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gr8ofnnetwork:
Talkativeness is killing Obi

psucc:
If your identity can feed him without depending on you and always begging, forget his selfishness. We have them in every family.

One I know, the brother singlehandedly struggled so hard to educate him through the university against all odds. Today, the said brother is on sickbed for 5years now and he hasn't visited, called nor even chat with him on any social media. He hasn't given any Kobo to the brother for drugs. He's employed. Still single o! But doesn't care for the one that helped him

Hmm. E bad o. I was thinking about the variations of ungratefulness last night, as in, stories of it, and here's another example for me.

Seems it can't be cured.

meobizy:
1. E be like all these na step family something. I doubt all the actors in this story come from the same mother.

2. The boy should be under eighteen, hence his identity not working for the scheme.

3. I have an idiot cousin who thinks this way. I don’t believe the boy will ever change. My cousin is in his early thirties now. The character was existent since he was four years old. It got worse over the years. We don’t relate with him today because of it.

We are all from the same mom but with different personalities. However, he just recently turned 18. So your second point may be right.

Well, I hope one day he changes. Because like your cousin, he has been like that since he was a kid.

immortalcrown:
It seems two wrongs make a right in your society.

Mmm... two wrongs don't make a right but protecting yourself is not wrong either.

immortalcrown:
Why didn't he use his own identity?

Meanwhile, there is no reason for you to stop being kind, unless you are looking for an excuse to doers of evil.

Seems your good has not been repaid with evil.

decatalyst:


You guys did the right thing.

He needs to be corrected. You don't behave that way to anyone, not to talk of family.

You guys need to sit him down and mentor him. He seems unworthy of being sacrificed for.

Ah that's what we're doing o. This afternoon after collecting his gadgets, he deliberately slammed the hand of my two year old in the door. I changed it for him with slaps and beating of my own. Before I was gentle but when it comes to my child I draw a line.

tensazangetsu20:
Jollof rice and peppered assorted meat

Meat but no jollof rice please. Except it comes with salad.

psucc:
Provided the biz is legit, allow it. Except it dents your image, let him continue the hustle

It's legit. Our problem is the selfishness but well... Maybe with time he will include the family in his winnings.

motymop:
Your bro is a criminal

Used your identity for crypto and not his

What is he hiding.

What if he scams someone, that means you will be held responsible.

Well the is technically yours, you can try to get the to the app he used and changed the to secure the .

If you wanna get a share of the money, tell him you will get him the if he gives you a share of the money

His Nin was there , full ID but it didn't work. It worked for those that were older. Like the older brothers and also my I.D, I don't know why.

The other brother beat him because the criminal thing here is not even letting me know after using my identity, my face, after he cashed out.

I said no problem but everyone else in the house was enraged, they called it a scam, and that was the reason for the severe beating. That if he can use my identity and keep me away from the result, me his family, he can do anything. Because of how much.

I am not interested in the money even if it's a million, it's my contribution to him as a bro. These things sometimes work, sometimes they don't. Hamster coin didn't, this one did. I'm not really interested. Just say thank you, but no.

On another thread, I ed others to say no to being kind to people anyhow anymore, as you may be taken for granted/mistreated.

However, I didn't rule out family. Yet, a family member has shocked now shocked me.

My brothers are into this coin.. crypto thing. Every time, new coins come out, they into the process to see if it works or not. Pi and Hamster coins, etc? There's new ones every day. So they try their luck.

My youngest brother, 18 years, came to meet me for my NIN and also my face verification to cash in on one of these coin things... Now, he's known to just beg you to do things after which you become trash to him, but we seem it as immaturity in the house.

I gave him everything, turned my head right and left and allowed a full scan on my face. I just told him that if it works, he should tell me, that I actually don't want any of the money he makes from it.

That was some days ago. Yesterday I was cooking dinner and our other brother calmly entered the kitchen. Called this boy. Asked him if he had cashed out because older bro had also cashed out.

That was when this boy said yes, he did, but he forgot to tell elder bro. He also said he told me, that 'he ed by me and told me while I was on my phone'. Me that didn't even hear anything or know anything. Oya, how much did you make, he said 70k.

The older brother lost it. He beat the hell out of him. That how can younger bro use my face, yet he wants to use style and hide that that face and identity of mine actually helped him make the money. How can an 18 year old make such money and keep it all to himself. To the point where his pride was so much he couldn't meet me and say thanks.

I tried to separate serious beating, when I received a stray blow I let them be. The family wanted me to take out of the money which I refused. Everyone had to agree with me that lil bro should keep the money so he'll know that we don't need it in any way. Because it seemed he was afraid we would take it from him.

Today he has been eyeing me up and down o, no be small attitude, smirking and what not. As at this moment, his phone and other gadgets have been seized by eldest bro, the one after me, due to his rude attitude. His money remains untouched, nobody wants it, let him eat it alone and finish it alone.

As for me, all I wanted was gratitude, but couldn't even get that. .

The d is for women as young as they come till the age of 29. At 29 years, it starts to become a taboo to want that woman.

The d is also for the single version of the wife; after marrying her she becomes unattractive.

A man must eat many soups, or walk away if his wife has any problem that makes him not want her.

inforesource:

It's was a miracle, because it was someone who sneak in to our house to take water from the fridge heard a continuous banging coming from the bed side decided to check what that was. Lo and behold, it was my brother, full of sweet and choked almost to death. We received our portion of good koboko that day from our mum. Our dad was away. That's what saved the innocent and adventurous man.

I'm so glad for the miracle. That was the best thing that could have happened in that circumstance. You guys deserved the beating because he could have died! So glad he survived.

Was 25 at the time, fav color is purple.

GrammarNazi1:

It was dished exactly like this.

Haaa....

inforesource:
We look our brother in a book full of clothes and pushed it under the bed while playing hide and seek. This was his request. But we forgot him there and went to play outside.

Did he survive?

This on a plate can kill my appetite instantly.

Maybe na only near death hunger fit make me chop am.

cococandy:
Chicken and vegetables. To serve with white rice

Do what you want to do now, some men will not allow women to even go back to school once the woman enters their house. Some men are envious, the things you want to do, fragile ego won't let them allow you to achieve them within the marriage.

So do what you want to do first. Then get a partner.

Mommadd:
Eba and simple vegetable soup

Send via Bluetooth.

kripen:
No matter what your neighbors is your first aid or saviour in time of emergency. Try to live amicably with them even if they are not friendly, to me God knows why he is closest to you as a neighbor.

I planted a tree in my compound you won't believe my neighbor cut it down not that it is even disturbing him or close to our boundary, when I confronted him lo and behold he told me he doesn't like trees close to houses.
Though I have been noticing him doing fetish things all around his house but still I still maintain my relationship with him. Now he is the one giving me water because he just dug borehole, so no matter what try to live amicably with them.

Making friends with them will not make them save you if the time comes. Make friends as you wish, if they don't like you, they don't like you, and it will manifest and surprise you when you run to them for help.

It's so sad but...

Why the hell were they running? I hate the nonsense gra gra attitude of many Nigerians. They think it's smartness, and they teach their children that it's smartness. It's not by force to get into the venue, to be a part of the party. If Nigerians mentality is good, once many people hear or see that the venue is packed, they will let those that are already there to have it.

Iro ni, because rushing is smartness. Struggling to enter is smartness.

R. I. P to the unfortunate kids.

Men will encourage going for brokees amongst them, labelling any woman that wants to make sure of finances plus character a gold digger.

After those men who were never meant to be married finish destroying the women who are out to be 'good' girls and so marry them despite their condition and character, the men's ers would still come out and insult those unfortunate women.

If you berate women for finding out or caring about the financial/mental well-being of anyone who they date, you have the blood of these women in your hands.

No matter what women try, they're always screwed.

Next thing, guys started dirtying her name.

Men are also competing with women. Men are also women's enemies. This girl make am, you couldn't swallow it.

Allotrope69:


You're welcome Ma. I'm following you because I am learning a lot from you. Your command & usage of English is impeccable & unblemished.
May i seek for your help? I've looked up, looked down, no help anywhere. Could u pls assist me with some amount to get som essential needs? It's being two days without anything to survive on. 🙏

Well, I'm sorry about what you're going through. I'm sorry, I won't be able to. I hope someone else will help you as I have been helped before.

iamoyindamola:

Sorry the cake was telling me to laugh, you tried actually, my first was a freak show
I can bake or I was forced to learn it because it was part of my course then in school

Trials make it perfect 😊

I'm sure you're great at it now.

iamoyindamola:

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Will you stop laughing 😂

Oya post your own, I know you cannot bake cupcakes even 🤣😂

chatinent:
Stay wicked, fam.


Nigerians are hardened and ungrateful. You fit borrow person money make dem use cutlass chase you commot on the sixth time of asking them to pay back.


Stay wicked...you can even graduate to staying evil.

Yes. People who are wicked want kind ones to continue so they can keep showing them shege. Learn wickedness to kill them before they kill you.

Fiscus105:



The amount of money you can forgo" dnt ever loan person, no matter the condition of such person.


Even ordinary 2k, it would still come back to hurt you if you loan Nigeria poor people.

I learned a very big lesson. No borrowing, except you have little money of your own that you are not planning to see again, you can deliberately give that - and your own money, not someone else's.

Allotrope69:


I ire you so much on this platform. Your comments, your responses to comments, your intelligence and all. You're a great woman indeed

Thank you, I pray we all become the greatest versions of ourselves. Appreciated.

cococandy:


I want to laugh with you but I my first time too. Just exactly like yours. I’m sure yours tasted great tho.

Ah, thanks for being kind. It was ok, though it was a bit hard. I will work on improving myself.

By wicked he meant firm and unyielding. And yes, I feel one has to be a little wicked. If you don't revenge a little, do a little something, some people will continue killing you.

I loaned 100k to a woman on the street selling clothes, I barely knew her. She paid half and was even treating me like a fool. Left half. Today she sees me ing by on the street and is not moved, even if she hasn't paid me. I can't call police on her, can't do anything to her, like wreck her shop or something. If I don't ask for my money she too says nothing, doesn't call to explain, nothing. She still owes me 77k.

This woman still enter me. If I am delayed on the street or anything unfortunate, she would then be happy to greet me and be calling my name out loud and laughing. If I travel, arrive back in that same street, she no go do anything to pay the remaining money. I call, her children will be subtly mocking me that I can't do anything to make their mother pay. And she used pity of these children to make me feel I did something good for her back then.

So, why shouldn't I learn wickedness. You think if I see a random tomorrow I will ever be nice to that person? Everything people have been accumulating for me, I'm packing it, and absorbing it, and at a point, I will definitely never be the same, it will be a combination of niceness with a hidden vault for wickedness if need be.

cococandy:
Amateur baking hour.

I salute all professional bakers because decorating a cake is not easy. The most important part is to enjoy the process even if it doesn’t turn out perfect.

Wow, you really tried. I tried to decorate a cake for the first time in my life this year. Probably mine will make you feel better. 😂