NewStats: 3,261,174 , 8,173,280 topics. Date: Wednesday, 28 May 2025 at 12:33 PM 65484m

ozonechrome:


I tried so hard not to reply you.

I don't know the type of single mums you've met. I need you to understand that not all single mums are broke or will even consider dating you with all your singleness.

You also need to understand you ain't a reward to anyone.

I understand you are young with your line of thoughts.
I'll just advise you that in life be very open-minded.

leave him to his opinions and belief that's why there are variety of humans Open mindedness is the cause of the Hoax in our 21st century society everybody feeling modern ,open minded and doing very wierd stuffs .This is what open mindedness , liberalism and freedom has caused.

Joystark:


Okay... Handsome smart boy.

. Hello Joy girl. You look very pretty

michelle,i dont understand why you mentioned me

Michellekabod2:

Ubunja, despite how many times I call you out I LIKE you. The loophole here is the patriachy you preach and practice. While both males and females are looking forward to creating equality between males and females,you are still dragging us back to achaic practices...
Many men are feminist nowadays, many women now split the bills equally. Do you know now people are applauding men for slapping back females when they are slapped back?(I inclusive)...
Recently,a young lady had sex with a minor,my female friends and I said she should go to jail for rape as if the tables were turned many will cry foul!
Most of your miseducation fortunately talk about TRUTHS, already existing rules mostly existing in Africa. You don't want us to evolve past them.
Rather you SELFISHLY look out for guys, all about how they can be Victors in the game of dating. I am female, and I warn ladies against using the term "broke" just on guys,thats me advocating for what is right.But in your entire life have you ever spoken against a negative existing tag on ladies alone?.but all you do is save the heads of your fellow dudes...
You are a disgrace!
While only men who have gone brutal on ladies after reading your miseducations will hail you, men who look at for the interest of both genders will not.
Mjbolt, Martinez 39

jeph19:
What made her a single mom in the first place??
When there are lots of responsible single ladies...?

There is a thin line between a single lady and a single mom- condom and abortion!
The single lady is not better off than the single mom morally if they both have sex....

eallstar:

Wait a minute am not in of him,
But does single mothers don't deserve to have husband in life again because of their past mistakes?
They are people's sister 4 crying out, ur sister or anybody can fall victim, so they don't deserve love in this entire world again because they are single mothers?
Is it not men like u dat turn them to single mothers in the first place?
Let me ask you a question ( no offence )
If ur sister or any female family of yours fell victim,
Does she not deserve love in life again?
She should be single forever?

don't men have right of choice again ?

MJBOLT:

michelle,i dont understand why you mentioned me

Because you second ubunja view on this, wanted you to read my take on this matter . If you are not happy with this,Its fine,I will never mention you again

popcykaylah:
I think boys are not men.. They aren't different from every other lady out there ..having a child isn't a disease or a crime ..

Not at all. However, motherhood have a way of changing the priorities of a woman. A mother is more concerned about her children than seeking out love or sex. On the other hand, a man is in a relationship for such purpose. Clearly, you can see that the priorities of a single mother is quite different from that of a single man without kids. The same is applicable to married men with families. Once the children comes, men become second fiddle. Tolerance here is key and because the kids are your biological children, you partake with the responsibility of raising them. However, why should a single young man exhaust his energy on issues or responsibilities that are not his

Chukapage:
don't men have right of choice again ?

When ladies want to date only wealthy dudes,don't they have a choice as well? So why do guys frown at the idea of ladies looking at a man pocket not character when it is their choice?

Joystark:
Because some of them do not have sense.

Imagine!!!

Love conquers all including status.

Michellekabod2:

There is a thin line between a single lady and a single mom- condom and abortion!
The single lady is not better off than the single mom morally if they both have sex....

I knew of the aforementioned before writing my comment.
IMO, a single mom is a BIG NO.
I've watched men crying and whining when they're step children start looking for their real dad just before getting itted to the university... You know the emotional breakdown...

Jfyzee:



Men who go the extra mile to do things beyond the ordinary, are always considered to be great. and not those who do the normal things which a sisi like you belong.



Who are you to judge others in the first place..? Is it because the girl or woman in question is not your sister or daughter..? You think most of the suppose baby mamas are not wise to also abort their babies..?

If not for randy men out there do you think some of these women want to be single with a child..? However, have you thought of women who may have lost their husbands to accident or illness while they are pregnant for their first or second child..? Don't these women deserve to be happy again if they should find another man..?

If you're to be God and these women should pray to you for another man in their lives, won't you grant their prayers..? Or you gonna send animals (Gorillas and Donkeys) to them as husband.

It is people like you with this shallow thinking and mentality that would have talked Joseph out from marrying Mary, the woman who gave birth to Jesus. You would have made him lose his blessings from God, but thank God they weren't in Africa.

Kindly grow up and change that shallow mentality and pray non of your daughters or sisters becomes a victim of what you condemn.


PEACE

so men who now do "abnormal" stuffs like being with a single mother are *Great men* which kind of cheap black mail and manipulation is this?

Michellekabod2:

When ladies want to date only wealthy dudes,don't they have a choice as well? So why do guys frown at the idea of ladies looking at a man pocket not character when it is their choice?

Sure - I don't think it's wrong to aspire to be with a partner who can secure your future financially. However, single mothers should know that in the dating world, their value is discounted by the number of children they have. Also statistics have shown that single mothers largely make wrong choices, are poorer financially, desperate emotionally and stressed physically

Michellekabod2:

Ubunja, despite how many times I call you out I LIKE you. The loophole here is the patriachy you preach and practice. While both males and females are looking forward to creating equality between males and females,you are still dragging us back to achaic practices...
Many men are feminist nowadays, many women now split the bills equally. Do you know now people are applauding men for slapping back females when they are slapped back?(I inclusive)...
Recently,a young lady had sex with a minor,my female friends and I said she should go to jail for rape as if the tables were turned many will cry foul!
Most of your miseducation fortunately talk about TRUTHS, already existing rules mostly existing in Africa. You don't want us to evolve past them.
Rather you SELFISHLY look out for guys, all about how they can be Victors in the game of dating. I am female, and I warn ladies against using the term "broke" just on guys,thats me advocating for what is right.But in your entire life have you ever spoken against a negative existing tag on ladies alone?.but all you do is save the heads of your fellow dudes...
You are a disgrace!
While only men who have gone brutal on ladies after reading your miseducations will hail you, men who look at for the interest of both genders will not.
Mjbolt, Martinez 39

i hear you. It's only natural I want men to win cause I'm a man. Plus men have been duped for so long they deserve a rest. And a little victory.

I have no respect for a woman who splits a bill 50/50 with a man. I detest that BS. Either the man covers everything or the woman does. That's how relationships can last. One must dominate. Equality in relationships leads nowhere but to divorce.

As funny as it may sound, after the virgin, the best woman to marry is a Gold Digger. Gold Diggers are the most feminine, most submissive women you'll find. Cause they know their place. And play their role well: eat money, open legs and shut up.

eni4real:
Single Mothers are very perfect to date... They give you the best love at this stage. They know what men wants because of their previous experience, that may be deceptive tho

My Advice: Date them but don't marry them... Settle with a young ambitious girl instead!!!
Marriage is a long term union, not merely a flick.. Don't get carried away by how that single mother is giving you a 'peace of mind' now that you guys are dating!!!

Single Mothers should roll with single fathers... They fit each other in antics and Maturity!!!!
May love unite all Single mothers to different Single fathers and spare all the innocent guys who deserve a new family of their own!!! (Amen)!!!

you and Ubanja na the real men!

joyfullyjoyous:
Love conquers all including status.

Love is not the recipe for a long lasting relationship. In fact, love is the initial phase that attract people together. What keeps couple together for a long time is not love.

Boss13:


I have read some of your comments and I must it you are saying the truth. Though harshly, but you are saying the truth. Some of these guys don't know what they would be getting themselves into. The children you laboured to pay bills for would always acknowledge their biological father. It's a waste of financial resources and bad investment. However, the response you would get is that not all step children would act likewise. But would you rather wait and waste 40 years of your life to find out or avoid it completely. A sensible man would avoid that situation.

that's why your name is Boss. No one can trick you


It's true I can be harsh. It's the only way I know how to do things.

Boss13:


Not at all. However, motherhood have a way of changing the priorities of a woman. A mother is more concerned about her children than seeking out love or sex. On the other hand, a man is in a relationship for such purpose. Clearly, you can see that the priorities of a single mother is quite different from that of a single man without kids. The same is applicable to married men with families. Once the children comes, men become second fiddle. Tolerance here is key and because the kids are your biological children, you partake with the responsibility of raising them. However, why should a single young man exhaust his energy on issues or responsibilities that are not his

This is so far the only sensible post I have read!
I am of the view that if the woman is financially stable to handle the kid alone there is no problem. To me it's a plus,a woman who didn't follow the crowd to commit should be applauded for being strong! Many wombs are damaged for that, men marry ladies without wombs nowadays....
A single mom will not be involved in runs or chasing dudes as she will be bothered on catering for her kid. She becomes mature and responsible .

Chukapage:
so men who now do "abnormal" stuffs like being with a single mother are *Great men* which kind of cheap black mail and manipulation is this?

Laughs - it's a huge blackmail and deceitful agenda pursued by single mothers. They portray the LOOSERS as heroes in movies but in real life they are SUCKERS. They got played by desperate single mothers looking for a meal ticket and a figure head to play DAD.

ubunja:


Sex? Single girl gives it better cause that punay is tighter and sweeter cause no big baby head went through it

ubunja:
i hear you. It's only natural I want men to win cause I'm a man. Plus men have been duped for so long they deserve a rest. And a little victory.

I have no respect for a woman who splits a bill 50/50 with a man. I detest that BS. Either the man covers everything or the woman does. That's how relationships can last. One must dominate. Equality in relationships leads nowhere but to divorce.

As funny as it may sound, after the virgin, the best woman to marry is a Gold Digger. Gold Diggers are the most feminine, most submissive women you'll find. Cause they know their place. And play their role well: eat money, open legs and shut up.

Am glad you itted you look out for males. So why do you detest feminist that look out for females?

Michellekabod2:

Am glad you itted you look out for males. So why do you detest feminist that look out for females?

in which world do feminists have the interests of females at heart??

hmmmmm

Michellekabod2:

Because you second ubunja view on this, wanted you to read my take on this matter . If you are not happy with this,Its fine,I will never mention you again

ubunja:
in which world do feminists have the interests of females at heart??

When I talk of feminist,I don't mean the NL wannabe feminists that just rant when they are clueless of what feminism is

[quote author=Michellekabod2 post=81324923]
When ladies want to date only wealthy dudes,don't they have a choice as well? So why do guys frown at the idea of ladies looking at a man pocket not character when it is their choice?[/quote Nobody frowns at women considering a man's pocket when making her choice because that's how it is everywhere in the world what people frowns at is tasty entitled lazy bitches which are synonymous to a Nigerian dating. If Linda ikeji says she wants a man like e money ,jowizaza or paddy adenuga nobody will flinch cause she's worth it she's got value but when a promiscious nobody looking for some meal ticket in the name of dating and relationship makes the same choice what happens?? People bash her because it's evident she doesn't have the value that equates what she wants it's all choices but make sure the choices align with your reality.A guy that cherishes his peace of mind won't go dating or marrying a single mother whose baby daddy is alive and well in this era of infidelity or if the child is a boy you know why ? Because staying with the single mother will be out of touch with his Reality of peace of mind.Michellekabod2.

Michellekabod2:

When I talk of feminist,I don't mean the NL wannabe feminists that just rant when they are clueless of what feminism is

even global feminists are loonies.

The way they diss virgins, stay at home mothers, motherhood etc is hilarious.

They want women to be men.

Feminists destoyed femininity.

Michellekabod2:

This is so far the only sensible post I have read!
I am of the view that if the woman is financially stable to handle the kid alone there is no problem. To me it's a plus,a woman who didn't follow the crowd to commit should be applauded for being strong! Many wombs are damaged for that, men marry ladies without wombs nowadays....
A single mom will not be involved in runs or chasing dudes as she will be bothered on catering for her kid. She becomes mature and responsible .

I'm sorry to inform you that most single mothers are struggling financially. When I say most that means 90%. Single mothers are poor because first, women take on jobs in field with lesser pay than men. Then when you include dependencies which are kids, a single mother income would fall proportionately by the amount of mouths to feed and cloth. That's why they need and seek out men for financial . They don't NEED men for LOVE. This is what young men who prefer single mothers MUST know. A single mother doesn't need you for love or sex. She primarily needs your financial resources. However, she is willingly to succumb to your fetishes to cater for her kids because she is desperate. She is willingly to pretend and act like she loves you so you can continue footing the bill and reduce her financial burden.

darlokereke:



YOU ARE VERY WRONG IN ALL
I married a single mum. It's been 7years of our marriage ans she got 3 kids for me. It's been a journey of God faithfulness. All gender are equal. You don't judge their future except God.

Come back in 40 years time

joyfullyjoyous:
Love conquers all including status.

Do Nigerian ladies know the true meaning of love ....

Ok , you are talking about lust...

True love in Nigerian is hardly found....

Every Nigerian love is predicted on sth and selfish inordinate.

If there's anything , I've learned in life it is that everyone has a different path, we must decide our own path, don't let the opinion of others decide your path.

In the end, we will all go to live with our own choices, if you find a woman or man that you love and care about and the feeling is mutual, you should settle with thrm and build your home. Don't please any crowd, especially an online keyboard warriors that are battling with troubles in yheir own homes

ubecharles:
. Hello Joy girl. You look very pretty

thirsty niggah spotted