NewStats: 3,264,720 , 8,184,513 topics. Date: Thursday, 12 June 2025 at 07:52 AM 5y4s6y

cornerstonee:
Because it's a total lack of respect for you as a person. It's just kinda "like you are not worth my time to even explain".

As harsh as it may sound.. Iit's a complete way of devaluing and it's very hurtfull..in my own view ghosting Is actually a way of the dominant taking an easy way out and i'sint a good relationship material anyway..

What do you think!

Ghosting is a form of emotional abuse but most Nigerians still do that sh*t

ThatsONYI:



After escaping from the NwaBoi apprenticeship asylum, I wanted to head back to school; but since I wasn't paid a penny - and it's been a long time I left school. I'm dropping the idea.

Don't get me wrong, it hurts but I got a lot on my shoulders. So I'm taking my time to build myself mentally, physically etc. I'm yet to fully recover from the crazy things, I went through. I wanna get my life back on track, make my family proud, and yeah, get to see my mom after 4 years.

I'm gonna turn 20 by March 28, so I'm tryna make a difference; spent all my late teen years trying to please these humans. I ended up burning my heart in this fire consuming this sinful world.

So I'm back, it doesn't matter how you fall but how you bounce back. When I die, I wanna die happy, knowing I lived for a reason. I don't care how long it takes, but I'ma make an impact through music.

Hell yeah, I'm broke but I just got a menial job to myself. I'm also working on my sound, I love hip hop and I'ma make a change in this industry.

Guess what? I just hit the studio today and I'm dropping a crazy 5 minutes remix to Eminem Detroit Vs everybody, yeah it's crazy but I gotta vision.

My name is Onyi

Do what you love. Send us your artist link for streaming whenever you are done recording

Bounceboune7:
So abia can survive abi?

That's what people don't get. We're doing fine without it.

Federal allocation is being spent by individuals and the taxes paid in aba by businesses is wild, you'd never know how much in abia state you have to see it for yourself.

blamingthedevil:
Is he right?



https://mobile.twitter.com/xagreat/status/1489220842248716292

Move ikpeazu to the top of this list because abia state has more businesses plus the taxes we pay here is wild and there's nothing to show for it.

Austinboy:
I purposely opened this thread so i can let out all I'm ing through and feeling because I've been having suicidal thoughts. Right now as i speak, i can't even use my own original sim as a result of constant threats from people i owe.

Let me start this way. I used to be a very upright person who detested gambling. Even back in school when my then room mate used to, i looked at him somehow. Fast forward to after NYSC, just by hearing a discussion of how someone made 300k with 100 naira. I decided to try. I started out with 100 and then when 1 game cuts it, i will say i have hope. 100 sooned turned to me staking 1000 then i went out of control from there.

I started gambling on dog racing and before i knew it, u did the one which eventually wrecked me. I started gambling on instant virtual first on bet9ja before i moved to sportybet.

Last year was the worst. I made millions of naira but all when down the drain on virtual bets. There have been days when i can finish 500k in just an hour on virtual.

Right now I'm indebted to so many apps. My name has been broadcasted severally and people who used to look uo to me are wondering what went wrong. I don't know if i can ever build my image again. I'm so ashamed of myself that i don't know if i should live again. The problem is anytime i have money, even after saying i won't go back. Once I'm credited, i go straight to it. It won't be an exaggeration to say i have lost over 15m within the last 5 to 6 years I've been into this shameful habbit. Please i need help, i need advice maybe from someone who has gone through this phase successfully because I'm at the verge of ending it all. I used to be so responsible and now my life is not worth emulating at all right now.

Mods please help me move this to front page as i need someone, just anyone to tell me how i can move forward from this mess.

You're not alone here. We should form a group. Lol

It's tough but you need to put down your phone and focus on something else. Staying busy is the best way to avoid gambling. Try not to watch view flash score unless it's your team and cut down on overall time spent on sports. I now watch my team on my phone I don't even go to bars or places I here people talking about gambling.

InternetAgbero:
Please, how do I go about reporting an international romance scamming syndicate that I was a part of years ago?

The person I was and the things I did in the past, I do them no more for I have seen the light and the result of my "magic". The "magic" I did, I have seen the result of and it is not pretty. It is demonic and basically taking someone else's life-force.

Upon sharing the truth, I became a pariah and labelled "mentally ill" by these so-called of my family who are still very much involved in that life and refuse to stop the lifestyle.

I am not religious but now that I know better, I have come to understand the difference between right and wrong.

Because I have kept this inside for years, it resulted to me having anger issues that had me stabbed in Nov 2020 and almost losing my life. Luckily, I was spared and a part of me believes it is for this purpose.

Please, good people of Nairaland...I need help because I can no longer let sleeping dogs lie.

The truth weighs heavy inside my heart and is screaming to be let out.

I know my life will be in danger but at this point, death is no longer scary because i have been shown that we are not from Earth.

Lalasticlala
Justwise

In a corrupt country like Nigeria not much you can do. Report them to police/efcc and they'll collect their percentage and let them go. You'll only make enemies. Keep doing your thing and stay away.

ifeanyi317:
abeg which road them use come for the wedding

Asked myself the same question.

kenevision:
Today, Governor Ikpeazu's son, Jachimike Ikpeazu, walked down the isle with his bride, Thelma Chidimma at International Conference Centre, Ogurube Layout, Umuahia.

In attendance were many serving and former governors, political leaders, religious heads and captains of industries.

Here are some pictures from the event.

Thieves

Amudeneogu:
I met this lady something in july this year and we started a serious relationship but i have never asked her for sex, how do you see it?

Even if she's not ready, you should talk about it and know if the two of you are on the same page. Especially if you two aren't even making out either. If she's keeping it until marriage respect her decision and if you're not ok with the arrangement be honest about it and move on. If you've waited four months and you really like her I'm sure you can wait longer.

EkehPraise:
My elder brother came to for a training in the city I live and will be staying at my place. After he changed into his boxers and came to the parlor my eyes moved to his waist and guess what I saw? Waistbeads of different colors and designs. He is a tech guy, never used to wear one even in his school days, I asked him what's up and he just laughed and said he likes them
As a man I have seen a lot of ladies adorn their waistlines with lovely waistbeads and I love it but seeing it on the waist of my elder brother almost made me go nuts with confusion
How can a full grown man be wearing
waistbeads and feeling really cool with it??

What could it mean?? He is not married, the last time we had an idea that he was in a relationship was about 4 years ago and they had long broken up.

I am thinking of calling my dad to tell him about it.

Please don't tell me to mind my business, he's our first son and the eldest and I think I should be concerned.

Editor: File Photos Used For Illustration

Misconceptions about what is male and what's for female will always be an issue in this country. Nothing wrong with a guy wearing waist bead as long as he's comfortable in it. Wigs were initially made for men but most people don't know that. don't let society tell you what's right or wrong most people you see out there aren't educated enough even with their diplomas

Paperbag:


When you kept clicking (accept and allow) what did you think you where doing ??

You already agreed they can make use of your data at will , messages , n so on ..

Lol, you think they are stupid ??

These apps have of agreement with consequences if you don't repay in time. I'm sure stealing from people's phone is not one of them. If this was a civilized nation a class action suit would have put them out of business already. ing data is also illegal in china. Those companies are here to exploit africans

DubaiLandLord1:
The CBN will soon make a law, if you borrow and you don't pay back... Anytime wey money enter the bank linked to your BVN, them go comot your money with interest sef.

I don't understand why some of una go dey borrow money without paying back.

Bullshit

That's what it should be normally they're supposed to alert the bank so they can be debited automatically. No where in the world is defaulting on a loan a crime. You can't be arrested for it. Person wey no get money to pay back wan pay bail??. But stealing people's data and sending spam messages is a serious offense most Nigerians don't know that. They are taking advantage of defenseless people in this country and you're taking their side. Most of these companies are Chinese and God knows how much data they've stolen from Nigerians and that should be a national security issue. Not everyone has bad intentions in this country and people shouldn't be threated this way.

summerB:
Hello � Good Day

Please Help, I don't know what to do.

I am a graduate of office technology and management ( HND ) and now thinking of going into nursing.

My the Grace Of God I am looking at migrating to canada or UK 2023, but then I need to do something that will enable me get job there, like getting job from home country Nigeria, like nurses do with the help of agencies.

I started looking into nursing profession. I enrolled in a tutorial and started taking science subjects. I'll be writing the waec.

I choose nursing because I felt it's easy to find job over there. But it will take me years to study, plus I gave no science background. and I have to go leave in the school during this period. I'm in my 30's married with kids

What course can I take up on that will be easy for me to get job abroad with my HND certificate?

This gives me sleepness night and makes me think alot. It's really affecting my mental health.

Switch to nursing. You won't regret it trust me. As long as you move though

Facts111:
Good day everyone..

I'll be 24 next month. The problem now is that am too shy. I don't have confidence. I don't have any girlfriend (am too shy to speak to a lady). You can wrongly accuse me and i will went away crying.

I am the first born of a family of six. A man once accused me of sleeping with his wife (the woman in question senior my mama) and i was like "me ? Me ? Me ? " and I went inside crying.

The only friend i have is my phone. The thing is affecting me seriously. I can't eat in public. I can't insult. I can't even look at your face to talk anything.... I talk alot inside... Am an online keyboard wariorr..

One boy was telling me yesterday to 'cult' to improve. Though am thinking of it. People take me for a fool. Nairaland is my best website.

Please doctors in the house, is there any drug or medication that i can take to make me overcome shyness ?...

I've been there. To some extent I still struggle with it but far from how it was when I was younger. What makes you shy is you thinking about people's opinion on you. If you can get over that you'll be fine. I got more confident from self medicating. Normally in a better country you would've gotten meds for anxiety from your psychologist,but this is Nigeria You'll have to work around it by yourself. I wouldn't recommend weed (p.s It really helped with mine) cos marijuana affects people differently. Try using social media to make more friends with similar interests with you. Always remind yourself you're are just human like the next person and try not to be intimidated by anyone's presence.