NewStats: 3,262,757 , 8,178,071 topics. Date: Tuesday, 03 June 2025 at 01:27 PM 4r665h

sacx:
Living with SNHL not an easy sontin. Wasn't born with it, so can't adapt. No friends, difficulty conversing with people, no job, and people seem to treat me as inferior. Brilliant individual, good grades despite the challenge, still no job. Lots of opportunities staring me at the face but can't take advantage of them. Why? SNHL! Like Bleep Bleep

Was it cause by loud music?

Evangkatsoulis:


Was it cause by loud music?

Not really. No known cause

janefrancisca:
Pressure from family and friends to get married as if husbands are sold in shops.
Graduated years back and still no good job. The little one I am managing is not footing my bills and I don tire for daddy give me.
I am sha just managing myself, God know say I don tire

I understand how you must be feeling but don't let it get to you. This is a phase that will surely . Marriage, happy home, good kids, wealth.....you will have it all

Zeinymira:


I understand how you must be feeling but don't let it get to you. This is a phase that will surely . Marriage, happy home, good kids, wealth.....you will have it all

Amen and Thanks

Reading this thread made me sad

alot of things make me depressed. I'm almost 19 and I'm always worried about my health. I've been having migraines since I was 7 the worst one happened last year a migraine lasted for 2 months. Another problem now is I have visual snow which makes me see afterimages all the time. I also have double vision and I also have tinnitus. I have scoliosis and no one has had it in the history of my family and sometimes my family makes it seem like I did it to myself on purpose. I'm about to take jamb for the 5th time though I've never failed just always been rejected. I am battling an addiction with porn and masturbation. I've been using porn since I was 9 and started masturbation at 13 but today marks 90 days since I last did that. I also have anger management issues but my siblings make it worse. I don't think I'll be able to control it till I live alone. I used to be a very happy extroverted and intelligent child but now I'm very introverted although I'm getting better. I just wish I can live a normal life as a young person instead of constantly worrying about going blind or dropping Dead.

AceRoyal:

Might be a case of Attention deficit disorder.
It takes real discipline to overcome.
As for the poor communication, I guess you get nervous and anxious alot?

I think I might have this, what are the symptoms please

Datdeltagirl:
I think I might have this, what are the symptoms please

Shot attention span on anything
Easily get bored with things and people
Always looking for the next big excitement
Risk taker, some are great gamblers
Finding it difficult to complete any task, etc.

CapedBaldy:
alot of things make me depressed. I'm almost 19 and I'm always worried about my health. I've been having migraines since I was 7 the worst one happened last year a migraine lasted for 2 months. Another problem now is I have visual snow which makes me see afterimages all the time. I also have double vision and I also have tinnitus. I have scoliosis and no one has had it in the history of my family and sometimes my family makes it seem like I did it to myself on purpose. I'm about to take jamb for the 5th time though I've never failed just always been rejected. I am battling an addiction with porn and masturbation. I've been using porn since I was 9 and started masturbation at 13 but today marks 90 days since I last did that. I also have anger management issues but my siblings make it worse. I don't think I'll be able to control it till I live alone. I used to be a very happy extroverted and intelligent child but now I'm very introverted although I'm getting better. I just wish I can live a normal life as a young person instead of constantly worrying about going blind or dropping Dead.

Your health issues are all in your head and mind.
You seem like a very emotional person who is also very meticulous.

AceRoyal:

Shot attention span on anything
Easily get bored with things and people
Always looking for the next big excitement
Risk taker, some are great gamblers
Finding it difficult to complete any task, etc.

ok I think you just describe me well except for gambling part and I don't usually take risks. But the rest part is so me I easily get bored with people I just stop communicating with them and I don't even want them to communicate with me self, maybe I need help.

Datdeltagirl:
ok I think you just describe me well except for gambling part and I don't usually take risks. But the rest part is so me I easily get bored with people I just stop communicating with them and I don't even want them to communicate with me self, maybe I need help.

It's easy to deal with,it just requires discipline.
You can me via the number on my monika

CapedBaldy:
alot of things make me depressed. I'm almost 19 and I'm always worried about my health. I've been having migraines since I was 7 the worst one happened last year a migraine lasted for 2 months. Another problem now is I have visual snow which makes me see afterimages all the time. I also have double vision and I also have tinnitus. I have scoliosis and no one has had it in the history of my family and sometimes my family makes it seem like I did it to myself on purpose. I'm about to take jamb for the 5th time though I've never failed just always been rejected. I am battling an addiction with porn and masturbation. I've been using porn since I was 9 and started masturbation at 13 but today marks 90 days since I last did that. I also have anger management issues but my siblings make it worse. I don't think I'll be able to control it till I live alone. I used to be a very happy extroverted and intelligent child but now I'm very introverted although I'm getting better. I just wish I can live a normal life as a young person instead of constantly worrying about going blind or dropping Dead.

Are you in Delta State?

MissSweet:
I sometimes feel depressed when I have few challenges like failed a course, feeling lonely and even bad relationship with girlfriends. But at the same time I learn from the experience.

Right Now I can say I can control my depression state. I have come to realized that any difficulties one es through many has gone through it.

And lastly, I always prepare my mind ahead of any circumstances and believe it will get better.

Most people feel depressed, lonely, despised, unproductive or stagnant at certain points in life. I think it's part of the human psyche to question ourselves and subconsciously compare ourselves with others whom we think we should measure upto and when we fall below par, we sulk and a range of emotions overwhelm us.

I like your resolve it'll become better and you'll work and do what it takes to make it better.

Cheers

PreciousRahl:

Are you in Delta State?

Yes

curryandthyme:
The fear of making mistakes constantly fill me especially in of marriage, I broke up with my fiancee because he was cheating n my family was on his side this really making me feel depressed most time

Hi

If a r/ship is getting you depressed before marriage do you think it'll change when you get married?
I might be wrong but I think that the thought of a fiancée should bring happiness and not misery.

I bet your family didn't know he cheated.

AceRoyal:

Your health issues are all in your head and mind.

I'm trying to use the law of attraction to see if I can fix them because I really believe what you said there is true

CapedBaldy:

Yes

Would it be possible for us to meet?

I'm based in Warri

I might be able to help you out with some of your issues

CapedBaldy:

I'm trying to use the law of attraction to see if I can fix them because I really believe what you said there is true

It might not work because sooner than u think..... You'll get bored and slip further into depression.

AceRoyal:

It might not work because sooner than u think..... You'll get bored and slip further into depression.

what do you think I should do

PreciousRahl:


Would it be possible for us to meet?

I'm based in Warri

I might be able to help you out with some of your issues

No offense but I don't think I can do that. I'm not good at communicating with people and I only posted this here to vent since I know no one knows me here

Where do i start from?

CapedBaldy:

No offense but I don't think I can do that. I'm not good at communicating with people and I only posted this here to vent since I know no one knows me here

No worries bro. I hope you find peace

CapedBaldy:

what do you think I should do

Learn to enjoy boredom.....
The fun is in the journey and not in the destination.
Sometimes boredom builds responsibility.

CapedBaldy:

No offense but I don't think I can do that. I'm not good at communicating with people and I only posted this here to vent since I know no one knows me here

Learn to get out of your self inflicted prison and comfort zone, the world outside is more beautiful and exciting....

oyetpel:
Where do i start from?

Dropped out of school at 500L due to bad grades.

And having to start again 8 years since my 1st ission.

Coping tho, but these constant thoughts of disappointment always come coupled with the fact that i am an introvert and i am so freaking lonely in school (no friend coupled with course mates calling uncle which makes me feel old and the feel that i wasted my youth life, should have graduated at 23 now i will at 28)

Enduring tho, and hoping to finish by '21 and also hopefully travel abroad finally after 2 visa rejections.

Even this too will away....
Don't be deterred, one day u'll look back and be happy and proud of urself.
Ur regrets will fade away into happiness.
As for loneliness, we can be friends.

AceRoyal:

Shot attention span on anything
Easily get bored with things and people
Always looking for the next big excitement
Risk taker, some are great gamblers
Finding it difficult to complete any task, etc.

Sadly this me

... I used to see depression as something alien to the strong. I thought I was strong and shouldn't be depressed.. Each day I'll sit down, thinking, crying, damn! it was terrible... I knew I was slowly slipping into depression, I told myself 'Hey!! you're strong..you can't be depressed. you're not depressed..you can't be.' I was lying to myself just to feel better, it didn't work though...

I became scared. I kept picturing suicide. I was scared of my thoughts cause mehnn I was going way too far... I checked my blood pressure and the result wasn't encouraging at all...The man who checked it was shocked sef cause he said I always look happy, bright, full of life and joy..what could be wrong?? What are you thinking about, small girl?

I realized I was destroying myself and my potentials so I decided to pick myself up and be strong as always. I read books, I played with little kids(that helped a lot), did few things I love doing, went out, embraced life.

My problem isn't solved yet and I can't say if I'm out of the whole depression stuff, but I feel a whole lot better, stronger and happier.

I know so many depressed people are viewing this thread, I also searched for a thread like this when I was down... I'm just gonna say that depression ain't the end of the world. It's owkay to feel sad and downcast sometimes buh refusing to stay down is what makes you stronger... Pick yourself up to stand tall... Life is like a big merry go round, you just have to take control of it.....

Marriage pressure at home

fucc12:

Sadly this me

Care to talk about it?

Estellie:
... I used to see depression as something alien to the strong. I thought I was strong and shouldn't be depressed.. Each day I'll sit down, thinking, crying, damn! it was terrible... I knew I was slowly slipping into depression, I told myself 'Hey!! you're strong..you can't be depressed. you're not depressed..you can't be.' I was lying to myself just to feel better, it didn't work though...

I became scared. I kept picturing suicide. I was scared of my thoughts cause mehnn I was going way too far... I checked my blood pressure and the result wasn't encouraging at all...The man who checked it was shocked sef cause he said I always look happy, bright, full of life and joy..what could be wrong?? What are you thinking about, small girl?

I realized I was destroying myself and my potentials so I decided to pick myself up and be strong as always. I read books, I played with little kids(that helped a lot), did few things I love doing, went out, embraced life.

My problem isn't solved yet and I can't say if I'm out of the whole depression stuff, but I feel a whole lot better, stronger and happier.

I know so many depressed people are viewing this thread, I also searched for a thread like this when I was down... I'm just gonna say that depression ain't the end of the world. It's owkay to feel sad and downcast sometimes buh refusing to stay down is what makes you stronger... Pick yourself up to stand tall... Life is like a big merry go round, you just have to take control of it.....

God Bless you

I am broke, have little to nothing to feed on and the uncertainty of the future gets me all depressed

The Hunger +depression is Really making me think of things I shouldn't

PreciousRahl:

No worries bro. I hope you find peace

thanks man