NewStats: 3,259,681 , 8,170,689 topics. Date: Sunday, 25 May 2025 at 06:55 PM 61704r

jtjohn:
just applied now.

ok,let me apply too.

olutoscene:
This is not the 'now' picture of Unilorin's School Gate. #That one is like 4 years ago.

so changing the school gate is their top priority. Smh

TLAX:
I dont see any difference. Does changing a school gate mean the school has changed?

One of the irony of life
https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/3540149/irony-life

2SWT:
Old story

sorry ,guess Ure a victim

The irony of life
Let me just speak my mind...
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The most difficult time to be in a relationship as a guy is in your early twenties.

The period when you are stuck in a limbo, trying to figure out yourself and who you want to be.

At this age, you find it a herculean task asking money from your parents, considering your dad will always remind you of how he was self sufficient at your age.

So you are always left with anything that comes from them willingly.

To compound your "woes". You have a girlfriend whom you love so much, you are 24 and she is 23.

And guys being wired to want to take control, you are frustrated at your inability to take care of her like you want to.

I mean where is the money??

You are still jobless, still hustling, still finding your feet.

Still putting hands into many things hoping God smiles on you.

All of a sudden, she starts acting out and showing attitude.

You call, and she takes forever to pick or return your calls.

When she finally does pick, the call is like an interview session with those annoying and frustrating one word replies.

Yes, no, fine, okay, nothing.

Then finally she ends the call with a flimsy excuse like " wait let me close the fridge", i will call you back. And the call never comes back.

Then one day she calls you and askes you "where is this relationship heading to?.

You don't even know where your own life is heading to, not to talk of a relationship.

Then she drops the bombshell. Tells you that she met a guy who wants to marry her.

And how age isn't on her side, and you are almost compelled to scream "But you are just 23". Can't you wait 3 more years let me make it.

You just hold yourself and play the good guy
You ask her if she loves him, she dodges the question and replies you with " He treats me well".

Well since she wasn't informing you to take permission, she was simply telling you.

You have to be the cool guy and wish her well.

One week later, she gives you the traditional wedding card. And then you do the math yourself.

She was talking to the guy a long time before now.

Then you realise that for every "K" you got on WhatsApp, the guy was getting a long epistle.
You have been played.

Worse is you cant even blame her, you are just a prospect who no one knows what will become of your life in 4years time.

Would you have made it or not?

She has gone for the real deal, someone who has already made it.

In footballing , you are a "Anthony Martial" ( prospect) while the guy is a Messi ( has made it already).

I mean you were sending her cards of N200, and the guy was telling her to manage 10k for the weekend.

No comparison there.

And then you go through that silent heartbreak guys go through, the ones they don't talk about.

And unceremoniously you get inducted into the special hall of fame where are young guys whose childhood loves and friends or girlfriends they thought they would end up with left them to marry someone else.

Your heart is broken into smithereens.

In this hall of fame, you are all victims.

Victims of not having found your path in your early twenties.

At the wedding, no sight is more heartbreaking than seeing "the love of your life" say "I do" to this guy she just met 6 months ago.

To make matters worse, you get an alert from Diamond bank telling you how N13 have been deducted for bank charges. You are mad.
Your N4000, is down to N3987 rendering that N1k useless, you can only withdraw N3k now.
And that's your home and abroad.

Can life be more unfair at this moment?

6 years later.

You are 30 now.

Congratulations, you finally made it. You are as rich as you hoped you will become.

You are one of the happening guys in town.

You go to a wedding. With your friends, the men on suit.

Those guys that just intimidate everyone in the hall.

You are seated scouting the hall, and the bridal train es bye.

And you spot one, she is beautiful, elegant and tall.

You walk up to her, chat her up. Exchange numbers and you leave.

She is 24, ripe for marriage.

Three months later, you are sounding marriage to her ears.

She loves how it sounds.

You are on chat with her always.

And somewhere else, a 25year old boy still finding his way is wondering why the girlfriend is becoming distant these days.

Why is he getting those one worded replies which is unlike her.

Why do there chats seem more like interview.

And fast fast, you have proposed and simultaneously she is asking the 25year old boy that question of

"Where is this relationship going to".

And then you marry her, and somewhere a boy gets heart broken

The cycle goes on...

#IronyOf life
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Jephz:

my parent will always say.... I never date untill you are ready for marriage... and it has really help

Dating without the intention of marriage is like advertising something you are not selling.ask yourself this question, "why do your really want to date"

Get ur priorities right.

davodyguy:
[size=15pt]was he sleeping here?[/size]nairaland.unblockandhide.com/attachments/4521798_z3_jpgb5afa08c06a9d1dd923da767ba115916

did u see the floor of were he sat and the other side floor

Afonja's,always making headlines since 19BC.

lets hope for the best.

Dongreat:


I will be optimistic about it but in a case they act same as other failed projects then it will be another political suicide as we having forgot about the "Ogoni cleanup", and "N5000 stipend"

Dongreat:
I will like to thank the government for this as it's seems to bring smiles on the faces of few Nigerians which is good but to be truthful to ourselves, can this N-power be sustained for long (end of 2019), will salaries be paid in due time and no accumulation of unpaid dues, is this truly a way to benefit Nigerians and not some cheap political scores like "the Ogoni cleanup", will there be transparency and no embezzlement of the funds? All these are questions to be concerned with knowing the fact that any programme organized by any Nigeria government never last and is always mismanaged. I pray this will be different than others and sustained Longer.

well said bro,Nigeria government lack adequate continuity in project executions especially when there is change in government within a party or change in government from one party to another.

They are real.
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SEKEM SEKEM

Chelsea Fans on Ghost mode..

You'll Never walk alone.
Holding the game tight like its no man business.

If it is not REDYOU'RE ON A LONG THING.

Classcaptain1:
Bar man give efribodi one shot of Monkey tail..the bill is on me. Pogba Don score

youngberry001:
walahi i feel like dying when dis shiit happend to me.

and Yoruba friends will b like,I told you ,I told you

Tonyreal49:
Napoli over 1.5

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Its alright.

Anabel:
All these Hull City players are.confused o

Seriously, they need to learn.

The Federal Government said it will not succumb to agitations from some quarters to scrap the National Youth Service Corps scheme.
The Minister of Youth Development and Sports, Mr. Solomon Dalong, while speaking in Lagos during an inspection tour of the Lagos State NYSC orientation camp in the Iyana Ipaya area of the state said, the scheme had come to stay, adding that its merits outweighed its disadvantages.
The minister said, the scheme apart from enhancing the socio-cultural and ethnic integration in the country had also promoted national unity.

Watch this space.