NewStats: 3,262,402 , 8,177,049 topics. Date: Monday, 02 June 2025 at 07:40 AM 5y5i6z

MrBrownJay1:


here the simple questions you should have asked yourself from the get go:
- if you were in his shoes, would you want to know that your cousin had fukced your new girl?
- dont you think that if he knew from the get go, then he possibly wouldnt have gone that far with her?
- dont you think that the best was simply to tell him the truth so that "he" (not you) can take the decision on whether he should be with her (seriously) or not?
- so, you didnt say shiit when you should have, but now that your cousin is neck deep in that r/ship with your ex, you want to open your mouth... for what reason exactly (you didnt care before, why care now)?



you put your own self in that position... because you only thought about yourself. what type of family member are you that you couldnt protect your cousin when it mattered? if you fukced a babe and your cousin is suddenly interested in her, its you DUTY (as a man) to tell him the truth because its obvious this yeye babe doesnt care about telling him such an IMPORTANT point.



you already betrayed him once... whats one more betrayal from you, right?

Leave that nigga, na home destroyer he be, yeye man 🤮

MrBrownJay1:
the above is the definition of.....why fear enemies when you have family like the OP?

when you needed to talk, you kept quiet, and now that you need to keep quiet, you wanna talk... KAI!!!

It’s witchcraft 🤣

chiagozien:
I don't know if to keep it to myself.

He recently told me his intention to marry her, But before then he found out the lady know me through her comment on my Facebook post, Which he asked me if I know the lady.
I told him yes that she's my friend but I didn't go deep to the level our friendship was.
He's asked me if she's my girlfriend that he don't want it be dragging a woman with his brother.

I told him no problem that he should go on with her if he likes her(Already tired of her and didn't know it will lead to marriage discussion) The girl confirmed to my cousin she knows me very well and even know where I live in City,told him my area and street.
But I don't know if she told him our level of friendship.

But before then the girl reached out to me and told me my cousin (junior) is asking her out, That what's our stand, Which I told her to go on if she like him.

Her reply was I am the one she love most but she doesn't understand my attitude towards her again.

I said Okay.

Now my cousin is talking about marrying her, Even some days ago I was with both of them drinking, watching Masquerade and being entertained (I went to my Town for new yam festival)

The lady lives in the same city with me, From where we meet,She came back,I don't know if is for the festival or for the marriage matter because my cousin base in my Town for now.

We dated for three months before I started ghosting her because of a character I can't live with.
She is too possessive.

No lady will without her asking why do you look her Nash.(Even when i May not noticed the lady that ed)

Questions of how many girls you collected their numbers today, how many girls toasted you today.
Always demand to go through my phones.

Outside that she had no issues with the little I know her.

I don't know if to mind my business because he's the cousin I am more close to.

YOU SURE SAY NA THE SAME BAT WEY BE OJR PRESIDENT BE YA PRESIDENT?

YOU GET TIME...O! BE LIKE THIS SAPA NO BLOW REACH YA SIDE

chiagozien:
I don't know if to keep it to myself.

He recently told me his intention to marry her, But before then he found out the lady know me through her comment on my Facebook post, Which he asked me if I know the lady.
I told him yes that she's my friend but I didn't go deep to the level our friendship was.
He's asked me if she's my girlfriend that he don't want it be dragging a woman with his brother.

I told him no problem that he should go on with her if he likes her(Already tired of her and didn't know it will lead to marriage discussion) The girl confirmed to my cousin she knows me very well and even know where I live in City,told him my area and street.
But I don't know if she told him our level of friendship.

But before then the girl reached out to me and told me my cousin (junior) is asking her out, That what's our stand, Which I told her to go on if she like him.

Her reply was I am the one she love most but she doesn't understand my attitude towards her again.

I said Okay.

Now my cousin is talking about marrying her, Even some days ago I was with both of them drinking, watching Masquerade and being entertained (I went to my Town for new yam festival)

The lady lives in the same city with me, From where we meet,She came back,I don't know if is for the festival or for the marriage matter because my cousin base in my Town for now.

We dated for three months before I started ghosting her because of a character I can't live with.
She is too possessive.

No lady will without her asking why do you look her Nash.(Even when i May not noticed the lady that ed)

Questions of how many girls you collected their numbers today, how many girls toasted you today.
Always demand to go through my phones.

Outside that she had no issues with the little I know her.

I don't know if to mind my business because he's the cousin I am more close to.

whether she is your ex or not is not the primary concern here.

Somebody slept with her before you met her, but within the period you were with her, was she a girl of good character? Does she have certain qualities that shows she is good enough for your brother or will make a good wife?

If yes, keep quiet and take whatever you did with her to your grave and stay away from her romantically. No more nacking!

If no, Omo go to your bro and let him know she is not the right person for him with all your reasons and sexual escapade. Because, that's why you are his bro. You watch out for each other against whores and damaged women.

Fuckyoumod:
whether she is your ex or not is not the primary concern here.

Somebody slept with her before you met her, but within the period you were with her, was she a girl of good character? Does she have certain qualities that shows she is good enough for your brother or will make a good wife?

If yes, keep quiet and take whatever you did with her to your grave and stay away from her romantically. No more nacking!

If no, Omo go to your bro and let him know she is not the right person for him with all your reasons and sexual escapade. Because, that's why you are his bro. You watch out for each other against whores and damaged women.

Na so una dy fall for women games, what is good about a girl that bold date two cousins or you didn't read where he said this same girl is still professing love to him on how he loves him and not his brother?
Why do you even think he should keep quiet even if she's a good girl and which good girl keeps fucking around a particular family? No real man keeps secret with a woman bro, they are not married and he should tell his cousin everything make the babe go look for another man entirely. Very bad to carry secrets into marriage.
Na this type of thing Dy still make women succeed for paternity fraud. You dy advise guy make he keep quiet and carry secrets to grave over a shameless lady. Men redpill is a necessity I swear.

All stories like this I knew didn't end well and I sighted some above.

One surprising thing about this thread is that it's even the men encouraging women like the ops ex girlfriend to keep playing this type of game and misadvising op and it's clear women are still top of their games despite the redpill awareness.

Another surprising thing is it's even the women that are very brutal with the truth and condemning such act from their fellow.
Paternity fraud isn't ending anytime soon and it's obvious some weak men are enablers. One was even saying carry the secret to your grave, like seriously? It is finished

chiagozien:
I just got out from call with my cousin.


There's a new development

I will create another thread for it

Have you told him?

LDaVinci:


Whatis this mentality of leftoevers? How is a human being leftovers? Are you leftovers when you have sex with any woman?

u sound dull....don't quote me again if u have nothing reasonable to say


a gal dat has been sharing her cookie upandan is a leftover....deal with it u simp

Tell your cousin to abort mission . It will boomerang. I mean it .

EreluRoz:
Are they already married in your own case?

Not yet but very serious..maybe I still have time to confess

I have no idea how they even found each other..maybe its the algorithm

chiagozien:
I don't know if to keep it to myself.

He recently told me his intention to marry her, But before then he found out the lady know me through her comment on my Facebook post, Which he asked me if I know the lady.
I told him yes that she's my friend but I didn't go deep to the level our friendship was.
He's asked me if she's my girlfriend that he don't want it be dragging a woman with his brother.

I told him no problem that he should go on with her if he likes her(Already tired of her and didn't know it will lead to marriage discussion) The girl confirmed to my cousin she knows me very well and even know where I live in City,told him my area and street.
But I don't know if she told him our level of friendship.

But before then the girl reached out to me and told me my cousin (junior) is asking her out, That what's our stand, Which I told her to go on if she like him.

Her reply was I am the one she love most but she doesn't understand my attitude towards her again.

I said Okay.

Now my cousin is talking about marrying her, Even some days ago I was with both of them drinking, watching Masquerade and being entertained (I went to my Town for new yam festival)

The lady lives in the same city with me, From where we meet,She came back,I don't know if is for the festival or for the marriage matter because my cousin base in my Town for now.

We dated for three months before I started ghosting her because of a character I can't live with.
She is too possessive.

No lady will without her asking why do you look her Nash.(Even when i May not noticed the lady that ed)

Questions of how many girls you collected their numbers today, how many girls toasted you today.
Always demand to go through my phones.

Outside that she had no issues with the little I know her.

I don't know if to mind my business because he's the cousin I am more close to.

You need to tell him, then leave him to make his choice

jimohibrahim:


Not yet but very serious..maybe I still have time to confess

Stop it now please and reveal everything, it's not good. Is the man your brother cousin too or friend.
Please stop it and stop enabling uncultured lady to come and be destroying families by keeping quiet. This is part of the reason we have high level of incest in the society kos the parents were already committing taboo and marrying in taboo

Why do some of you feel comfortable in keeping dirty secrets and enabling the act with your keeping quiet slogan, honestly it's very disgusting and the highest form of betrayal. Let any woman you have had sex with go to an other family to look for husband, stop circulating women within your family. Stop enabling such behavior too by keeping mute.
One thing is your conscience keeps fighting you but you will still be keeping mute and continue fighting your conscience

Prettychild:

You need to tell him, then leave him to make his choice

I already did


https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/8210210/told-cousin-hes-marrying-ex

jimohibrahim:


Not yet but very serious..maybe I still have time to confess

I have no idea how they even found each other..maybe its the algorithm

But when you saw her with him why didn't you call your brother immediately and tell him you've slept with the girl and leave the decision for him to make? What you owe him was to tell him and after telling him you leave him to decide. I sooooo much dislike deceitful people

98% of people in marriage today were once someone ex.
What's the fuss?

"I truly hope that you have moved on from her in your heart, not just through words or writing. I don't want to hear later that when you visited her place, she was wearing a towel, or that you felt unable to resist when she touched you, leading to something happening between you again. I need to know that your commitment is genuine and that you have the strength to stay true to ur words

Fadoria:
"I truly hope that you have moved on from her in your heart, not just through words or writing. I don't want to hear later that when you visited her place, she was wearing a towel, or that you felt unable to resist when she touched you, leading to something happening between you again. I need to know that your commitment is genuine and that you have the strength to stay true to ur words

My word is my word.


I have moved.


Moreover I have tell my cousin about it

chiagozien:
My word is my word.


I have moved.


Moreover I have tell my cousin about it

Stop lying to people here gush. Where in your chat or call did you it telling him? When has he should not rush things means telling him? You should be ashamed of yourself already

Fadoria:
"I truly hope that you have moved on from her in your heart, not just through words or writing. I don't want to hear later that when you visited her place, she was wearing a towel, or that you felt unable to resist when she touched you, leading to something happening between you again. I need to know that your commitment is genuine and that you have the strength to stay true to ur words

He's a big liar he didn't tell his cousin anything. He only itted telling him not to rush things and he said he expected him to decode, can you imagine? Op is a big liar, he didn't tell his cousin anything. Now he's here lying to you that he has told his cousin. This is him confessing below that he didn't tell his cousin

chiagozien:
I don't know if to keep it to myself.

He recently told me his intention to marry her, But before then he found out the lady know me through her comment on my Facebook post, Which he asked me if I know the lady.
I told him yes that she's my friend but I didn't go deep to the level our friendship was.
He's asked me if she's my girlfriend that he don't want it be dragging a woman with his brother.

I told him no problem that he should go on with her if he likes her(Already tired of her and didn't know it will lead to marriage discussion) The girl confirmed to my cousin she knows me very well and even know where I live in City,told him my area and street.
But I don't know if she told him our level of friendship.

But before then the girl reached out to me and told me my cousin (junior) is asking her out, That what's our stand, Which I told her to go on if she like him.

Her reply was I am the one she love most but she doesn't understand my attitude towards her again.

I said Okay.

Now my cousin is talking about marrying her, Even some days ago I was with both of them drinking, watching Masquerade and being entertained (I went to my Town for new yam festival)

The lady lives in the same city with me, From where we meet,She came back,I don't know if is for the festival or for the marriage matter because my cousin base in my Town for now.

We dated for three months before I started ghosting her because of a character I can't live with.
She is too possessive.

No lady will without her asking why do you look her Nash.(Even when i May not noticed the lady that ed)

Questions of how many girls you collected their numbers today, how many girls toasted you today.
Always demand to go through my phones.

Outside that she had no issues with the little I know her.

I don't know if to mind my business because he's the cousin I am more close to.

Just explain all these to your cousin if he’s okay with it fine. Let them continue.
But unless you stay far away from them and have your own family soon, you and your cousin may have problem because of her in the near future.

Fantazy:


Just explain all these to your cousin if he’s okay with it fine. Let them continue.
But unless you stay far away from them and have your own family soon, you and your cousin may have problem because of her in the near future.

He doesn't listen and he's not a good person. It's only reality that teaches this type of men a bitter life's lesson.

I'm out of here, posterity will take care of op and the evil lady

EreluRoz:
But when you saw her with him why didn't you call your brother immediately and tell him you've slept with the girl and leave the decision for him to make? What you owe him was to tell him and after telling him you leave him to decide. I sooooo much dislike deceitful people

This ain't not talk about being deceitful, the thing is that my relationship with this girl kinda died a Natura death, we stop communicating and all, my fault though but I have no idea how or when dey met.

It was when it started getting serious that my cousin posted her on his stats on whatsapp, mind you my cousin will never post a girl if he ain't serious about her.

My problem started from realizing how deep and serious the relationship is, its so serious that she even helping him to make huge financial decisions and all..

I made sure I told him I knew her before and my cousin didn't waste time to ask if we dated but seeing how deep they were, I couldn't break is heart so I just let it be...

The girl is a good girl honestly and focused, but I really hope it won't lead to marriage..sallam

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jimohibrahim:

This ain't not talk about being deceitful, the thing is that my relationship with this girl kinda died a Natura death, we stop communicating and all, my fault though but I have no idea how or when dey met.

It was when it started getting serious that my cousin posted her on his stats on whatsapp, mind you my cousin will never post a girl if he ain't serious about her.

My problem started from realizing how deep and serious the relationship is, its so serious that she even helping him to make huge financial decisions and all..

I made sure I told him I knew her before and my cousin didn't waste time to ask if we dated but seeing how deep they were, I couldn't break is heart so I just let it be...

The girl is a good girl honestly and focused, but I really hope it won't lead to marriage..sallam

Your problems started from witholding the truth from your cousin. You are feeling guilty because it's naturally not right. You all like keeping shut when you should talk immediately. Do what you feel is right on time. You should have told him the truth without witholding anything, I don't know the joy some of you derive in seeing your ex with your relatives and you think it's cool. Don't dish out what you can't take

chiagozien:
I already did


https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/8210210/told-cousin-hes-marrying-ex

Bro you didn't tell him anything. You said nothing and you are saying he should decode. I'm beginning to see through you.
Some of una get heart sha. I'm the last to betray a fellow niga kos of some wayword bitches mehn. This one is even family sef. I cut cap for some of you.

Coolsat:
Bro you didn't tell him anything. You said nothing and you are saying he should decode. I'm beginning to see through you.
Some of una get heart sha. I'm the last to betray a fellow niga kos of some wayword bitches mehn. This one is even family sef. I cut cap for some of you.

You did see screenshot where he said he didn't know I was dating her.



What do you think made him say that?



I don't care people see through me I only did the right thing.

chiagozien:
You did see screenshot where he said he didn't know I was dating her.



What do you think made him say that?



I don't care people see through me I only did the right thing.

I just saw it now. If you've TRULY told him without cutting corners kos I see where you wrote you can't tell him you had sex with her which means you were shady in your revelation and cleared the air and he sees nothing wrong in it that's cool. But you should keep some distance from them so as to avoid suspicion and other things

Coolsat:
I just saw it now. If you've TRULY told him without cutting corners kos I see where you wrote you can't tell him you had sex with her which means you were shady in your revelation and cleared the air and he sees nothing wrong in it that's cool. But you should keep some distance from them so as to avoid suspicion and other things

I don't think it was his intention of marrying her, but because he got her pregnant which what is forcing him to marry her.

Only get to know this yesterday when we talked.


Do you expected me to tell him,hey bro that your pregnant girlfriend you want to marry,I had sex with her?

I telling him I dated the girl for three months, and the reason I ended things with her should give him enough pictures.



As for the girl nothing concern me and her outside she's my cousin girl/wife to be.

chiagozien:
I don't think it was his intention of marrying her, but because he got her pregnant which what is forcing him to marry her.

Only get to know this yesterday when we talked.


Do you expected me to tell him,hey bro that your pregnant girlfriend you want to marry,I had sex with her?

I telling him I dated the girl for three months, and the reason I ended things with her should give him enough pictures.

Yes, you are right since you told him you dated her that's enough since pregnancy is already in the picture. You have sincerely done your part and it's obvious he's ok with it. If he ever asked any further questions be truthful to him and if he doesn't then you maintain your lane but it's not wise to be close to them. Keep some distance

Omo gboju, common ur eyes

Danjikanbauchi:
Las las you too will marry someone ex, so shut up and allow the young woman enter house.

Likeeeee.

EreluRoz:
Your problems started from witholding the truth from your cousin. You are feeling guilty because it's naturally not right. You all like keeping shut when you should talk immediately. Do what you feel is right on time. You should have told him the truth without witholding anything, I don't know the joy some of you derive in seeing your ex with your relatives and you think it's cool. Don't dish out what you can't take

Hmmm