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Women are naturally redpilled. Don’t be a oneits man, that way you won’t understand their true nature. At least, experience being with two or three, before ending up with one. This way, you come out a winner.
Many men are simps out there bro. Smh

odinson1:
Na dating work you dey do with the white woman?

As in, the convo looks like that of a white head and a nigga

meobizy:
Humans are not one dimensional. A loving relationship will not negate the fact that a man can’t provide for his household from losing a job. A loving relationship will not change the fact someone’s mother died untimely. A loving relationship will not cure a failing business. What you typed is in relation to holding down a union. You forget that once humans accomplish a task, they put it in the backseat and focus on more important life aspects.

What you replied are life challenges that are inevitable. These challenges are what test our faith in life.
A partner losing their job will test the weight of a relationship financially. That is, can we weather the storm at these financially challenging times. This is how you know relationships that were built on the foundation of what another person can provide at the moment, and not his/her true potential of causing a change to happen soon.

Your friend who is a guy that lost his job and is fearful that he may lose his girlfriend is already on the wrong train. The earlier he alights the better for him. Because it shows his woman is not seeing beyond the present (many women don’t see though), and it affects both relationships and marriages.

Relationships will not come to a halt abruptly, the subtle signs are evident. Once communication and our interest do not align again, you already know one person is becoming tired. Therefore, work on communicating with your partner and make them see your plans for the future, try your best at showing that the future is bright.

Maybe you should read the image I attached.

You can’t under emphasize communication in a relationship. Once the spirit of communication fades, the minds drift.
Human beings with their own unique personalities and irrational/rational senses.

The beginning of failure is the day when a partner starts to be unable. Then that sweet connection the both of you share starts to become sour, and it may eventually collapse. LDR will even make it worse.

The more you communicate and redefine your decisions to be together, there is a tendency you both will bond.

JESHAL007:
no matter how beautiful ,attractive, appealing sexually, she is most likely not a virgin, why are you simping and pedestalizing a cheap hoe I don't care whether she's a prostitute with 5000 body counts or she has an ex or current boyfriend with 5000 different variations of sex styles to please

This is the girl you are falling in love with
This is the girl you are having sleepless night over
This is the girl you are simping for

A defiled hoe

I read this x10

Wedding bells ring every now and then, on Saturdays someone is always getting wedded in Nigeria. Some pussy have been cucked mercilessly in their heyday that you wonder who on earth is going to settle with these girls.

As a guy man u suppose get the gist of some girls in the area that when growing as a young guy, these girls don dey knack steady.
Such a story is of a girl I knew back then, as young as I was then, I know of her hoeing story, because she dated one of our church guys, a cute bad boi.

Today, my mom attended an introduction ceremony and she is the bride to be, lol.

Wooo, either way girls will always win in these sexual markets. Because there will always be a guy to wife them, after they have enjoyed their hoeing phase. Although it took a long time before she got married, eventually she will always get a man. But, I will never be that type of man in my lifetime.
It may happen you may not get a virgin, and if she’s not a virgin, treat her like a nonvirgin. Let it be obvious to her that she’s not a virgin, infact let her be aware of this fact. Be sure that there are other things you are considering before you make a union with her.

Another gist, I know this other girl that their family relocated to our area from Lagos (Bariga) about nine years ago, the guy that she first had a relationship with was a street bad boi. I mean bad to the core, so you can imagine what they had then. Later on, they ended things. This same girl used to get picked up by a guy with a car, just a stone throw from their house. I mean she could have done her rendezvous anywhere, and nobody cares. But she made it obvious then that while me and my guys are still outside late in the night, she hops into a Venza.
Smh, I came home some days ago and I still see her around, she’s now calm in character and probably chaste. Well, not like I care.
But it’s still certain that these girls will settle with a guy.
I will never be that guy.

Out of the whole ladies in this life. A man still decide to choose this feminist LovePeddler. Funnily enough, people are still trying let him see his mistake, instead he turned a blind eye, and continues to defend his LovePeddler girlfriend.

His this the type of gurl you will take to your parents?

Let the game continue.

JESHAL007:
The aim of the red pill is for men to see below the surface and stay on course as a man. Not trifling in life with unserious issues like running after the low-value girls in your neighbourhood etc.

When a man gets to the point in his life where he sees girls, especially in his neighborhood and ignores them, because familiarity brews all kinds of rubbish that may cause him a setback. At this point, he has a definite path to greatness.

When you know you can get laid, but you start to do a mental calculation like is the pussy deserving of my time. Because I have got no time to waste in life for frivolities.

The guy that a girl likes, you can’t take it away from her head. Even when you try to avoid her, maybe you see her as a sister. Two, three, four years, when she sees the opportunity to be with you, she will not hesitate to ride. It's a genuine desire. So many guys may not experience this in their lifetime. Smh
Real life shit, it happens.

And sometimes, the reason she may be giving you a lot of headaches is maybe you are not the kind of guy that she desires.

Rizzputin:


The blame isn't on the mum per se. That's the surface reason. Surface reasons rarely ever are true problem. They're like symptoms or complications. The real problem is underneath which is you


If you had set CLEAR boundaries (while reassuring her obviously), she would have disobeyed her mum to please you. A woman's primal instinct and urge is to get into a relationship with the best man available. That's the best power men have because we're custodians of relationships. So setting clear boundaries should be paramount

I'm pretty sure this is not the first time she didn't something wrong and came back begging & apologising. The way I see it, she uses this "Do then apologize later if wrong" to test what your boundaries are. The right way is for you to set and make it clear rather than having her "test" it herself.


Secondly, how long has her Dad been away from her mum? If it's a considerable amount of time, then there will still be issues. Let me explain why I asked you those two questions:


----Her Relationship With Her Dad. This is primarily about respect for you. If she respects her dad, his struggles and accomplishments then she has a good idea of what it takes to be a man. In that regard, she'll respect you too.


But that's not all. Respecting her Dad is not enough. So let's look at the next question:



-----Is she from A single parent or broken home. Clearly this girl is a product of a broken home. But why is this a CONCERN. Your story is a PERFECT example.

The reason why women from broken homes tend NOT to be marriage materials is simple: Whenever you have problems with her daughter, she will advise her based on her hidden resentment for the girl's father. She will be quick to paint you in a bad light because of the wrongs of her father

"This is how your father started with me. Don't make the mistake I made" "men are like this. I when your dad this something similar"

A problem between you and her daughter will be overblown by her because of the resentment she feels for her father


These are not all though. There's WAY MORE that goes into vetting a woman. After all, nothing quality comes easy.

From what I've observed, the problem came from your lack of boundaries most especially and then your vetting process.


Anyways, kudos to you for sharing this. Shows strength. It's a lesson to learn

To corroborate this statement of a girl coming from a broken home. A girl whose mother resents her father, will always see things from her mother’s lenses.
There is this girl I met in uni back in the days, I still check her WhatsApp status. The story I heard was that both her parents were separated, and her father is irresponsible and didn’t cater for them. She worships her mother on her status.

Whenever I check her status I just smile, because I know she will have relationship issues. Already, she is separated from the guy who took her virginity because of her indecisions and flimsy opinions from friends.

It will be hard for such girls to see the potential in a man. It can’t work, because you can’t give what you don’t have.

Coming from a home with both parents living together, I know the type of discussions my mom and sis have against my father, just because he isn’t a full provider of the home.

How much more, a girl that isn’t from a home with the father has the foundation. Something will always be missing in her life. And do you think you can deal with it?

Settling with a girl is beyond being in love, other things need to be considered.
You need to vet her properly, set boundaries.

Jeshal007 well done bro . The world is a crazy place, and it’s good to know how far things can go south. Funnily enough, many men are not here on this platform to know the truth being shared.

As a man, your number one greatness is to understand the female nature, lol. You need it for marital bliss, in business, (for fun), to climb the social hierarchy and in every part of your existence. Life is too stressful and demanding for you to be a failure in leading a woman. All Jeshal007 has posted is nothing but the truth.

tuoyoojo:
I do not think they had any fraud case against him.

I believe the man's prowess in za other room was "noised abroad" by the women of those high ranking officers he bedded and those women wanted to come to have their taste of the community abunna

In other to live to the "legendary status" ,he probably would stepped on the toes of someone ( maybe a man of one of the women he bedded) who did his investigation and found the guy's soft under belly....which was his love for women's abunna and his penchant for making videos to reenact his "glory" moments

This action leaves one with sober reflection

A man who conquers his enemy is strong, but the one who conquers his self ( esp when he can afford his guilty pleasures) is stronger

May God help us, because nobody holy

True there was no fraud case. If it were a case of fraud, firstly the man would be invited for hearing by his office. Certainly, he stepped on the wrong toes that was privy of the sex tapes. That was their aim to search his house.

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jorion:


Because they can fake it. You don't really have to spend too much to bang a girl, just have 5k to give and fake the rest with beautiful lies.

I know someone that’s very good at this game, and he is always successful with the act.

FireUpNow:
What's in the body of a 70 yrs old woman still bleeping? Disgusting

I know a grandma (in her 80s) that still has a sexual partner. I know because I lived in her late husband’s house, which she occupies. Her sexual partner was maybe a lover in her youth.

Some women can refrain from sex after the death of their husband, but it’s never easy for them, especially the lonely ones. If you see a widow(50-up) for long years without a sexual partner, she’s a rare gem.

I know of a widow with children older than me staying alone, she works. One day, she requested of me to help her with a transfer on her phone, both of us in her house alone. If not for the sake of doing the right things, I know what could have happened that day. She was literally shaky, and there was a sexual tension brewing within the moments, I had to sit on the arm of the sofa to give enough space.

Just the way a man needs copulation in their old age, it’s more intense for a woman too. Its just the cultural restrain on women not to be overt sexually that keeps them in check.

She detest you as a weak man, and she will make you suffer for being a weak man.
You think it’s love, it’s not. She disrespects you all the time, and you still go back to ask her in a beautiful voice why she is acting like that towards you, then you forgive and tell her calmly to forget about the issue. Lol, the end of such men is full of guilt. And you will ultimately suffer for your emotional weakness.

Lesson: don’t tolerate her disrespect in any way.

Women are cunning in act. You may not notice it is being disrespectful, but it gets disastrous over time. So, never tolerate her little lies of being busy and unable to text you “how is your day going”, or her plan of visiting a place and you are not aware she is already on the road.
These are the subtle signals of being disrespectful.

Says a girl…


Her crys are lies…

Marriage will not bring a lasting solution to your problems, don’t mind all those telling you to get married. The truth is, you’re battling an addiction of sexual lust with females. You get turned on by what you see mostly on the internet (which I also see), and it affects a majority of guys, not me though.

I can’t tell you to do this or that as a solution, it may not work for you. Certainly, the first thing to do in solving a problem is to define the problem. Which you have defined that you spend a lot on escorts, and you want to stop. A determined mind will stop that rubbish, but I doubt if it will be easy or happen quickly, because I realize you are far deep in the ocean of debauchery.

Yes, you can quit. It’s all in the mind.

Warning, that your Nigerian girlfriend may be your worst nightmare, when you later discover she’s not an angel, you supposedly know. I doubt it 99.9%. You go dey trust all these Nigerian gurls. To crown it all, a long distance relationship from Canada to Nigeria. LWKMD, toto wey dem dey service steady.

Redefine your life and purpose if you want greatness. Better still, try to get a girlfriend within that county if you know sex is so important to you.

A girl ed her status and he replied.

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Don’t be a simp in this life, it is worthless, even gurls hate it, they hate u for it.

Women are full of emotional baggage, these I’ve seen from experiences and, if you has a man is not emotionally firm, then issues will arise.

The both of you’re immature and shouldn’t be in this marriage. Because you’ve always insulted each other since the initial stage of the relationship.

On the one hand, she doesn’t revere you as a man, has emotional weakness (low self-esteem), and can easily be lured sexually, then blame it on her weaknesses. On the other hand, the blame is on you because, you don’t assert authority as a man. God forbid bad thing, I know my girlfriend slept overnight at another guy’s place. Tufiakwa.

I once had a girl with similar character with your wife. I won’t go into details, but certainly they’re all have emotional issues, like something is lacking from their upbringing that makes them compel you to do things for them, a kind of narcissistic behavior. It may be daddy issues.

Leave her alone, you’re not the savior of this life. It’s even better to quit at this early stage, seeing this signs because, it will definitely become worse.
As you said, she’s switched character to become her real self. And that is her true self, which can never change.

Boss, a girl’s character trumps any other thing, including shape and beauty. Find peace of mind.

Things dey happen oo

Raw potatoes are now costly to buy, plus oil and other factors for cooking; it becomes harsh and expensive, doing a cheap trade in the present Nigeria economy.


Nigeria is laughable, when you think of things that affect the survival of the common man on the street: food, clothing, drugs, basic commodities like your toothpaste, bathing soap, condiments, including the value of money, have become unstable, compared to the actual prices they used to be, a decade ago. For a country with rich resources and population, we are far beneath our outcry on demands from the government.

But we are still in need of basic life amenities, at the top of the list is food—legumes, grains, cereals, fruits, vegetables, oil and pepper are constantly increasing prices. Let me paint a candid picture of my narrative about Nigerians' years of privation. Because, in another five-nine years, the younger generations will lament the same hardship.

Years ago—about 11 years, common to all for a refreshment food is ‘potatoes’; fried potatoes, bean cake(akara) with bread, fried yam, fried plantain, and water yam fritters(ojojo) all together belong to the same class of survival food for Nigerians. Life was simpler, we weren’t living in affluence, but not hungry.
The irony is, our present reality is in shambles, an average Nigerian earns below the standard of living, (forget statistics and deal with the realities of struggling families in your streets) finding survival on their own, still the government has remained a pain in the arse.

Still emphasizing on ‘potatoes’, I love fried potatoes with stew, prepared by street vendors, especially when it is hot and tasty. This roadside fries, so cheap to buy, that me and many others eat for refreshment to our fill, even purchased by some families to serve for supper, have gone extinct on our streets. The sad truth is food mongers in the business find it hard to make sales. Raw potatoes are now costly to buy, plus oil and other factors for cooking; it becomes harsh and expensive, doing a cheap trade in the present Nigeria economy.

This is not a favorite food composition, it is an expository on the sufferings faced by the populace. I can not eat potatoes again, because it is not economical—ordinary potatoes, that people don’t cherish as a staple, have now become a substitute for costly yams; yet not affordable. How hard can it be?

Let’s understand this grief from the standpoint of an average man on the street. A father or mother with kids, some people have large families. An acquaintance shared with me some days ago, his sister gave birth to 11 kids—don’t laugh it off.

I acknowledge, the survival of these families is nobody’s responsibility but, the government owes us the responsibility of creating a food surplus, which they have failed to make. The ineptitude of the government then becomes a strain on the citizens' wellbeing. The policy of closing the frontier, in order to help local farmers sell their products is quite understandable however, such a policy requires a pancea to cushion the sufferings that emerges from the limited food production at home. Let’s not even go into the details of food scarcity, due to farmers' insecurity on the farm, the upshot of an increase in food crops in our market.


When will the Nigeria ‘e go better’ come alive? Will it materialize or not? These are a series of questions people are gripping. Even the Isrealites do not suffer these long years of hardship before their God harkens to their cry from the wilderness; it’s not funny. I can continue to lament in writing—other writers have done the same, what has changed, will the economic conditions ever change for the better?
The truth is the Nigerian leaders are not in the service of the masses, nobody can tell me otherwise.

Let me drop this here

Rema is on drugs

His name (Ashogbon) in Yoruba refers to sense. So don’t blame his idea. A person’s name is significant to their destiny in life

owem19:
War against yahoo boys

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FRANCISTOWN:

Exactly! But I do believe in the next life thing.

You don’t have to believe, because you will not know that it’s happening . Only an highly spiritual person can be able to connect the dots, because they have a clairvoyance.

One thing I am certain of and I’ve experienced is that, events are linked in life. Things do not just happen, they are made/caused to happen for a reason. I know this for sure.

A man can be good in his doings and eventually experience bad fate in life, also the same applies to a bad person. In the same vein, both good and bad person may reap what they have sown. Never forget life is a mystery, do yourself good not to be disturbed by its depth.
Good things happen to bad people, bad things happen to good people. Know this and have peace. Nobody has it all.

Lastly, Karma is not asleep ooo, it will happen either now or your next life. Life is just too spiritual to say your deeds will be forgotten.

You just hit d nail bro

Meanwhile, another 15 year old girl in my area already knows all about how to handle a man.
Same age, different orientation, community background and future ambitions.