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toboizilla:
Hi guys, My babe that i am making plans to settle with dey watch porn.

I have warned her on several occasions that this is not healthy for you, and she like to watch big d.ic.k and hard intimacy, which she is not new to.

I have adviced her decently but i still see it in her history, she even hides to watch it.

I don't think for a female to be addicted to this is activities is good, what do you guys think?

Your concern is understandable, and it's great that you're thinking critically about the potential impact of pornography on your partner.

Potential Effects of Pornography on Individuals
1. Desensitization: Regular consumption of pornography can lead to desensitization, making it more challenging to become aroused by real-life sexual experiences.
2. Unrealistic Expectations: Pornography often portrays unrealistic and idealized sexual scenarios, which can create unrealistic expectations and potentially lead to disappointment or dissatisfaction in real-life relationships.
3. Impact on Relationships: Excessive pornography consumption can negatively impact relationships, leading to feelings of insecurity, mistrust, and intimacy issues.
4. Addiction: For some individuals, pornography can be addictive, leading to compulsive behavior and negative consequences on mental and emotional well-being.

Addressing the Issue with Your Partner
1. Open Communication: Have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your concerns. Avoid being judgmental or accusatory, as this may lead to defensiveness.
2. Understand the Reasons: Try to understand why your partner is drawn to pornography. Is it due to curiosity, boredom, or other underlying issues?
3. Seek Professional Help: If your partner's pornography consumption is causing problems in your relationship or if you suspect addiction, consider seeking the help of a therapist or counselor.
4. Set Boundaries: Discuss and establish boundaries regarding pornography consumption in your relationship.

Considerations Specific to Your Situation
1. Respect and Trust: It's essential to respect your partner's autonomy while also addressing your concerns. Trust is a vital component of any relationship, and it's crucial to work together to establish and maintain trust.
2. Communication and Compromise: Be willing to listen to your partner's perspective and work together to find a compromise that respects both of your needs and boundaries.

Ultimately, it's essential to approach this conversation with empathy, understanding, and an open mind. By working together and addressing the issue in a constructive manner, you can strengthen your relationship and build a healthier, more fulfilling connection.

toboizilla:
Hi guys, My babe that i am making plans to settle with dey watch porn.

I have warned her on several occasions that this is not healthy for you, and she like to watch big d.ic.k and hard intimacy, which she is not new to.

I have adviced her decently but i still see it in her history, she even hides to watch it.

I don't think for a female to be addicted to this is activities is good, what do you guys think?

I was indulged in PORN before marriage and I actually thought marriage will fix it, I even confided in my spouse who ended up telling my Mum about it.

I felt betrayed. She used it to blackmail me even in Marriage.

It all depends on Her willingness to leave it.

Only a closer relationship with God can fix it for Her which is what is fixing it for me.

Currently my spouse hasn't been around for the past 3 weeks and God has been sustaining me.

It has more to do with Her than you.

It's something She has to deal with either in Marriage or Single.

Pray about it and see if you can take that Journey with Her, If not please Leave. Because you might end up bringing it up everytime you have issues.

On a flip side, It could be an advantage to your sexuality.

toboizilla:
Hi guys, My babe that i am making plans to settle with dey watch porn.

I have warned her on several occasions that this is not healthy for you, and she like to watch big d.ic.k and hard intimacy, which she is not new to.

I have adviced her decently but i still see it in her history, she even hides to watch it.

I don't think for a female to be addicted to this is activities is good, what do you guys think?

I can't lie to you. That your babe's body count can only be calculated using Geiger-Muller counter.

afrodoc2:


I can't lie to you. That your babe's body count can only be calculated using Geiger-Muller counter.

Not neccesarily.

I never had sex before marraige but was indulged in PORN

toboizilla:
Hi guys, My babe that i am making plans to settle with dey watch porn.

I have warned her on several occasions that this is not healthy for you, and she like to watch big d.ic.k and hard intimacy, which she is not new to.

I have adviced her decently but i still see it in her history, she even hides to watch it.

I don't think for a female to be addicted to this is activities is good, what do you guys think?

Confirm craze dey worry you. For all the woman wey dey this world, naa Olosho you wan settle with.

I don't think someone like that is marriage material she may be fun for dating but definitely not for marriage

dynicks:
oh lawd!!.....now it becomes scary!

Many people don dey mental for this country na only say Nigeria never get facility to put them.

toboizilla:
Hi guys, My babe that i am making plans to settle with dey watch porn.

I have warned her on several occasions that this is not healthy for you, and she like to watch big d.ic.k and hard intimacy, which she is not new to.

I have adviced her decently but i still see it in her history, she even hides to watch it.

I don't think for a female to be addicted to this is activities is good, what do you guys think?

You are not big and hard enough for her and not compatible so she has to look for alternative. Warning a lady will never change her but changing her to get another lady that is compatible with you and allowing her find her own compatibility is the answer.

toboizilla:
Hi guys, My babe that i am making plans to settle with dey watch porn.

I have warned her on several occasions that this is not healthy for you, and she like to watch big d.ic.k and hard intimacy, which she is not new to.

I have adviced her decently but i still see it in her history, she even hides to watch it.

I don't think for a female to be addicted to this is activities is good, what do you guys think?

She will cheat on you as a wife.

Makunahatata:
Oga!.. enjoy your p*rnstar , still way better than dose ones wey u go put only d tip, and heaven go wan fall[b]...sex days go get calendar like appointment.[/b]😒

😆 🤣

Let her tell you about her growing up

toboizilla:
Hi guys, My babe that i am making plans to settle with dey watch porn.

I have warned her on several occasions that this is not healthy for you, and she like to watch big d.ic.k and hard intimacy, which she is not new to.

I have adviced her decently but i still see it in her history, she even hides to watch it.

I don't think for a female to be addicted to this is activities is good, what do you guys think?

Any kind of addiction is bad, regardless of the gender of the addicted.

spencekat:
What are you going to deliver her with?

give her more porn sites hahaha

Oga put up with it or move on. So you think because you advice her not to watch porn she will stop?

Before I advise you I would like you to answer this simple question?
Have she started watching porn before you met her or she just developed the addiction after you met her?

It's hard to fight any form of addiction, it's either you accept her like that or you let her go...

Namaster:
You have a NYMPHOMANIAC with rape fantasies.

Use her for sex if you want but NEVER date or marry her.

Discard the idea that she's "your babe".

She cannot be your babe UNLESS you like washing a public toilet that your ENTIRE community shiits in.

Girl is a BOOTY call and NOTHING more.

Oga stop being too judgemental and mean. What do you mean he should use her for sex and then dump her. If she's your sister will you advise the same thing. That she's addicted to porn doesn't make her a bad person. Not saying porn is good but even you might be a worse human than the person you're trying to conderm like this.

The truth is most ladies watch adult movies, and have extreme fantasy. As time goes on, she will let go of this act. Don't be her preacher.

Joybeau:
Before I advise you I would like you to answer this simple question?
Have she started watching porn before you met her or she just developed the addiction after you met her?

How would he know this, even if he asked, there's no way he can confirm if what being told is true or not...

Hopebringer:
Must you bring this here? Man without any self-respect! She goofed by dating someone like you

This is a faceless forum man. Allow people post what they want to post.

toboizilla:
Hi guys, My babe that i am making plans to settle with dey watch porn.

I have warned her on several occasions that this is not healthy for you, and she like to watch big d.ic.k and hard intimacy, which she is not new to.

I have adviced her decently but i still see it in her history, she even hides to watch it.

I don't think for a female to be addicted to this is activities is good, what do you guys think?

Dude, wake up. Women watch porn. In some place, even more than men.

I wonder why is surprises you. Are they not human beings? I have never understood why people watch porn, but I'm not fixated on gender. It's like punishing yourself watching others do it.

You should sit down with her and ask why she does it. Ask what she gains from it and if she pleasures herself using it.

A lot of women are looking for a big dickus, whether they watch porn or not.

toboizilla:
Hi guys, My babe that i am making plans to settle with dey watch porn.

I have warned her on several occasions that this is not healthy for you, and she like to watch big d.ic.k and hard intimacy, which she is not new to.

I have adviced her decently but i still see it in her history, she even hides to watch it.

I don't think for a female to be addicted to this is activities is good, what do you guys think?

If that woman is good in other aspects I don't think being addicted to porn alone is enough reason why you shouldn't marry her. Wetin be porn self Who even holy .. not even you is without sin/addiction Sir. So please consider your fellow human with your own deficiencies

Namaster:
You have a NYMPHOMANIAC with rape fantasies.

Use her for sex if you want but NEVER date or marry her.

Discard the idea that she's "your babe".

She cannot be your babe UNLESS you like washing a public toilet that your ENTIRE community shiits in.

Girl is a BOOTY call and NOTHING more.

Wrong!
She might just be a simple reserved girl who's been struggling with this addiction. Men also struggle with several addictions and that doesn't make us freak.

She's just used to sex chatting and masturbating from probably previous long relationships.......open her whatsapp chats, search for certain key words like sx, dk, c*m, b**bs, you will be surprised at how many guys she sex chats and probably sends nudes to... my advice is for u to investigate well before u hook yourself for well

toboizilla:
Hi guys, My babe that i am making plans to settle with dey watch porn.

I have warned her on several occasions that this is not healthy for you, and she like to watch big d.ic.k and hard intimacy, which she is not new to.

I have adviced her decently but i still see it in her history, she even hides to watch it.

I don't think for a female to be addicted to this is activities is good, what do you guys think?

Dude, wake up. Women watch porn. In some places, even more than men.

I wonder why it surprises you. Are they not human beings? I have never understood why people watch porn, but I'm not fixated on gender. It's like punishing yourself watching others do it.

You should sit down with her and ask why she does it. Ask what she gains from it and if she pleasures herself using it. Then find a way forward.

What if the next babe you meet has already sampled 300 big dickuses instead of merely watching? She won't write it on her forehead.

A lot of women are looking for a big dickus, whether they watch porn or not. In the same way an average guy would like an "elusive" tight pvssy.

Artesunark:

This is a faceless forum man. Allow people post what they want to post.

Since you are senseless why don't you post your nudes then? After all this is is a faceless forum .

Dunce.

1. Fake story.

2. Who cares? What’s good for the goose is good for the gander. No be una dey talk am here? Una talk dey select?

Hopebringer:


Since you are senseless why don't you post your nudes then? After all this is is a faceless forum .

Dunce.

Ok bro.

toboizilla:
Hi guys, My babe that i am making plans to settle with dey watch porn.

I have warned her on several occasions that this is not healthy for you, and she like to watch big d.ic.k and hard intimacy, which she is not new to.

I have adviced her decently but i still see it in her history, she even hides to watch it.

I don't think for a female to be addicted to this is activities is good, what do you guys think?

Are u saying it's ok for males?

toboizilla:
Hi guys, My babe that i am making plans to settle with dey watch porn.

I have warned her on several occasions that this is not healthy for you, and she like to watch big d.ic.k and hard intimacy, which she is not new to.

I have adviced her decently but i still see it in her history, she even hides to watch it.

I don't think for a female to be addicted to this is activities is good, what do you guys think?

Are you talking about the same girl below, from five months ago

toboizilla:
I have been with this my Girl friend Name XYZ, for a year and half. She is in her third year in school. I love everything about her.

I see prospect and she is a girl i will like to spend the rest of my life with. XYZ is still 19, she has a promising character, she always says she will. change when she does wrong. She is intelligent and smart. She is a good cook and is homely. She does demand or ask me for money, na me they give her and i do it without stress because i have it
I am made Tech Bro and am ready to settle down, she is graduating next year, so my eyes are on her.

However, The thing i detest about her is that she is has an eye for promiscuity. She likes fashion and does it in a style that is against my believe.
She sees no problem with wearing leg chains, waist beeds and all her paintings. For me, i just want her to be desent in it, and that is where our problems started. When she was in Year 1, I couldn't attend her matric because all of this. She does it and go to the extreme, but when confronted, she is always sobber and apologizes, but she obviously still goes back to them.

Lets focus on the one that happened recently
After a fight, which her mum settled, She sent me a picture of her close friend which she used as her Lock screen. Her friend was bent in a sexy doggy style bikini attire and i asked her why she used the picture as her lock screen and she said its because she liked it.
Na there I come tire for this girl. She has been pleading but I am feeling she has corrupted her ways.
I take many hours to talk to this girl about prostitution and corruption but it seems they are all falling on deaf ears.
She takes delight in tweaking, making videos of her tweaking or dancing, and all of this but I dont know.
She has changed alot compared to what she was. This is true.
but
if she is pretending?
If she is wasting my time?
If I should break up?
If i should take a break?
Any time i talk about break up, she crys and promise to change but she conitnues to go back, to another style and this is seriously affecting me.
I love this girl but I am really confused

clarion30:
There's a high chance that she masturbates too. If you can't tolerate it, please leave because itll be very hard for her to stop it.

with huge cucumber