universe doesn't operate on “desire.”

To get what you want, you have to deserve it.

There was this rich guy in my hometown. Fire burnt his warehouse: everything gone, wiped out. From millionaire to broke overnight. Most people would’ve giving up right there. But guess what? In two years, he was back to being a millionaire. Why? Because he didn’t just desire wealth—he deserved it. His skills, mindset, relationships and work ethic screamed, “I’m built for this!” So the universe handed the millions back to him.


As long you deserve something, even if you lose it, the universe will bring it back to you asap. But if you don't deserve it, you will grind, hustles, suffer for it, but still not get it. This is bleeped up. But no one talks about it.


There was this guy who told me, desperately. “I’m tired of jerking off to porn,” he said. “I need a girlfriend. Teach me how to get laid. At my adult age I'm still a virgin. I am tired of this.”

I charged him a few bucks for the coaching, then during the weekend, we met at a social gathering where there are lots of girls around. I gave him a crash course on the shameless approach framework, then I pointed few girls; told him to go execute the shameless approach on each of them.

I sat back and watched him in action. 30 minutes later he was back. He smiled and said, “bro, I love this your approach. The girls were surprised by what I was saying. Only one told me she is has a boyfriend. The others gave me their . They were attracted
 I guess.”

I said, “Cool.”

He said, “no girl has ever reacted to me this way. This your approach has some potential.”

Then I told to “start using this approach on any girl you finds attractive and in less than two weeks you will get laid and/or get a girlfriend”

A month later I asked “how far?”

He said he didn't get laid, and he didn't get any girlfriend

I was shocked; I asked him, “Did you used the shameless approach?”

He said “No, after day, I have not tried it again
the approach is too much for me; It takes courage and *don’t care* attitude to execute it.”

Then he made a statement that weakened me to the marrow, he said, “abeg let me be getting satisfaction and pleasure from porn and jerking off for now
.”

That was when it struck my head: this guy “desire” a beautiful girlfriend, but what he truly deserved is porn and jerking off.

Most people desire to make money and achieve great stuff. But If you don’t deserve it, even if it’s handed to you, you’ll push the opportunity way. That’s why lottery/betnaija winners still go broke again. That's why a Yahoo boy will cash big money and spend everything in a less than two month. He doesn't deserve it, that is why.

That’s why a guy will somehow lose the beautiful girl or that amazing relationship.

That’s why most new resolutions fail before February.

If you desire more money but don’t deserve it, you’ll stay broke.

If you desire a beautiful girlfriend and great sex but don’t deserve it, you’ll stay single (or stuck in the talking stage, asking the girl what her best colour is, while she's busy manipulating you).


Anyways,

So
 how do you go from desire to deserve?

Grab a drink, take a deep breath, and let’s get into Part 2.




thank you for this. đŸ’Ș

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Pukkalolo: 2:27pm On Dec 31, 2024
A true alpha puts only one person on pedestal:

HIMSELF

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JESHAL007: 2:52am On Jan 01
😂😂😂😂😂

You bin dey doubt me before. Personally, I don't intend to marry, and I have nothing against those who want to marry.

Just be prepared and be realistic, as I advised. The same woman you are thinking is a nawalt, that has sense, and you are doing lovey-dovey with for years will show her true colours when she has calculated and is convinced you are useless and can't rise again.

Even worse is when she perceives you as a burden.

From@Martinez39s

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COOL10(m): 3:50am On Jan 01
Happy New Year đŸ’„đŸ”„đŸ’„

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Karlifate: 12:00pm On Jan 01
Women want your most precious commodity: your time.

Time that could be spent reading, lifting, earning money.


Dear [gentle] men,

Value your time, protect it.
It's your treasure.


💯 đŸ”„

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JESHAL007: 1:43pm On Jan 01
Women have transactional sÚx mainly because they don't even really like their husbands in the first place. There's a dynamic known as Alpha Fûcks(Validations), Beta Bucks(Transactional). What this means is that women are with alphas to have sex with them and with betas for their ability to provide, which has been dealt with somewhat in your article.

This is the reason women have a lot of sex with their boyfriends/fiances but once the dotted lines are signed, sex dwindles. It is a known fact that married men have way less sex than they thought they would before getting married. (And, no it wasn't because of headaches or chores, in fact, women would rather do chores than sex their beta husbands grin ). Those things the husbands do to woo them is their payment for the sex with him they really didn't want to have. If a woman wants to really Bleep you, you could be the poorest thing on the planet and her gash would be gushing juices. And we know most women are married because of the financial security their husbands represent. How else do we explain women leaving their broke ass boyfriends of several years only to pop out of nowhere with a willing fool to wife them up? Many of these women actually go back to their own exes for one last fling or to continue the relationship because Betas are for their bucks, and Alphas are for the Fûcks.

So, what do we think? This is the way of the world, has always been and it won't end anytime soon. It's basic human nature and all we can do is maximise our status in the game. Also marrying for love is a myth. Marriage is done more for its benefit to either party than any real love that is often touted.

One more thing: as a man, don't be in a relationship where your value is weighed through how much material or finance you contribute, it's not worth it. If your woman is materialistic, bin her like rotten meat. Wait until you can find a woman who really, really likes you and your bullshit and you hers. Otherwise, you just end up in a dysfunctional marriage where you hate each other.

One more extra thing: Divorce is always a valid option. A very, very valid option.

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HARDESTNIGGAINT(m): 6:47pm On Jan 01
Happy new year to you all

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Vulcanheph(m): 9:35pm On Jan 01
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