NewStats: 3,263,216 , 8,179,413 topics. Date: Thursday, 05 June 2025 at 05:55 AM 1d5y2

beekind:
I am the 2nd born out of 2 children, my elder brother has been married for some time with no kids as a result I am super careful with issues relating to fertility.
I am in my late 30s and have been dating a 27 year old lady for 4 months now, the relationship moved so fast as she is a perfect match for me .
I have met her family and she has met mine, we are already planning marriage and have started counselling sessions in her church.

She complained of irregular periods so I told her to do a hormonal profile test and see a gynecologist, turns out she has got PCOS.

I have done my own fertility test and I am fine, I am at a cross road now, I cannot afford to struggle with child birth considering my age and also my only other sibling still also having issues with the wife also still trying to get pregnant after many years.

The only other option would have been to ask her to try for pregnancy before marriage but she is a virgin and wants to keep it that way till wedding, besides if I disvirgin her, how will I be able to walk away incase she doesn't get pregnant ?

I am at crossroads now, its not too late but walking away at this point will be very costly for me since we have already started plans towards the wedding and our families are already in touch.

My heart is heavy and I am confused, I need good advise as I cannot discuss this with anyone.

Don’t create problems that don’t exist in your head. If she’s a good match for you, go ahead and marry her. Life’s a gamble like that. You could end up with another woman who will bring problems bigger than this to you.

FreeStuffsNG:
“Non-oil revenues are more stable and sustainable sources than oil revenue,” Nigeria’s budget Office said in its newly published 2024-2026 Medium Term Expenditure Framework and Fiscal Strategy Paper.


This is commendable.

With oil subsidy likely to be completely off by next year, the oil revenues due to FG will go up and the non oil sector revenue may double up as govt improves aggregate output with its brilliant fiscal and monetary reforms. Check my signature for free stuffs!

Non oil revenue is higher cos oil is being stolen. Did you even read properly

HardBishop:
we blacks don't value human life.. I swear. what's the role of the FRSC? WHy can't they check the truck carrying the container? why why why?
what's the duty of the fed govt and state govt......
can't they revitalize the roads or repair the crack damages? are we BLACK CURSED? this is total mess.... even lack of maintenance culture.
if found wanting punish the truck driver but no keep collecting bribes. black man black disease

That’s a road safety checkpoint oo. All they do is collect bribe

UrPapa:
You need to act bro. This is cheating of the highest order. You should not look away from this act and make sure he’s prosecuted
First report him to soldiers. Let dem give him a very good beating
Then after, you can call the police so they take him to station for further interrogation and beating
From there, he’ll be charged to court and sent to jail

Pls don’t try this. You’ll end up paying more than you’ve lost. Just learn and move on. Life is not that deep. I hope your business bounces back ❤️

apexdesigns12:
When applying for a US visa, one important step in the process is scheduling a visa appointment. Understanding what to expect and how to prepare for your US visa appointment can help ensure a smooth and successful experience. Here's a guide to help you navigate the US visa appointment process:

Appointment Confirmation: Once you have completed the visa application and paid the necessary fees, you will receive a confirmation with instructions on scheduling your appointment. This confirmation will include a unique confirmation number that you will need to proceed.

Appointment Scheduling: Visit the official website of the US embassy or consulate in your country to schedule your appointment. Follow the instructions provided and enter your confirmation number. You will be prompted to select a convenient date and time for your appointment. Keep in mind that appointment availability can vary, so it's advisable to schedule well in advance.

Required Documentation: Before your appointment, gather all the required documentation for your visa category. This typically includes your port, visa application form, ing documents such as financial statements or employment letters, and any additional documents specific to your visa type. It's essential to review the specific requirements on the official website to ensure you have all the necessary paperwork.

DS-160 Confirmation: The DS-160 form is an online visa application form that you must complete before your appointment. Make sure to bring a printed copy of the DS-160 confirmation page, as it will be required during the visa interview.

Arrival and Security Check: Arrive at the US embassy or consulate well before your scheduled appointment time. Expect to go through security screening, which may include metal detectors and bag checks. Follow any instructions given by the security personnel.

Visa Interview: The visa interview is a crucial part of the appointment. A consular officer will review your documents and ask you questions about your purpose of travel, ties to your home country, and other relevant details. Answer the questions honestly and confidently. Be prepared to provide additional documents if requested.

Visa Processing Time: After the interview, the consular officer will determine whether you qualify for the visa. The processing time for visa issuance can vary, and it's advisable to check the estimated processing times on the official website. Once approved, you will be notified regarding the collection of your port with the visa.

Follow-up Actions: If your visa application is denied, the consular officer will provide a reason for the denial. In some cases, you may have the option to reapply or seek an appeal. It's essential to carefully review the reasons for denial and consider consulting an immigration attorney if needed.

Preparing for a US visa appointment involves careful attention to detail and thorough documentation. By understanding the process, gathering the required documents, and confidently attending the interview, you can increase your chances of a successful outcome. to stay informed, follow instructions from the embassy or consulate, and be well-prepared to present your case during the interview. Good luck with your US visa application!

What’s the wait time for interview appointment

Alexis11:
6 Yoruba

3 Edo

2 Igbo

1 AkwaCross

Why write their tribes. Na this kind division dey cause problems

post=123876587:

Ignorant mind this is Umuahia

Lmfao. You just dey show ShopRite. Share a video of inside the worst ShopRite in nigeria. Umuahia is a mess compared to 3/4 of the other state capitals in the country. Quit playing mehn.

dopedan:
I have some bad habits im trying to stop like porn and masturbation, because wen im with a girl I get erect but when its time to put it in it goes flaccid , it’s quite shameful
So i need advice from people who experience this on wat to do to speed up my recovery process and get my morning wood back thanks

Try sex without a condom, watch you gut healthy, sometimes it could affect your erection. Check food that your system reacts badly to (causes gas and tummy aches)and cut down on them. Try exercise, precisely Cadio

yolada:
Nairalanders please help advice me, this is a matter of life and death I don't want to waste this money
Let me just go straight to the point

So I have exactly 1 million naira in my bank and I'll be 22 by 27th of this month (this is not a flex on anybody please)
I don't currently have a job, I live in Lagos and with my parents. But a lot of things happening here and I feel like if I don't leave soon, I might just die.

I plan to move to Akwa Ibom state to go and start a new life on my own even though I haven't been there before. I have never smoked a cigarette in my life, I don't smoke. I'm still a virgin, never had sex in my entire life,I don't womanise, I have Zero friends.

So my plan is to move to the state, secure a cheap accommodation like a single room self contain that should not cost anything more than 100-120k a year. After I secure accommodation, I plan on searching for a job that can at least pay the bills. And probably set up a POS business with some of the money that someone else can be running for me. I don't eat too much and I know how to cook.

Now my question is this. Will I be able to survive for some time in the state with that amount of money pending till I get a job?
And how much is the average rent for a single room self contain in akwa Ibom?


Akwa ibom rent is expensive. Come to aba 😌

nlfpmod Myndd44 farano RoyalRoy
Disguy justwise lalasticlala - Please for the love of God

ogododo:
Senate president, speaker can’t be of same faith — it’ll fuel Islamisation agenda narrative - Shettima



https://www.thecable.ng/shettima-senate-president-speaker-cant-be-of-same-faith-itll-fuel-islamisation-agenda-narrative/amp

Gbajabiamila and lawan are both Muslim

Victor2707:
Another set of humans with brain disorder.

No too reason am is just sex and love

OVB123:
We just voted a replica of Buhari, if not worst than him.

Nah. Asiwaju is better than buhari but the worst of all the candidates that contested

Saga16:
Which kain colour be this for Wike'a sake?

After shepe you go just dey approve nonsense.

Abeg change that hideous colour.

That’s how all bridges are painted in ph. Same color

Bestmanfornow:

Still South-east Airports are more viable than the states with bigger landmass, it clearly shows Igbos are business oriented, industrious and travel alot unlike other tribes so its not about landmass

This data is of 2021. Enugu airport served also anambra and ebonyi state, owerri airport serves abia as well. This was before anambra airport was commissioned. The two airports are enough for the southeast. Check the time it takes to get from lekki to murtala Mohammed airport compare with time it takes to travel interstate to these ones. Ebonyi airport is clearly a waste of public funds. They would’ve made more money creating an airline than they will from the airport.

ChEkWaSIyKe:
[b]Alex Otti I beg of you give Abians Airport. All the other Eastern states has airport only Abia the cursed state.

All thanks to God who liberated Abia from the criminals. [[color=#990000]/b]

Abia doesn’t need an airport. Sam mbakwe was meant to serve both abia and imo. It takes less time to get to the airport from aba and umuahia than it does to go from lekki to LOS.

donphilopus:



From the results posted on the IREV portal, one Miss Cynthia Okeke acted as the Presiding Officer and party agents for other political parties including APC in Abia State. Peter Obi won the polling unit according to the results recorded by Cynthia.

https://www.inecelectionresults.ng/elections/63f8f25b594e164f8146a213/pu/63f8f28b594e164f8146b25d/document

Presiding officer decided to sign all the way because of absence of polling unit agent and you’re blaming Labor party.

donphilopus:
This rigging should be exposed to the whole world. LP cannot be accusing other parties of rigging the election when they did worse.

Lol. That’s INECs problem not LP,

Ex0rrcist:


https://dailypost.ng/2023/02/27/presidential-polls-inec-declares-obi-winner-in-plateau/

How is it possible that 6 LGAs with lower population has more votes combined than 11 LGAs this election is bs

iduzebaba:
Pls leaders and professional here , kindly help me criticise this 4 bedroom bungalow house plan that I intend to work on.

I will appreciate all the criticism.

Master bedroom too close to the living room. I don’t see too many exits

Exclusive101:
Abians are doomed

Nah. LP won already

englishmart:
If you were mandated to delete one of those options forever, which would it be?

Women. I’m gay 😌

orohbiro:
Chai the girl done win lottery

She died 17years ago. �

SmartPolician:
Any party that fields a female candidate for guber election has lost the election even before it had taken place.

Governance in Nigeria is for brave hearts.

I wish Mama Taraba and Dora Akunyili had not died though. They would have pioneered the drive to have more women in key elective positions.

Where has your so called bravehearted men gotten us.

Raxxye:
The former Governor, Donald Duke transformed the face of tourism in Nigeria in general and Cross River State in particular, with creative ideas and innovations.
Someone like that should have been the President of Nigeria, but tribalism, religious sentiments and wickedness won't let us elect him. It is vegetables like Buhari and Tinubu that the useless party delegates keep presenting to us as candidates, not bc they think he'll better the lots of Nigerians, but solely bc of pecuniary benefits!
They will fail this time!
Obi is the only choice for now!

I just said this yesterday

KeyEndurance:
Hello Everyone Please I Need Your Help. Whenever Am Alone My Dick will Stand Gallant like A Soldier but When Am With A girl To Have sex the Thing Will Start Sleeping. Please Is There Any Medicine That Can Solve This problem?

Maybe you are gay.

BIGDADDY000:
As much as I dislike his master, This man is really working over there.

That’s a private property. Nothing to applaud here

saaondoenock:


https://www.timesng.com/entertainment/kannywood/564003-ganduje-video-court-orders-flogging-of-kannywood-tiktok-skit-makers.html


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NLWG2InmMNA

This is not democracy. El rufai’s son has done more harm but nobody is flogging him

slimfit1:
Yes in Daura

It better be so if there’s a nuclear disaster it will start with him

Metrix147:


Source: https://abntv.com.ng/news/soldier-stabs-34-year-old-man-to-death-in-abia-graphic-photo/

I really think the activities of military personnel and police in abia should be looked into. Abia is the only state I’ve seen soldiers cashing out on a daily instead of protecting lives. They’ll be everywhere in aba there’s a container to offload just to collect bribes. Multiple checkpoints between aba and port harcourt it’s almost like a no man’s land, you can say there’s no government in the state.

VeryWickedMan:


Everyday.

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