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Good day cuties and gentlemen of NL

Lemme just go straight to the point

I attended a friend's traditional wedding last year December and after all the stress and struggles to settle the bride price, the father of the lady forbade she stays with the husband until after their church/white wedding which is two months from now

So guys, is he right to say that?
What is your opinion?

The father is the father until after the marriage.. That's in God's presence, He that giveth the blessing in the marriage. Not in front of some ancestors in a traditional system. If some traditional elders are honored by presenting the intending couples before them, should God not get even greater honour?


Smh atheists and liberalists would do anything to attack Christian faith




Why it's so hard for them to take in is atheists and liberalised want to attack any concept of God to anything goes.


The sheer hypocrisy is what I find appalling. If they hate Christian marriage, they should leave Christian ladies and families alone simple.


If you won't marry a Christian lady the Christian way, please marry your kinds. Go for the traditional woman and after the traditional rites or even before, you can have your way

Two months, just two months and he's already losing patience? Tell that friend not to let two months sabotage a possible lifetime of happiness.

The father is helping the groom and the bride to have a clean marriage without sex. Let him hold body small

Humanoid01:
Two months, just two months and he's already losing patience? Tell that friend not to let two months sabotage a possible lifetime of happiness.

How do you mean please?

He has collected dowry, the rest should be between the couple

Some families do that though

mezico96:


How do you mean please?

He has collected dowry, the rest should be between the couple

He should relax for the two months, if he has waited this far why can't he wait more,
There is this joy of making love to your virgin wife on the wedding night

Enugupikin:

He should relax for the two months, if he has waited this far why can't he wait more,
There is this joy of making love to your virgin wife on the wedding night

Enugupikin:

He should relax for the two months, if he has waited this far why can't he wait more,
There is this joy of making love to your virgin wife on the wedding night

Nobody said she's a virgin. Sex wey no go 1hour. I know she visits him.

He paid the dowry, traditionally she's his wife.
Until the wedding, i think the father doesn't want them to rush things.

tidalstorm:


Nobody said she's a virgin. Sex wey no go 1hour. I know she visits him.

My comment is only if she's a virgin gal

What are you guys even saying self. The marriage has already been done. Bride price has already been paid and as far as anyone is concern she is already his wife.

White wedding is only the traditional marriage of the white man.

Wetin dey do Africans self. Who do una like this?

mezico96:


How do you mean please?

He has collected dowry, the rest should be between the couple

I know, but the father may have his reasons. Flouting his order may create an unnecessary issue if not adhered to. So it's better to be patient since the wedding is in just two months time.

Softboy001:
What are you guys even saying self. The marriage has already been done. Bride price has already been paid and as far as anyone is concern she is already his wife.

White wedding is only the traditional marriage of the white man.

Wetin dey do Africans self. Who do una like this?

My point exactly!

Thank you sir

Bobo don pay already na...so,the full package is his..

Well...2 months no far sha

The lady is already his wife as far as marriage is concerned. White wedding is just a borrowed alternative. Most African parents are just demented

Humanoid01:

I know, but the father may have his reasons. Flouting his order may create an unnecessary issue if not adhered to. So it's better to be patient since the wedding is in just two months time.

He's reasons is his church

mezico96:


He's reasons is his church

If that is so, then that church is just demented. No more, no less

mezico96:


He's reasons is his church

If he's not ready to renege on that, then let him be. Respect his decision for peace to exist. Two months is too short to stir up a disagreement.

mezico96:
Good day cuties and gentlemen men of NL

Lemme just go straight to the point

I attended a friend's traditional wedding last year December and after all the stress and struggles to settle the bride price, the father of the lady forbade she stays with the husband until after their church/white wedding which is two months from now

So guys, is he right to say that?
What is your opinion?

It is not the right thing. I want to challenge all religious fanatics to quote to me the part of the Bible that traditional marriage is not recognized .

Preachers of the Bible but lovers of the world are here again. You claim you're a Christian but when it doesn't suit you, you become a traditionalist.

Instead of your friend to arrange only traditional marriage and carry his wife home, or better still, marry the daughter of a traditionalist, he carried his leg to go to the house of a Church goer and look for wife. Now that he's been requested to follow the directives issued by the church, he suddenly ed he has a tradition.

Tell your friend, your self and everybody who agreed with you that you're all loosing a neurone or two in your brain.

mezico96:
Good day cuties and gentlemen men of NL

Lemme just go straight to the point

I attended a friend's traditional wedding last year December and after all the stress and struggles to settle the bride price, the father of the lady forbade she stays with the husband until after their church/white wedding which is two months from now

So guys, is he right to say that?
What is your opinion?

Yeah I have seen it that’s their church doctrine

mezico96:


How do you mean please?

He has collected dowry, the rest should be between the couple

And then ? I believe the guy knows this from the beginning

In Xvideos there's something called Step dad and daughter


Maybe something like that is going on

Just that this time

There's no step in the dad

Bennysam:
And then ? I believe the guy knows this from the beginning

Nope

Your guy caused it. Why agree on white wedding in the first place? When by tradition he is married with or without white wedding. He should just chill for those two months afterall he won't die.

Very normal thing among every father but the problem with this particular father in op's case is that he was bold enough to withhold his daughter from being twanked to death by his son-in-law

Even we,the brothers find it difficult to let go of our newly married sisters self....but it's something that must be fulfilled..

mezico96:


Nope

Expect anything from in-law, tell him to calm down it happens, I have seen it , like I said it’s a church doctrine

mezico96:
Good day cuties and gentlemen men of NL

Lemme just go straight to the point

I attended a friend's traditional wedding last year December and after all the stress and struggles to settle the bride price, the father of the lady forbade she stays with the husband until after their church/white wedding which is two months from now

So guys, is he right to say that?
What is your opinion?

It is very important to know the village traditions of your wife to be before proceeding further with the marriage. For her dad to make such statement, it clearly means that such is the custom/practice in their village.

On a softer note, she can always visit him so I don't know what he's ranting about. Whenever he wants her, they can both chat on social media and fix an appointment, enjoy themselves and she'll go back under her father's roof pending with the two months gap would elapse then they can have their white wedding and begin to enjoy legal sex.

Nazgul:

It is very important to know the village traditions of your wife to be before proceeding further with the marriage. For her dad to make such statement, it clearly means that such is the custom/practice in their village.

On a softer note, she can always visit him so I don't know what he's ranting about. Whenever he wants her, they can both chat on social media and fix an appointment, enjoy themselves and she'll go back under her father's roof pending with the two months gap would elapse then they can have their white wedding and begin to enjoy legal sex.

You've spoken well sir, for me the father of the bride should have spoken to them in form of advice and not make it look like they are doing something illegal

To think that someone still has this kinda orientation in this century

to me if na igbo she must follow home that night cos after dat big money u go still dey keep my boi waiting?