NewStats: 3,263,738 , 8,181,201 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 03:57 PM 1y2hu

PEACE2023:



I don't know whether you are a man or woman but if you are a woman I pray no man should marry you because you will be a disaster in marriage.
Untrained or badly trained woman. That are looking for a man to enslave.

The true is bitter
You are a narcissist , I pity her.
You lack home training

PEACE2023:


This is a stewpid question from a supposed stewpid woman like the one's we are talking about.
A wicked woman is a wicked woman even if you kill yourself entire family for her she will remain ungrateful.
Nothing please them.

You are the problem not her.
See how you are disrespecting her on social media.

PEACE2023:


Married an ungrateful woman. Who took oath not to be happy in everything I do. She wants power to control me.

What have you done for her.

What do we men see in cheating.

most men don't think before taking action. 5 minutes of enjoyment .More is coming because you and all my gender that cheats deserve what you get
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Sack her

luminouz:

You made a mistake leaving without your children. 😉

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My partner will not see these topic.

lordnkem000:
She should forgive him and pray for him to change

It's easy to say forgive him because na man cheated
We men can we forgive if it was the other way round

Depression is bad

definitelyso:
please house help.. I married my husband during my masters in the UK we were both students.. after barely 3months of dating i got pregnant and we got engaged 5months into the relationship.. the cheating signs started immediately after that but I could not recognise it.. for example after the engagement with all our friends in attendance he told me he will not proceed with the marriage as he wants to marry whitie for papers.. the shock was much for me so I said ok.. the child will bear my father's name then.. after much argument for months 2weeks to when I will deliver we went to court in the UK as we were still studing and got married.. this was in 2015.. fast forward to 2017 we came back to Nigeria got the traditional and white done.. this is where the main drama started.. few months into our coming back one issue of infidelity to another if I complain he will say I want a divorce.. in 2018 I had another child but while 5months pregnant I almost lost the baby to a miscarriage because he made me walk long distance all in the name of teaching me a lesson as he said I was too stubborn.. the next day I went into premature labour.. all of these no apology from him ohh.. then infidelity with my house maids not 1 not 2 the 3 one was what broke the camels back.. I have had enough.. now the case with the 2nd house girl was; he and her made my life hell when I asked her to leave he told me instead of the house help to leave I should leave the house and keep the 2kids for him... I was so depressed and ashamed of how he treated me I could not tell anyone not even my family I stayed back and prayed the girl eventually left when she was tired of staying.. in 2020 November he sent me and the kids to his mother's house in lagos to stay that he wants to focus on his new company unknown to me he moved to a new 2bedroom apartment and changed girls like wrapper while I shared a room with 7 people including my kids and the house helps plus his cousins in his mother's house.. sleeping on the floor.. for over 1year he refused to allow me come back home to the new apartment he rented always threatening me with divorce and taking the kids.. all this time sincerely I was depressed I could not work i was just getting by no zeal to achieve or fight for my self.. lost my self confidence.. finally in 2021 december we came back... april 2022 he left for lagos said for work.. didnt come back till february 2023 just before the elections..then the big incident happened.. the house help I have found that was God sent since 2020 she has been with me even while I was in his mother's house giving me he tried to harass her too but she refused him and reported to me.. when he saw he could not get his way he asked her to leave the house.. by this time I had gotten a good job and the house help was helping with the children while I work.. so I said no.. she will stay.. then the abuse started again.. he asked me to leave and go back to my mother's and he will take my kids.. he even called my mum saying he is no longer interested in the marriage and wants me to leave the house.. at this point I have had enough I tried getting a divorce but I could not afford the lawyers fees at the time about 100k so I filed a complaint against him stopping him from illegally throwing me out of the house.. he got upset saying I disrespected him for filing that complaint so he packed his bags and left for Lagos in April 2023.. well in june 2023 i met someone at work fell in love with him.. for the first time in years I felt wanted I felt loved and appreciated but i asked him to wait until I sign the divorce papers. suddenly in December 24th 2023 without notice my husband came back begging forgiveness saying he has changed and found God.. now everyone is begging me to give him a 2nd chance. but what about me? I no longer love him.. I have moved on and found someone.. am afraid to say am in love with someone else because he might use it against me in court even though I never agreed to have sexual intercourse with this new love of mine but my husband will never believe that... and my husband has refused to get a divorce begging and trying so hard to show me he has changed ... what do I do..? i have forgiven him but i won't be happy if I stay with him but I don't know how to go about the divorce since he is not willing
also note since 2020

Men can never change. Move on with your life

PEACE2023:

Does men hate their wife when the men are cheating?
The answer is no

Your wife must be suffering in your hands.
You are cheating and you are proud of it

One of the things that is killing marriage is cheating and comparing your partner with someone else

Nija no be U.k

Painful
Horrible
Emotional blackmail
Cheating by my partner
Living in fear
Knowing am alone
Betrayed by my partner
Regrets

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When you were showing her pepper in Nigeria you didn't know now is her own turn.

Before she will do that the husband must have done something for her to keep the secret.
Fear we men we are too much

You are lucky to find out now.

Paystack:


Because gluing to one hole is boring

gluing to one long or short penis is also boring

Wakatumbit:
My wife is very insecure and it's making me tired.
She's always suspicious of everything, I can't go out, I can't answer calls.
The worst part is that she will be keeping malice with me cus she's suspecting me, she won't even say anything to me.

If a someone who I don't want to talk to calls me on my phone, and I decline the call, she will take offense. There was a day my mum was calling me and I didn't answer the call on time, she became mad that it was a woman calling and I don't want to answer the call.

If I tell her I'm going to the gym in the evening she will become suspicious. I can't even talk to my clients who are females in her presence because she Will be always jealous.

As I write this, she isn't talking to me cus I went to the gym yesterday evening.

I'm tired. She has never caught me cheating before because it's something I don't do

You are saying one sided super story

lamikas:
I need help concerning my relationship which I'm not sure still stands. My guy and I have been dating for a year and half now and he his a very caring and great guy. He his Muslim and I'm a Christian and we both agreed to do our religion without hindering one another. We hardly fight and we settle our quarrels almost immediately.
Recently, my guy and I had a quarrel about communication which I kinda complain to him and I notice he just acted non challant towards and wasn't even trying to correct or amend. This lasted for like 3 wks and we barely talked during those period ( longest we've ever had to quarrel). He would not call me and if I called he would give excuses of different kinds especially " I slept off". Anyways we settled and I went to his place for the weekends but then I decided to go to work from his house the following week. I wasn't feeling sleepy that Sunday night and i decided to play some games on my fone but it was low so I used my guys charger and unplugged his fone. I decide d to play with his instead. Mind u I don't go tru his fone cos I trust him and I don't really think it is necessary but he goes tru mine every single time I come visiting. That's why he didn't change his I guess, cos he felt save.
I decided to check his Whatsapp and the first message I clicked on was a that wasn't saved on his fone. I read the message and found out my guy was cheating on me with a girl he claimed was like a younger sister to him. This guy barely takes pics and funny enough I don't have any recent pics of him. If I take a picture of us or him alone, he would delete it from my fone without my knowledge. And yet he sent the girl his recent pic. I was heartbroken when I read their chat but didn't do anything till the next day. I called him after I got back from work and confronted him, he didn't deny, he only said and I quote " what gave u the right read my chat? And besides I know what I'm doing, I'm not stupid. What if I'm just using her to time, u are just overreacting towards this tin". While we were still arguing, I told him I was done with him, that we are over. he seem shocked then after a while cut the call and in annoyance, I blocked him in every place I could. Then I unblocked him after two days but he didn't call back or text.
Now my I'm wondering if I overreacted in that situation. We were already planning to get married next year. maybe I shouldn't have blocked him. Maybe he his into her becos she's a hijabi.

You are lucky. Thank your God

mcdon024:
Mature advice only please.
I will keep this very short.
There is this her colleague she talks about almost all the time. He is also married. I became curious and decided to go through her WhatsApp chats with this guy. I saw in thier chats selfie pics she sends to him (normal selfie pics), and the one that really got to me is the part he invited my wife to come over and "lets make babies" according to him. But her reply was "No I can't, your hands are full"....Please who can decode this her reply to him?....I confronted her but she denied ever having anything to do with him beside been colleagues. But my worry is why chat flirty chats with a guy and what would give him the mind to ask her to come over and .......... Please I need mature advice only

Are you a saint

Jennyclay:
Why recording and posting it online?? Is not as if he’s faithful either . Nigerian Men are really childish . The idiot even said he’s feeling like God . Mumu!

You don’t give your girlfriend money, you don’t take her out on a romantic date, you nonsense men don’t even care about her well being and you want to experience faithfulness and true love . You foolish men must be joking!!

I’ve said it, if I can’t get enough money, sex and true love from my man, I’ll look else where. No time!!

Shior!!

You said it all. My

Marriage is sweet when you meet the right partner but bitter with the wrong partner

Some men want to eat where the did not sow

GlIalen:
You left your husband because he was cheating.

You have a kid or two.

So you divorced because you were so pained.

You left.

With the kids.

You started working hard to cater for your needs. You work so hard, but it isn't enough.

To meet up with the growing economic demands, you find a wealthy man. He is rich. You dont care. You need to pay fees for your kids as a strong, independent woman. You need to prove that it can be done. So you're dating a wealthy married man.
You are now a side chic.

Then, you begin to think of the side chics your husband has and why he has them.

You do not even question the morality. You begin to understand why. Maybe they've got kids too. Mouths to feed, life to live.

It doesn't make sense still.

So you call the married man when he is home, and he hides to shout at you for wanting to disturb his peace with his "wife" as you ought to know when he is home.

You think of your hurts.

You think of your consolation.

At least you had a husband who was fully yours. He cheats, but he was fully yours.

So you attempt to find out what is going on with him now, but he is married again to a younger woman.

After you make , he comes to visit you and the kids. He drops some money once a while. The new wife is in charge now...

You connect on old times. You even had sex.

He leaves to his house to his wife. You're now dating two married men. Both of them are cheating on their wives.

And then you say life wasn't fair to you.

As bad as this may sound, it happens. It is the reality of our time.

Wise people learn from the mistakes of others.

Don't leave ur peaceful abode (marriage) because he cheats.

It rains every where.

Advice!!!✍🏼
So , married women should clap for there husband when the cheat
Princess Adenike Temmy

eazzzy1:
For cheating to happen, two things must happen. 1. Be in a committed relationship 2. Be sexually or emotionally involved with someone else.

People focus on stopping number 2 which is a lot harder than stopping number 1. Cheating will stop when human focus shifts from 2 to 1.

Cheating is for losers, it shouldn’t be justified or rationalized. It comes with deceit, lies, disappointment, hurting someone you claim to love. Just stay single.

Thank you

Women are the cause of all this