NewStats: 3,264,157 , 8,182,817 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 10:55 PM 2e3j5y

Lol so Op changed his "Hard Truth" to " Harsh Realities "

That's better though.

Now you understand the difference between reality and hard truth.

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folake4u:


@ the bolded. You getttttt!!! We don't find it necessary to add such to the convos or brag about it.


They always complain about "broke" women, oya change your environment and people you hang out with? Noooo. Some of them feel insecure around women that are doing well for themselves.

Na their type dey give their understanding girlfriend 1k to do all back from January to December but side chick go dey use deep curl 20 inches wig.

I don't just get it with these Nl guys. Do they want us to add "oh I paid for it with my hard earned money" to conversations like this? I don't get it at all. I know they are creative when it comes to bragging but I can't waste brainpower on frivolities. The annoying thing is, they will still react to it if you make such additions. Very childish reasoning.

I even wonder how he could sum the whole conversation to men paying for hair when I practically personalized my initial comment. This is beyond insecure honestly, he really needs a change of women he involves with. If he can not imagine a woman can pay for her own here then it is finished for him o .

They are just too loud jare, any small thing they come to Nl. Men help women, women help men, you don't see women carrying placards online. Ordinary 200 airtime, Nl guys will start acting like they have given to nations Mumu people

I tell you. Funny enough men who really really spend on their women don't come online to shout. Na 1k for all back go dey scream everywhere. Abeggi!

Teach her a small lesson by embarrassing her and creating emotional traumas. Lol funny enough she might have been "managing" the guy in the marriage.

Lol 😂😂😂

He should speak to the parents and apologize to his wife nah

Sonnobax15:
My sweetest pity goes to the innocent man who may end up marrying someone like you with this kinda mentality . Cuz he's gonna be on a longgggggggggg thing

Yeah yeah yeah

Oh sweetie! you are starting to sound like a broken record.

Wrap it up nigga

Nazgul:

Gorimapa makes them look younger and fresher. Wig can make a 15 year old girl look like someone in her 30s and gorimapa can make a girl in her 30s look like a 15 year old.

The goal is to look younger and fresher. 😏

Gorimapa makes a lady look like a widow nah how can a lady go bald ?

Braids makes one look younger and beautiful. Wigs makes gives the mature sophisticated kind of look.

You on gorimapa must complement with beards so you don't look absurd. Women can't keep beards nah. Lol

Sonnobax15:
. You sure say you don ready to surrender for marriage so?

If I'm not getting married to you, you have no business asking such question.

Sonnobax15:
. Her hair,her business..my hair ,my business

Good for you.

Our money, our business. Our man's money , our business.

Nazgul:

Why are you ladies sacred of bringing out your inner beauty.

Besides gorimapa is easy to maintain that's what I barb sef. So it's not bad.

Naz talk true... Don't you find your woman more attractive when she's on a new hairstyle?

Na everything you wan take stingy Sha... First Chicken Republic now gorimapa?

Shey you go fit do "soft life" for somebody's daughter like this?

Sonnobax15:

Just take a simple and clearer look at those Over-fed native hens above talking about making her hair . Funniest thing is that none of Dem even talked about spending their own hard earned money on doing their hair...

As a guyman dating any banny,the moment you realize she's got nothing upstairs,like what she's calling a head is equivalent to the emptiness and size of a coconut, just tell her to go and barb her hair,cuz there's no need wasting that money on doing her hair...

At bolded , this is because we don't see it necessary to add to the conversation or beat chest about it like you 1k subscription sender come to do on Nl.

We both know we don't depend on men and men's contribution is extra not major (at least until marriage) so why do we need to state the obvious. You should really change your environment, not all ladies can't take care of themselves. Okay?

BTW if you like barb your banny's head like a mannequin nothing concern me.

Nazgul:

You're lucky you're not my girlfriend. Na mallam (gorimapa, skin) you go de barb.

I go buy olive oil way you go de use run am so that it would shine very well and bring out your inner beauty.

Lol if I no barb gorimapa as single what makes you think a boyfriend will make me? .

Boyfriend will look for extra job ni

Inner beauty ko,X-ray beauty ni

folake4u:


I know right.

I already have hairstyle that I'd do next month till year ending. I don plan am for my head already.

Hair takes one's dressing from 0 to 100. 💯

The bolded is on point 👍

folake4u:


Me too.

See me go do long ion twists for 20k two weeks ago. I said to myself, "If I perish, I perish".

Likkkkkkeeeeee real " if I perish o"

My own is "nothing go happen "

I can control my spendings on other things but that hair ehn. I can't, I will do it. Especially when if I have been eyeing a specific hairstyle. Ah nothing can change my mind

You are not a lady so you may not understand.

I fit use my last card do hair Sha I don't joke with my hair o

Take your child to a standard Montessori school and employ a phonics teacher to train you and your wife. That way your child will learn both at home and at school.

It is money sha but your girl will do better in both English and Mathematics.

Mistral:


Please you will have to forgive me. I'm a very lazy debater. There is just not enough time or energy to spare. I hope you understand.

Oh take your time dear.

I'm willing to read whenever you are ready to respond.

Mistral:


Awn, what a cutie!

I'm honestly curious as to how you intend to "navigate" and "resist" society troubles you listed in your initial post as A REALIST you are.

This is you normalizing abnormalities in a society and preach them as fact. If Government is not your friend then who is the government? Aren't they people in our midst selected to govern us? If they can't be friends, shouldn't they be held able?

If the law is not there to protect you, why make them at all?

Churches are not there to save you, no Jesus saves not church. Church is a congregation of believers of Christ not the savior himself. Church is a group of people like you who come together to share what they have in their discretion. It is entitlement mentality to think a group of people whom you share same economic and social policies with are OBLIGATED to SAVE especially FINANCIAL saving. The Bible and Holy Spirit are number pathway to spiritual growth. There are lots of church goer's who don't grow spiritually not because the church is bad but they are yet to be saved.

Money in Essence isn't Debt, Loans are. Any right thinking being knows to minimize debts in business.

Doctors take oath to save lives, most doctors of functioning societies do all to ensure their patients are fine. If you preach otherwise it's little wonder your politicians would rather travel miles overseas to get treated than improve hospitals in Nigeria. Lol... They know people like you will understand and preach it as hard truth to gullible ones.

And who's fault is this? Your colonisers keep improving their educational system while you as a nation keep doing things same old way. Thank God for some private schools they inculcate practical life skills into their curriculum. Should we demand this for all institutions as well? Oh I forgot, Government is our enemy they are untouchable

Lol Probably because your nation is a dumping ground for things that ought to work but don't. If you produce drugs yourself and not wait for a group of pharmacist in India to research and create drugs maybe you won't get drugs that takes days to work at expensive prices.
Even at that some still work


Another sob story. Your vote should count shouldn't it

Lol I can go on and on but I'm curious how do you intend to navigate these hard truth?

Mistral:


A cynical realist is better equipped to navigate and resist societal troubles than an idealist or conformist. We must learn from history or we are doomed to repeat it.

Yeah yeah yeah the Realist are always "cynical" cliche again... Yawn . So positive mindset is for those who fantasize right?

It's funny how black men (Africans) are always the REALIST while those who "fantasize" build empires and better communities

Hard man, Weak brain

squash47:
People change. A good person before marriage can turn into a monster after marriage and a bad person can turn into a angel after marriage.
All you need to do is to be prepared for any outcome. When it's not longer favorable, you quit and save yourself. Forget about the myth, broken marriage doesn't always affect the kids.

Wrong!

People don't change, People get tired of pretending!

No one is completely free in a broken relationship or marriage. It is either one is not patient enough to know who he or she is really dealing with or one is deluded enough to think he or she can manage or change the other person.

There are always subtle signs but most times blinded by lust and sex. How many people know themselves enough to know what they want before committing to another?

Meet- date-sex then boom you are in a relationship already lol . Then when you discovered what you should have earlier, you say people change. Lol

BTW Broken marriage does affect kids. If you are not a child psychologist, a teacher or a child from a broken home. You have no opinion on this.

When people sell their cynical thoughts as "THE TRUTH" then you should know they are of a very brutal societal system.

I'm not surprised you all got here! Victims are blamed and expected to be "wiser" it's only a matter of time before everyone begin to act smart, outplay one another and the evil ones you excused grow while the "weak at heart" you criticize learn to be wicked .

Lol... Just look at how you call practices sane individuals ought to weed out of their society as "Hard Truth" and the likes from people who share your thought process is mind boggling.

Pity!

The respect I have for these men ehn?

No be here.

They deserve this and more!

folake4u:


🤣🤣🤣

No love for Nl guys

I should be angry but I'm not

Perhaps if I see this on Quora or other platforms I will react otherwise

But on Nl

Drag them!

JobAndVacancies:
you're right.

Proserpina is the same person as Farf.alla

Lol

Lol.
This is even children's kitchen not national kitchen

folake4u:


Of course, I know that.

My church doesn't publicise itself on social media but they feed, clothe, house and give employment to their .

Everything isn't propaganda or show off.

Lol...

That video wasn't ed by RCCG but a worshipper (probably Content Creator ) who felt the urge to.

If RCCG publicize what they do, there won't be enough coverage

He also saved her from sitting in front of mirror and watching YouTube videos for hours just to plait hair herself

Good husband material.

Please push this to frontpage, this is a change from the usual "UK broke our marriage" story we read every time

DevilsEqual:
And why would i want to learn to plait women's hair if i do not plan to own a salon?


As for the man, if he actually did that to save some cost, I'm worried he's just become a full-time hair stylist

There's nothing wrong with what the man did. And he can earn from it too as a side hustle.

If you know the worth of a penny not even a pound in the UK you will understand what the man did.

I'm proud of him and "jelox" of the woman

What has plates got to do with the story?

Why did he lick plate when he's still going to wash?

@AllMight

Let a few people know what's happening, narrate the situation to elders like you seek their counsel then leave. This way they won't spin any story on you in your absence in case it turns out the lady is truly pregnant

It's sad you are going through this in a church. It is well

Lol

She didn't direct her post to any race or country specifically.

Stop being mischievous!!