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Gbese

Sapasenator:


Why do you say that, now you are beginning to scare me.

Don’t worry
You are covered

Sapasenator:


Reason I am a strong advocate of one child in this present economy.

Hmmm

Economy got nothing on you na

immortalcrown:
What time should men leave office? Be specific so that we will be sure that you are not mistaking staying in bars for staying in late in office.

Bar no go be everyday na

Rule of thumb, be home 6:30-7
Gives you some hours before the children retire for the day

Sapasenator:
Some men live longer because of staying late in the office to cool off after the day's work. Do you know whether he is avoiding his wife, looking to sneak in when she is already asleep or staying long for traffic to subside. Me I get home 11pm every night.

In this, still need to consider the upbringing of the children, they can easily be lost in an unhealthy marriage and a missing father situation

While this is not a chant for irresponsible work life balance, it is a shout out call to men especially those with a young family.

To stamp in the training you so desire to enshrine on your children, you will need more time with the children which includes closing early from work and intentionally teaching your children the way to go.

The mistake most young fathers make is to delegate all this to the mother during the week maybe because her job is more flexible and she comes home early only for the father to show up during the weekend and start complaining of complacency. Newsflash….. it is very possible the mother is stressed too during the day and will leave the children out to the maid or channel 314 on Dstv or coco melon on her phone just to catch some rest too. The children now are at the mercy of what the maid deems right or wrong or they start getting addicted to the devices and nothing else matters. Sometimes, you will observe your 4-5 year old has “seen finish”your spouse and no longer respond to her instructions. These things are real.

Dear Fathers, it is time for us now to be very intentional about raising our children and to better achieve this, we need to get home early from our places of businesses and work then be very involved.

Ciao!

Minding your business is the best way to go

Deo1986:
You quit the 'retched' relationship in 2021 and between 2021 and March 2023 you found the love of your life who wedded you traditionally and relocated you and the children to Canada?

Wow, isn't God good?

Is a miracle working God

Fakest of the fakest

Calvary247:
My husband is the man the world had ever given me. I love my husband. I'm enjoying my marriage to the fullest. Marriage full of joy, happiness and satisfaction. This union is powerful.

Congratulations OP
I’m glad I could read one good testament about marriage
May your happiness continue forever amen

It’s kind of strange when people link marital success to couples sharing same beds/room
Also the strange importance we tag to a mattress and wood called marital bed like really what does all those mean?

Bed wey pikin go use piss spoil? �

I have seen great marriages where couples don’t share same room as well marriages that crash badly even with same room

My thought is that bedrooms don’t determine marriages longevity or success biko

Why isn’t he controlling in Borno where he comes from

May be old school but I advise devoting your self more to God in prayers, study and praying in tongues
Slowly but gradually it becomes abhorrent to you till it stops completely

I have been doing this since my childhood and I seem not to have outgrown it especially with meat and noodles

Wait is it wrong??

OP play safe and follow this through
You will be fine

Klass99:
No, it is not. Why are you even contemplating it?

Please do not do it until;

1. You receive an offer in writing.
2. You've sat with it for 24 hours, thoroughly read it and you're satisfied with the /condition.
3. You sign the offer and communicate your start date to the new employer.
4. You have given the required notice to your current employer.
5. You exit current workplace with little or no drama.

Proxyly:


Chat me up. I am available

I did you are no longer responding

Seems you ain’t responsive on WhatsApp

Guitar interested

And would you mind sending pictures of the other available items?

There is no such thing as ex general. Once a general always a general

Jeon:

Drillmate

PanshMATE

edoairways:

That video is scripted

My thought exactly

If the parents are funding the event, trust them to have the larger say
Either way, parents have the most guests and somehow they always have a standard they want it to meet sometimes irrespective of your views

She actually does have the right

I will say look for other alternatives and let her go please for the sake of the family

Bola146:
Take her as your own kid in correction, keep telling her. I too always make that mistake once in a while

The problem with this is she might not see herself as her kid hence the stubbornness like worst case scenario I will run away

Shinapraise:
Don't try it cos it will end in tears

Why? Cuz I see it really happening

BusinessCity:
The father is the father until after the marriage.. That's in God's presence, He that giveth the blessing in the marriage. Not in front of some ancestors in a traditional system. If some traditional elders are honored by presenting the intending couples before them, should God not get even greater honour?


Smh atheists and liberalists would do anything to attack Christian faith




Why it's so hard for them to take in is atheists and liberalised want to attack any concept of God to anything goes.


The sheer hypocrisy is what I find appalling. If they hate Christian marriage, they should leave Christian ladies and families alone simple.


If you won't marry a Christian lady the Christian way, please marry your kinds. Go for the traditional woman and after the traditional rites or even before, you can have your way

I think There is no such thing as Church wedding in the bible
Jesus attended a traditional wedding where he turned water to wine

Mstick:
Bought a watch for my daughter and throughout the day I kept asking her for the time, at a point when I asked her please what's the time? She replied; it's time to get your own watch.

� savage

peropoliet:
your mama and mine is almost the same

No nonsense Iron Lady

Love her so very much

OlawaleBammie:


Taaahh, what hapen to their purpose sir??

Am of the Orthodox view my brother, not that we dont beg verbally but we make it so rare, and i love it that way.

I dont want a simp as son
I dont want a daughter who would comit suicide in the future.

I want children who would b having a curtailed emotions.

I want a rigid children, who would say and stand on their ground, who would not b easily moved cus of one nonsense emotions.

Laslas, i want a principled children cus i mysef am a principle personality.

Understand you now
Perfectly but in a like scenario as mine please apologize

OlawaleBammie:


Orthodox parents dont apologise to children verbally, rey dont.

Even me, i have that trait from them

Haa please o for the purpose of your kids