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Hi gistmeloveBlog, I have a little story I would love to get some advice from your Audience.
A Friend of mine husband started cheating after a year in their marriage and whenever the lady confronts him or try to talk things out he usually says he still love her and cheating doesn’t mean he doesn’t love her anymore.
They only have one son together…Their marriage is 4years plus now and the man still hasn’t stopped cheating….only for her to discover a small leaflet in her husband pocket recently around last year December which happens to be a test result of one of his side chick who was confirmed pregnant at the laboratory..
She’s In so much devastating state right now and the husband has been apologizing that it was only a mistake and swear on his life that the lady in question has aborted the pregnancy.
Now She said she doesn’t really know what to do whether to move on with her life or still continue with the marriage.

Source: https://gistmeloveblog.com/her-husband-impregnate-his-side-chick-please-advise/

lalasticlala, Mynd44, OAM4J Seun Nlfpmod

Don't leave your husband for any side chick ooo but try to protect yourself from STD because for him to impregnant sidechick it mean the guy don't use C.D
My little cent advice

Nigha already said,even to the extent of swearing that the said side chick has aborted the pregnancy,what else do she want him to do again na?

Guymen self,make una dey try wear paper beg during lashing at least to prevent stories like these from occuring.....

Now see what that NSCDC commandant was trying to advice housewives about how their Husbands bring home HIV as daddy oyoyo from their sidechicks.......This man in this story also brought home an external kid.

One 85yrs old man even infected all his 5 wives with HIV he got from his sidechicks.

GOFRONT:
Now see what that NSCDC commandant was trying to advice housewives about how their Husbands bring home HIV as daddy oyoyo from their their sidechicks.

One 85yrs old man even infected all his 5 wives with HIV he got from his sidechicks.

And people were saying it’s not his business…😊

Christ! See the comments up there. Are you guys telling me you cheating in marriage?

One step out. Side chick take over. The battle has just begun.

[quote author=money121 post=127965047]Hi gistmeloveBlog, I have a little story I would love to get some advice from your Audience.
A Friend of mine husband started cheating after a year in their marriage and whenever the lady confronts him or try to talk things out he usually says he still love her and cheating doesn’t mean he doesn’t love her anymore.
They only have one son together…Their marriage is 4years plus now and the man still hasn’t stopped cheating….only for her to discover a small leaflet in her husband pocket recently around last year December which happens to be a test result of one of his side chick who was confirmed pregnant at the laboratory..
She’s In so much devastating state right now and the husband has been apologizing that it was only a mistake and swear on his life that the lady in question has aborted the pregnancy.
Now She said she doesn’t really know what to do whether to move on with her life or still continue with the marriage.where did she intend to run to? Let her stay

She should forgive him and pray for him to change

lordnkem000:
She should forgive him and pray for him to change

You're just a dual personality and you need to change.
Tomorrow you'll definitely birth a female child (ren).

lordnkem000:
She should forgive him and pray for him to change

It's easy to say forgive him because na man cheated
We men can we forgive if it was the other way round

Lol, the man should be given an award of foolishness for last year. How can some men be this irresponsible? You cheated and you were caught by your wife, instead of you to change for good, you said it doesn't mean you don't love her? What if she starts cheating and said thesame thing to you?

I don't have any advice, but I will suggest that the man be sent to Gaza for immediate recruitment.

Some people are very good in destroying what life has given to them.

Dense1512v:

It's easy to say forgive him because na man cheated
We men can we forgive if it was the other way round

We should never forgive if it's the other way round bro, we aren't the same with women when it comes to feelings

Justkatty:
You're just a dual personality and you need to change.
Tomorrow you'll definitely birth a female child (ren).

Why do you say so? We both know men and women aren't the same when it comes through cheating and that's the truth. When a woman cheats, the home falls apart, but when man cheats it's just for fun. Besides the woman doesn't pay groom's price, she doesn't pay for the man, so since the man does all that, its imperative the woman keeps her body for the man alone. That's what I'll teach my female child one day. Also know i don't validate cheating o

[quote author=lordnkem000 post=127987024]
Why do you say so? We both know men and women aren't the same when it comes through cheating and that's the truth. When a woman cheats, the home falls apart, but when man cheats it's just for fun. Besides the woman doesn't pay groom's price, she doesn't pay for the man, so since the man does all that, its imperative the woman keeps her body for the man alone. That's what I'll teach my female child one day. Also know i don't validate cheating o[/quote. You don't "validate" cheating really? But you justified why men should cheat
Why contradicting yourself?
Guy, there's nothing you'll tell me, for me to agree when it comes to cheating irrespective of the gender involved, whatever you know is wrong, you don't do it, and at the end,you try to bring in unnecessary argument.
If you feel you can play the game,what makes you think the other can't?

lordnkem000:
She should forgive him and pray for him to change

😀😀😀"Pray"?!! You religious types are so silly and prone to saying a lot of nonsense!! If he wants to change,he will change. Praying blindly and sheepishly is futile and of no help. She has a choice to make. Stay with him, whilst the cheating continues,or count her losses and move on, before she's infected with a fatal STD,as a result of his escapades. Can't just "Pray" and then fold her hands, expecting a miracle overnight!!!!

sowhatifiamibo:

😀😀😀"Pray"?!! You religious types are so silly and prone to saying a lot of nonsense!! If he wants to change,he will change. Praying blindly and sheepishly is futile and of no help. She has a choice to make. Stay with him, whilst the cheating continues,or count her losses and move on, before she's infected with a fatal STD,as a result of his escapades. Can't just "Pray" and then fold her hands, expecting a miracle overnight!!!!

To be honest, you are right. But she shouldn't just abandon her home for an intruder na, a man is a man and prayers can help him

[quote author=Justkatty post=127990499][/quote]
That's the problem, a man is not in competition with his wife for any reason. I'm sorry if I sound like I justify cheating but I don't, am just laying undeniable facts why a woman shouldn't cheat. A man is judged by his ability to provide and a woman is judged by her submissiveness and loyalty and that includes her body. That's why a man pays for her. I watched my grandma tell my sister's and cousins this before she died in 2015, that a woman mustn't cheat no matter what her man does, but today's gen z will tell u otherwise. As for me, if my wife cheats I kill her or I send her away, no mercy or coming back