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How Do You Feel About Your Fiancée If She Frequently Watches Porn? (29238 Views)
Oyindamolah: 1:01pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
toboizilla:Your concern is understandable, and it's great that you're thinking critically about the potential impact of pornography on your partner. Potential Effects of Pornography on Individuals 1. Desensitization: Regular consumption of pornography can lead to desensitization, making it more challenging to become aroused by real-life sexual experiences. 2. Unrealistic Expectations: Pornography often portrays unrealistic and idealized sexual scenarios, which can create unrealistic expectations and potentially lead to disappointment or dissatisfaction in real-life relationships. 3. Impact on Relationships: Excessive pornography consumption can negatively impact relationships, leading to feelings of insecurity, mistrust, and intimacy issues. 4. Addiction: For some individuals, pornography can be addictive, leading to compulsive behavior and negative consequences on mental and emotional well-being. Addressing the Issue with Your Partner 1. Open Communication: Have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your concerns. Avoid being judgmental or accusatory, as this may lead to defensiveness. 2. Understand the Reasons: Try to understand why your partner is drawn to pornography. Is it due to curiosity, boredom, or other underlying issues? 3. Seek Professional Help: If your partner's pornography consumption is causing problems in your relationship or if you suspect addiction, consider seeking the help of a therapist or counselor. 4. Set Boundaries: Discuss and establish boundaries regarding pornography consumption in your relationship. Considerations Specific to Your Situation 1. Respect and Trust: It's essential to respect your partner's autonomy while also addressing your concerns. Trust is a vital component of any relationship, and it's crucial to work together to establish and maintain trust. 2. Communication and Compromise: Be willing to listen to your partner's perspective and work together to find a compromise that respects both of your needs and boundaries. Ultimately, it's essential to approach this conversation with empathy, understanding, and an open mind. By working together and addressing the issue in a constructive manner, you can strengthen your relationship and build a healthier, more fulfilling connection. |
unzend: 1:04pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
toboizilla: I was indulged in PORN before marriage and I actually thought marriage will fix it, I even confided in my spouse who ended up telling my Mum about it. I felt betrayed. She used it to blackmail me even in Marriage. It all depends on Her willingness to leave it. Only a closer relationship with God can fix it for Her which is what is fixing it for me. Currently my spouse hasn't been around for the past 3 weeks and God has been sustaining me. It has more to do with Her than you. It's something She has to deal with either in Marriage or Single. Pray about it and see if you can take that Journey with Her, If not please Leave. Because you might end up bringing it up everytime you have issues. On a flip side, It could be an advantage to your sexuality. 5 Likes |
afrodoc2: 1:06pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
toboizilla: I can't lie to you. That your babe's body count can only be calculated using Geiger-Muller counter. ![]() 3 Likes |
Matrix13790(m): 1:07pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
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unzend: 1:07pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
afrodoc2: Not neccesarily. I never had sex before marraige but was indulged in PORN 5 Likes |
Lordbinsmar: 1:08pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
toboizilla: Confirm craze dey worry you. For all the woman wey dey this world, naa Olosho you wan settle with. ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Marc3500: 1:09pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
I don't think someone like that is marriage material she may be fun for dating but definitely not for marriage
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almarthins(m): 1:10pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
dynicks: ![]() ![]() Many people don dey mental for this country na only say Nigeria never get facility to put them. |
akanbiaa(m): 1:12pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
toboizilla:You are not big and hard enough for her and not compatible so she has to look for alternative. Warning a lady will never change her but changing her to get another lady that is compatible with you and allowing her find her own compatibility is the answer. |
lomprico(m): 1:29pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
toboizilla: She will cheat on you as a wife. |
sylve11: 1:30pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
Makunahatata: 😆 🤣 ![]() |
tasceige(m): 1:33pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
Let her tell you about her growing up
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Ishilove: 1:34pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
toboizilla:Any kind of addiction is bad, regardless of the gender of the addicted. |
004gist: 1:34pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
nedekid: 1:35pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
Oga put up with it or move on. So you think because you advice her not to watch porn she will stop?
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Joybeau: 1:38pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
Before I advise you I would like you to answer this simple question? Have she started watching porn before you met her or she just developed the addiction after you met her? |
Shimmaa: 1:40pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
It's hard to fight any form of addiction, it's either you accept her like that or you let her go...
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Nicoddemus(m): 1:41pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
Namaster:Oga stop being too judgemental and mean. What do you mean he should use her for sex and then dump her. If she's your sister will you advise the same thing. That she's addicted to porn doesn't make her a bad person. Not saying porn is good but even you might be a worse human than the person you're trying to conderm like this. 1 Like |
biggie73(m): 1:41pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
The truth is most ladies watch adult movies, and have extreme fantasy. As time goes on, she will let go of this act. Don't be her preacher.
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Shimmaa: 1:41pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
Joybeau: How would he know this, even if he asked, there's no way he can confirm if what being told is true or not... |
Artesunark: 1:42pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
Hopebringer:This is a faceless forum man. Allow people post what they want to post. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Dancebreaker: 1:43pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
toboizilla:Dude, wake up. Women watch porn. In some place, even more than men. I wonder why is surprises you. Are they not human beings? I have never understood why people watch porn, but I'm not fixated on gender. It's like punishing yourself watching others do it. You should sit down with her and ask why she does it. Ask what she gains from it and if she pleasures herself using it. A lot of women are looking for a big dickus, whether they watch porn or not. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Nicoddemus(m): 1:44pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
toboizilla: If that woman is good in other aspects I don't think being addicted to porn alone is enough reason why you shouldn't marry her. Wetin be porn self ![]() ![]() |
Nlandmodesfku: 1:45pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
Namaster:Wrong! She might just be a simple reserved girl who's been struggling with this addiction. Men also struggle with several addictions and that doesn't make us freak. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Discreet90: 1:47pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
She's just used to sex chatting and masturbating from probably previous long relationships.......open her whatsapp chats, search for certain key words like sx, dk, c*m, b**bs, you will be surprised at how many guys she sex chats and probably sends nudes to... my advice is for u to investigate well before u hook yourself for well
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Dancebreaker: 1:47pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
toboizilla:Dude, wake up. Women watch porn. In some places, even more than men. I wonder why it surprises you. Are they not human beings? I have never understood why people watch porn, but I'm not fixated on gender. It's like punishing yourself watching others do it. You should sit down with her and ask why she does it. Ask what she gains from it and if she pleasures herself using it. Then find a way forward. What if the next babe you meet has already sampled 300 big dickuses instead of merely watching? She won't write it on her forehead. A lot of women are looking for a big dickus, whether they watch porn or not. In the same way an average guy would like an "elusive" tight pvssy. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Hopebringer: 1:49pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
Artesunark: Since you are senseless why don't you post your nudes then? After all this is is a faceless forum . Dunce. |
meobizy(f): 1:50pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
1. Fake story. 2. Who cares? What’s good for the goose is good for the gander. No be una dey talk am here? Una talk dey select? |
Artesunark: 1:51pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
Hopebringer:Ok bro. 1 Like |
Ubdavis(m): 1:54pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
toboizilla: Are u saying it's ok for males? |
anonimi: 1:54pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
toboizilla: Are you talking about the same girl below, from five months ago ![]() toboizilla: 1 Like |
Pootle: 1:54pm On Dec 18, 2024 |
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