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Hello everyone, I need your opinions on this issue that’s causing some interesting situation at home.

I’ve been working fully remote for two years now, taking care of the kids and managing the house after moving into a state in Nigeria from Lag. (I was hybrid before and go to Lag weekly before- not easy). Last Friday, my wife came back home from Lag - we stiĺl maintain our house there cos she works there , and everything just went upside down.


I stepped outside to take get somewhere, and she checked my phone (we’re recently being locking phones). She saw a pregnancy scan on my phone that mentioned something about “breech presentation.” The thing is, this scan isn’t mine! It belongs to my Farm worker’s wife. He showed it to me while talking about her condition, and I took a picture to keep it for him for hospital records and future reference. That’s all.

When my wife saw it, her mood changed instantly. She started asking me tough questions, but I gave vague answers cos I knew her tendedncy to have persismistic thoughts and conclusions. Haha! She concluded I got another woman pregnant. Before I knew it, she called my mum, then my dad. That same evening, my dad came over to comfort her. From his expression, it looked like he also thought I messed up. I just excused myself and left the room.

Now, my mum and dad have called me, saying they’re disappointed and telling me to repent from “adultery.” I got upset and told them I’m a grown man who can make my own choices, and I haven’t done anything wrong.

She informed all my in-laws and says my FIL is really angry.

The while situation has sent my wife into a spiral—she’s paranoid, heartbroken, and acting sick. She’s telling me to pay off this “woman,” block her, and never speak to her again. I told her I won’t do that cos the woman may have being her!

Right now, I’m just letting things sit to see how it plays out, but the tension between us is heavy. My wife is not herself, and my parents are treating me like I’ve sinned. She even acted up to the point She was prophesying my Downfall cos of my Adultery. Like in the spirit the 30 minutes straight. I just dey shake my head.

What's your opinion about this, I plan to keep it on for as long as I can withstand the drama.

Looking Younger and happier and Fotunately , She Married someone who would stay by her side

Godspeed

Lagos Government just finding ways to harrass and embarass everyone.

Thank God I'm currently out of that place.

How much is the screen

inoki247:
Lol na America go still Suffer am....


iPhone Lover say Cheese, JBL Lover say Cheese

Is China the one collecting the tarrif when you buy an IPhone?

Cos I don't understand how America is suffering

chipsypop:
America is fast becoming everything it accused Russia and China of being over the years. What happened to the ‘land of freedom’?

Only a fool doesn't understand that Freedom and Discipline go hand in hand.

Freedom that makes you end as a weakling, is that one freedom.

The way Men of today are so weak, even a 12 year old just protuding breast and bottom knows She can make most Men act like fools with thier uncontrolled sensual desires.

afrodoc2:


I can't lie to you. That your babe's body count can only be calculated using Geiger-Muller counter.

Not neccesarily.

I never had sex before marraige but was indulged in PORN

toboizilla:
Hi guys, My babe that i am making plans to settle with dey watch porn.

I have warned her on several occasions that this is not healthy for you, and she like to watch big d.ic.k and hard intimacy, which she is not new to.

I have adviced her decently but i still see it in her history, she even hides to watch it.

I don't think for a female to be addicted to this is activities is good, what do you guys think?

I was indulged in PORN before marriage and I actually thought marriage will fix it, I even confided in my spouse who ended up telling my Mum about it.

I felt betrayed. She used it to blackmail me even in Marriage.

It all depends on Her willingness to leave it.

Only a closer relationship with God can fix it for Her which is what is fixing it for me.

Currently my spouse hasn't been around for the past 3 weeks and God has been sustaining me.

It has more to do with Her than you.

It's something She has to deal with either in Marriage or Single.

Pray about it and see if you can take that Journey with Her, If not please Leave. Because you might end up bringing it up everytime you have issues.

On a flip side, It could be an advantage to your sexuality.

I just found out about this Car and currently deciding if I can get it on copart but found out the car isn't common (I haven't even seen one) in Nigeria. I have searched and searched but haven't found it here in Nigeria.

Getting the Car (Toyota Prius PHEV from 2012 to 2019) cos it's a Plugin Electric Hybrid and can run exclusively on battery.

I have read about it's reliability but can I bank on that fact to drive it in Nigeria.

What are the challenges of bringing in an uncommon Car like this?

Most I have seen on Copart are accidental, How does one get the body spare parts to fix when it arrives?
Due to the fixed costs(Logistics, Shipping, Clearing), Is it better to just get a clean title rather?
Also like how much should be the min and max budget?

Before you guys start jumping to Learn.

Just be informed that the Tech Bubble has bursted.

No Jobs out there again unlike Pre COVID Post COVID period.

Good

Get a Small one

oduncojamaica:
OEM or Check meter
I asked similar question on this platform,
Engr Topsy replied me with below

Thanks so much for this.

Yes we plan to separate the feeder cables.

Did you try it out?
Do you have any recommendations for the watt meter to buy?

This is now implemented

So unfortunate

Growsss1:
Insecurities is too much in this country

invest in charcoal business production and nationwide distribution, 35% return on investment per trip

Minimum investment is 1million naira for a full load of 911 truck goods

And 2.3 million for a full load of container truck

2-4 trip per month

Pls check my profile for details

Stop felling and burning trees please 🙏

CivilEngineer90:
hmmm don’t carry around this mindse because most of those workers are far better than you in kf archivement they just choose to play humble to secure the job bro. There are some clients I don’t drive to their site so they don’t feel intimidated and assume i charge so chill

I warn everyone in this thread to be careful while dealing with this Guy.

A word is enough for the wise.

Does anyone have the number of a professional tiler in Ibadan?

Also, how much per square metre?

folmus:


Amoula PVC seems to be your sure bet. They have been around. They have office in Lagos.

Thanks
Their office location please?
and any number?

Please House where can I get original ceiling PVC in Lagos here.

Also at Ibadan

ANy leads?

CivilEngineer90:
DO YOU REALLY THINK UNZEND CAN ACTUALLY BEAT ME TO MY OWN GAME

If he doesn't credit me he won't get the real drawing with the updated bar calling out

If he checks the drawing it's just 3-16mm both top and bottom , who does that .. the areas needing 20mm I didn't put it. He even asked for an open roof terraced at the top of the building, I did it on the second drawing which is not on the one I sent
So it's a WIN-WIN

He even wanted a staircase outside the building but the one he has is the first one with the staircase inside and the dinning mirrored on the wrong side hahahaha

I will love to watch unzend beg

The drawings are correct though but it isn't the revised one

Its gotten to a stage where I think I should have pity on you.

Likely Life has hit you left , right and center, then you are using the aggression on innocent me who mean you no harm.

Not everyone who has had bad times turned out to be as paranoid as you are.

CivilEngineer90:
okay. I urge you to create a thread and post updates of the construction here. Unless you pay me my money that building will be on paper alone, it will never see the light of day. I am cursing you confidently because I and so Certain that the curses will affect you because I know the work in put in to get your document ready. Any Structural Engineer here knows the pains to create a single structural analysis and that's what you are playing with me for? RIP in advance

Say worse things than this.

I am covered by the Blood of Jesus.

Every negative thing you say is of the Devil and can have no effect on me.

CivilEngineer90:
Whenever anyone searches your phone number they will see what you are and the kind of human being you are. Nairaland has a way of ruining someones life. Yours is ruined here already, whoever comes her will see that drawings were delivered but your, you refused to pay for work delivered to you.

At least your face is also here.

CivilEngineer90:
You wanted to spoil my reputation here but ended up spoiling yours. Everyone has seen the kind of person you are , you can see no one is even siding you anymore they are just looking at you now. They are even wondering if something is wrong with your head.

Say whatever you wish.

I'll say again that your character is robbing you of a great future.

GloriousGbola:


Client matter dey taya me

Now now now

Urgent urgent urgent

When time to pay radio silence and different stories.

And this also applies to larger entities.

I never told him that I needed it delivered with sleepless nights.

I asked him to take it easy. The land has been there for more than 5 years. I am not running anywhere , just taking a step at a time.

No engineer can force me to rush it.

I am not using stolen money, its my sweat

CivilEngineer90:
okay. I urge you to create a thread and post updates of the construction here. Unless you pay me my money that building will be on paper alone, it will never see the light of day. I am cursing you confidently because I and so Certain that the curses will affect you because I know the work in put in to get your document ready. Any Structural Engineer here knows the pains to create a single structural analysis and that's what you are playing with me for? RIP in advance

Expect every evil thing you say to come upon your head instead.

GloriousGbola:


There is nothing you are doing I haven't seen or experienced before. Your peer review if you want to call it that will be the approval by lasg.

The energy you had in pursuing him to complete the design should d be the same energy to pay him.

But it is never like that.

I already said if I get another review approval now, I'll pay him now.

I also sweat to make money, not pluck if from trees.

CivilEngineer90:
you are not willing to pay that money, you are a very dishonest person and a liar. That drawing I sent to you that is just 1.78mb if only you know what it took me to create those drawings, those Designs it the bloodline of that building you want to construct but you think is it something that you can just play around with. I'm a twin, you are playing with yourself but you don't know. Unless I didn't sweat and stay up all night for that drawing but if I ever put in affort for that drawing you will never build anything in your life even the ones you have built you will loose them all. It is my effort and sweat you are playing with here, it is my life work you are taking as a joke. Don't worry those hyping you here won't be with you when it will happen.

I am a true child of God. I dont fear your curses.

I am covered by the blood of Jesus.

CivilEngineer90:
I will reach you sir, I also don't talk about Structural issues here I just talk on Architectural only. I already have an idea the questions you want to ask sir I will gladly answer then just be ready to laugh your lungs out.

I will unblock you now.

You can create a whatsapp group with three of us

ChrisPrimeProp:


The service provider is a Structural Engineer. And I read somewhere he said the architectural drawings were included since there couldn't be Structural drawings without Architectural and that is true.
Before we judge, we should ensure we understand from both parties what deliverables were earlier agreed on. Reason I always encourage professionals to have written agreements even if your client is your mother.
Talking of "Architect seal", that comes with a price. Are you sure the structural drawings will even be sealed.
I read the drawings are for "construction" and not "approval" . While I do not know how this "short-cut" will work, considering it's a multi-floor building, I think @unzend needs to tell us what was agreed as work scope.

The deliverables are both Architectural and Structural drawings.

And also that the work will be peer reviewed before the final 75K is paid.

I am just understanding the approval bit but I guess the drawings should be used for that also.

Thanks