NewStats: 3,261,342 , 8,173,727 topics. Date: Wednesday, 28 May 2025 at 09:27 PM 54813

gentleguy1975:
Paul onuachu and Taiwo Awoniyi on standby?And Amoo is called up while Ejuke is on standby? Something isn't adding up here

Have you watched Amoo play?

Help2020:

If you want to see baller pls go and watch Akinkunmi Amoo. That guy nan bomb. Danm

I swear....that guy na beast. my jaw dropped few around January when I stumbled on his video... I was just screaming, this is Nigerian Messi version... I was mad with excitement.

thatsleepboy1:
Go back to that village to ask for their daughter's hand in marriage, they'll use juju to pursue and you won't the road that leads to that place again. No be ilorin pple? Ndị uchụ

Short up.. no dey use your experience the carpet other people. If the community was bad to him, he wouldn't do that project. I served in Ondo as an Igbo boy along with other igbos, we left our mark there. Apart from poor internet, I really enjoyed my time there.

sagitariusbaby:
Russia will destroy this country and the people will forever hate them whether Russia wins this war or not the people of Ukraine will never forgive Russia.

You want people to be loyal to you yet you are destroying all they and their fore fathers have worked for. Russia will gain nothing but a long-term enemy after destroying Ukraine.

In this age and time, nobody wants to be slave to anyone.. we see it here in Nigeria. At the end of the day, what you say is what will happen. There are better ways to go about this.

pocohantas:


It is normal, not just with online dating, even physical. In the first few weeks, the fire is high, there are too many things to catch up on.

-How many are you in your family?
-Do you eat ogbono?
-Where did you school?
-What is your favourite colour?
-I am an Arsenal fan so I am used to disappointments…etc

When you guys have exhausted the dating past questions, then the real work starts.

I think if we women put in as much work as men do. You know, they are most times the ones calling, asking that you guys meet physically, initiating video calls and you just turn these things down because you don’t want to see his face that day. Maybe we should try doing the work sometimes. What do you think?

God bless you. To be candid, an average Nigerian lady doesn't know these things and some of them miss out on great men. That's how a girl killed something that was going on well and I kept the convo going, even when she was not initiating chats anymore.

I would call, I would chat... not that I wasn't aware but I kept on until the day I decided to stop it all simply because I SMS her, she saw it but never replied until I buzzed her on WhatsApp. That's when she mentioned that she saw my SMS. That drove me mad, really mad.

At the peak of my anger, I told her to delete all my numbers from her phone cos I couldn't withstand her ghosting attitude anymore, though she refused to delete and told me to calm down. I couldn't bring myself to communicate with her as I would love to so that it does not look like I don't have self-worth.

Pidginwhisper:
This is laughable. Ball control is one of Osimhen major attributes. He does it with ease. I no know the Osimhen you dey talk.

Omo, me sef dey here dey shock for that guy... Osimeh wey dey control ball on the run if no one tackles him? someone that a keeper would be scared of seeing him coming with the ball?

pocohantas:
All these big and royal furnitures Nigerians put in their houses sets me off. Especially when it is in a rented property. Small space, big furniture. You won’t get to see the beauty of the so called royal furniture. Worse is, they are hardly ever comfortable. You can’t even dose off on those chairs .

Na una know wetin una dey see for am sha.

Grey and mustard combination is

I thought you posted something for sale....

mschwwwwww...

TheRareGem1:
Big tech companies need to start paying tax seriously, especially those that have huge and massive presence in Nigeria and the financial act is crystal clear. It's high time.

una. Go. Just open mouth WA...

They are on the internet, they are not in Nigeria...

They will not make the mistake of opening office in Nigeria.

Tinubuadvocate:
No wonder ipob are claiming Niger delta people land.

you are an idiot.

There are Igbos in other parts of today's SS. Asaba people are Igbos for example.

There are Igbos, though small in population, in Benue.

Igbos on the edges of SE were cut off and ed to other regions.

Blakpot:



Be calming down na

it is annoying to see this people bring God into such terrain bro.

Hian..

TheStranger:
Congratulations to him.
Is he the chronic debtor?

they are brothers I think.

officialmario:
Some ladies may be having an affair with their lover, they had great time together, but he is no longer answering his phones and looks to be unable to meet your demands. You may have fallen in love with him, but he vanished that night after having a taste of you, it happens to me at times whenever I have sex with a woman I don't have much feelings for, the love disappears after having a taste of her, but I always try to make myself available for her, even after the whole scenario.

I had love the whole house to shed more light on this.

Why do men lose interest in women after sleeping with them?

over to you.

Bros that was not love. It was just infatuation.

Love does not vanish after sex cos her body was not what attracted you to her.

Simple.

orohbiro:
maduka gave out cars just to get 5 votes my guy no go try this nonsense called politics again

Nigerians don't like foreign based guys coming to contest.

They prefer those in Nigeria.

It is a historical fact.

Philipxxxx0:
Bro everything in this life has been programmed by God, it is time for Soludo to be governor, that is why he put PDP in the state of confusion , maduka is the best candidate for PDP but they choose another person, it is lord's doing

leave God out of this kind of thing so that thunder will not strike you dead.

You people don't even respect God and you will bring him into discussion were fraudulent activities such as Nigeria politics is rive.

Are u mad?

BosseJ:


As in, I'm in a state of shock. After all the media hype. The guy must have spent so much on his campaign.

Nigerians don't like foreign based people coming home fore elections.

I don't think any of them have ever won any election in Nigeria based on my knowledge.

I might be wrong but they rarely get the s.

sigiyaya112:
This people dont know Buhari

Abeg help me tell them again lol... Baba will not reverse anything. Let's just wait for him to finish the useless tenure and go.

Juliusmalema:
Let the dot effect good governance in Abia state.

and not prioritising every words someone said.

Dot or no Dot, the peoples need good governance..


If he pursues governance this way he expends so much energy on this, I think by now all these agitations will be a thing of the past

Aba-ri-be

is he the governor of Abia state?

Julianaa:
200 million naira just for one fight

Champ

don't forget he also has staff that he will pay. His coacher, sparing partners, medical doctors etc

these people are lies.

Dem think say na 2014 we still dey

signz:


There are job opportunities for cloud certs holders in Nigeria?

Is it in high demand abroad and can cloud certs holders in Nigeria work remotely for companies abroad?

Thank you

When you are targeting this kind of tech certs., don't think of just Nigeria but global. Think remote jobs so that u can escape Nigeria's naira inflation

Tvibes001:
Caging him before the primaries, truly the north knows how to use power.

I swear man! I swear. You have to give it to them.

stanliwise:

No problem

Hi, thanks. I just did. Please do let me know when you reply. i don't have a notification on the email.

stanliwise:

Stop mixing playboy tricks with quality relationship bro.
I know when I see a gurl and the next thing I want is to get her on my bed. It’s straight to sex talk after we connect.
But when I want something serious. Dirty talks gets on the conversation time to time but it is quite different.
When a girl see a guy she like all round. She is not caught up because the guy sparked a sexual conversation all the time

Okay, I understand what you mean here. Do you mind if I DM you?

WowSweetGuy:
Na fight full Nigeria dna

i swear ooo

obiekunie01:
funny s i read the title i just said he is likely from benin.

only to open the thread and it confirmed my guess.

true. The face says it all.

Ishilove:

Lol. Congrats.

Kids. Smh

stanliwise:
A gurl yes is not so straight forward o. Don’t be carried away by ordinary yes. Learn to understand when their yes are communicated by their actions.
It is very important

I understand and that is why I said I have to see it in her action before I would make move and even that, I wouldn't be available like I used to.

stanliwise:

I understand clearly. But don’t give women promises only except if those promises are also your own promises.
Some women uses promises to play games and tie you to their rules, be careful how you approach your promises on girls you truely care about. For the ones you don’t it’s just a matter to time and both of you would do away with time.
Keep staying calm and keep your options open, now she is not responding does not mean you throw useful time and attention to her. Other things of life still dey. The moment she shows more seriousness, the moment you too become more serious.

Exactly, the moment she shows more seriousness, the moment I do same. But unless she does that, I won't make any with her. And even if she makes move, I will have to sit it out and be sure is really serious.

However, even if that happens, the usual over availability would not be there any more cos she didn't appreciate it.

stanliwise:

There is a twist to it. If you appear too strong about relationship she may feel that you want to just take advantage of the situation. What do most people do in relationship?
Sex and spend money, nothing more. So she may feel that way.
Stating your point clear and just fading away is a more mature approach. While you fade, look more calm, collected and happy. Talk if you have to, laugh if you have to
But all will fade slowly while you keep the room temperature about relationship and not friendship.
Infact it should be more in your approach than words, treat her like someone you’re romantically attracted to rather than someone who is a friend.

thanks so much. Yeah, I really like her for real and despite how it made me feel, I still tried to make give her the impression that It wasn't about the sex or her body that I am after but how we communicated when we started.

There was no room for mind games or second guessing the other person.

The babe is fun to be with to be honest. She got mad vibes and i love it. So I kinda bonded with her just because of that.

And I happen to be communication person. We clicked right from the first day, talked like we had known for long. You get?

It is sad

I will do as you have said and be more actionable or proactive by my approach than words but then, I left the ball in her court. If she makes the move, I will proceed. But for now, I don't want to be around trying to chat her up after all I have said. It would look like i am not a man of my words.

So except she reaches out to me, I am not gonna make any move.

stanliwise:

Yeah it’s cool you told her you don’t want just friendship but don’t show aggression towards it.

Yeah, I wasn't showing aggression in a way, Though it might seem that way but the truth is, I was just trying as much as possible to make her see that I wasn't playing games

Executer:

The delusion...you won't fit into everybody's ideal.deal with it
Even the world richest man would still have a lot of ladies who won't fancy him.quit all this chest beating all because a lady told you no

But he is already dealing with it he knows how to na...

You don't know the reason for her rejecting him. It could have been on financial grounds. I have been there before so I know why the OP felt that way.

Has girl ever stopped picking your call after the first meeting/outing? That was my situation... years later, she tried to reconnect but I just played her left and right but never truly accepted her.

Jack005:
it depends on the level of her pride, you know women always want to be on the winning side when it comes to matters like this. In furtherance to that, you went straight to the point, you hit the nail on the head by letting how know what you really want from her.. In my own case I just let my actions do the talking...Lets see how it pans out.

In that case, ONLY make her do the work in this case. Let her chase you to a certain extent before you make any move and when you make such move NEVER verbally ask her out again.

Yes, a friend actually said I shouldn't have announced my exit and that I should do it your way--let my silence do the talking and that it works better.

However, in my own case, I knew that she was already feeling that I am too available (quite the contrary at the beginning) and her perception of me has waned, which wasn't the case when we started.

Me being outspoken is a plus because I would want to wipe that image in her mind.

Firstly, I outrightly rejected her offer. secondly, I stated what I want from her BOLDLY and that I want nothing more or less.

Thirdly, I made it clear that I have to respect her wish as I do not want to be perceived as a pest. Meaning, I am not gonna be available anymore and I would not be asking again, else she would think I am pestering her. This also means: "girl, even if I was being overly present, I can still discard you and do away with you."

Fourthly, I gave her a condition on reaching out only if she changes her mind so as to prevent any stupid mind game....

All these will be uselessly wasted IF I still reach out to her after saying all that because I have spoken so confidently and boldly and the best thing to do now is never reaching out to her EXCEPT she does it herself.

In my own case, it is very important that I do not reach out because, for some time, I had been the one initiating chats, which was not the case when we started... Do you get it?

Now, I have to sit back and prove that I really MEAN my words by STICKING to them, which is why even a week is not sure that she will reach out based on the circumstance. She would want to really see IF i mean those words.

It is not a case of being arrogant because a girl offered me just friends. It is about the image/perception which led to that.