NewStats: 3,264,057 , 8,182,452 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 01:20 PM 493w3

Niger State here I come

These people go let T reason them

I'm relocating.


Kaduna here I come

If you like check her phone more than your health status.

What will be will be

DeeScan:
alright fool...

Sorry Don't cry don't cry

Adonko:
Anyways am not arguing with u... Maybe I didn't comprehend properly.. Nevermind, I was just having fun.

Kind of bored at home eating, reading and surfing the net... Just wanted to converse with someone.

oh... I understand

Sadly I have to get back to work now.

Later.

Adonko:
ok I get.. So let's assume a hypothetical situation lady.. Kindly choose. Let's see

You are in the mood to argue, I've outgrown that.

Read to learn.

Adonko:
Really you yearn to be a man... If only you know half of what me n faces Esp Nigerian men u will pity.

Na who were shoe na e know were dey pain am.

Lol

I don't yearn to be a man. I long to be given the power of choice. The ability to choose to be safe or not.

Read that again.

Women are endangered by the circumstances of their nature, Men by the consequences of their actions.

Give me the latter and I will live a blissful life.

Men do have it easy!

Tallesty1:
Are you stupid or something?

Is he not correct?

Why are you angry?

Henryfocoyo:
wow sense no go kill you lol
Your sense of reasoning na 💯

lol

Thank you.

pansophist:


You make it seems like women choose men base on character only, and not also their material acquisition.

You remind me of a joke Dave Chappelle made. He said ''men likes nice cars, not because we like nice cars, but women like nice cars. Men are hunters and the car is the bait''. Watch it here.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XOgfmdwj_UA

No matter how you slice it, you cant deny that women love material stuff, and men knows this, hence use it to their advantage to get women.

So making it all about men is being dishonest. All the broke shaming online, and the reason why MOST men are single is because they are broke.

It is also why polygamy have existed because many women will rather be the fifth wife of Davido than be the one and only of an hardworking uber driver.

Lol
"Men create the society, women integrate in it"

"Men are the price because they determine the Dating Value Market"

You have typed these phrases on dynamics of society and human relationships on this forum. How am I being dishonest by stating your truth? Ehn Pan?

How many Davido's do we have in Nigeria? We are over 200 million people with less than 20% multi millionaires of the population. With less than 40% being middle class. Majority are low income earners. These means they marry more and birth more. I'm yet to read breakthrough stories on Men delivering babies so definitely women are the ones dating, marrying and birthing for these men. Who is being dishonest now? Clearly women still date for character, potential or maybe love.

Like I have said earlier, using your properties as bait is logical but in the long run it has adverse effects on the dating world.

Very simple.

DeeScan:
hehehehehe .
.. why bro you sound so pained



It was just a harmless question

Go and explain to your grandfather.

DeeScan:
but you've gotten that request from a man, have you

😏😏

Go and ask your grandfather.

helinues:
You can't feel threatened if the jokes didn't touch you somewhere that's not good

The joke is insensitive and senseless.

Stop defending nonsense!

Bola4boy:
girls that actually enjoy the favour and pray silently that such guys should woo them. It's simply attractions. The guy is attracted to her feminine features and beauty while the girl is attracted to the comfort. So it's very balanced.

I give many girls lift and deliberately refuse to collect their number after chatting and all. I see disappointment in their faces. Emi ika

At bolded, many are shocked,some are genuinely relieved but then you see what you want to see.

You not taking it beyond a lift doesn't make you wicked but sensible.

ExudeLoveToAll:


If he is your son, and what happened to him happened to your son what will be your advice to your son? Some of you just make comments without putting yourself in the scenario to see your responses but generally make statements that suits your gender narrative which most times is false.

If you get a son like Ebueu na mumu son u born, I guess that's the kind of husband you want but not the kind of son you want.

You just dey rant.... How you infuse me into Eboue story is what I don't know.


Why are you angry?

folake4u:


Nigeria is Comedy Central indeed.

Hahaha but he's not the landlord nau.

This is where the Paul planted, Apollo watered: Banana plantation version comes in. Your mind really went far.🤣

Lol so he will labour in vain . He for don ask landlord,reach agreement before he began tenderly care of the plantation


Lol it really went far ooo

iamtoofan:



Someone woke up on a the wet side of the bed. is it rain or the roof is leaking

Go and ask your grandfather.

Lol

If he makes enough to outsource some of these chores no wahala

You no get money, you want 50-50 You no come still know how to do house chores remain single biko

GloriousGbola:


Is your big nyash real, bbl or foam pad tho?

Lol

I no even get nyansh

The only safe inheritance you can give your children is the one you give them while alive.

People be crazy

folake4u:


You should see me howling here.

Country red indeed. Omo! Even your Senate President say anywhere you see free food chop am.

Lol 😂 😂

Imagine!! First it was Remi now Senate president. It's like we are a joke to these people o

Jokes apart, I feel for op . He took care of the plantation, his landlord shouldn't take it all. They should both share.

Country hard

folake4u:


Pina please. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

This thread is too funny though. Ontop banana.

I don laugh tire.

Country don red o

Only Folake4u fit settle this one

I don't understand this Paul planted , Apollo water version of banana Plantation

Ta lo ni Ogede o?

Op, E gbenu si mic .

She's a third wife not second.

Na only her know wetin she do ooo.

If there is no future wetin una dey do?

pansophist:


How is it morally wrong? Or can you give an example of the ''nothing goes for nothing''?

Secondly, How does it creates an imbalance in the world?

If the intentions of the men are genuine, then there is nothing wrong toasting a woman, and there is also nothing wrong if the man doing the toasting have a car.

When a guy help with the intention of asking a lady out it creates the impression that he wasn't genuine from start. Even if he had no intention from the beginning the moment he decided to go beyond offering a ride , there's a question mark to what his motive was from the beginning. Most women take men's help with a bargaining chip in mind . It's one of the reasons women sees genuine givers as aliens and men don't want other male colleagues picking up their wives for work .

Lol... This sounds exactly like when guys complain about not getting good girlfriends, that all women these days are materialistic and I ask , who set the dating standard? No be Una spoil them? .
If men with cars use their cars to get more women, what happens to the average dude without a car? Before you know it, average Kabiru is out there trying to sell his kidney to get a 1990 Honda before Emeka uses car to steal his Orente

This is not about a man with a car wooing a babe but a man using his car to woo a babe there's a difference. Na man dey do man but una no go gree.

If you and your wife are not too busy to raise your children, Day school is the best. If you are, go boarding school route, half loaf is better than none.

pansophist:


Many time it doesnt lead anywhere, and we still give a lift. And if it does lead somewhere, now tell me precisely what is wrong with a man wooing a woman he likes?

Logically, it's not wrong. You use what you have to get what you want. It's fair.

Morally, it is. It encourage the notion "nothing goes for nothing"

Socially, it creates an imbalance in the dating world.

Lol yeah I left 10% for those times it leads nowhere with women's rejection taking 8%

vanbonattel:

Those people make the most rules.

pansophist:


Because men are good people.

Lol good people indeed like we don't know where 90% of the help leads.