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remedick:
Yeah, I wasn't showing aggression in a way, Though it might seem that way but the truth is, I was just trying as much as possible to make her see that I wasn't playing games

There is a twist to it. If you appear too strong about relationship she may feel that you want to just take advantage of the situation. What do most people do in relationship?
Sex and spend money, nothing more. So she may feel that way.
Stating your point clear and just fading away is a more mature approach. While you fade, look more calm, collected and happy. Talk if you have to, laugh if you have to
But all will fade slowly while you keep the room temperature about relationship and not friendship.
Infact it should be more in your approach than words, treat her like someone you’re romantically attracted to rather than someone who is a friend.

MikeofKd:
I once had a girl tell me the phrase "let's just be friends Michael" I told her it was suicidal to be just friends with someone you truly love ,called it a quit ,bitch was upset cause I started rolling with other prettier girls immediately she still stares at me till today in school.

But the d boy so brilliant he doesn't have a F to give . My grades on fleek ,no carry overs, insha Allah till I graduate ,still dey 300L , swagger on point , balance be like phone number ,my shoes super dope ,my drip they make girls wet ,got a fridge at my hostel and a plasma, with cartoons of Indomie and eggs ,drinks yakpa as well ,from whiskey to spirit ,weed sef dey from sk to loud to Arizona , lol bitch is truly regretting now but its too late .

So you had to use insultive words on her and hype yourself up and you claim she is regretting her decision?? Guy,the only person regretting shit is you,the girl is very lucky she didn't accept your advances,cause you are a low.life

Honestly our women are the most confused set of people. If relationship no work let a man go. Why friend zone him and expect attention, goodies and when you aren't willing to do same in return? Sex this, sex that yet they masturbate like hell and crave for men who do not feel same way. SMH the list goes on..Guys we sef need to have principles.

Who get time for girlfriend

stanliwise:

There is a twist to it. If you appear too strong about relationship she may feel that you want to just take advantage of the situation. What do most people do in relationship?
Sex and spend money, nothing more. So she may feel that way.
Stating your point clear and just fading away is a more mature approach. While you fade, look more calm, collected and happy. Talk if you have to, laugh if you have to
But all will fade slowly while you keep the room temperature about relationship and not friendship.
Infact it should be more in your approach than words, treat her like someone you’re romantically attracted to rather than someone who is a friend.

thanks so much. Yeah, I really like her for real and despite how it made me feel, I still tried to make give her the impression that It wasn't about the sex or her body that I am after but how we communicated when we started.

There was no room for mind games or second guessing the other person.

The babe is fun to be with to be honest. She got mad vibes and i love it. So I kinda bonded with her just because of that.

And I happen to be communication person. We clicked right from the first day, talked like we had known for long. You get?

It is sad

I will do as you have said and be more actionable or proactive by my approach than words but then, I left the ball in her court. If she makes the move, I will proceed. But for now, I don't want to be around trying to chat her up after all I have said. It would look like i am not a man of my words.

So except she reaches out to me, I am not gonna make any move.

remedick:
thanks so much. Yeah, I really like her for real and despite how it made me feel, I still tried to make give her the impression that It wasn't about the sex or her body that I am after but how we communicated when we started.

There was no room for mind games or second guessing the other person.

The babe is fun to be with to be honest. She got mad vibes and i love it. So I kinda bonded with her just because of that.

And I happen to be communication person. We clicked right from the first day, talked like we had known for long. You get?

It is sad

I understand clearly. But don’t give women promises only except if those promises are also your own promises.
Some women uses promises to play games and tie you to their rules, be careful how you approach your promises on girls you truely care about. For the ones you don’t it’s just a matter to time and both of you would do away with time.
Keep staying calm and keep your options open, now she is not responding does not mean you throw useful time and attention to her. Other things of life still dey. The moment she shows more seriousness, the moment you too become more serious.

stanliwise:

I understand clearly. But don’t give women promises only except if those promises are also your own promises.
Some women uses promises to play games and tie you to their rules, be careful how you approach your promises on girls you truely care about. For the ones you don’t it’s just a matter to time and both of you would do away with time.
Keep staying calm and keep your options open, now she is not responding does not mean you throw useful time and attention to her. Other things of life still dey. The moment she shows more seriousness, the moment you too become more serious.

Exactly, the moment she shows more seriousness, the moment I do same. But unless she does that, I won't make any with her. And even if she makes move, I will have to sit it out and be sure is really serious.

However, even if that happens, the usual over availability would not be there any more cos she didn't appreciate it.

remedick:


Exactly, the moment she shows more seriousness, the moment I do same. But unless she does that, I won't make any with her. And even if she makes move, I will have to sit it out and be sure is really serious.

However, even if that happens, the usual over availability would not be there any more cos she didn't appreciate it.

A gurl yes is not so straight forward o. Don’t be carried away by ordinary yes. Learn to understand when their yes are communicated by their actions.
It is very important

MikeofKd:
I once had a girl tell me the phrase "let's just be friends Michael" I told her it was suicidal to be just friends with someone you truly love ,called it a quit ,bitch was upset cause I started rolling with other prettier girls immediately she still stares at me till today in school.

But the d boy so brilliant he doesn't have a F to give . My grades on fleek ,no carry overs, insha Allah till I graduate ,still dey 300L , swagger on point , balance be like phone number ,my shoes super dope ,my drip they make girls wet ,got a fridge at my hostel and a plasma, with cartoons of Indomie and eggs ,drinks yakpa as well ,from whiskey to spirit ,weed sef dey from sk to loud to Arizona , lol bitch is truly regretting now but its too late .

Lol. Congrats.

Kids. Smh

stanliwise:
A gurl yes is not so straight forward o. Don’t be carried away by ordinary yes. Learn to understand when their yes are communicated by their actions.
It is very important

I understand and that is why I said I have to see it in her action before I would make move and even that, I wouldn't be available like I used to.

Ishilove:

Lol. Congrats.

Kids. Smh

remedick:
That is how they like it actually. They like being treated like a whoreee.

For example...

Boy A to girl: You are an amazing lady that I will like to spend time with in the future. The most gorgeous my eyes have ever seen. He does this so often...

Boy B to same girl: Look at those ass...boobs so round and I feel like placing my tongues on there. she smiles and laugh... after a while, he disappears and reappears.

She will prefer boy B to boy A. Why? Boy B tends to make her feel sexual desired but A doesn't. That is why when you talk dirty with most girls, chances of banging her if you can sexually arouse her within that chat or period is over 80%. That is why they have guys who they are not dating banging them so often cos the guy actually does not want anything to do with them apart from bringing out that bittch out and banging the hell out of it.

Stop mixing playboy tricks with quality relationship bro.

MikeofKd:
I once had a girl tell me the phrase "let's just be friends Michael" I told her it was suicidal to be just friends with someone you truly love ,called it a quit ,bitch was upset cause I started rolling with other prettier girls immediately she still stares at me till today in school.

But the d boy so brilliant he doesn't have a F to give . My grades on fleek ,no carry overs, insha Allah till I graduate ,still dey 300L , swagger on point , balance be like phone number ,my shoes super dope ,my drip they make girls wet ,got a fridge at my hostel and a plasma, with cartoons of Indomie and eggs ,drinks yakpa as well ,from whiskey to spirit ,weed sef dey from sk to loud to Arizona , lol bitch is truly regretting now but its too late .

You too much. . She think say she wise

stanliwise:

Stop mixing playboy tricks with quality relationship bro.
I know when I see a gurl and the next thing I want is to get her on my bed. It’s straight to sex talk after we connect.
But when I want something serious. Dirty talks gets on the conversation time to time but it is quite different.
When a girl see a guy she like all round. She is not caught up because the guy sparked a sexual conversation all the time

Okay, I understand what you mean here. Do you mind if I DM you?

remedick:
Okay, I understand what you mean here. Do you mind if I DM you?

No problem

stanliwise:

No problem

Hi, thanks. I just did. Please do let me know when you reply. i don't have a notification on the email.

And you refused to read this book below? If you had read it, you would've known what to do.

Mr. Friendzone https://shop.wetclef.com/blog/2019/05/30/-mr-friendzone/