NewStats: 3,264,843 , 8,184,881 topics. Date: Thursday, 12 June 2025 at 02:41 PM 2g4h18

Naaah i wouldnt want him in labour room, he can only stay in d waiting room. Reason being dat he wouldnt hav d patience of watching me through d pains. He may even out. Since he came with me to d hospital during the birth of our second baby he has insisted we stop having babies. Then he wasnt in d labour room with me then think of when he enters with me. Besides, his pressence cannot lesson my pain and cannot help in the expulsion of the baby, then whats the need. At that critical time, i only need Gods intervention. Simple!

Op i don't think its right for you now to feel that nothing can affect your relationship. You are not yet married. There are situations that may arise naturally which may change everything. We are in the world of realities.Till you get there, then you can tell us. It only takes the grace of God for you to get there, if two of you are meant to be together. Although you are right in your post but what worked for you may not work for another. It only takes God and determination on your part.

I thought other people do not experience it. If it happens i try to shout Jesus or i will try and move anypart of my body then i will b free. No longer scared of it.

The man did not marry d girl from pure love. Something forced him to marry her. Worse still he is not comitted to his marriage, too bad. He has to make the choice of loving d woman unless he is determined to engage in extramarital affair. He should Be determined and work for the success of his marriage. Afterall many hapi couples today never loved themselves as such initally but now accepted each orther and are now hapi. He sure cant get any satisfaction outside, he will only keep jumping from one woman to another till he ruins his future and reputation. He should Try to be wise, that road he wants to tread on will only land him in destruction.

Be urself, dont pretend. Do anything u can to show her u love her, u dont hav to shed blood to prove ur love. If she is not yet satisfied u opt out. Love comes naturally, wen u two r in love u dont hav to stress urself to prove it cos u already accepted urselves d way u r. Just b caring, understanding, forgiving dats all.

Obviously dis garri issue is becoming something else. I think i am enjoying it now. Come to think of it, garri deserves the honour its getting from nairaland because its the most widely consumed local food, which has given many people employment. Many are what they are today because their parents were garri dealers. Kudos to garrinized nairalanders for promoting garri. May your days be long.

@ poster u dont have anything to do with the ladies because the more you entertain their call the more hearthbroken you will be. You have to deal with your husband. Engage him in a serious conversation and dont compromise anything, be blunt. Dont beg but make him see reasons why he shouldnt do that again. Dont keep silent. Then report him to ur priest in the church and organize a couselling session for you both. Then pray very hard! There is nothing God cannot do.

I used to frown at them but later realised that its not their fault. Because in this country many poeple cannot afford delicious and expensive meals, what do they do, they resort to soaking garri with milk and groundnut and call it balanced diet. Toomuch garri has made them myopic. Don't blame them for its not their fault. Its due to corruption in nigeria.

The choice to love, endure, understand, respect, submit, share, and remain committed which is all embeded in the spirit of God and the grace of God hav been keeping us glued to each other.

They are now realizing the harm done to themselves by themselves. They thought that its only the christians and the easterners that will suffer but look at it now, the huge business investments made by igbos which helped in developing their towns are gone just like dat. This is a great lesson to the northerners as well as the igbos. Udo!

Chipmunks! Maleke wan be like kpeskele muske

No one adjective can discribe her qualities, cos she is an angel

To me dream means nothing.

U mean lagosians just started it, its uniben students way of life. Trust them they can dodge bills even sanitation bills. The only thing they know is flaunting expensive laptops and BB.

It could be her daughter the resemblance is so close. A pretty girl anyway. I dont think genny's real age is 33 she should be above dat.

I dont think i will have time to argue with christians who are blindfolded. Why are they all against catholic? Why are they talking about saints of God? Why do they call them dead? This is ignorance masterminded by the devil to lead souls astray and to peril. Talking about mary, humanly speaking its very callous to disregard the spotless mother of ur saviour if u would hold ur sinful mother in a high esteem. Imagine the way u revere ur pastor's wife calling them mummy and giving them titles? talking about saints ; do u believe in life after death, and resurection? If so then why are you wallowing in deciet? Even Jesus you claim you know, you have not seen physically, we are working with faith here when you read the bible pray to the holy spirit for proper understanding or else you derail.

[quote author=soledadd][/quote] the woman needs advice and not blames. Do you think you can predict human behaviour? Dont you know that human beings change with life situations. If you dont have anything to say just .

ednut1: Dis woman deserves what she is getting, instead of knwin ur BF well, u spend d whole time think of gettin him married, now u have it, reality noni

So pathetic. Pray harder this is the devil at work.

Lives waste by day, beatiful people are being forgoton. I think the death toll this year is the highest. Where are we heading to? How prepared are we to pay this ultimate price. Let live each day of our life as if there is no tomorow. Make the best out each day and have every cause to rejoice for you are alife. Even in their beauties, richies, expertise, intelligence, exposures and every good thing you can think of, they are no more. May their soul rest in peace. May God give their families the heart to bear.

From male perspective i think as soon as a man feels the need to have a companion and can fend for the family, even if he cannot meet every need. As long as he gets an understanding and hardworking woman, he can go ahead, with time and God on their side, they will make it.

In my area, its better now than before. hope it will continue to improve untill we achieve full power supply.

There are many health issues to be handled in this country, they will leave it and be talking about breastfeeding. Which sane mother would not want to breastfeed her child.

We are already putting some plans on ground on how to establsh a lucrative business down here then he will traveling occassionally.

With God all things are possible. you should be hapi you have a kid. You can cope if you have the zeal and are ready to face reality. Your own is just 6 months. I usually stay up to 2yrs before i see mine. We have been married since 4yrs. God blessed me with a girl and a boy and am happy. Although i miss my husband so much, his personality has helped me to endure. He is very caring and God fearing. I am hapily married, even happier than those with their husbands.

U know ur problem n its only u dat can get urself out of it. Try to remove d thought of ur times wit ur ex from ur mind. U confessed ur husb is good dont u think he deserves faithfulness from u? Even if he is not so good its not enough reason for u to hop into anoda man's bed. Wot if ur husb is seeing his ex, how would u take it? For God's sake u r a woman, a model n teacher. Make up ur mind not to see ur ex or even take his calls. Do not submit urself to d devil cos wen he starts using u, u will become nothing but a monster.

Some r now capitalizing on poeples predicament to make quick money. And their preys r women. Cos they want husband and child by all means. I pray women would learn.

Rubbish! I cant try it on my baby.

Wen dating, there should b an atom of submisiveness from d gal. If a man is courting a girl for marriage n notices bossy and arogant character in d girl do u think he can go on? Lets b realistic here. A man should lov his wife dearly for there to submisivenes on d lady's part. It doesnt mean women shoult take any shit dat comes dia way, u must still b ascertive in a way dat ur man will not overide u. There r times d woman corrects man n save their marriage. How do u expect me to submit wen i notice incriminating behaviours from my man dat can marr our union? Hell no, i will stand up n fight to finish.

I think d girl is forced to propose to u cos of the situation of tins. If u hav any doubt in ur mind concerning d marriage, dont just venture into it. Marry who u lov enough n will love u too. There r many issues in marriage dat can only b resolved by lov, forgivness n understanding. Marrige is a school of reality unless u r ready to face it u cannot succeed.