NewStats: 3,262,318 , 8,176,797 topics. Date: Sunday, 01 June 2025 at 07:04 PM 5r241d

recklesscrow:
She might be quick to react, but that doesn't mean you have to traumatize her in the process. If you guys settle now dat trauma will still be there. Please clear off the tension in her now before it is too late.

The guy no know say women no dey forgive and the wife may wait until 30 years or more before exacting her revenge.

I have a friend whose uncle used to knack all and sundry including his wife's junior sisters many years ago. The wife waited patiently for 30 years and when her husband went blind, she started bringing their butcher / meat seller into their house for knacking sessions since Baba could no longer see at that point.

I have another friend whose Mum waited until her husband was old - more than 80 years old and blind and whenever the poor blind old man went to wee, if he missed the toilet bowl, the wife - in her 70's will start wiping her blind old husband with koboko as punishment for missing the toilet bowl and when the neighbours hear the blind old man's screams, they will be forced to break down the door to rescue the blind old man from his wife's beatings and take him to the safety of one of his children's house.

The OP does not realise that the vulture is a patient bird and women no dey forgive or forget no matter how long ago the perceived hurt to their emotions happened.

PUMPIN11:


You are y typa guy bruv.....Since she had asked the relevant questions and you have answered "sincerely" but she somehow still believed what she wanted to believe, let the game continue......I am a tough player too, cos you won't sha go and it what you didn't do, but you see that "convinction" wey she want, she no go get am so freely.....leggo bro!

’Men like peace’


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unzend:
Hello everyone, I need your opinions on this issue that’s causing some interesting situation at home.

I’ve been working fully remote for two years now, taking care of the kids and managing the house after moving into a state in Nigeria from Lag. (I was hybrid before and go to Lag weekly before- not easy). Last Friday, my wife came back home from Lag - we stiĺl maintain our house there cos she works there , and everything just went upside down.


I stepped outside to take get somewhere, and she checked my phone (we’re recently being locking phones). She saw a pregnancy scan on my phone that mentioned something about “breech presentation.” The thing is, this scan isn’t mine! It belongs to my Farm worker’s wife. He showed it to me while talking about her condition, and I took a picture to keep it for him for hospital records and future reference. That’s all.

When my wife saw it, her mood changed instantly. She started asking me tough questions, but I gave vague answers cos I knew her tendedncy to have persismistic thoughts and conclusions. Haha! She concluded I got another woman pregnant. Before I knew it, she called my mum, then my dad. That same evening, my dad came over to comfort her. From his expression, it looked like he also thought I messed up. I just excused myself and left the room.

Now, my mum and dad have called me, saying they’re disappointed and telling me to repent from “adultery.” I got upset and told them I’m a grown man who can make my own choices, and I haven’t done anything wrong.

She informed all my in-laws and says my FIL is really angry.

The while situation has sent my wife into a spiral—she’s paranoid, heartbroken, and acting sick. She’s telling me to pay off this “woman,” block her, and never speak to her again. I told her I won’t do that cos the woman may have being her!

Right now, I’m just letting things sit to see how it plays out, but the tension between us is heavy. My wife is not herself, and my parents are treating me like I’ve sinned. She even acted up to the point She was prophesying my Downfall cos of my Adultery. Like in the spirit the 30 minutes straight. I just dey shake my head.

What's your opinion about this, I plan to keep it on for as long as I can withstand the drama.

If truely you are innocent, it will show from your looks and conversation, in fact, na laugh you go dey laugh any time the issue comes up.
I expect you to have gone to see your parents privately to convince them that you are innocent. You can even invite the woman involved and her husband to come and testify to your innocence. Failure to do these will fuel suspicion from everyone

Either na cock&bull story or OP has really impregnated his farm workers wife?
Which is it?

ArcSEMPECJ:


Since you are on the safe side, bounce it and move on, wish we are close neighbors, let's have some cool bottles and proteins ....

But the next move is to bring the guy and the wife for a dinner like attention,.... to bring your Mum and Dad along since they are now involved, then break the news for them all ....and laugh it loud...

But for now, enjoy the Bollywood movie.....

’Men love peace’

Exhibit number 2

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Ilekokonit:


The guy no know say women no dey forgive and the wife may wait until 30 years or more before exacting her revenge.

I have a friend whose uncle used to knack all and sundry including his wife's junior sisters many years ago. The wife waited patiently for 30 years and when her husband went blind, she started bringing their butcher / meat seller into their house for knacking sessions since Baba could no longer see at that point.

I have another friend whose Mum waited until her husband was old - more than 80 years old and blind and whenever the poor blind old man went to wee, if he missed the toilet bowl, the wife - in her 70's will start wiping her blind old husband with koboko as punishment for missing the toilet bowl and when the neighbours hear the blind old man's screams, they will be forced to break down the door to rescue the blind old man from his wife's beatings and take him to the safety of one of his children's house.

The OP does not realise that the vulture is a patient bird and women no dey forgive or forget no matter how long ago the perceived hurt to their emotions happened.

Ilekokonit:


The guy no know say women no dey forgive and the wife may wait until 30 years or more before exacting her revenge.

I have a friend whose uncle used to knack all and sundry including his wife's junior sisters many years ago. The wife waited patiently for 30 years and when her husband went blind, she started bringing their butcher / meat seller into their house for knacking sessions since Baba could no longer see at that point.

I have another friend whose Mum waited until her husband was old - more than 80 years old and blind and whenever the poor blind old man went to wee, if he missed the toilet bowl, the wife - in her 70's will start wiping her blind old husband with koboko as punishment for missing the toilet bowl and when the neighbours hear the blind old man's screams, they will be forced to break down the door to rescue the blind old man from his wife's beatings and take him to the safety of one of his children's house.

The OP does not realise that the vulture is a patient bird and women no dey forgive or forget no matter how long ago the perceived hurt to their emotions happened.

LOL. No woman of this time is doing that again. Stay with you for what? When single men full everywhere

She will simply leave him and marry someone else or start sleeping around.

Whether he confesses or not, the marriage is over because she will never believe him and she will cheat when she goes back to that Lagos

Lekby25:


If truely you are innocent, it will show from your looks and conversation, in fact, na laugh you go dey laugh any time the issue comes up.
I expect you to have gone to see your parents privately to convince them that you are innocent. You can even invite the woman involved and her husband to come and testify to your innocence. Failure to do these will fuel suspicion from everyone

Hes not innocent

This is his cover up story, he posted here so he can show it as proof

So u want the worst to happen before u tell her the whole truth? U one use your own hand scatter your marriage

unzend:
Hello everyone, I need your opinions on this issue that’s causing some interesting situation at home.

I’ve been working fully remote for two years now, taking care of the kids and managing the house after moving into a state in Nigeria from Lag. (I was hybrid before and go to Lag weekly before- not easy). Last Friday, my wife came back home from Lag - we stiĺl maintain our house there cos she works there , and everything just went upside down.


I stepped outside to take get somewhere, and she checked my phone (we’re recently being locking phones). She saw a pregnancy scan on my phone that mentioned something about “breech presentation.” The thing is, this scan isn’t mine! It belongs to my Farm worker’s wife. He showed it to me while talking about her condition, and I took a picture to keep it for him for hospital records and future reference. That’s all.

When my wife saw it, her mood changed instantly. She started asking me tough questions, but I gave vague answers cos I knew her tendedncy to have persismistic thoughts and conclusions. Haha! She concluded I got another woman pregnant. Before I knew it, she called my mum, then my dad. That same evening, my dad came over to comfort her. From his expression, it looked like he also thought I messed up. I just excused myself and left the room.

Now, my mum and dad have called me, saying they’re disappointed and telling me to repent from “adultery.” I got upset and told them I’m a grown man who can make my own choices, and I haven’t done anything wrong.

She informed all my in-laws and says my FIL is really angry.

The while situation has sent my wife into a spiral—she’s paranoid, heartbroken, and acting sick. She’s telling me to pay off this “woman,” block her, and never speak to her again. I told her I won’t do that cos the woman may have being her!

Right now, I’m just letting things sit to see how it plays out, but the tension between us is heavy. My wife is not herself, and my parents are treating me like I’ve sinned. She even acted up to the point She was prophesying my Downfall cos of my Adultery. Like in the spirit the 30 minutes straight. I just dey shake my head.

What's your opinion about this, I plan to keep it on for as long as I can withstand the drama.

i pray she does the same thing to u. Naaaaaa u are being childish

PresidObi:
I think you set up the pregnancy test pictures to provoke your wife, then you're playing it to complicate matters by not telling your parents and other of her relatives the truth, because you want to turn the tables on her later and sack her.

You're tired of your wife and is just setting her up because you kjow she will blow her top, then you will use it as an excuse to leave her for another woman.

You nailed it bro, fine from your story it shows your wife does not trust you 100% but I guess you are tired of her too and also using this incident to set her up for your red card. If truly you love her just end the drama and come out clean.

unzend:
Hello everyone, I need your opinions on this issue that’s causing some interesting situation at home.

I’ve been working fully remote for two years now, taking care of the kids and managing the house after moving into a state in Nigeria from Lag. (I was hybrid before and go to Lag weekly before- not easy). Last Friday, my wife came back home from Lag - we stiĺl maintain our house there cos she works there , and everything just went upside down.


I stepped outside to take get somewhere, and she checked my phone (we’re recently being locking phones). She saw a pregnancy scan on my phone that mentioned something about “breech presentation.” The thing is, this scan isn’t mine! It belongs to my Farm worker’s wife. He showed it to me while talking about her condition, and I took a picture to keep it for him for hospital records and future reference. That’s all.

When my wife saw it, her mood changed instantly. She started asking me tough questions, but I gave vague answers cos I knew her tendedncy to have persismistic thoughts and conclusions. Haha! She concluded I got another woman pregnant. Before I knew it, she called my mum, then my dad. That same evening, my dad came over to comfort her. From his expression, it looked like he also thought I messed up. I just excused myself and left the room.

Now, my mum and dad have called me, saying they’re disappointed and telling me to repent from “adultery.” I got upset and told them I’m a grown man who can make my own choices, and I haven’t done anything wrong.

She informed all my in-laws and says my FIL is really angry.

The while situation has sent my wife into a spiral—she’s paranoid, heartbroken, and acting sick. She’s telling me to pay off this “woman,” block her, and never speak to her again. I told her I won’t do that cos the woman may have being her!

Right now, I’m just letting things sit to see how it plays out, but the tension between us is heavy. My wife is not herself, and my parents are treating me like I’ve sinned. She even acted up to the point She was prophesying my Downfall cos of my Adultery. Like in the spirit the 30 minutes straight. I just dey shake my head.

What's your opinion about this, I plan to keep it on for as long as I can withstand the drama.

You they whine us.
Open the door wide for the devil, he is coming with 7wicked spirit

Either the story is fiction or the op is really really foolish.

And you still sleep in the same house, eat the food she prepares?

You are playing with premature death!!!!

unzend:
Hello everyone, I need your opinions on this issue that’s causing some interesting situation at home.

I’ve been working fully remote for two years now, taking care of the kids and managing the house after moving into a state in Nigeria from Lag. (I was hybrid before and go to Lag weekly before- not easy). Last Friday, my wife came back home from Lag - we stiĺl maintain our house there cos she works there , and everything just went upside down.


I stepped outside to take get somewhere, and she checked my phone (we’re recently being locking phones). She saw a pregnancy scan on my phone that mentioned something about “breech presentation.” The thing is, this scan isn’t mine! It belongs to my Farm worker’s wife. He showed it to me while talking about her condition, and I took a picture to keep it for him for hospital records and future reference. That’s all.

When my wife saw it, her mood changed instantly. She started asking me tough questions, but I gave vague answers cos I knew her tendedncy to have persismistic thoughts and conclusions. Haha! She concluded I got another woman pregnant. Before I knew it, she called my mum, then my dad. That same evening, my dad came over to comfort her. From his expression, it looked like he also thought I messed up. I just excused myself and left the room.

Now, my mum and dad have called me, saying they’re disappointed and telling me to repent from “adultery.” I got upset and told them I’m a grown man who can make my own choices, and I haven’t done anything wrong.

She informed all my in-laws and says my FIL is really angry.

The while situation has sent my wife into a spiral—she’s paranoid, heartbroken, and acting sick. She’s telling me to pay off this “woman,” block her, and never speak to her again. I told her I won’t do that cos the woman may have being her!

Right now, I’m just letting things sit to see how it plays out, but the tension between us is heavy. My wife is not herself, and my parents are treating me like I’ve sinned. She even acted up to the point She was prophesying my Downfall cos of my Adultery. Like in the spirit the 30 minutes straight. I just dey shake my head.

What's your opinion about this, I plan to keep it on for as long as I can withstand the drama.

BouquiLake:
And you still sleep in the same house, eat the food she prepares?

You are playing with premature death!!!!

It's like trouble sleep, yanga go wake am. A very expensive joke that IF true could lead to disaster or at the very least life long resentment and hatred.

Exactly.

PresidObi:
I think you set up the pregnancy test pictures to provoke your wife, then you're playing it to complicate matters by not telling your parents and other of her relatives the truth, because you want to turn the tables on her later and sack her.

You're tired of your wife and is just setting her up because you kjow she will blow her top, then you will use it as an excuse to leave her for another woman.

Grow up

Don't scatter your family because of insensitivity.

Fiction.

unzend:
Hello everyone, I need your opinions on this issue that’s causing some interesting situation at home.

I’ve been working fully remote for two years now, taking care of the kids and managing the house after moving into a state in Nigeria from Lag. (I was hybrid before and go to Lag weekly before- not easy). Last Friday, my wife came back home from Lag - we stiĺl maintain our house there cos she works there , and everything just went upside down.


I stepped outside to take get somewhere, and she checked my phone (we’re recently being locking phones). She saw a pregnancy scan on my phone that mentioned something about “breech presentation.” The thing is, this scan isn’t mine! It belongs to my Farm worker’s wife. He showed it to me while talking about her condition, and I took a picture to keep it for him for hospital records and future reference. That’s all.

When my wife saw it, her mood changed instantly. She started asking me tough questions, but I gave vague answers cos I knew her tendedncy to have persismistic thoughts and conclusions. Haha! She concluded I got another woman pregnant. Before I knew it, she called my mum, then my dad. That same evening, my dad came over to comfort her. From his expression, it looked like he also thought I messed up. I just excused myself and left the room.

Now, my mum and dad have called me, saying they’re disappointed and telling me to repent from “adultery.” I got upset and told them I’m a grown man who can make my own choices, and I haven’t done anything wrong.

She informed all my in-laws and says my FIL is really angry.

The while situation has sent my wife into a spiral—she’s paranoid, heartbroken, and acting sick. She’s telling me to pay off this “woman,” block her, and never speak to her again. I told her I won’t do that cos the woman may have being her!

Right now, I’m just letting things sit to see how it plays out, but the tension between us is heavy. My wife is not herself, and my parents are treating me like I’ve sinned. She even acted up to the point She was prophesying my Downfall cos of my Adultery. Like in the spirit the 30 minutes straight. I just dey shake my head.

What's your opinion about this, I plan to keep it on for as long as I can withstand the drama.

Look at ut this way if ur wife did same exact thing to u saying its her colleague in the office and she won't break ties with him just because the man Could be u.

I hope u will be happy and understanding since u started it. 2 can always play the game. u want to give her health issues? keep stressing her.

They've started this nonsense again. The buttons and sign in with Google buttons aren't enough to keep the misogyny and fake threads at bay.

Some of you who jumped into marriage quickly are kids, what wrong in telling them the whole truth and exonerate yourself and let your wife enjoy the little days she came to spend with you, and keep trusting you for who she married you for..

You are behaving like a kid, until your wife drink snaiper before you reveal the truth.

What other records are you keeping for your friend? ... bank records? ...salary records? Why would you keep pregnancy records for him?... she may delete his records of the test and next year claim she is not pregnant? How long you planned to keep the record? No regular man will do such...let alone a married man. Why didn't you bring your friend and his wife to confirm what you're saying? This kie wouldn't work.

By the time you use your hand to scatter your marriage don't blame your village people. That's if your story is real.

unzend:
Hello everyone, I need your opinions on this issue that’s causing some interesting situation at home.

I’ve been working fully remote for two years now, taking care of the kids and managing the house after moving into a state in Nigeria from Lag. (I was hybrid before and go to Lag weekly before- not easy). Last Friday, my wife came back home from Lag - we stiĺl maintain our house there cos she works there , and everything just went upside down.


I stepped outside to take get somewhere, and she checked my She was prophesying my Downfall cos of my Adultery. Like in the spirit the 30 minutes straight. I just dey shake my head.

What's your opinion about this, I plan to keep it on for as long as I can withstand the drama.

Did I read you told your parents you are a grown man? therefore insinuating maturity?bro I hate to break it to you but it's only teenagers that play such silly games in relationships,letting your wife and family go on a guessing game without clearly stating and explaining the truth to them is just soo childish and if that's what you are doing then you are not man enough to have a wife,just continue SS2 relationship. Like wtf did I just read from a man who calls himself a married man?na wa o

You'll never get your wife back

Are you crazy?

Why can't you just tell her what happened?

Nonsense.

Sijo01:
By the time you use your hand to scatter your marriage don't blame your village people. That's if your story is real.

As in ehnn very childish games in relationships that SS 2 teenage kids play.

Jobless people

At first glance I thought I saw "I think my wife got someone else pregnant". Then I looked at the title again.