NewStats: 3,265,172 , 8,185,895 topics. Date: Friday, 13 June 2025 at 06:23 PM f1r6u

EreluRoz:
All because of p, they like what they hate infact they die there 😂😂😂
Did you read the part he said they continued dating? Let me keep laughing 😂😂😂

Lol... A river that forget it source will run dry nah

As much as I don't believe the story (especially the end) , I can't help but wonder the danger a guy with such experience can get into in Nigeria.

Zonefree:

Funny how another innocent man will still kneel, propose and pay bride price to this same girl that cohabitated with a man for over 3 years.

If your wife is not a virgin, you have no moral justification to smile and dance on your wedding day.

Year in year out you keep spitting regurgitated nonsense.

Will you ever evolve?

Guys take a lot of risk.

Kaczynski:



No be you be this abi my eye day pain me

You don miss road!!!

Kaczynski:



No but I know your Twitter handle abi I post your pic make you see say na true

Keep deceiving yourself

Kaczynski:



I don see your Twitter handle


I swear you fine af with those booba

Do I know you?

This is unbelievable.

As a lady I'm scared too

One bad move you are gone.

Humans are desperately wicked these days. It's like make person dey carry binoculars wey fit see the heart of MEN (and women)

You no even talk Rwanda

Lol

May God help us

Lol

I find this thrilling

I'm sure if Yar Adua were to be alive they would have picked him.

"You don't know what you have until you lose it"

It works only if a lady is invested in you emotionally and you ghost her. At first she's confused, then curiosity sets in .If she finally figures what a douchebag bag you are then she moves on.

Emphasis on "emotionally invested" o. Lol these days ladies don "kala" so it may not work on most anymore.

idahme:



Party for a broke woman woman will be a parasite to my pocket ? Never, I better miss am . I only go to parties with people that play in the same football league that I do.

Lol

Sometimes I wonder if you all read to understand or comment. Again take several seats backward.

idahme:



Relationship is employment opportunities crew activist, imagine you been proud to be a parasite. No near me the way I go buy raid spray you

All these ladies walking to and fro looking for whom to devour , make I work hard so u go become parasite to me , na who dey sippy una weed? Nollywood or Hollywood?

Take several seats backward please. You miss the party!

folake4u:


My sister, I tire too. If you add "with my hard earned money", problem, if you nor add am, problem still. You can't please them really.

Lmao. It is finished for him indeed. He go dey alright, no worry.

You getttttt?! Both gender help each other and even the ladies helping men or others, they don't carry placards or post it on the board at Muri Okunola Park.

Empty vessels (men) make the loudest noise. The ones spending on their women nor dey too talk. The real Odogwu silencer.

The real Odogwu silencer... They are the one that matters jare not Nl guys

Good morning

Lol so Op changed his "Hard Truth" to " Harsh Realities "

That's better though.

Now you understand the difference between reality and hard truth.

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folake4u:


@ the bolded. You getttttt!!! We don't find it necessary to add such to the convos or brag about it.


They always complain about "broke" women, oya change your environment and people you hang out with? Noooo. Some of them feel insecure around women that are doing well for themselves.

Na their type dey give their understanding girlfriend 1k to do all back from January to December but side chick go dey use deep curl 20 inches wig.

I don't just get it with these Nl guys. Do they want us to add "oh I paid for it with my hard earned money" to conversations like this? I don't get it at all. I know they are creative when it comes to bragging but I can't waste brainpower on frivolities. The annoying thing is, they will still react to it if you make such additions. Very childish reasoning.

I even wonder how he could sum the whole conversation to men paying for hair when I practically personalized my initial comment. This is beyond insecure honestly, he really needs a change of women he involves with. If he can not imagine a woman can pay for her own here then it is finished for him o .

They are just too loud jare, any small thing they come to Nl. Men help women, women help men, you don't see women carrying placards online. Ordinary 200 airtime, Nl guys will start acting like they have given to nations Mumu people

I tell you. Funny enough men who really really spend on their women don't come online to shout. Na 1k for all back go dey scream everywhere. Abeggi!

Teach her a small lesson by embarrassing her and creating emotional traumas. Lol funny enough she might have been "managing" the guy in the marriage.

Lol 😂😂😂

He should speak to the parents and apologize to his wife nah

Sonnobax15:
My sweetest pity goes to the innocent man who may end up marrying someone like you with this kinda mentality . Cuz he's gonna be on a longgggggggggg thing

Yeah yeah yeah

Oh sweetie! you are starting to sound like a broken record.

Wrap it up nigga

Nazgul:

Gorimapa makes them look younger and fresher. Wig can make a 15 year old girl look like someone in her 30s and gorimapa can make a girl in her 30s look like a 15 year old.

The goal is to look younger and fresher. 😏

Gorimapa makes a lady look like a widow nah how can a lady go bald ?

Braids makes one look younger and beautiful. Wigs makes gives the mature sophisticated kind of look.

You on gorimapa must complement with beards so you don't look absurd. Women can't keep beards nah. Lol

Sonnobax15:
. You sure say you don ready to surrender for marriage so?

If I'm not getting married to you, you have no business asking such question.

Sonnobax15:
. Her hair,her business..my hair ,my business

Good for you.

Our money, our business. Our man's money , our business.

Nazgul:

Why are you ladies sacred of bringing out your inner beauty.

Besides gorimapa is easy to maintain that's what I barb sef. So it's not bad.

Naz talk true... Don't you find your woman more attractive when she's on a new hairstyle?

Na everything you wan take stingy Sha... First Chicken Republic now gorimapa?

Shey you go fit do "soft life" for somebody's daughter like this?

Sonnobax15:

Just take a simple and clearer look at those Over-fed native hens above talking about making her hair . Funniest thing is that none of Dem even talked about spending their own hard earned money on doing their hair...

As a guyman dating any banny,the moment you realize she's got nothing upstairs,like what she's calling a head is equivalent to the emptiness and size of a coconut, just tell her to go and barb her hair,cuz there's no need wasting that money on doing her hair...

At bolded , this is because we don't see it necessary to add to the conversation or beat chest about it like you 1k subscription sender come to do on Nl.

We both know we don't depend on men and men's contribution is extra not major (at least until marriage) so why do we need to state the obvious. You should really change your environment, not all ladies can't take care of themselves. Okay?

BTW if you like barb your banny's head like a mannequin nothing concern me.

Nazgul:

You're lucky you're not my girlfriend. Na mallam (gorimapa, skin) you go de barb.

I go buy olive oil way you go de use run am so that it would shine very well and bring out your inner beauty.

Lol if I no barb gorimapa as single what makes you think a boyfriend will make me? .

Boyfriend will look for extra job ni

Inner beauty ko,X-ray beauty ni

folake4u:


I know right.

I already have hairstyle that I'd do next month till year ending. I don plan am for my head already.

Hair takes one's dressing from 0 to 100. 💯

The bolded is on point 👍

folake4u:


Me too.

See me go do long ion twists for 20k two weeks ago. I said to myself, "If I perish, I perish".

Likkkkkkeeeeee real " if I perish o"

My own is "nothing go happen "

I can control my spendings on other things but that hair ehn. I can't, I will do it. Especially when if I have been eyeing a specific hairstyle. Ah nothing can change my mind

You are not a lady so you may not understand.

I fit use my last card do hair Sha I don't joke with my hair o

Take your child to a standard Montessori school and employ a phonics teacher to train you and your wife. That way your child will learn both at home and at school.

It is money sha but your girl will do better in both English and Mathematics.

Mistral:


Please you will have to forgive me. I'm a very lazy debater. There is just not enough time or energy to spare. I hope you understand.

Oh take your time dear.

I'm willing to read whenever you are ready to respond.

Mistral:


Awn, what a cutie!

I'm honestly curious as to how you intend to "navigate" and "resist" society troubles you listed in your initial post as A REALIST you are.

This is you normalizing abnormalities in a society and preach them as fact. If Government is not your friend then who is the government? Aren't they people in our midst selected to govern us? If they can't be friends, shouldn't they be held able?

If the law is not there to protect you, why make them at all?

Churches are not there to save you, no Jesus saves not church. Church is a congregation of believers of Christ not the savior himself. Church is a group of people like you who come together to share what they have in their discretion. It is entitlement mentality to think a group of people whom you share same economic and social policies with are OBLIGATED to SAVE especially FINANCIAL saving. The Bible and Holy Spirit are number pathway to spiritual growth. There are lots of church goer's who don't grow spiritually not because the church is bad but they are yet to be saved.

Money in Essence isn't Debt, Loans are. Any right thinking being knows to minimize debts in business.

Doctors take oath to save lives, most doctors of functioning societies do all to ensure their patients are fine. If you preach otherwise it's little wonder your politicians would rather travel miles overseas to get treated than improve hospitals in Nigeria. Lol... They know people like you will understand and preach it as hard truth to gullible ones.

And who's fault is this? Your colonisers keep improving their educational system while you as a nation keep doing things same old way. Thank God for some private schools they inculcate practical life skills into their curriculum. Should we demand this for all institutions as well? Oh I forgot, Government is our enemy they are untouchable

Lol Probably because your nation is a dumping ground for things that ought to work but don't. If you produce drugs yourself and not wait for a group of pharmacist in India to research and create drugs maybe you won't get drugs that takes days to work at expensive prices.
Even at that some still work


Another sob story. Your vote should count shouldn't it

Lol I can go on and on but I'm curious how do you intend to navigate these hard truth?

Mistral:


A cynical realist is better equipped to navigate and resist societal troubles than an idealist or conformist. We must learn from history or we are doomed to repeat it.

Yeah yeah yeah the Realist are always "cynical" cliche again... Yawn . So positive mindset is for those who fantasize right?

It's funny how black men (Africans) are always the REALIST while those who "fantasize" build empires and better communities

Hard man, Weak brain