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11 Signs You Are Being In A Manipulative Relationship And How To Fix It. (34460 Views)

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TanyLoe(f): 6:39pm On Dec 15, 2018
dingbang:
7. Gaslighting




Gaslighting is the form of manipulation most likely to make you feel like you're losing your dang mind. Your partner does shady things on a consistent basis, like pretend they didn't say things, pretend you didn't say things, leave out information, twist the truth, re-invent the past, make you think your forgot things, and make you feel like you're losing it in general. When it's done enough, you'll feel like you can't trust your own brain, so you must need your partner to keep you in check.

What to do

Get away. Gaslighting is a serious form of abuse, plain and simple.



once had a guy who broke up with me
And come back pleading, I forgave
And he did it again
Is this called gaslighting
dingbang(m): 6:43pm On Dec 15, 2018
TanyLoe:





I am or was in a relationship with a guy
The truth I don't know if we have broken up yet
He hurts you with words but won't apologize and even if he's at fault he won't still apologize
He makes you trust him and then he used it against you
Dose that mean he is a manipulator?
yes he is a manipulator. He knows your weaknesses and uses that against you. Please stay away from him, date someone who understands how to run a relationship like a company
TanyLoe(f): 6:46pm On Dec 15, 2018
dingbang:
yes he is a manipulator. He knows your weaknesses and uses that against you. Please stay away from him, date someone who understands how to run a relationship like a company



I wish you knew that
TanyLoe(f): 6:47pm On Dec 15, 2018
dingbang:
yes he is a manipulator. He knows your weaknesses and uses that against you. Please stay away from him, date someone who understands how to run a relationship like a company
Thanks
TanyLoe(f): 6:50pm On Dec 15, 2018
Wow
TanyLoe(f): 6:50pm On Dec 15, 2018
Ok
TanyLoe(f): 6:53pm On Dec 15, 2018
It's not about copying and posting
Which one of these are you doing
And if your doing
You stop
Relationship is about two people
How you handle issues and arguments

This is a good post
dingbang(m): 7:04pm On Dec 15, 2018
TanyLoe:




I wish you knew that
of course I do.
dingbang(m): 7:09pm On Dec 15, 2018
TanyLoe:
I guess your posting from experience?

And what will you call a man who loves breaking up and coming back asking for forgiveness?
And are you in a relationship?
no. Officially I am single , I just broke up with my girlfriend.
TanyLoe(f): 7:14pm On Dec 15, 2018
dingbang:
no. Officially I am single , I just broke up with my girlfriend.



wow
Who was the manipulative one
dingbang(m): 7:23pm On Dec 15, 2018
TanyLoe:




wow
Who was the manipulative one
we werent compatible at the end..
TanyLoe(f): 7:32pm On Dec 15, 2018
[quote author=dingbang post=73875819]no. Officially I am single , I just broke up with mpy girlfriend. [/quot

With the way your saying
it's show your not worthy Advicing anyone here
You don't announce your failure
And you don't look like a keeper either
dingbang(m): 7:33pm On Dec 15, 2018
[quote author=TanyLoe post=73876401][/quote] smiles. You know nothing
TanyLoe(f): 7:35pm On Dec 15, 2018
dingbang:
smiles. You know nothing


I agree
But I can't never leave my man
Even when his the most annoying man ever
Fights
Disagreements
But how yoh handle what's happening is relationship
TanyLoe(f): 7:37pm On Dec 15, 2018
dingbang:
we werent compatible at the end..

Nobody is compatible
You make them compatible
You mold them into what you what to see
I just feel like your playing with a girls heart
And as the man
Fix it
TanyLoe(f): 7:40pm On Dec 15, 2018
dingbang:
smiles. You know nothing
I don't know you
but I feel you need help
dingbang(m): 7:52pm On Dec 15, 2018
TanyLoe:



I agree
But I can't never leave my man
Even when his the most annoying man ever
Fights
Disagreements
But how yoh handle what's happening is relationship
thats true .. But at this point for me, its best we leave.
dingbang(m): 7:53pm On Dec 15, 2018
TanyLoe:

I don't know you
but I feel you need help
naah..
TanyLoe(f): 8:08pm On Dec 15, 2018
dingbang:
thats true .. But at this point for me, its best we leave.

That's proves you never loved her at first
Because if you did..you would know how it feels to stay a minute without calling the person you love
dingbang(m): 8:13pm On Dec 15, 2018
TanyLoe:


That's proves you never loved her at first
Because if you did..you would know how it feels to stay a minute without calling the person you love
na so.
TanyLoe(f): 8:14pm On Dec 15, 2018
dingbang:
na so.
j


That's the truth
dingbang(m): 8:15pm On Dec 15, 2018
TanyLoe:
j


That's the truth
okay.. I hear you.
TanyLoe(f): 8:16pm On Dec 15, 2018
dingbang:
na so.


That's the truth
Make I go chop
I dey hungry
Care to
dingbang(m): 8:17pm On Dec 15, 2018
TanyLoe:



That's the truth
Make I go chop
I dey hungry
Care to
i'm a foodie . wink
TanyLoe(f): 8:19pm On Dec 15, 2018
dingbang:
i'm a foodie . wink



Lol
Don't come again
rame18(f): 8:22pm On Dec 15, 2018
Ahhh! Which one do I fall under self?? Alhaji dingbang have you ed relationship experts I need relationship advice as I just started dating again.
TanyLoe(f): 8:22pm On Dec 15, 2018
dingbang:
okay.. I hear you.


I would love it
If you settled you problems
Sometimes it's through hot fight that you know your really in a true relationship
Talking from experience
What your taking for granted someone is praying for it
I see you as a gentleman
act like one
And as for the food
No come
I go chop alone
rame18(f): 8:23pm On Dec 15, 2018
dingbang:
i'm a foodie . wink











Bomb go soon explode for your head. Face your front. wink
rame18(f): 8:24pm On Dec 15, 2018
TanyLoe:



I would love it
If you settled you problems
Sometimes it's through hot fight that you know your really in a true relationship
Talking from experience
What your taking for granted someone is praying for it
I see you as a gentleman
act like one
And as for the food
No come
I go chop alone











LMAO
TanyLoe(f): 8:25pm On Dec 15, 2018
rame18:
Ahhh! Which one do I fall under self?? Alhaji dingbang have you ed relationship experts I need relationship advice as I just started dating again.



You don't advice what you don't know
TanyLoe(f): 8:27pm On Dec 15, 2018
rame18:


Hahahahahahaha









Bomb go soon explode for your head. Face your front. wink
rame18(f): 8:27pm On Dec 15, 2018
TanyLoe:




You don't advice what you don't know










You think so

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