NewStats: 3,264,459 , 8,183,783 topics. Date: Wednesday, 11 June 2025 at 07:59 AM 5r724p

lhordspy:
Initially we said it was ' special military operation' ... The west; US,UK, NATO, EU, its western propagandist media and allies inconjuction with their nairaland chearleaders said RUSSIA is weak.

Now the war just started.
Yorubas says 'Mafa werey L'oyan; Never draw the bre*st of a mad woman ..
The payback is always 'maddening' .

Let me tell you about the first sentence of the new Russian general after appointment, the Armaggedon like we call him. He said and i quote:

"For our enemies, the morning doesnt start with a cup of coffee but " ... And he stopped, then comes the silence.

- The silence was deafening and loudest.
- The message was ed uncomplete but in
full.
- Precise and Concise.
- Brutal but honest.

Lot of options to come after the 'But', it depends on the choice of enemies of Russia.
The ukrainians are experiencing Raining Missiles instead of morning coffee presently.

The question now is what option is the United state and its evil allies going for?





Whatever you do, always : NEVER POKE THE BEAR NOR HURT ITS CHILDREN

Interestingly the motto for the Russian nuclear arsenal ballistics control unit is as follows:

“After us, Silence”.


Meaning after they strike, the entire world/planet goes silent. Everything dies. Once they push their button, nothing else will be alive to make any noise on earth.

Personally, This War should have been averted. However, the Soviet Union is attempting to keep friends of its enemies away from getting too close to them. The Friend of my Enemy is one way my enemy. And the enemy of my enemy is one way my friend. Both situations are to be used fully to one’s strategic advantage.

Ukraine wants to be friends with NATO. NATO is the Trojan Horse that the USA is using for dominance and indirect control of Europe. It is America that is usually the aggressor through these so called military Allies etc. However, Ukraine as a country is also looking for global relevance and international reputation with the West. Even Nigeria tries to belong to such strong groups of countries too.

The war should not have happened. Putin’s invasion even if it eventually allows him take over the whole of Ukraine, what about countries that border Ukraine that are NATO Allies? Will he invade those too? What about existing European Countries that are NATO Allies and already NATO ? In my opinion, Russia should have attempted to improve its global dominance like China is doing. Today, America is worried about Chinese global dominance.

Meanwhile, China has a whole lot to learn from this war and must understand and preempt America’s should they invade. This should be a background blue print for their major plans should they want to go on the offensive.

Warriors!


Show mutual respect. For those who have taken life and have the capability of taking life in a second, but still keep themselves under check and control. Absolute kudos.

Warriors don’t over kill!
And warriors can’t be over killed either!


At the end of the day in the battle field and when faced by enemies, it isn’t the countries that protect you. It is your brother at arms and the decisions he takes that saves your life or exposes you to danger. Respect the man who bears the arm but out of good reason refuses to use it and instead decides that mutual and beneficial peace should reign.

Through out history, whether old or fresh/breaking news, the fact remains that all these soldiers are fighting another man’s war.

dfrost:


1. Money
2. Power
3. Sex

Nothing kills a man faster than these.

Please kindly add:

4. Intoxication (Drugs & Alcohol)
5. Gambling & Betting

You can be very wise and love. In fact true love comes with WISDOM. You need WISDOM to offer proper love. Please do not listen to the lies peddled by both genders about love which is only to suit their whims and excesses. Women want love irrespective of how stupid they lived their lives while they were younger and the stupidity of their expectations when they are older. And men want love irrespective of how much they peddled their joysticks all their lives.

True love CAN ONLY COME VIA A LOT OF WISDOM! In fact Anything beyond this is not love. It is called foolishness. Anything done outside the confines of Wisdom IS NOT WISE. Genuine love comes with your senses intact.

There is nothing special about “LOVE”. Nothing unique or super about love. Unfortunately, humans have deceived themselves with their own intelligence so much so that they seek and expect esoteric experiences when they love. Love and romance are simply the lies we tell ourselves to cover the annoying, raw, disgusting and imaginatively dirty process of being with someone and adjusting to and accepting the things we hate about them. The things we like we already like. We need the idea of love to accept the things about them that we hate. These things we hate should be simple, but when they are so complicated and risky that they threaten your life, safety, security, well-being and health, then throw away the idea of love! The problem is that nowadays we need and tell more lies and fairy tales to claim the feeling of being loved or loving someone.

Love is self deceit. It has its uses and purpose. YES IT IS NECESSARY TO CLAIM LOVE. Because we need the idea of “LOVE” overriding the disgust of hearing a woman pee, or realizing she is on her period, or she is ovulating with vaginal discharge, or she chews with mouth open at times, or she smells any damn thing she sees, or she farts, or her breath stinks in the morning and other disgusting things couples have to deal with.

BUT IT MUST HAVE ITS LIMITS. You cannot stupidly allow a man or woman run over you, wreck you emotionally and financially and mentally and even spiritually, then claim that because of one useless LOVE you stayed there and did not experience anything else from life other than pain. The first purpose of life is to be a full fledged life. You want things that make you experience and explore more out of life. To develop financially, physically and health wise, spiritually, mentally, emotionally, experientially, etc. Do not limit these because of one word in the dictionary called LOVE.

It is like a man scammed by con artists and he claims that he was not in his right senses. For MOST CASES IT IS A BLATANT LIE. He was scammed due to HIS GREED!

CHARACTER + BRAIN + BEAUTY

That is the exact order. I will rather be with an easy going, clean, cheerful and well mannered non virgin than with a bad mannered, rude and bitter virgin claiming to be a Saint. Virginity is not a ticket to be a STUPID WOMAN. A stupid and foolish virgin is the who is foolish enough to think that her virginity is what will make a home. The foolish virgin that does not know she needs extra OIL IN HER LAMP. Yes even in the Bible parables there were FOOLISH VIRGINS. VERY FOOLISH ONES. Your virginity you have kept for years is taken in one night and less than a few seconds, if your husband does not even know how to disvirgin you. And then you aren’t a virgin any more. It becomes “ I get am before no be property”. Your virginity must be complimented by sound Character+ Feminity + Loyalty + Submission + Resourcefulness + Proper Manners etc.

Where a woman lacks Character, Manners, Resourcefulness, Loyalty and submission she will quickly realize that the average man only wants her for the bragging rights of taking her virginity. If women understood a lot of things about men, they would not have issues. That a girl is a virgin doesn’t mean her husband does not get tired of her vagina even in her/their marriage. He only has a little bit of extra assurance that he was her first and that she is a little hard to get and posses a strong will power to stay chaste. And like people will argue it could have simply been an issue of lack of opportunities. That is all. There is nothing extra again in being a virgin. Being a virgin does not replace good character, morals and manners. Men look beyond the unbroken hymen in the entrance to a woman’s vagina. Men look at the kids too. What type of children will she raise with and for me? What will my neighbors and relatives think of this Virgin Bush Fowl that I have kept at home? What type of household will she create for me? Can I peacefully come home after a hard day and get peace? Is she properly domesticated and can handle her business? Is she a good companion that can offer me and wisdom to guide me in taking decisions for the family?

Ladies, listen, Virginity is good. Do not have sex or give your virginity to low quality men or loose it due to bad irresponsible decisions. However, also note that in Marriage your VIRGINITY only gives the man a only little bit more assurance about the strength of your will power in rejecting the advances of other men. The man is just a little bit assured that no other man can easily just get In between your thighs and plant seed. To any right thinking man, his wife’s thighs and body are his Personal and Special place and thing meant only for him.

That virgin will be shocked that after marriage and disvirgining her, the man looks for peace and sanity in the bosom of another non virgin who is just a well behaved and well mannered woman. With your virginity, please have some sense to compliment it.

You cannot sow thorns and reap apples.

Omonieme:
This man Sha. Hate him or love him, you can't deny his political sagacity and he's someone I'd rather have as a friend than as a foe. That his statement on expecting anything, expecting everything and expecting nothing Abi how E take talk am dey always do me somehow for body. The way he has managed jhis political career so far is inspiring to say the least and while I still believe it'd have been better if he plays the role of a leader and sponsor younger man for the presidency, it is his right and I await what he's cooking for the campaigns.
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“We Expect Nothing, We Expect Anything and We Expect Everything”.

I want to believe he has a very stoic mentality. What he can control he does so, what is beyond him he doesn’t kill himself for. But as for the things he can control, he will go all the way to make sure they are in his favour.

The day I read this statement from him, I took it as one of my STOIC mantras. Whatever can happen we will make happen and whatever does not happen doesn’t happen, yet we will plan to ensure that anything we want to happen happens, and anything that doesn’t happen doesn’t happen.

It fitted perfectly with my own personal statement that:

“Nothing is Impossible, Anything is Possible, and Everything is Possible”. This same mantra I now use for my business slogan.

I do not get into political arguments about the forthcoming elections. The insults and disrespect for one another because of politicians is something I still do not comprehend.

But I know wisdom and sensible statements beneficial to my personality, when I see one.

Sergio104:
Dear seun, please it's getting out of hand and is of great opprobrium what the mods are turning this forum especially politics section to.
Firstly, I apologize for using alternate moniker to come to the forum but sincerely i was very surprised to wake up this morning to find out that my Sergio101 has been ban.

Now what led to the ban

A known tribalist created a sentimental thread that "Anambra hates muslim"
https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/7313571/anambra-hate-muslims

I used sarcasm to comment, telling him "you were not Informed, that the governor of Anambra is Ibrahim Abubakar soludo, that he as a mumu should do more research ".

Now a hypocrite mod of yours saw nothing wrong with the thread but Banned me till December ending .

Is it now an agenda to silence Obi's ers??


Seun it's getting embarrassing sincerely!!

I have a strong feeling that a lot of the MODS have not had real power or authority in their lives. You must understand that there is a strong possibility that this is the only opportunity they have had for little power and control. And as with most Nigerians, they will abuse it and intimidate and raise their shoulders because they have been made s. This is the same attitude concierge personnel and gatemen display when given a uniform and told to man a gate.

Please do not blame them much. Many of them have not achieved much in their lives and only have this platform as the only means to be useful in their existence. Some of them have nothing to show for being alive. So when they hear that Seun has given them the opportunity to ban names, they rejoice and shout hallelujah for to them, they have achieved the greatest power on earth. Powers to ban a moniker on social media. Now their lives can be complete and fulfilled. Now their destiny is realized. Now they are special. Now their entire family can rejoice that their son has achieved a great thing.

As for Seun, he has people he answers to and if banning you for the wrong reason guarantees that this table where his food is prepared still stands, then believe me, he will not bother. As long as the table remaineth and the food is there for his picking.

For those of us who have been banned and banned and banned and to the mods that forget that with basic computer knowledge anything is Possible.

Fred166:
Happy Sunday nairalanders.

I can't believe there are still men who don't watch football or know nothing about sports….

I do not watch football the way guys watch it every weekend and scream and yell. I do not have a European club I . If Nigeria is playing , I will definitely watch. But the moment the game is over I do not bother about highlights. As for paraphernalia etc I buy Jerseys that are cute. I do not know the clubs or care about the logos. Once the color combination goes well with my jeans, I am buying it.

The likelihood that the information about football will be critical to my existence and survival is very very slim to impossible. There a lot of foolish and unscientific and ignorantly unproven talk about men that do not love sports. It is just a disgrace how people assume that because something excites them it MUST excite another person. And because someone is not interested in their interests, then the person must have a problem.

I prefer reading as an interest to anything on earth. I prefer intellectual discussions that who who got transferred to which club. If I am discussing sports then best believe I am discussing scientific research concerning human kinetics and sports psychology etc.

This is just ignorantly projected peer pressure. Like what you like and do not go on to generalize and pseudo-model and predict another persons vices and short comings because he does not like what you like. We can also assume that those of you that watch football are loud, violent, gamblers, drunkards, and tyrannical at home because you go out, watch the match, drink beer, scream and shout, fight and argue and transfer the aggression into your homes. You see how silly this argument is?! It is the same way the argument that men who do not watch football are boring, etc.

Love what you love. Allow another man NOT TO have a single interest in what you love. Some men love Chess. Some Scrabble. Some Snooker. For me I prefer Chess and Reading. Not football.

Bvlgari:
Nigerian-US soldier flies down to Nigeria to surprise his fiancee on her birthday.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_L0WXyWvFfY

I do not understand the idea of calling the Man a simp.
He values her that much. It is not a bad thing.
Feeling special is a human emotion we all love to experience. Emotionally, it is a beautiful thing. Human psychology and intelligence is well advanced to love things like this. I think he did a fantastic job with the surprise.

However in the midst doing these things, the essence of being in a relationship should not be lost. That is where my own point of view is.

In the midst of the “love” and “romance” and “you are the only sugar in my tea” ensure that you as a man, remain a man. Do not take nonsense and do not loose your dominant role as the man and Head of the house/relationship. You are Head and CEO of that establishment called Marriage or Relationship.

Secondly, demand that she is faithful, loyal, submissive, feminine, etc. but expect yet anything. The best way to expect anything, everything and nothing from her is to put yourself first. Yes Put yourself first.
Only a woman who is loyal, submissive, ive, feminine and a good home maker has chance to enjoy you as you handle your responsibilities of PROTECT, PROVIDE, LEAD and SET A GOOD EXAMPLE/BE A GOOD FATHER FIGURE.

Do your “romance” and “love” with your head intact and emotions in check. Learn how yo lead your family and your woman. From the first date, from the first “hello”, let her know what you expect from her. And tell her what she should expect from you. If you are not compatible then leave. Check your woman and let her be properly guided.

I will definitely try it and develop a strategy for my daily activities. I will attempt to develop a daily, weekly and monthly routine to kill boredom.

I would however try to ensure three (3) things though:

1. Food and water (nourishment) is provided.
2. A means for telling time.
3. Pen and paper to write/journal my thoughts and experiences

From my experiences in life I know that it will be very hard on the human mind if there is no clock or something to measure time with/by. There are Tibetan Monks who do this in the Himalayas. They do this in dark caves and some do not even survive it. Their “Sampa” meals are brought by younger monks and delivered. Their experiences were quite profound. You get to see how the mind behaves and functions when the regular parameters of living and being human in the society/collection of other humans and the activities and interactions therefrom. You get to see how the mind will work when you are isolated or removed from the activities of general human existence.

One thing I’ll try to incorporate will be meditation. It will be a part of my daily routine. However, the experiences will be profound. Better than when in some similar activities that bring down dopamine. E.g engaging in 2 weeks to 1 month water only fasting.

I would do it just to see how long I could go. There will be a very sever dip in dopamine. One will almost know no pleasure from the outside world apart from the food that one is served. In this state I would reduce my meals to one meal a day. And it would have little to no carbohydrates. One would have to develop new means of pleasure and find new things interesting. It will be really profound.

It is important that you set boundaries and do not swap roles and initiate things you cannot maintain or sustain down the line. Especially if the relationship is one you intend to nurture and mature over time. Tomorrow you will hear “I slept with his friend because in the past he was romantic, he used to cook for me…now I do all the house work and he isn’t romantic anymore…his friend cared for me….”. Women do not know that romance and attention from men is high when they are first chasing you and dips gradually after we sleep with them. How fast it dips varies from individual to individual and how pussy whipped the man is. But it eventually dips. We have better things to do especially on daily hustles and “hunting” for resources for our offspring. Set the boundaries early on roles, responsibilities and expectations. Do not create confusion early on in your relationship with women.

I would say, ask her her favorite meal and if she knows how to make it. Then make the ingredients available and let her do the cooking herself. On the other hand, you could consider that you both do the cooking as a form of fun and memorable activity to promote bonding. Now note that the more you dive deep into this cooking for her thing, the more you are just being a man desperate in pleasing a woman. Now if you do not mind that and how that makes you look, then cook what you already know how to cook best. Or ask her what her favorite meal is, practice through online resources, and then make it when she comes. NOTE THAT I PERSONALLY STRONGLY ADVISE AGAINST cooking for any woman. Unless she is a child, your mum or is bedridden sick, and there are no other options available.

70 Percent Introvert
30 Percent Extrovert

70:30 is where I think I fall. In the past it was almost 90:10.

I come to realize that by virtue of my job, the responsibilities and activities of adulthood and manhood, there is a level you get to in life , then you just cannot remain too introverted. As we get older we mature. Imagine being nominated by your company for a course overseas where the class is interactive and you are scored based on that. Or you are nominated to attend a conference on behalf of your organization. Or you are selected by your organization to go make a presentation on behalf of your CEO to some senators or politicians or other stakeholders. Or that you plan on pursing academics up the graduate level?

You just cannot claim you are introverted and cannot deliver on these things and expectations from being a functional and active human being in this interdependent system that life and living is. You may struggle and eventually realize that you will need to be a little bit outgoing and extroverted to easily achieve these things. That is my personal case that is unique to me. Other people could be going through the same experience.

Life experiences have the ability of turning introverts to extroverts, and vice versa by various degrees.

EVERY RELATIONSHIP IS SELFISH. LOVE IS SELFISH. MONEY IS SELFISH TOO.

Both are required to for a HEALTHY and LONGER LASTING relationship. In humanity of today, we have seen relationships that lack either or even both but for one reason or another, the relationship continues. This is why I prefer to use the term a LONG LASTING and HEALTHY Relationship.

Both of them are highly required if the relationship is to have memories and beautiful experiences. Every human desires to be a full fledged life. And the memories of the process is something the human intelligence highly cherishes, values and has the capability of keeping mental records off. And now with modern technology, such memories can be kept and shared in great details.

I strongly believe that we need both for the modern relationships of today. We can exist without them, but we need to lie to ourselves that our spouses and mates and girlfriends and wives are the best thing ever ! Then we need to have finances to live a comfortable life and share moments together while engaging in activities that foster companionship.

The idea of falling in love is one of the most deceitful things propagated by the intelligence of modern man. And NO , the products of human intelligence ARE NOT ALL GOOD. In fact, many of them are considered harmful to the natural order of things. Also, when this idea of love is propagated, they forget humans do what humans do because they can. And what humans do is highly variable.

This idea of love is why many men intentionally and unintentionally “kill” themselves and people get so emotionally invested in these human relationships. Every human is controlled by instinct first. Then Reasoning/Intelligence.

Your instinct for finding a woman is to seek out one that is:

-Sexually appealing which in many instances means she is fertile and can successfully assist in bringing your gene pool to life.
-She can also nurture your young properly
-She can guarantee that she does not mix another male’s gene pool with yours. No male species wants to run the risk of raising the offspring of another male.

The female wants physical, emotional and material security and attention and will look for the most successful male /mate that can guarantee this.

Now, if we were all honest, open and behaved this way to one another, the human intelligence will not accept this. It will be viewed as too selfish. Too crude. Hence, the idea about love and how love is the greatest thing in the world , bla bla bla has been propagated to cover something that is highly selfish. The interesting thing is that this “sexual/romantic love” is a also a very and highly selfish thing. The selfishness in it is only better garnished with ideals to hide the selfishness. Very silly ideals at that. Love is selfish because love actually expects in return. I have heard people quote how love does not expect in return and that is a fat lie. Fundamentally it is a lie. Love is given for some form of peace of mind or expectation of reciprocity or for religious piety to obey the religious doctrine or to avoid damnation. It requires and aims at something.

Understand this fact and have clarity of mind. And when it is time, do well to find a mate that fits what you want as much as possible. Do not becloud your natural instincts and expectations and values with “LOVE”. In the process of finding this mate, KEEP AN OPEN MIND AND FOCUS ON YOURSELF AND YOUR OFFSPRING. Your expectations are made clear to the woman but expect anything, expect nothing and expect everything. It is why the best thing is to PUT YOURSELF FIRST!!. Then your offspring (dependents) then the woman comes after. Your ultimate focus should be that. It is a happy and healthy and successful man that can hustle for his kids and wife and extended family. It is such a man that can enjoy life. Focus first on your happiness, health and success. Then extend it to your kids and then your parents before thinking of another man’s daughter.

This is the usual script. It is the typical mindset of a woman: It basically includes:

-Being the Center of Attention
-Sexual Value Projection and Imposition
-Financial/Material Gratification
-Physical Security/Protection
-Sexual Gratification

All these they seek and want with the same motivation and basic instinct for any living thing on earth, especially the Homo sapiens sapiens, which is to achieve and get the above:

- At the quickest possible TIME
- Experiencing the lowest possible RISK
- Expend the lowest amount of ENERGY(stress)/ RESOURCES
- And Achieve the highest REWARDS and GAINS.

This is the basic instinct.

What modifies this basic instinct is REASONING. And reasoning is from values created by the society (religion, culture, traditions, norms, values) and personal experiences and personalities. If you want to know how a woman really is, give her freedom. Same goes for many humans.

Understand this and you will stop asking why women do what they do. And you will stop saying you don’t understand women.


The question that should be asked is that are her students finding this distracting? Her her students ing her course. How do they perform in a standardized test when compared with students taught by other maths teachers in the same school? If there is no statistically significant difference and the kids do not find her dressing disturbing, then they should let her be. Especially, since the school or state has no dress code that makes her body hugging dresses illegal.

As for her photos, she is not the only adult female throwing sultry PG Rated photos out there. If her students can’t access her own, they can access others. The question then should be how do we get these kids to focus on more important things in life and avoid the addiction of social media and all forms of internet pornography.

TheGidRedpiller:
If She Ever Tells You She Has Her TYPE OF MEN!!

It's a big lie, SHE WILL FVVCK THE D!!CK OF ANY MAN!!

Cut the bull crap, a woman tells you that you are not her "Type Of Man", and then she thinks she has done something savage

Try something tonight, Ask A Random Woman For Her Type Of Man.; You will notice two things.
1. You will see her hesitate to give you an answer.
2. Watch how her eyeballs are looking up and her hands are trying to portray expressions. Understand that people only do this when they are trying to figure something out. TRUE OR FALSE

MEN!! A woman's type of man does not exist, The only thing that do exist is her feminine nature and her wh0r£ phase!
If there are 5 different guys with 5 totally different personalities but they all dress fly, have tattoos and probably use the current iPhone 13 ( Nigeria Specific), I can assure you that she will fvvck ALL 5 OF THEM!!

If a woman clearly wants to define her type of man, it would be like this; A Thug-like Guy That Is Responsible. DOES THAT EXIST

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There is a part of the equation that is missing. You left out a vital part of the equation in this behavioral model.

When she finally finds the boring man and gets married to him, she ensures that he provides and works his arse off giving her a good life. Then she thinks within herself that he is no longer interesting to her. The boring man she uses for material, financial and lifestyle security for herself and her offspring. She then again seeks out a THUG to sleep with even after landing the so called “Man of Her Dreams” .

They want what they want, how they want it and when they want it without consequences. Their major goals in life based on basic biology is to have safe sex as much as possible, find a mate who will guarantee security and provide companionship. Once that male becomes docile and there seems to be a bigger, better Alpha male out there, her raw biological instinct kicks in and she wants him. She wants to be his mate. The only thing that controls this instinct is that for some women, the society frowns upon this. Her religious belief might not allow this. Her upbringing will make her see reasons why it is not an idea that looks good. Humans take decisions based first on INSTINCT, then REASONING. Her instinct tells her “that guy is so manly, he will be a good mate…go Bleep him”. But then her upbringing, values, etc tells her “it isn’t a good idea and not worth the possible stress, risk, loss and scandal”. However, where she justifies that it is worth it, she will sneak, hide, dock and explore that possibility.

I have continuously educated young men that there is no such thing as “bone of my bone” or “flesh of my flesh” or “our love was made in heaven” and all the other bullshit and romantic crap that humans deceive themselves with. At about 16-25 they are young and exploratory. Less than 1% keep themselves intact. The interesting thing is that most of these ladies are all disvirgined by the same set of players and thugs within their vicinity.

The relationship with a woman is a simple natural sexual transaction. Especially Marriage. Marriage is bigger than the egos of these women of today. Marriage is about DUTY, RESPONSIBILITY, RESPECT AND HONOUR. IT IS A BUSINESS OF SEX, COMPANIONSHIP and the DUTY, RESPECT, and HONOUR that comes with it based on naturally expected roles. Marriage and relationships that lead to them are no jokes. IT COMES WITH A LOT OF CRAP AND MATURITY IS REQUIRED. It isn’t the stupid Zee World, Telemundo of Disney fantasy.

Majority of men/ Men in general want a feminine, home maker/keeper, submissive, loyal and ive woman. The women want security, protection, provision, sex and companionship and protection. DO NOT LET ANYONE DECEIVE YOU OTHERWISE. That is it at its basics. A woman chooses a man not because of the nonsensical fantasies about love and “bone of my bone” nonsense. The woman simply sees security in one form or another. Leave all the Hollywood and Disney fairy take bullshit.

The man sees sex and the woman’s ability to hold his seed and raise his offspring and keep his home. It is worth noting that all humans can disappoint you by sleeping with another person. Consequently, do not expect much from humans. However, the women lie and hide theirs in pretense and callous deceit. They want to be taken care off by one man, while sleeping with another, getting free gifts from another and getting attention from all men, then complain they are being sexualized etc. They generally just have a twisted brain and are like spoiled brats because of arse, curves, boobs and a vagina.

Now in todays world the so called “modern women” feel that their roles are to be swapped for careers and jobs and competing with men. They want all the things they want from men and the society, but refuse to DO THE THINGS THAT MEN AND SOCIETY EXPECTS FROM THEM.
THEY CLAIM TO BE FEMINISTS. WHILE THE MAKE FOLK CLAIM TO BE REDPILLERS OR MGTOW as a fall out from the feminist movement.

As a MAN, please put yourself first, then your dependents (children and your parents), before your wife or her family . Ensure that you take care of yourself, invest in yourself, take care of your kids and sort them out properly. Before you bend to any woman and her family .

It is the duty of all women to

1. Know what Men Want in a Woman and what women should also strive to be for men. (Faithful, submissive, feminine, ive, home maker and keeper, etc)

2. Choose wisely the man that knows what a woman should bring and highly values that. And

3. Choose wisely a man that knows what a man should also bring and values that as well (Protect, provide, lead, set perfect example, etc)



Most of these ladies will die lonely with the nonsense they are teaching them and feeding them through social media about “independent women” and “feminism”. Feminism that they practice only when it is safe and convenient.

And please do not tell me how men slept with you and dumped you. You chose the man. He tricked you?! Right but you chose the man. He deceived you ?! Right but you chose the man. Most times overlooking the red flags. Enjoying the thrills and outings and gifts.

Women need special classes and should be taught how to choose men wisely or how not to have sex with men until they are married. The more men that sleep with you, the more you loose your self dignity as a woman.

Rosecum:
Am rose,a young hardworking lady .My heart is heavy.am in delinma.i cant type much becoz i use button phone.i was duped my whole business money by a northern grain supplier.am left with nothing to care 4 my self and my family.i sold my andriod phone at a give away just 2 feed.am koboless and no cert to look 4 good job nor money 2 start business all over again.Am left with option of runs to surve.

If you review you analogy up there, you will realize that most of it comes from bad decisions. If you feel people will dissuade you from going into “RUNS” please note that most men will not. I will not dissuade you either.

You can do it with proper objectives to get in and get out. Then use the proceeds for something more respectable. Successful men and women today will hardly say all the embarrassing things they went through.

One more thing I would love to add is that as men, nothing thrills us as when women say “damn it.. if the men can sleep around we too can sleep around”. We welcome it with open arms because it means more single girls, more wives of men, more daughters of men. The more women that are free and open to sleeping around, the more available and constant the pleasures of sex for men. The more the trophies on the shelves of men. Every woman slept with is a trophy for a man. Even though the men try hard to lie and pretend that it is not. A man feels a sense of accomplishment bedding any new woman. This feeling of satisfaction is one of the rewards that bring closure to the energy expended in chasing the woman.

My advise would be that you have another business at the back of your mind before you start, so that after working for a period, you are able to quit and start something legitimate. Besides you will not look young forever. More girls turn 18 every year. And they are usually available and exploratory from 16-26. This is statistical fact. By 30 most men would ask “if she was valuable why hasn’t a guy married her….she must have a problem”. So my advise is, get in, hustle, get out, set yourself up financially. And marry quickly if you want to.

So think and plan your moves wisely. Be wise. And go into RUNS temporarily. Because it isn’t something you can do with all the Porsh and Boujie into old age. Cash out and then lay low and pursue your new career or business.

Well it is mainly from the idiocy of most ladies who think they have achieved something by getting married and trying to throw it in your face. In some experiences the ladies want to know if you still care about them and want you to come chasing them because they feel your ego will be activated that another man wants to “steal” them away.

The forget women may control sex, but men mainly control relationships. A man who isn’t interested is NOT interested. It is that simple. When men aren’t giving sex they can get it someone where else. Women are also free to get their relationship goals and meet their targets from other men who are willing and ready to settle.

You either (a) Promise you will be there and do not bother attending Or (b) Tell her point blank you aren’t attending and do not attend. I prefer the second option. I speak my mind and do not bother about what any lady thinks. As a matter of principle, I will never attend the marriage of any lady I have dated, had anything to do with sexually or that I physically attracted to. Never had and never will. I do not see the point. For ladies I have been involved with and we parted on happy , I MAY send a little gift. However, I will NEVER be physically there.

I live for myself and not anyone else. Women have their uses and men should learn not distract themselves with women beyond their uses.