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Hi guys, i've always wondered if it is wrong to always show ur spouse that u really love them. u see, my friend loves his girlfriend so much that he can miss anythin just to make her happy. However, she always treats him like a fool even when his friends are there. she treats him with so much disrespect,even when she does somethin wrong, she turns it around and makes it look like his fault. She makes him apologise and then laughs at him with her friends. She calls on him to drive her places and calls him her driver (imagine), well, he's madly in love with her and doesn't hide it (but i'm very sure its not juju, )
so dear friends, i just wonder, Is it wrong to show that kind of feelin

I would have been too good asking guys out. Bad Toaster!!!! i would have been polite, gentle, mannered, cultured etc inshort everything the guys are not today. I would have gone for the tall, dark, huge/slim, well groomed, good looking guys. Very clean, no hip hop looking guy, i love men in corporate clothes, smells of power, which is a major attraction for me. Correct clothes o! (not gabadin tros and 2k packet shirt and CMS Bus stop ties). I would love a good dresser any day, even if he isnt all that facially. He must have good hygiene habits, well manicured nails and pedicured toes. Would also go for those with strands of grey hair!!!!!!!!!!!!!love it. My Sexy Grey!! Well if he isnt trim not too bad he should be well proportioned. i really do not like the stomach protuding more than the whole body. If you are big be big all over. Then lets come to diction. A good clear voice (particular about that too), fluent in English and if he has an accent it must be a good one. (I like the northern accent). He should have a decent job that pays his bills at least and must be a christian.

So those are the things i would be looking out for when toasting a guy. Hope its not too long poster!!!!


, Hmmmm, No long thin

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It's funny how just because the brother said he's not interested in girls - everyone is assumming he must be gay!
What's that about folks? There are people who are termed as "asexual". Asexual people just are not interested in sex or romance with either sex at all.

@ Bunna - Hey, listen you are only 20 years old with lots of life and experience ahead of you. You are still very much a work in progress. Don't let anyone make you feel like you are not normal. Everyone has their time to develop to another level of interests etc. Your's wil come if and when it is right for you. Maybe you are just smart and realise that it takes a very special person to engage your heart. The bottonm line right now is you're not feeling it and that's fine. Live by your own set of rules sweetheart and you'll be happy. There are lots of guys out there your age who not only are interested in girls but are ravaged by desies because of it and they have no future. Just chill and be you. Forget what anyone else thinks. Follow your heart,
I second 2 that

well,i don't have a problem with marryin my age mate,but i'll prefer someone younger.

well its good to hear all ur suggestions, we're workin thins out

Answer truthfully pls

hi guys, i was just wonderin how it would feel if the situation of guys toastin girls was reversed and girls were the ones responsible 4 d toastin, I'm aware that some girls practically toast guys in some situations, but if it was officially and culturally the societal approved way of doin thins, how often do u think u'll be toasted as a guy and what will u look out for from girls that toast u? and as a girl, what will u look out for when toastin a guy ?? pls lets Discuss,

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Dnt think its a sin, its somethin that happens to most guys in their sub-conscious state of mind. a dream is somethin u may not always have control over. Its also a natural thin (Just like menstruation in females)  just ask God 2 forgive u if its a sin

Just try and give her another chance if uve not found some body else, if she's nice,then go on with her. if she f***s up, then just bang her & bounce man, sh*t

My dear, what i'l advise is u shuld just give him a break, since ure very apologetic, try to stay away from him 4 a while. he is still very mad at u( anybody should be). All he needs is time to get over the annoyance. He is a very gentle man 4 allowin u stay in his house and even answerin u. give him sometime (like a month) and then try to apologise again. he must have been calm again. I guess u've learned a lot from dis experience? My guess is u love him very much,but u shuld try to control ur emotions, If ure attracted 2 someone else,try and get into a relationship,it'l help u get over it a lil bit,

Pls try and stop annoyin him. for u to it u can be annoyin sometimes, it means ure truly annoyin. I had a girl friend who always wanted thins her own way, and not giving room 4 any form of negotiation, it finally reached the elastic limit where i could not take it anymore after a lot of patience. had 2 let her leave.
Pls,if u want thins 2 go back 2 d way they used 2 be,try ur best and change. show him more love and give him all d attention he deserves.Take ur time 2 understand his likes and dislikes, things will get back 2 normal

I think i'll get all d money i can, then quickly run 2 d ladies bathroom , ha ha ha. i think most guys will give it a thot. lol
I'm also in a foul mood

well,its not really like i enjoy watchin her cry, i only find her more attractive when she's cryin, I've not been hard on her anyway & i don't let her gravel at my feet(I respect her a lot to allow her do dat). And to the best of my knowledge, i've been very open 2 her and she has been open 2 me on some thins too. just didn't understand why she had 2 lie on dis. will talk 2 her abt it sha.thanks

My Girl Friend Lied To Me, I'm Not Sure I Want Her Anymore

Hi guys, I just need your comments about something that happened between me and my girlfriend. we started dating in 2005 when i was in my final year in the university. we were so attached to each other that everyone knew about our relationship back then in sch. I was so attracted to her & till this moment, i think i still am . I've been so in love with her that i believed i was going 2 marry her (because i'm not sure of that anymore)

Well, to cut the long romantic story short, I always believed i'm older than her only 2 find out from her mother that she's 3 years older than i am. I recently paid her a visit without callin because i wanted 2 surprise her(i had just gone home 4 d sallah break from Abuja). However, she wasn't around,her mother had sent her to the market. I had to wait for her while her mum kept me company. Her birthday was around the corner and i wanted to get her sister's so we could organize a surprise party 4 her(my girlfriend).

This led to a long conversation, her mum askin me how i met her, and after narratin d whole story, she felt compelled to return the favour. she narrated how she met her husband and stated d exact year she gave birth to each of her children. That was how she mentioned my girl friend's real year of birth(without knowin her daughter had lied to me). I was so mad that i couldn't stay there anymore.i didn't let her mum know why i had 2 leave.

Anyway,she came to my house after her mum told her i came around (unaware of what i had found out).she came happily.i asked her why she lied to me all this while and she said she was goin to tell me, (when?)well, i told her i cannot continue the relationship anymore

[/color][color=#000099]. she has since been apologisin and sendin her friends & mine to beg on her behalf. I don't really mind d age difference, but i'm angry because she lied to me about somethin like that. D thin is even in my anger, i'm still attracted to her especially when she's cryin.I always pretend like "to hell" but the truth is, i find it so difficult to forget about her. Another problem is that i'll never have d trust i had in her any more. for her to keep that from me for two years, what else is she keepin from me?

So guys,do i give her another chance your response will be highly appreciated,thanks

he's not even a politician, why would a blooody south African want 2 kill him? Don't really understand, may his soul rest in peace.

oooh,where do i begin? well it all satrted when i was in primary 5. dis girl was kidnapped from another school and had just tansfered 2 my school(Nativity pri sch mkd). Her name is Doosuur Tilley-Gyado, we were seriously attracted 2 each other. However she was in pri 6 while i was in 5 and we would always eye each other. she became my sister's friend and somehow we got talkin,i was very shy then but the good thin is she was so bold.she would allow me eat her food with her b4 any of her friends.  
It was full of fun sha but nothin happened, have not seen her since we left pri school but heard she's in Kaduna state.well, will really love 2 see her again 2 see how she looks now. I'm in a relationship now so don't think anythin can happen btw us,besides, don't think i'll feel d same way. its just funny how people never 4get these kinds of memories, its all part of growin up