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Is it your 'scared'?? Single mothers should roll with single fathers biko.. . They fit each other in maturity..

degamemaster:



You might the lucky one. Just read my last comment.


And btw, you're still by now...

Lol

frozen70:


Lol

Write me now before I sleep, [email protected]

Single Mothers are very perfect to date... They give you the best love at this stage. They know what men wants because of their previous experience, that may be deceptive tho

My Advice: Date them but don't marry them... Settle with a young ambitious girl instead!!!
Marriage is a long term union, not merely a flick.. Don't get carried away by how that single mother is giving you a 'peace of mind' now that you guys are dating!!!

Single Mothers should roll with single fathers... They fit each other in antics and Maturity!!!!
May love unite all Single mothers to different Single fathers and spare all the innocent guys who deserve a new family of their own!!! (Amen)!!!

Bills

ubunja:
listen to this one
Lmfao

Make I follow you laugh abeg...

yazga:
Why are so many men scared to date single mother's?

Most men go where they can be LEECHES

Dated one, it was the most debilitating and emotional tormenting relationship I've ever been in! She even took our relationship to nairaland! Heck she took her baby father's case to the entire cyberspace! Single mothers have one thing in common....INSECURITY...try as a hard as you may, you will continue to hit a brick wall...

rychard:


Very lame and childish remark.

I am older, I earn far more than her. I have my own house and comfortable enough to afford a good vacation 6-7 times a year, I have managed to become top 5 in a state sponsored modelling competition.

I have options, but I prefer to remain with someone I love and care about, when you grow older you'll understand. Anyways, what is wrong about single mothers or fathers, its life and its too short to worry about past stuff, last last, we go all die and leave options behind.

Grow up, Child

May be you are a single father..!!

A young ambitious guy should never settle for a single Mother..

Single mothers should roll with single fathers.. They fit each other in maturity and antics...

No one starts a match from 1- 0.....

ubunja:
play that game of heart leading the head and you'll lose.
You think women have a reputation for marrying men with money cause they chase happiness? You joking. Don't follow the heart. That thing is deceitful above all else. Love with your head. With sense. The head is above the heart for a reason.

Single Fathers are Okay because the man is the bread winner anyways.

Ever seen a single mother chase a broke man?

Or why do single mothers with money say they don't need a man they can raise their kids all on their own? CAUSE ITS ABOUT THE MONEY. always.

Wake up!!

this is statement is true for 90% of the case....you are right, but there is still the 10% chance of getting what you want.....there are no rules to life!! Life is meant to be lived.

frozen70:
It because of the nonsense culture that recognised men over women

Anybody can be a single parent and in every single mother, there is a single father

Marriage can be smooth at the beginning and get soured at the middle

No one wishes to be a single parent

But bear in mind that matured single mothers are better off than all these inexperienced ladies that gives men wahala

Love can take anyone to anywhere to meet anyone, at a stage in one's life, you have got to please yourself not the society

Single mothers should settle with single fathers.. Stop adding burden to a young man life.. He is just starting up for God sake.
He is yet to have his own child but he is a step father already... Is that what you wish your blood brother?? To marry a single mother??

Single mothers can become a second wife in another family too. That is perfect for their MATURITY

Myde4naija:
i got married to one and I appreciate hell fire than her.

I am sure she was a sweetheart during dating phase

Bbbwings:

What if it is second leg?

The woman is playing second leg... The man is just playing his first leg!! No man should allow a woman with kids use him!!

RyanD147:
Speaking from experience
Dating older women or single mothers has been the most interesting relationships I’ve ever had. They know what they want, and love genuinely.

You see all this our age mate dem, they’re still confused about what they want.

I am open to dating older women/single mothers.

Dating them is fun.. Marrying them is baggages!!

ubunja:
if she's that type then she would have come to him without a child already having left it with grandma. The type can even hide the child.

But Single Mothers are fiercely protective about their children. And will even drop a man if they feel she's bad to their child.

It is called 'maternal instinct ' .A single mother's child is all she has and must protect he/she.Mothers are generally emotional attarched to their children.

Jiang:
Actually I really don't mind dating single mothers, but they must not be a product of divorce. Assuming her husband ed away, no biggie I go marry her & take the kid as my own. of course the kid should not be above 10, be ready to call me daddy & carry my name as his surname



Infact, in d near future I plan to anonymously take care of several orphans without them knowing who is sponsoring them.

I appreciate your maturity. Everything is a matter of taste. I don't necessarily fancy single moms, but they are humans too

These jambites bashing single mums have a myopic view about life. As for me I don't discriminate, happiness and peace of mind is what I cherish. Some single mums are far more mature than single ladies. The one I am dating presently is a rare spec. Would you prefer her she aborts? To each his own, my last exes caused me depression, and so far presently I met someone who is v3ry understanding.

degamemaster:


Not all bro, pls be careful cos so many of them are manipulators and emotional blackmailers. Take it easy and check very well. Good luck...

He can date them. It is fun. But he must NEVER marry them..

Single. Mothers should go for single daddys

Single Mothers should become a second wife of a family

Leave young ambitious guys alone!!

Bridget95:
It is called 'maternal instinct ' .A single mother's child is all she has and must protect he/she.Mothers are generally emotional attarched to their children.

yes Bridget.
We acknowledge this. And we also acknowledge it puts the step father somewhat at a disadvantage.

ubunja:
you are just Mr Clean Up.

A woman screws up her life and you come running with that salary and that house and you save her. Smh

Imagine how blessed it would have been to find a chaste virgin who has kept herself pure in this corrupt world and then reward her with that lifestyle.

But because you've such low standards and you don't believe you deserve the best you go find a woman whom you don't even know how she got pregnant, and you reward her.

*spits*

Respect Yourself.

Gerald Ford, Bill Clinton, Barak Obama, all their step fathers married their single mothers

ubunja:
how hungry for love are you that you have to accept it even from a single mother?

Have standards. You make people with money look stupid

Can you respect people's opinion and stop being a troll?

we can only phuck... can't be serious with a girl someone else had phucked, talkless of one with another man's child!

Bridget95:
It is called 'maternal instinct ' .A single mother's child is all she has and must protect he/she.Mothers are generally emotional attarched to their children.

More reason why a young ambitious man should stay away...
Allow single mothers to marry single daddies or become a second wife in an established family...

By that, everyone will exercise their maternal and paternal instincts in peace.. Nobody will be deprived of love...

A young ambitious man should not marry a lady he didn't make a woman!!!

AkpaMgbor:
Dated one, it was the most debilitating and emotional tormenting relationship I've ever been in! She even took our relationship to nairaland! Heck she took her baby father's case to the entire cyberspace! Single mothers have one thing in common....INSECURITY...try as a hard as you may, you will continue to hit a brick wall...

Gbam

Very insecure. Even when dey pretend to be matured. Most times its just a hoax

You can't even innocently scold their child without them suspecting you might hate/dislike their child

Dizzyrascal:
this is statement is true for 90% of the case....you are right, but there is still the 10% chance of getting what you want.....there are no rules to life!! Life is meant to be lived.

here's the thing; what do you want from a single mother that a single girl can't give you?

Sex? Single girl gives it better cause that punay is tighter and sweeter cause no big baby head went through it

Love? Single mother only loves better cause she's doing it to get you to her calf.
And if a woman with another man's child can love you nicely, imagine then, how much sweeter and nicer will be the love of a woman whom YOU give a baby.
Your own babymama. She will love you to bits. Forever.

Jesus Christ!!!
I can’t oh
I will be thinking how guy used to bleep her to give birth or how many time they have bleep

GboyegaD:


Can you respect people's opinion and stop being a troll?

Your mother who raised you is the troll.

eni4real:
More reason why a young ambitious man should stay away...
Allow single mothers to marry single daddies or become a second wife in an established family...

By that, everyone will exercise their maternal and paternal instincts in peace.. Nobody will be deprived of love...

A young ambitious man should not marry a lady he didn't make a woman!!!

love could make a man overlook your concern s.Most single moms are victims of deciet.

PoliteActivist:


Gerald Ford, Bill Clinton, Barak Obama, all their step fathers married their single mothers

even Joseph the father of Jesus was a step father.

But to this day who is ed more?
Mary the mother of Jesus
Or Joseph the step father of Jesus

Funny enough I have had a few single moms kinda hit on me for some reason. Me I no know.

One was in shoprite surulere. She was forming she wants to buy toy for her neice and was asking me where the toy section was (like I work there) I didn't even realize till my friend pointed it out to me after she came asking me a second time after I told her I really don't know 10mins ago. We sha exchanged number but I didn't know she was a single mom till I saw her then 2go DP carrying a baby..... Niggar japa.


The second was right in my office. Figure 8 kinda light skin lady. She was always trying to pick small small fight and I never knew say na because she like me till my gf (now my wife) point am out too.

I don't hate them and I respect their hustle but I wouldn't want to date them either. I just feel they still belong to someone else especially as the child dey involved. E be like say na adultery i dey do.

Bridget95:
love could make a man overlook your concern s.Most single moms are victims of deciet.

A single Daddy will wipe away her tears!! They fit each other in maturity and antics!!!