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Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype (55409 Views)

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ecclize: 12:05pm On Aug 22, 2019
If the girl is willing no qualms then...

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AgentGoat: 12:05pm On Aug 22, 2019
What about the wife?

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ABCthings: 12:05pm On Aug 22, 2019
marlow1962:
Proper medicine is need.i know a man who is SS and he is 76 years old.if the guy can take care of himself he will live to marry,have kids and see he's kids grow.and please you guys should stop all this death thing.he did not create himself.
you case is one out of hundred. Risky i may say.

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CeeJay9ja(m): 12:06pm On Aug 22, 2019
freecocoa:
She’s just a baby making machine, no one cares, she can go to hell. cry

It is really sad how people look at things from just one perspective

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mayweather145: 12:06pm On Aug 22, 2019
CeeJay9ja:


What about the poor intending widow?
she must be aware of what she coming into.

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homenje73: 12:07pm On Aug 22, 2019
Must every trend, OP please mind your business, is 21 years old not an adult?

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Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by Nobody: 12:07pm On Aug 22, 2019
Remimadrid:
I the parents 100%. The guy can fall sick tomorrow and die, but this way he won't die in vain.

because his sole purpose in life is to procreate.

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sherif4owo(m): 12:07pm On Aug 22, 2019
CeeJay9ja:


What about the poor intending widow?


Anyone who is getting married to a SS genotype person should already be prepared to become a widow or widower... the bomb could go off anytime. Well, anyone can die anytime.

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ogahope(m): 12:07pm On Aug 22, 2019
People always use their hand to draw trouble to themselves. The guy has survived all these years by the special Grace God and now human nature wants to set to torment him with death sentence.my question is, can't SS live a normal life?

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VillagePipu: 12:08pm On Aug 22, 2019
Coscharis married at 19. His wife was 18.

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dododawa1: 12:08pm On Aug 22, 2019
believing everything on social media expecially NAIRALAND is bad for d health.

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CeeJay9ja(m): 12:09pm On Aug 22, 2019
mayweather145:
she must be aware of what she coming into.
Or not.

They can just deceive an ignorant small girl to be the sacrificial lamb

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Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by Nobody: 12:09pm On Aug 22, 2019
Quite Thoughtful. AA Genotype For The Container Tho’.
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owoshuyi(m): 12:09pm On Aug 22, 2019
The good thing I notice in this is at least they're not allowing fornication. I meant at least he should get married first before sleeping with a lady to get 'replacement'

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Edusouls(m): 12:10pm On Aug 22, 2019
Wicked people looking for someone’s daughter to ruin her future, and making her a planned widow,anybody here ing such should please present her sister first?men think they are wiser than God..

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Abali1(m): 12:10pm On Aug 22, 2019
immortalityk:
I the parents
I would do the same if it were me
You the parents to upturn the young man's life and maybe cut short his dreams and happiness?
Do you even think marriage is a walk in the park? For how long will you the parents to interfere in the guys marital life?
Is that 21 years old even prepared for marriage?
Before you reply, know this that I am SS and only son. I resisted any attempt by anyone to define my existence because of sickle cell.

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Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by Nobody: 12:10pm On Aug 22, 2019
Remimadrid:
I the parents 100%. The guy can fall sick tomorrow and die, but this way he won't die in vain.
He does not need to be married to have a child. What about the future widow?

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Abali1(m): 12:12pm On Aug 22, 2019
VillagePipu:
Coscharis married at 19. His wife was 18.
Cosmos Maduka married of his own volition. Nobody forced him.

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ABCthings: 12:14pm On Aug 22, 2019
SafetyFirst:
The family of the girl is planning to make their daughter a widow and tie her destiny down just like that.
widows can always remarry.

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Abali1(m): 12:14pm On Aug 22, 2019
successmatters:
Is the man complaining?

22 years and you called him a boy?

Did you want him to be 44 years before he will marry?
Did he make the choice himself? or because he is living with sickle cell, they should just push him into an unhappy marriage?

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cenaman(m): 12:14pm On Aug 22, 2019
CeeJay9ja:

What about the poor intending widow?
Does been a widow a death sentence?

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VillagePipu: 12:15pm On Aug 22, 2019
Abali1:

Cosmos Maduka married of his own volition. Nobody forced him.

Of course

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frickyjohn: 12:16pm On Aug 22, 2019
This is so selfish of them. So invariably they are marrying a lady to become a widow in the shortest time possible.
Imagine marrying just so that the husband will die.


Ngrtrend:


A Twitter has alleged that a 21-year-old boy is being forced to marry because he has the SS genotype, and this has angered Twitter s.



The family of the boy allegedly fear that he may not live long due to his ailment so they have found a girl with the AA genotype and are trying to get him to marry her so he can have a child to succeed him.



A number of Twitter s condemned this action while some have said it's common in Nigeria and parents do this for young men who are only sons or have the SS genotype.
Read tweets
https://www.042hits.com/outrage-as-21-year-old-boy-is-allegedly-being-married-off-because-he-has-the-ss-genotype/


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Abali1(m): 12:16pm On Aug 22, 2019
Remimadrid:
I the parents 100%. The guy can fall sick tomorrow and die, but this way he won't die in vain.
And his parents are God that manufactures babies? What if he marries today and die tomorrow won't that be in vain? What if he can't impregnate a lady?
Have you thought about the happiness of the lady involved?

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Chiefochiefo(m): 12:16pm On Aug 22, 2019
This is actually wrong! Consider the children without father, consider the woman that will suffer single parenthood.... undecided although he never die sha kiss he can still leave more than some healthy ones

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Tabbaz(m): 12:17pm On Aug 22, 2019
Remimadrid:
I the parents 100%. The guy can fall sick tomorrow and die, but this way he won't die in vain.

So how does the child (if the dying boy ever procreates) benefit him after his demise? Well, it's a selfish planet. The parents are after companions, so if he's no more, his child will replace his position in the family and be the companions to the parent.

In all of this arrangement, the dying boy has nothing to gain. The dead does not gain anything because he has children. Perhaps, I may be from another planet and thus think differently.

Anyway, I'm not against the marriage if both partners are willing to marry each other. But the "if he die" clause is obnoxious to me

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alphaNomega: 12:18pm On Aug 22, 2019
Lebe30:
So thoughtful

Not thoughtful enough if you were to be the wife.
ABCthings: 12:18pm On Aug 22, 2019
ogahope:
People always use their hand to draw trouble to themselves. The guy has survived all these years by the special Grace God and now human nature wants to set to torment him with death sentence.my question is, can't SS live a normal life?
if it were your child, will you be saying this?
CeeJay9ja(m): 12:19pm On Aug 22, 2019
cenaman:
Does been a widow a death sentence?
Are you kidding me?

Pray your sister doesn't become one at a tender age
Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by Nobody: 12:20pm On Aug 22, 2019
immortalityk:
I the parents
I would do the same if it were me

That's utter wickedness! What will happen to the young lady after the guy ed on?
Jesus Christ said true religion is caring for humanity and loving one another. James 1:27
alphaNomega: 12:20pm On Aug 22, 2019
Fake gist
ABCthings: 12:21pm On Aug 22, 2019
Abali1:

You the parents to upturn the young man's life and maybe cut short his dreams and happiness?
Do you even think marriage is a walk in the park? For how long will you the parents to interfere in the guys marital life?
Is that 21 years old even prepared for marriage?
Before you reply, know this that I am SS and only son. I resisted any attempt by anyone to define my existence because of sickle cell.
wickedness! you did not even pity your parents. Hope you're not the only child.

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