| iCauseTrouble: 3:50pm On May 20, 2022 |
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| Okobola146: 3:50pm On May 20, 2022 |
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Would you be having sex?
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| Success900(m): 3:50pm On May 20, 2022 |
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If you like go and close that gate that is under your leg. Watin concern me
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| Realestatevixen: 3:50pm On May 20, 2022 |
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Ok
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| Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by Nobody: 3:50pm On May 20, 2022 |
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You need to seek spiritual counsel from a strong spiritualist
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| ABokoba: 3:50pm On May 20, 2022 |
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| immortalmortal: 3:51pm On May 20, 2022 |
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Good for you. Whatever makes you happy...
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| Re: As A Woman I Have Decided I'm Never Getting Married Or Having Kids by Nobody: 3:51pm On May 20, 2022 |
nairaman66:
How many times will this hit FP? Who cares if you get married or sleep with a dog?
I wonder o
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| dannyspeejay(m): 3:51pm On May 20, 2022 |
Sleep type patient 
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| Mrsserene: 3:51pm On May 20, 2022 |
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Seek help my sister
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| bigdammyj: 3:52pm On May 20, 2022 |
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Good luck!
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| ComeToJesus: 3:53pm On May 20, 2022 |
Poswahala:
Guys I genuinely need some advice
Because of the state of my mental health I have decided never to get married or have kids, I suffer from intense depression and anxiety and other mental health problems. I'm unsure of my own future talk more of a child.
I do love being in relationships but I do that only for companionship and sex.
I don't know if I will regret my decision. The guys I have dated have been cool with my no marriage proposal but I don't think any Nigerian man will not want kids.
I'm thinking of moving to another country, buy a house, take care of my community and neighbors then when I'm old, I will move to a retirement home.
If I change my mind I can adopt a child, am not against adoption as I am with marriage, it depends on if my mental health improves
The problem I have is that will I be lonely without a child, like I said I'm not into marriage despite being a woman trained in traditional home, it's not that I hate it or anything, it's not just for me. I will be unhappy being married.
But the child thing is bothering me, I always wanted a child, but i don't want my mental health to prevent me from loving and caring for the child.
Please advise
Humans always create problems for every solution and make simple things appear complex.
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| Sixthsense2021: 3:54pm On May 20, 2022 |
Poswahala:
Guys I genuinely need some advice
Because of the state of my mental health I have decided never to get married or have kids, I suffer from intense depression and anxiety and other mental health problems. I'm unsure of my own future talk more of a child.
I do love being in relationships but I do that only for companionship and sex.
I don't know if I will regret my decision. The guys I have dated have been cool with my no marriage proposal but I don't think any Nigerian man will not want kids.
I'm thinking of moving to another country, buy a house, take care of my community and neighbors then when I'm old, I will move to a retirement home.
If I change my mind I can adopt a child, am not against adoption as I am with marriage, it depends on if my mental health improves
The problem I have is that will I be lonely without a child, like I said I'm not into marriage despite being a woman trained in traditional home, it's not that I hate it or anything, it's not just for me. I will be unhappy being married.
But the child thing is bothering me, I always wanted a child, but i don't want my mental health to prevent me from loving and caring for the child.
Please advise
This thread � is a repetoir.
A candid advice, get married, have kid's and live a normal life.
Seek God's help for without Him you can do nothing.
God bless you
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| danity5love: 3:54pm On May 20, 2022 |
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Waste of happiness
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| Kobojunkie: 3:54pm On May 20, 2022 |
SeekerofTruth02:
You need to seek spiritual counsel from a strong spiritualist
Why? Because she told you she has a spirit?, 
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| Gkay1(m): 3:54pm On May 20, 2022 |
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Life na per head
Your decision is your decision, I have nothing to do with that
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| irunoko(m): 3:56pm On May 20, 2022 |
nairaman66:
How many times will this hit FP? Who cares if you get married or sleep with a dog?
them don come
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| Kobojunkie: 3:56pm On May 20, 2022 |
ComeToJesus:
Humans always create problems for every solution and make simple things appear complex.
She is in fact doing the opposite which is why she is wise unlike those who know they have a problem yet seek instead ways to compound them in their foolishness.
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| nijanigga: 3:57pm On May 20, 2022 |
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I've said this umpteen times, what we call marriage is now obsolete.
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| Kobojunkie: 3:57pm On May 20, 2022 |
Sixthsense2021:
This thread � is a repetoir.
A candid advice, get married, have kid's and live a normal life.
Seek God's help for without Him you can do nothing.
She should take on additional stressor to overburden her already burdened mind, that is your idea of a normal life?
It seems God's wisdom eludes you there. 
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| Jennyclay(f): 3:58pm On May 20, 2022 |
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| Funkyswagzz(m): 3:59pm On May 20, 2022 |
Poswahala:
Guys I genuinely need some advice
Because of the state of my mental health I have decided never to get married or have kids, I suffer from intense depression and anxiety and other mental health problems. I'm unsure of my own future talk more of a child.
I do love being in relationships but I do that only for companionship and sex.
I don't know if I will regret my decision. The guys I have dated have been cool with my no marriage proposal but I don't think any Nigerian man will not want kids.
I'm thinking of moving to another country, buy a house, take care of my community and neighbors then when I'm old, I will move to a retirement home.
If I change my mind I can adopt a child, am not against adoption as I am with marriage, it depends on if my mental health improves
The problem I have is that will I be lonely without a child, like I said I'm not into marriage despite being a woman trained in traditional home, it's not that I hate it or anything, it's not just for me. I will be unhappy being married.
But the child thing is bothering me, I always wanted a child, but i don't want my mental health to prevent me from loving and caring for the child.
Please advise
Exactly what i predicted earlier on.. it has started happening.. are you a single mother?
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| bakar007: 4:00pm On May 20, 2022 |
Poswahala:
Guys I genuinely need some advice
Because of the state of my mental health I have decided never to get married or have kids, I suffer from intense depression and anxiety and other mental health problems. I'm unsure of my own future talk more of a child.
I do love being in relationships but I do that only for companionship and sex.
I don't know if I will regret my decision. The guys I have dated have been cool with my no marriage proposal but I don't think any Nigerian man will not want kids.
I'm thinking of moving to another country, buy a house, take care of my community and neighbors then when I'm old, I will move to a retirement home.
If I change my mind I can adopt a child, am not against adoption as I am with marriage, it depends on if my mental health improves
The problem I have is that will I be lonely without a child, like I said I'm not into marriage despite being a woman trained in traditional home, it's not that I hate it or anything, it's not just for me. I will be unhappy being married.
But the child thing is bothering me, I always wanted a child, but i don't want my mental health to prevent me from loving and caring for the child.
Please advise
Try to get a child believe me you d regret it in future if you don't. When you get much older when most of these things we find fun in no longer matters and you begin to look back at life, your choices ,your attainment , your children will be your legacy and the positive you see irrespective of how your life is then.
It okay to try to work on yourself , having a child doesn't in anyway stop you from doing that. Hope you find the answers you re looking for.
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| OBA117(m): 4:01pm On May 20, 2022 |
Poswahala:
Guys I genuinely need some advice
Because of the state of my mental health I have decided never to get married or have kids, I suffer from intense depression and anxiety and other mental health problems. I'm unsure of my own future talk more of a child.
I do love being in relationships but I do that only for companionship and sex.
I don't know if I will regret my decision. The guys I have dated have been cool with my no marriage proposal but I don't think any Nigerian man will not want kids.
I'm thinking of moving to another country, buy a house, take care of my community and neighbors then when I'm old, I will move to a retirement home.
If I change my mind I can adopt a child, am not against adoption as I am with marriage, it depends on if my mental health improves
The problem I have is that will I be lonely without a child, like I said I'm not into marriage despite being a woman trained in traditional home, it's not that I hate it or anything, it's not just for me. I will be unhappy being married.
But the child thing is bothering me, I always wanted a child, but i don't want my mental health to prevent me from loving and caring for the child.
Please advise
I will suggest you get a mental health practitioner....if you need one quickly check my signature
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| JideMakinwa(m): 4:01pm On May 20, 2022 |
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Interesting. Your depression is not some fault of yours...you are simply seeing reality as it is. Depressive Realism as they say. I should guess you are more philosophically and spiritually awake than the average person. You are also morally awake. We should celebrate you.
To make the burden you bear lighter, some psychotherapy may be needed, maybe some prayers too. But not without continuous philosophizing.
As for not wanting a child, you have made the right decision; it would still be right even if you were not depressed. Don't call yourself an Antinationalist though. Don't call yourself Childfree too. You may become resentful of breeders. Be careful not to fall into that.
I don't want to say much here. If my perception of you is correct, then welcome to the club. I'll like to meet with you. DM.
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| Tonitoniton(m): 4:03pm On May 20, 2022 |
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I like it when people are sincere with them selves.
Your decision is better than to pretend into marriage and start giving the poor guy sleepless nights.
But, in another way, u Ernestly need deliverance cos u talked about depression and others. That state of mind is not natural. U need spiritual help fast.
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| MrBroke(m): 4:03pm On May 20, 2022 |
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Me, U, the same. I feel u. Mine ain't no mental problem or anxiety, mine is more of stress, wanting peace and not wanting to hurt anybody. Just sex and be friends
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| Kobojunkie: 4:05pm On May 20, 2022 |
Funkyswagzz:
Exactly what i predicted earlier on.. it has started happening.. are you a single mother?
You dey read at all?
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| linohlex: 4:06pm On May 20, 2022 |
Poswahala:
Guys I genuinely need some advice
Because of the state of my mental health I have decided never to get married or have kids, I suffer from intense depression and anxiety and other mental health problems. I'm unsure of my own future talk more of a child.
I do love being in relationships but I do that only for companionship and sex.
I don't know if I will regret my decision. The guys I have dated have been cool with my no marriage proposal but I don't think any Nigerian man will not want kids.
I'm thinking of moving to another country, buy a house, take care of my community and neighbors then when I'm old, I will move to a retirement home.
If I change my mind I can adopt a child, am not against adoption as I am with marriage, it depends on if my mental health improves
The problem I have is that will I be lonely without a child, like I said I'm not into marriage despite being a woman trained in traditional home, it's not that I hate it or anything, it's not just for me. I will be unhappy being married.
But the child thing is bothering me, I always wanted a child, but i don't want my mental health to prevent me from loving and caring for the child.
Please advise
your choice
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| NaijaGoBetter20: 4:07pm On May 20, 2022 |
Poswahala:
Guys I genuinely need some advice
Because of the state of my mental health I have decided never to get married or have kids, I suffer from intense depression and anxiety and other mental health problems. I'm unsure of my own future talk more of a child.
I do love being in relationships but I do that only for companionship and sex.
I don't know if I will regret my decision. The guys I have dated have been cool with my no marriage proposal but I don't think any Nigerian man will not want kids.
I'm thinking of moving to another country, buy a house, take care of my community and neighbors then when I'm old, I will move to a retirement home.
If I change my mind I can adopt a child, am not against adoption as I am with marriage, it depends on if my mental health improves
The problem I have is that will I be lonely without a child, like I said I'm not into marriage despite being a woman trained in traditional home, it's not that I hate it or anything, it's not just for me. I will be unhappy being married.
But the child thing is bothering me, I always wanted a child, but i don't want my mental health to prevent me from loving and caring for the child.
Please advise
Congratulations.
May God help you to achieve your aim
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