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dingbang:
7. Gaslighting




Gaslighting is the form of manipulation most likely to make you feel like you're losing your dang mind. Your partner does shady things on a consistent basis, like pretend they didn't say things, pretend you didn't say things, leave out information, twist the truth, re-invent the past, make you think your forgot things, and make you feel like you're losing it in general. When it's done enough, you'll feel like you can't trust your own brain, so you must need your partner to keep you in check.

What to do

Get away. Gaslighting is a serious form of abuse, plain and simple.

once had a guy who broke up with me
And come back pleading, I forgave
And he did it again
Is this called gaslighting

TanyLoe:





I am or was in a relationship with a guy
The truth I don't know if we have broken up yet
He hurts you with words but won't apologize and even if he's at fault he won't still apologize
He makes you trust him and then he used it against you
Dose that mean he is a manipulator?

yes he is a manipulator. He knows your weaknesses and uses that against you. Please stay away from him, date someone who understands how to run a relationship like a company

dingbang:
yes he is a manipulator. He knows your weaknesses and uses that against you. Please stay away from him, date someone who understands how to run a relationship like a company

I wish you knew that

dingbang:
yes he is a manipulator. He knows your weaknesses and uses that against you. Please stay away from him, date someone who understands how to run a relationship like a company

Thanks

Wow

Ok

It's not about copying and posting
Which one of these are you doing
And if your doing
You stop
Relationship is about two people
How you handle issues and arguments

This is a good post

TanyLoe:




I wish you knew that

of course I do.

TanyLoe:
I guess your posting from experience?

And what will you call a man who loves breaking up and coming back asking for forgiveness?
And are you in a relationship?

no. Officially I am single , I just broke up with my girlfriend.

dingbang:
no. Officially I am single , I just broke up with my girlfriend.

wow
Who was the manipulative one

TanyLoe:




wow
Who was the manipulative one

we werent compatible at the end..

[quote author=dingbang post=73875819]no. Officially I am single , I just broke up with mpy girlfriend. [/quot

With the way your saying
it's show your not worthy Advicing anyone here
You don't announce your failure
And you don't look like a keeper either

[quote author=TanyLoe post=73876401][/quote] smiles. You know nothing

dingbang:
smiles. You know nothing

I agree
But I can't never leave my man
Even when his the most annoying man ever
Fights
Disagreements
But how yoh handle what's happening is relationship

dingbang:
we werent compatible at the end..

Nobody is compatible
You make them compatible
You mold them into what you what to see
I just feel like your playing with a girls heart
And as the man
Fix it

dingbang:
smiles. You know nothing

I don't know you
but I feel you need help

TanyLoe:



I agree
But I can't never leave my man
Even when his the most annoying man ever
Fights
Disagreements
But how yoh handle what's happening is relationship

thats true .. But at this point for me, its best we leave.

TanyLoe:

I don't know you
but I feel you need help

naah..

dingbang:
thats true .. But at this point for me, its best we leave.

That's proves you never loved her at first
Because if you did..you would know how it feels to stay a minute without calling the person you love

TanyLoe:


That's proves you never loved her at first
Because if you did..you would know how it feels to stay a minute without calling the person you love

na so.

dingbang:
na so.

j


That's the truth

TanyLoe:
j


That's the truth

okay.. I hear you.

dingbang:
na so.

That's the truth
Make I go chop
I dey hungry
Care to

TanyLoe:



That's the truth
Make I go chop
I dey hungry
Care to

i'm a foodie .

dingbang:
i'm a foodie .

Lol
Don't come again

Ahhh! Which one do I fall under self?? Alhaji dingbang have you ed relationship experts I need relationship advice as I just started dating again.

dingbang:
okay.. I hear you.

I would love it
If you settled you problems
Sometimes it's through hot fight that you know your really in a true relationship
Talking from experience
What your taking for granted someone is praying for it
I see you as a gentleman
act like one
And as for the food
No come
I go chop alone

dingbang:
i'm a foodie .

Bomb go soon explode for your head. Face your front.

TanyLoe:



I would love it
If you settled you problems
Sometimes it's through hot fight that you know your really in a true relationship
Talking from experience
What your taking for granted someone is praying for it
I see you as a gentleman
act like one
And as for the food
No come
I go chop alone

LMAO

rame18:
Ahhh! Which one do I fall under self?? Alhaji dingbang have you ed relationship experts I need relationship advice as I just started dating again.

You don't advice what you don't know

rame18:


Hahahahahahaha









Bomb go soon explode for your head. Face your front.

TanyLoe:




You don't advice what you don't know

You think so