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The use of drugs which is frowned upon by many societies has been discovered to be prevalent in secondary schools students in sountwestern part of Nigeria, as discovered by Bowen University researchers.

Ajibola Idowu et al., research work was recently published in African Health Sciences Journal.

The study was conducted using data collected from 249 students sampled from two secondary schools in Ogbomoso Nigeria. The two schools: Anglican and Ori-Oke Grammar schools are public secondary schools in Oyo State.

The respondents claimed the use of Tramadol enhance their intellectual capacities — a favoring factor to lure them into taking the drugs.

As stated by the researchers: “Tramadol was the most commonly abused substance; reported by 39.0% of the drug abs. Most (35.5%) of the drug abs did so to enhance their intellectual capacities.”

As deduced from the study, the use of these drugs is indepedent of the students religion, parent(s) educational background, and sex. In fact, most of the students discovered to actively use the drugs are Christians and also have both of their parents alive, with most parents well educated up to tertiary level.

These adolescents aged betweeen 14 and 20 years old used the drugs most during their middle and late adolescent. And most of these students eventhough they have experienced and are still using these drugs, consume lesser alcohol; most of them testified to drinking of palmwine.

“Apart from alcohol abuse, tramadol was the most commonly abused substance in the current study,” the researchers affirmed.

The research confirms only 54 out of the total 248 students surveyed to have ever tasted alcohol.

“Almost a quarter (21.7%) of our respondents had ever consumed alcohol containing drinks. Previous studies have implicated alcohol as one of the most commonly abused substances among Nigerian youths,” the researchers observed.

Source: https://webhealth.com.ng/nigerian-secondary-school-students-actively-use-tramadol-to-boost-brain/

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Women face different diseases and clinical conditions during pregnancy. Ectopic pregnancy is one of the most common clinical conditions which could endanger a pregnant patient’s life. If not well handled, it can make its victim unable to conceive again ― at least naturally ― following an untreated fallopian tube rupture and likely death (maternal mortality).

Ectopic pregnancy is the implantation of a fertilized ovum (egg) outside the uterus and has an approximate incidence of 1.5–2.0 per cent in all pregnancies. Fertilised egg instead of moving down to the uterus to continue its growth remains instead in the fallopian tube of the intending mother. The incidence of ectopic pregnacy has significantly increased in invitro fertilisation.

Predisposing factors to ectopic pregnancy include early age of sexual intercourse, increasing maternal age, multiple sexual partners, pelvic infections, history of infertility and use of fertility drugs, previous ectopic pregnancies, and previous pelvic surgeries.

Diagnosing of ectopic pregnancy in developing countries has been facing a lot of challenges especially due to unavailability or partial availability of required equipment such as Doppler ultrasound machine. The death rate resulting from this disease has considerably declined due to more awareness and vigilance. Buty in rare cases of heterotopic pregnancy lesser alertness has been observed. Specialist have always been considerate of the intrauterine pregnancy ignoring the possibilities of ectopic pregnancy.

Patients with possibilities of multiple fertilisation especially if fertilisation is through assisted reproductive technology such as invitro fertilisation or has a family history of twinning are encouraged to ensure their doctor recommends appropriate imaging techniques and diagnoses to check for probable threat.

Tubal rupture is a common occurrence in ectopic pregnancies when not detected and attended to earlier. It is a significant cause of maternal mortality.

Women with early pregnancy complications are advise to with Early Pregnancy Assessment Units (EPAUs) which offers rapid and definitive ultrasonographic and biochemical assessment which helps in early detection of complications.

https://webhealth.com.ng/2018/05/29/ectopic-pregnancy-ivf-might-endanger-your-life/

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The desire to procreate is one of the innate desire of man; it is the primary reason why most – if not all human get married. And as well programmed by nature, this desire should be easily fulfilled as the inhalation of oxygen. However, most couples find it incredibly difficult to conceive and are therefore denied the joy of parenthood for so long that who is at fault results in a hullabaloo between the partners’ family.

Infertility is a term used to describe the inability to conceive after six to twelve months of having unprotected sex due to various reasons which will be explored later on. This definition is arbitrary; very fertile couples conceive within the first few cycles and others make it just within the twelve cycles. The case of infertility must be based on accurate assessment of fertility in both partners, so clinical examinations and investigations must be designed based on this notion.

Infertility is a disease a lot of marriages suffer from and never consider seeing a doctor for its treatment; instead, they subscribe to having a lot of family meetings to discuss the number of times the wife has aborted and the number of children the husband has denied – believed to be the cause. If eating assorted concoction and sacrificing to gods is not the solution to infertility; then what is? This article is aimed at exploring the causes, treatments, implications and the effects of infertility on the emotional, social and sexuality of the victims.

Two important elements are important when taking a history, the age of the woman, and the duration of infertility. Fecundity in women decreases after the age of 30 years and infertility accelerates after the age of 35 years.

The above observation is ed by years of accumulated data from IVF (In Vitro Fertilization) reports; which shows that the pregnancy rate per single embryo transfer with natural cycle in in-vitro fertilization (IVF) is 17% for women younger than 30years, 13% for those between 31-35 years, and 11% for those between 36-40 years (ID Cooke, Jessop Hospital for women UK).

Infertility is a global health issue affecting approximately 8-10% of couples. It is a multidimensional problem with economic, social and cultural implications. Globally, this means 50-80 million people are facing the problem.

https://webhealth.com.ng/2018/05/20/handling-infertility-procreation-tips/

Source: www.webhealth.com.ng

Do this if you experience erection at sleep

It is one thing to be unable to experience a full erection before sex (erectile dysfunction) and it is another thing ejaculate within few minutes of sex (premature ejaculation) ― what about an erection during sleep accompanied with pain.

Sleep-Related Painful Erection (SRPE) is a rare disorder characterised by recurrent painful nocturnal erections during Rapid Eyes Movement (REM) stage of sleep. No pain is experienced during daytime erections. But sufferers experience erections accompanied with pain at sleep.

*Rapid Eyes Movement (REM) is a type/stage of sleep experienced within the first 90 minutes of falling asleep. It s for about 20 to 25 per cent of an adult’s sleep cycle, and over 50 per cent of an infant’s. Most dreams occur during REM sleep, and it is thought to play a role in learning, memory, and mood.

Someone suffering from Sleep-Erection (SRPE) will not normally experience pain from erections that occur during the day or during sexual activity. Instead, pain occurs primarily during REM sleep and will often lead to nighttime awakenings, resulting in fragmented sleep and the potential development of chronic insomnia.

Approximately 35 cases of Sleep-Erection have been reported in the literature and none of them is associated with preceding sexual intercourse.

Causes and probable treatments of Sleep-Related Painful Erection

The main cause and treatment of SRPE have not been scientifically validated. One study revealed that Sleep Related Erections (SRE) in the 1930s was first identified to take place in cycles. It was described that the erection occurs every night, approximately 85 minutes, and lasts approximately 25 minutes as a Rapid Eye Movement (REM) sleep follows the same cyclical pattern.

In a case report research, a 65-year-old technician who was a “matinee idol” with many sexual relationships all his adult life, although he had wife and children awakes with torturing penile pain during night-time erections which started at the age of 55 years ― the pain gradually increased and the frequency of unpleasant erections increased to 3–5 per night.

The penile pain was reported to spread over the lower body. And as soon as he was fully awake, erection and pain disappeared together; in later years, however, the pain persisted. To get rid of pains he increased sexual activity, but with no success.

Source: www.webhealth.com.ng

Gender equality is like a log being tried to balance on a pin - the best description of how our society treats ladies compare to men. Gender equality appears as battle with no 'very soon' possibility of winning. It makes me sad when I hear the female being referred to as 'the endangered specie'.
Our society taught us that men are stronger, wiser and helpful, not because of any obvious reason(s) but because of beliefs like women are too emotional and less rational. And the same society has forgotten that the reason why a man is less emotional is because he was made to believe such. As a man, he shouldn’t cry and show emotions, he is expected to carry all the weight and forge ahead like nothing is happening, and this does nothing but build up frustration in a man, because, piling up issues doesn’t help. At the end of the day, the women are more emotional because they let their feelings out the moment they get them.
Should we go down to gender difference? A woman goes through monthly pain during her menstrual period, experiences serious pain during child birth and still comes out bouncing and refreshed (men don’t have to go through this) they only worry about getting a career and good pay to house a wife and father children. So if you are not going to respect a woman for her brain and beauty, how about her role in your life as a mother, wife and a shoulder to lean on after long days of work; and the children's ultimate teacher. Why do you think majority of children always feel closer their mother? Because that is the constant figure in their lives, and this shouldn’t be overlooked.

Females are not weaker assets, but this can’t be proven if we don’t teach our ladies to stop looking down on themselves. The society has created an idea of ladies been weaker, but if you look at yourself beyond what the society says, then that will be the first step in proving them wrong.
It is so spurious and disheartening that even in this 21st century, there are still some ladies who think marriage is all there is to life, they are going to school just to satisfy their parents and at the back of their mind they are waiting for that rich man to descend from heaven and marry them. It is so wonderful to be addressed as Mrs. Bus the wife of Ondo state governor, but I think it would have been more wonderful to be addressed as Mrs. Bus the wife of Ondo state governor, the owner and managing director of a very big company instead of hiding and burying our talent and capability under a man’s fame or post.





Why would you go to school, grow up in this competitive society and wish to be nothing more than someone’s wife? That is why most ladies get disrespected. Why would you expect him to treat you well if all you do is sit at home like a piece of furniture; you don’t work or bring anything to the table and you want him to treat you like a queen? You should know you would be treated like that piece of furniture. In fact , furnitures are treated more nicely than some ladies, because you can’t start using furnitures or turn then to your own without paying for it, and probably after paying for it you would know how to maintain it well. But it is otherwise in most ladies case because even before the guy propose to them or pay their bride price, they've already started living a couples life in school, helping the guy with all his house chores and satisfying him regularly with sex. This is so absurd and annoying, ladies should please stop it.
Hmmmm! Someone is misquoting me out there already, I never said having a boyfriend in school is bad , but at least set your values and standard, let him know your worth and don’t let the relationship affect your education and career.
Your parents are not sending you to school just to have fun and steals a man’s surname. If that was all they wanted for you they won’t be going through the troubles to make sure you get an education. Don’t let their dreams for you be nothing but mere dreams because they deserves more than that.
In as much as you are aspiring to be a wife, aspire to get a career, bring home something and contribute to your marriage, don’t just be a sex machine and child producing factory.
Depending on a man is old fashioned, the new era where women are powerful and self-sustaining.

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Prof. Wole Soyinka has confirmed he will be tearing his green card as promised on Trump's swearing-in day. FutureImpossibleTense

Dark triad, a subject in psychology that deals with three personality traits: Machiavellianism, Narcissm, and Psychopathy (Wikipedia) will need to adopt a new brother. The dark implies that people possessing these traits have malevolent qualities. In case you do not know, malevolent is wishing harm on others, while benevolent is wishing good on others.

The term Machiavellianism and Narcissm was coined from two individauls first thought or observed to possess these characteristics respectively.
Machiavellianism is the employment of cunning and duplicity in statescraft or in general conduct (Oxford English Dictionary).
Nicollo Machiavelli an Italian renaissance diplomat and writer published 'IL PRINCIPE' translated 'THE PRINCE' in 1532; a book which is the first printed course on Political tricks and Manual for the Con-Men.
Narcissm was also coined from Narcissus - Greek mythology in which a young man fell in love with his own reflection in a pool of water. It was popularised by Sigmund Freud in 1914.

I tend to wonder how many of our Politicians possess Machiavellianism trait - a lot you will agree with me. Population of our 'think they are beautiful' ladies and guys that possess Narcissm trait - many you will reply. I am afraid to tell you there is another dark trait called 'TRUMPISM'; which will make dark triad change name to 'dark quadrant': Machiavellism, Narcissm, Psychopathy, and Trumpism.

Trumpism is the expression of oneself without empathy. A condition in which the speaker does not choose his/her words carefully; he/she speaks to defend his/her cause only (my defination).

The first person to publicly display his Trumpism last week was our nation's sole Nobel Prize Winner, Prof. Wole Soyinka. In his Trumpic reply to media viral headline ''Will Prof. Soyinka tear his green card has promised'', he was quoted in the second to the last paragraph of his published reply ''RED CARD, GREEN CARD – Notes Towards The Management Of Hysteria'' in Vanguard Newspaper, ''Let me end with a Red Card to those noisome creatures, the nattering nit-wits of Internet: maybe Trumpland is not as despicable as the Naijaland you impose on our reality from your secure cesspits of anonymity.'' So a Prof. can possess this trait! Anyway he is human - to err is man.

Another public icon who displayed Trumpism idiosyncracy was the Synagogue Church General Overseer, the OAP of Emmanuel TV, Prophet T.B Joshua. In his response to his critics during a service at the headquarter of his Church in Ikotun, Lagos on Sunday according to Vanguard News Paper, he said ''In this case, we need the spirit of a Prophet to recognise or to know a Peophet. Our levels are different. We are not on the same level. We might have great cathedrals, huge halls, and all kinds of activities that are good by human standards but human point of view is limited''. I still ponder who the second sentence 'We might have great cathedrals...' points to.

Trump might not only have another 'dark trait' named after him, but more English grammers might be invented by him. Associate Professor Farooq Kperogi in his daily trust column ''Notes from Atlanta' wrote an article titled ''Mangled Trumpian Grammar as New American English?'' He dissected Trumps grammer during is campaign, quoting media reports such as ''Trump tweeted: Wow, every poll said I won the debate last night. Great honer''. He misspelt honer for honor. Also another tweet of his ''Lying Ted Cruz and leightweight chocker Marco Rubio teamed up last night in a last ditch effort to stop our great movement. They failed!'' Where he misspelt leightweight for lightweight. Trump was also corrected after saying "They talk good around election" instead of “they speak well around election time,”a statement that made many English teachers took to social media to say he had lost their votes.

If Kperogi's postulat

"Dear Democrats and Liberals.

I'm noticing that a lot of you aren't graciously accepting the fact that your candidate lost. In fact you seem to be posting even more hateful things about those of us who voted for Trump.
Some of you are apparently "triggered". Because you are posting how "sick" you feel about the results.
How did this happen you ask?
You created "us" when you attacked our freedom of speech.
You created "us" when you attacked our right to bear arms.
You created "us" when you attacked our Christian beliefs.
You created "us" when you constantly referred to us as racists.
You created "us" when you constantly called us xenophobic.
You created "us" when you told us to get on board or get out of the way.
You created "us" when you forced us to buy health care and then financially penalized us for not participating.
You created "us" when you allowed our jobs to continue to leave our country.
You created "us" when you attacked our flag.
You created "us" when you confused women's rights with feminism.
You created "us" when you began to immasculate men.
You created "us" when you decided to make our children soft.
You created "us" when you decided to vote for progressive ideals.
You created "us" when you attacked our way of life.
You created "us" when you decided to let our government get out of control.
"You" created "us" the silent majority.
And we became fed up and we pushed back and spoke up.
And we did it with ballots, not bullets.

Leaders are readers! True, but how many of the chronic readers are leaders today-how many of today's leaders are readers?
This means there is something missing. It is either what we really need in this generation to survive is not what is in our library books or we don't read again.

To someone who likes reading or you just don't want to read anymore because the ones you have read are not helping you in anyway; also to you who have gained a lot from reading motivational books and magazine, what are the things you will like to read in motivational books or magazine or what are the things you've read in Motivational books or Magazine that is really helping your life today? Comment with the name of your favorite Motivational magazine(if any) or books you have read.

Things to know about ideas:
--Ideas cannot be acquired, they can only be conceived.
--Ideas cannot be shared, they can only be built together.
--Nobody cares about your idea, everyone only cares about the fruit of your idea.
--Idea is not a dream, a dream is not an idea.
--Idea is a measure of dream. Dreams are valued with ideas. It is a road/path to dream, mostly untiled.
--The world is filled with dreams but ideas rule the world.
--No sole idea can be executed.
--Ideas never come to an idle man but they come when you are idle.
--Like pregnancy, no idea is conceived and birth the same day.

Types/Stages of Ideas

For a start, we will consider this section as TYPES OF IDEAS. At the end of this course you would have been convinced to consider this section has STAGES OF IDEAS.

There are generally two types/stages of ideas depending on your insightful glasses focal power at present. And as promised earlier, you will be more than convinced at the end of this course to consider this section has stages of ideas.

1) Unachievable ideas.
2) Achievable ideas.

UNACHIEVABLE IDEAS: Anything considered bigger than you is something you cannot HAVE, CONTROL, or THINK OF. Consider the following people:
1) Albert Eistein.
2) Thomas Edison.
3) Lawrence Bragg.
4) Wole Soyinka.
5) Bill Gate.
6) Chinua Achebe.
7) Ben Carson.
Yourself.
Get a pad and rate each person in the list between 1-10 based on 'achievement and how they have impacted their world'. Arrange them in descending order of their score.
Who is the first on your list and who is the last? To the sincere participant, I am sure you will be the last on the list. Why are you inferior to the other people on the list? You are younger than them? Lawrence Bragg won Nobel Laurette prize at the age of 21. You are not that brilliant? Thomas Edison was tagged 'dullard' by his teacher. They are white? Check the list again to see Soyinka and Achebe. Intelligence is independent of race, greatness is not determined by color or age. It is all within you. The only difference between you and those in the group; what will determine if you will be any different or great tomorrow is your generated ideas and what you do with it.
Are you any different from me? I heard you asking. I am not for now but wait and watch, ask me the same question in few years time and I will reply 'You can see the difference(#with a smile)'.

Your idea will always be unachievable if it is alone. Ideas work in team. One compliment the flaw of another. It is similitude to a termite colony. Colony is started with a single termite, the fertilised female (later the queen). Eventhough she is the queen, she can never make a colony.

It is worth knowing that ideas have ranks:
>> Main idea
>> ing idea
>> Backup idea
>> Exit plan.

MAIN IDEA.

It is mostly the first conceived of all ideas. It can also be considered as the main objective.

ING IDEA

It is an helping cord to the main idea. It aids elimination of doubt of an idea feasibility. Sometimes it becomes the main idea and vice verse.

BACK UP IDEA

A type of idea only thought of by people who always plan before acting. There is a particular group characterised with this idea, they are called 'ORIGINALS'. A group Martin Luther King Jr. and Leornando Da Vinci are said to belong to according to .............. TED TALK.

EXIT IDEA

I will never recommend you to conceive this idea during the start of your idea generation, nevertheless it is a must to have and the last option to consider no matter what. According to Napoleon Hill ''There is difference between temporary defeat and failure''. We live to fight another day is the song of retreating soldiers. All ideas will not always work.

ILLUSTRATION OF IDEAS RANKING

All analogy here are real conceived ideas of mine. They are ideas I am either working on now or filed for later. To confirm it, I will use real name of any involved property or place.

Analogy 1: I conceived an idea of owning a hotel after seeing a bankrupted after seeing a bankrupted hotel in an area with a promising ROI (Return On Investment).
Main Idea: Purchase the bankrupted hotel (XALE).

My challenges:
1) I am currently a student, still asking for money from home eventhough I try to avoid it as much as possible.
2) I know nothing about real estate except those I read in books like 'The Art of the deal by Donald Trump' and experience I accumulated from Estate agent as a student.
3) I don't have 0.0005% of the demanded price.
4) No collateral to get a loan.
Note: Your ing ideas are always generated when you have identified your challenges.

ing ideas:

-- a real estate firm to negoiate partnership.
These will be tough because I have no record.
-- Price the hotel to a minimum, the building will be at least 25% worth more.
-- Get a venture capitalist.
-- Approach the bank to loan me the money using the house as collateral.
It will be a big shot if I am able to request for a loan less than the house worth.

Back Up idea:

-- Sell the idea to someone else.
-- Wait till graduation, work hard, make money and come back to execute my main idea.

Exit Plan

-- Give up the idea because of the obstacles.
-- Give up the ideas if after executing the main and ing ideas I could not achieve anything.

Analogy 2: I conceived an idea of getting students fairly used medical textbooks due to the cost of new ones.
Main idea: Selling of fairly used book at an affordable price compare to new ones.

My challenges:

1) No money to import in bulk.
2) I am a shy marketer.
3) I have no idea about importing and exporting.
4) What if nobody patronize me.

ing Ideas:

-- Go online to search for websites that sell fairly used books. Also check for those with free shipping.
-- fairly used book sellers in Ikeja and strike a deal with them. They import and you help them sell at a commission rate in my school.
-- Buy used textbooks from graduating students.
-- Import with the little cash I have. You can start your business with any amount you have, peovided it is sufficient to start.
-- As a shy marketer, I buy and put them in book stores (especially in my school) and bargain a commission rate with them.
The best solution to overcome my market shyness is to read books on marketing and summon the courage to go out there. A great marketers will tell you they were shy when they started. It is a sign I am a great marketer too.

Back up plan:
-- Sell the idea to someone else.
-- Wait till I have enough money.
-- Change my targeted market.

Exit plan:
-- Let go of the ideas without trying them.
-- Let go when all my ideas don't work.

ACHIEVABLE IDEAS

'What the mind of a man can conceive, he can achieve'--Napoleon Hill.
When an idea is achievable, everything always seem to be in place. Unlike the unachievable category, the challenges arr always few.
I would have given more ideas under this section but I would not want you to empty my idea archive. Using the two initial analogy, in analogy 1: My only challenge might be ''I am currently a student''. In analogy 2: My only challenge might be ''I am a shy marketer''.

Making unachievabke ideas achievable

Presented challenges are the main thing that make ideas unachievable. Identify your challenges and generate a ing idea for it. Also, the following can be responsible for unachiveveable ideas:
1) Wrong main idea.
2) Insufficient ing ideas.
3) No back up plan.
4) Not knowing when to quit and quitting when not to.

HOW TO GENERATE IDEA

You do not a need formal education or training to know how to generate ideas. Ideas flow from the mind. Only if you don't possess a mind that you are incompetent to generate one.

There are two types of ideas: Good and Great ideas.
These two types are either positive or negative ie 'Good good ideas or Bad good ideas' and 'Good great ideas or Bad great ideas'.

Good ideas are myopic ideas. They are generated out of urgency to solve a problem. Such as when you need money to get something.

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I attended this seminar last year. And I will like to share my jotting in one of the sections.

It was a jotting from the section on ''How to ACE your interview''. Surprisingly, it was delivered by a baker-a baker in a well tailored suit-knew bakers only in their apron (just joking anyway) and he titled it ''Tips for a successful job interview''.

FROM MY JOTTING:

Job interview is not necessarily about sitting on the 'hot seat' seeking for a job. It can happen anywhere, anytime. Job changes but interview never change. All jobs interviews are the same.

TIPS FOR A SUCCESSFUL JOB INTERVIEW

==> First Impression Count: - Greet your interviewer with a smile.
 - Give eye .
- Sell yourself before anything else. Appear bold  and confident but not arrogant.

==> Go in prepared: - Take time to prepare.
  - Re-read your CV and the job advert before the interview.
  - Do your research thoroughly: check what the company deals in; you can check their website if they have, for vital information about them.        
  -You may be asked about the salary you are after, make research about the maximum salary before going.

==>  Believe in yourself and idea: - Be bold 'It's better to say you need some time to gather your thought rather than speak and regret afterward'.
- Answer questions properly: even if you need a moments silence to collect your thought, do not hesitate to say so.
- Know your purpose.
- Be ready to talk about your knowledge, experience, abilities, and skills. Do not exaggerate but be confident as much as possible.

==> Be positive: interviewer like someone that like challenges. Let them know you always see a happy ending in a tough challenge before it end. Do not say a challenge you can not cope with.

==> your body language: If the chair offered you is not comfortable tell them, so that in your bid to feel comfortable in the uncomfortable chair, you will not appear uncomfortable and scared.

==> Expect the unexpected: - Ask the interviewer to repeat the question if necessary.
  - Sometimes interviewer ask brain teaser questions that often only him know the answer to; other interviewer on the table might not know the answer to the teaser like you. Just be honest with your answer.

==> your manners: The words Please, Sorry, Excuse me, Pardon me, Thank you are important.

==> Look great: appearance matter.

==> Put God first : though it is the last here, it has to be here and before others. Pray before and after.

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This is a recap of my blog titled 'Confirmed NYSC Students to receive #50,000 naira allowance' read at www.fimpossiblet..com

Till when will this continue. Thousand promises, zero fulfilment.

The only thing that can be broken without being touched is 'Promise'

"All unemployed graduates will be receiving an allowance of #5,000" promised. Also "all primary school pupil will be given free lunch" the not to be fulfilled promises continued.

Wait! I am not for you and I am not for them. I am simply non-partisan. You need to be in the system to know where things actually went wrong. All the hard to achieve promise by the present government were blurted out of ignorance of the thorough operation of their scape goat government (PDP). It is easier to criticize a result without noticing the efforts put in its achievement.

Youth wake-up and fight yourself-stop fighting the government. Yes! You've heard this a thousand times but it is still important to hear it again. Five Thousand Naira for unemployed graduate 'Is it enough to sustain all your expenses in a month?' At least it will cover some expenses. Hmmm! Wake up from your slumber. Is your life goal that worthless. Are you dreaming of having a source of income that covers part of your expenses or the one that covers all your expenses and that of people around you? I have never heard or read of a successful man/woman who survived on the government less-nothing branded allowance.

Stop waiting and praying this ning-nong bill is ed. Make your own bill; draft your own constitution. You have greatness within you. Forget the government and yourself. In normal sense government is to be there for many people and you (an individual) is meant to be for yourself; but the case is reversed 'the government is there for itself and you (an individual) is meant for a lot of people' because if you don't who will? See the change of tide. If you don't succeeed thousands of destinies attached to you will be doomed. Dangote company employs more than 5,000 employees, if he doesn't who will? The government? You know the answer.

Boycott all their stupid propagandas and mancott your determination-your dream. Their propaganda is always like a one-eyed man describing the inner structure of a large building from afar. The truth always dawn on them when they enter. They can either play by the set rules or change the game. They always subscribe to the 'play by the rule method' instead of the better: change the game method.

Youth let us wake up!

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This is a recap of my blog titled 'Confirmed NYSC Students to receive #50,000 naira allowance' read at www.fimpossiblet..com

Till when will this continue. Thousand promises, zero fulfilment.

The only thing that can be broken without being touched is 'Promise'

"All unemployed graduates will be receiving an allowance of #5,000" promised. Also "all primary school pupil will be given free lunch" the not to be fulfilled promises continued.

Wait! I am not for you and I am not for them. I am simply non-partisan. You need to be in the system to know where things actually went wrong. All the hard to achieve promise by the present government were blurted out of ignorance of the thorough operation of their scape goat government (PDP). It is easier to criticize a result without noticing the efforts put in its achievement.

Youth wake-up and fight yourself-stop fighting the government. Yes! You've heard this a thousand times but it is still important to hear it again. Five Thousand Naira for unemployed graduate 'Is it enough to sustain all your expenses in a month?' At least it will cover some expenses. Hmmm! Wake up from your slumber. Is your life goal that worthless. Are you dreaming of having a source of income that covers part of your expenses or the one that covers all your expenses and that of people around you? I have never heard or read of a successful man/woman who survived on the government less-nothing branded allowance.

Stop waiting and praying this ning-nong bill is ed. Make your own bill; draft your own constitution. You have greatness within you. Forget the government and yourself. In normal sense government is to be there for many people and you (an individual) is meant to be for yourself; but the case is reversed 'the government is there for itself and you (an individual) is meant for a lot of people' because if you don't who will? See the change of tide. If you don't succeeed thousands of destinies attached to you will be doomed. Dangote company employs more than 5,000 employees, if he doesn't who will? The government? You know the answer.

Boycott all their stupid propagandas and mancott your determination-your dream. Their propaganda is always like a one-eyed man describing the inner structure of a large building from afar. The truth always dawn on them when they enter. They can either play by the set rules or change the game. They always subscribe to the 'play by the rule method' instead of the best: change the game method.

Youth let us wake up!

The CBN governor, Godwin Emefiele was quoted by media to have said '' Nigeria will be out of recession by December 2016 ''. The minister of Finance, Kemi Adeosun and Chairman of budget and finance committee Udo Udomma also assured Nigerians we are coming out of recession now and the last time. Future Impossible Tense

Nigerians don't need to come out of recession because we are an adapting nation and not an enduring one. All the rants of we are coming out of recession by December is nothing but a prediction of our full adaptation stage. The scam of Nigerians coming out of recession in the actual sense is that we will be adapting with the recession.

Anyway it is good the concerned employees are standing up to their responsibility; it's disappointing the Chief employees (the President and Vice President) have not. They have not accepted the bucks stops at their table. It is annoying when you here them blaming others for their misfortunes especially the President. Always advocating change without changing himself.

My main dissatisfaction with this istration is that right from day one it has always been pointing accusation fingers to either its opposition (mostly) or to member of its cabinet. Recession was caused by PDP istration, insertion of Obama's speech in his speech was caused by an overzealous employee-he always have someone to blame for everything. One thing I am sure of though I am not in of Goodluck's istration concerning its recklessness to permit corruption-no other politician if in Goodluck's shoe would not have came out to defend himself of all allegations leveled against him. 

Mr President do your assignment and stop pointing accusation fingers. Leave be the past istration, let us criticize them ourself. Do your part. The best praise is not the one you give yourself rather the one earned from others. However, I was disappointed by GEJ istration and indifferent about Buhari's election right from the start. My only headache is the pointed accusing fingers-no matter how much you do that it can never re-write the past. Face your giant and stop whining!

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Seems this is a change of tide as a Nigerian is duped of 12million naira by a foreigner(FutureImpossibleTense).

Even though our G-guys under the auspice of retrieving our forefathers money duped foreigners chunks of money-we are more enslaved by their actions than our forefathers. The duped money by this guys is still returned to this people in of luxury purchase. Everybody prefer imported products and services, there are many products that has no local competitor. So the question ''Who is now the slave-they or we?'' We are still the slave!  It is really true you can only take the girl out of the village and not the village from the girl. Emancipation of slave trade was enacted but emancipation of slave thinking is still a FutureImpossibleTense.

If our yahoo guys are considering those chunks as earned money it's high time they realise they are collecting from the cub to the lion and lioness. These money still goes back to them through purchase of phones and whatever;thus their improved economy with our country as major dumping ground for their produce. Let me ask you a question, are our people in the richest people's list enslaving or making us boss? To me they are both. They enslave us by still seeking for services abroad such as Dangote's refinery story whereby he is employing the service of Japaneses with claim that there is no expert with the required experience(which is true from an enslaving mindset view).I am not against employing this people's service,  why can't he make some engineering companies work alongside with them so they can have the experience and we willn't be seeking their service in the future again. They are making us boss because we are employing the foreigners; which means they depend on us for employment.

The only way to build is from the bottom to the top and not vice versa. The leaders are corrupt fine; yes I agree but the future leaders? They are already corrupted-only waiting for their coronation to the throne of king of corruption like their mentors in the top political echelon. Nigeria is a developing nation. Until we realise we are the developing and not our nation, we will forever be developing. Nigeria is your nation right! And you are the developing; therefore Nigeria is a nation of developing individuals. Only when you develop your slavery mindset to a boss's you will forever be developing and being developed will be FutureImpossibleTense.

To the President-stop fighting corruption-kill it or trap it. You don't prevent a loose bull from hurting the public by fighting it, you either kill it or trap it. If this cul-de-sac continues,others has no choice other than to be corrupted to survive.

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In neurology research, addicts are discovered to trigger the reward center everytime they take their hard drugs. It's the pleasure derived from taking the drugs and not the drug itself that is responsible for the continuous intake. Any pleasurable event triggers release of dopamine, therefore, increase in dopamine level in the brain; and this s for their hyperactivity.

To be courageous and persistent with your talent-you must be an addict. An addict not of drugs but of your talent. When you perform or in use of your talent, there must be an increase in your dopamine level. Note this: Your pleasure must be derived from performing or using your talent and not in the talent itself. Love what you are doing no matter what.

No matter what the environment presents; no matter how you feel when criticised; no matter how you feel when rejected; no matter ......................  (fill in the gap if you are in flow). Make a list of no matters as heading, list as much as possible. Place where you can see everyday. Check and say to yourself whenever you encounter one of the no matters '' I am an addict, and you can't stop me from reaching my goal. You are  a hurdle I don't need to jump but trod on''.

Talent is not necessarily singing, writing and the popular. Your current profession might be your talent. Funny isn't it? 'I am a student.' You can display your talent by being the best in your class. All you need is in you. Make reading a talent and become an addict. You've discovered your life purpose? Make it a talent and become an addict.

It is not bad to be an addict thou. Hey! I don't mean of drugs.

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