NewStats: 3,259,170 , 8,169,274 topics. Date: Saturday, 24 May 2025 at 05:27 AM 1o6d4y

Hello everyone, I need your opinions on this issue that’s causing some interesting situation at home.

I’ve been working fully remote for two years now, taking care of the kids and managing the house after moving into a state in Nigeria from Lag. (I was hybrid before and go to Lag weekly before- not easy). Last Friday, my wife came back home from Lag - we stiĺl maintain our house there cos she works there , and everything just went upside down.


I stepped outside to take get somewhere, and she checked my phone (we’re recently being locking phones). She saw a pregnancy scan on my phone that mentioned something about “breech presentation.” The thing is, this scan isn’t mine! It belongs to my Farm worker’s wife. He showed it to me while talking about her condition, and I took a picture to keep it for him for hospital records and future reference. That’s all.

When my wife saw it, her mood changed instantly. She started asking me tough questions, but I gave vague answers cos I knew her tendedncy to have persismistic thoughts and conclusions. Haha! She concluded I got another woman pregnant. Before I knew it, she called my mum, then my dad. That same evening, my dad came over to comfort her. From his expression, it looked like he also thought I messed up. I just excused myself and left the room.

Now, my mum and dad have called me, saying they’re disappointed and telling me to repent from “adultery.” I got upset and told them I’m a grown man who can make my own choices, and I haven’t done anything wrong.

She informed all my in-laws and says my FIL is really angry.

The while situation has sent my wife into a spiral—she’s paranoid, heartbroken, and acting sick. She’s telling me to pay off this “woman,” block her, and never speak to her again. I told her I won’t do that cos the woman may have being her!

Right now, I’m just letting things sit to see how it plays out, but the tension between us is heavy. My wife is not herself, and my parents are treating me like I’ve sinned. She even acted up to the point She was prophesying my Downfall cos of my Adultery. Like in the spirit the 30 minutes straight. I just dey shake my head.

What's your opinion about this, I plan to keep it on for as long as I can withstand the drama.

I think you set up the pregnancy test pictures to provoke your wife, then you're playing it to complicate matters by not telling your parents and other of her relatives the truth, because you want to turn the tables on her later and sack her.

You're tired of your wife and is just setting her up because you kjow she will blow her top, then you will use it as an excuse to leave her for another woman.

Mariangeles:
Rage bait! 🤯🤯

Lol. You caught this one

unzend:
Hello everyone, I need your opinions on this issue that’s causing some interesting situation at home.

I’ve been working fully remote for two years now, taking care of the kids and managing the house after moving into a state in Nigeria from Lag. (I was hybrid before and go to Lag weekly before- not easy). Last Friday, my wife came back home from Lag - we stiĺl maintain our house there cos she works there , and everything just went upside down.


I stepped outside to take get somewhere, and she checked my phone (we’re recently being locking phones). She saw a pregnancy scan on my phone that mentioned something about “breech presentation.” The thing is, this scan isn’t mine! It belongs to my Farm worker’s wife. He showed it to me while talking about her condition, and I took a picture to keep it for him for hospital records and future reference. That’s all.

When my wife saw it, her mood changed instantly. She started asking me tough questions, but I gave vague answers cos I knew her tendedncy to have persismistic thoughts and conclusions. Haha! She concluded I got another woman pregnant. Before I knew it, she called my mum, then my dad. That same evening, my dad came over to comfort her. From his expression, it looked like he also thought I messed up. I just excused myself and left the room.

Now, my mum and dad have called me, saying they’re disappointed and telling me to repent from “adultery.” I got upset and told them I’m a grown man who can make my own choices, and I haven’t done anything wrong.

She informed all my in-laws and says my FIL is really angry.

The while situation has sent my wife into a spiral—she’s paranoid, heartbroken, and acting sick. She’s telling me to pay off this “woman,” block her, and never speak to her again. I told her I won’t do that cos the woman may have being her!

Right now, I’m just letting things sit to see how it plays out, but the tension between us is heavy. My wife is not herself, and my parents are treating me like I’ve sinned. She even acted up to the point She was prophesying my Downfall cos of my Adultery. Like in the spirit the 30 minutes straight. I just dey shake my head.

What's your opinion about this, I plan to keep it on for as long as I can withstand the drama.

What kind of stooopid drama is that you are looking for

If you didn't impregnate another woman, stop the drama now. Don't cause unnecessary trouble in your marriage.

Aint this writeup funny and looks unreal? why will u keep such from ur parents? You want to watch their drama as well? To say u didn't impregnate someone and explain the whole thing is hard?. My conclusion is that this is illusion

Wondering why someone would want to keep up with this kind of “drama”. What do you seek to gain? Na wa

Why not speak the truth and let your wife mind be at rest ...

You plan to keep it for long as you can withstand the drama? And yet you are sleeping in the same house? Dem done pour you hot water before?

Simply explanation, you could not give your wife... but you preferred to coman explain to us!!!

You dey try sir...

Kids with internet enabled phones.

Childish act!

I don’t know, but you should have explained it to her clearly and not vaguely, why not try to talk these things out, try to calm her down….

nifemi25:
Why not speak the truth and let your wife mind be at rest ...

eniolorunfe:
Wondering why someone would want to keep up with this kind of “drama”. What do you seek to gain? Na wa

Seems to me like he has no regard for his wife at all, and his "I took a picture to keep it for him for hospital records and future reference", just sounds like a lie.

unzend:
Hello everyone, I need your opinions on this issue that’s causing some interesting situation at home.

I’ve been working fully remote for two years now, taking care of the kids and managing the house after moving into a state in Nigeria from Lag. (I was hybrid before and go to Lag weekly before- not easy). Last Friday, my wife came back home from Lag - we stiĺl maintain our house there cos she works there , and everything just went upside down.


I stepped outside to take get somewhere, and she checked my phone (we’re recently being locking phones). She saw a pregnancy scan on my phone that mentioned something about “breech presentation.” The thing is, this scan isn’t mine! It belongs to my Farm worker’s wife. He showed it to me while talking about her condition, and I took a picture to keep it for him for hospital records and future reference. That’s all.

When my wife saw it, her mood changed instantly. She started asking me tough questions, but I gave vague answers cos I knew her tendedncy to have persismistic thoughts and conclusions. Haha! She concluded I got another woman pregnant. Before I knew it, she called my mum, then my dad. That same evening, my dad came over to comfort her. From his expression, it looked like he also thought I messed up. I just excused myself and left the room.

Now, my mum and dad have called me, saying they’re disappointed and telling me to repent from “adultery.” I got upset and told them I’m a grown man who can make my own choices, and I haven’t done anything wrong.

She informed all my in-laws and says my FIL is really angry.

The while situation has sent my wife into a spiral—she’s paranoid, heartbroken, and acting sick. She’s telling me to pay off this “woman,” block her, and never speak to her again. I told her I won’t do that cos the woman may have being her!

Right now, I’m just letting things sit to see how it plays out, but the tension between us is heavy. My wife is not herself, and my parents are treating me like I’ve sinned. She even acted up to the point She was prophesying my Downfall cos of my Adultery. Like in the spirit the 30 minutes straight. I just dey shake my head.

What's your opinion about this, I plan to keep it on for as long as I can withstand the drama.

I love this for some purpose,
let her show herself finish, but you need to monitor the emotion closely ..
Secondly: don’t your family discuss and keep secret, why this she go hair-wire on involving the both external family same moment and all, Wow!
Too much red flag
Omo! I can’t be with a woman that can’t accommodate polygamy with cool mindset.
Abeg try live long Mr OP

unzend:
Hello everyone, I need your opinions on this issue that’s causing some interesting situation at home.

I’ve been working fully remote for two years now, taking care of the kids and managing the house after moving into a state in Nigeria from Lag. (I was hybrid before and go to Lag weekly before- not easy). Last Friday, my wife came back home from Lag - we stiĺl maintain our house there cos she works there , and everything just went upside down.


I stepped outside to take get somewhere, and she checked my phone (we’re recently being locking phones). She saw a pregnancy scan on my phone that mentioned something about “breech presentation.” The thing is, this scan isn’t mine! It belongs to my Farm worker’s wife. He showed it to me while talking about her condition, and I took a picture to keep it for him for hospital records and future reference. That’s all.

When my wife saw it, her mood changed instantly. She started asking me tough questions, but I gave vague answers cos I knew her tendedncy to have persismistic thoughts and conclusions. Haha! She concluded I got another woman pregnant. Before I knew it, she called my mum, then my dad. That same evening, my dad came over to comfort her. From his expression, it looked like he also thought I messed up. I just excused myself and left the room.

Now, my mum and dad have called me, saying they’re disappointed and telling me to repent from “adultery.” I got upset and told them I’m a grown man who can make my own choices, and I haven’t done anything wrong.

She informed all my in-laws and says my FIL is really angry.

The while situation has sent my wife into a spiral—she’s paranoid, heartbroken, and acting sick. She’s telling me to pay off this “woman,” block her, and never speak to her again. I told her I won’t do that cos the woman may have being her!

Right now, I’m just letting things sit to see how it plays out, but the tension between us is heavy. My wife is not herself, and my parents are treating me like I’ve sinned. She even acted up to the point She was prophesying my Downfall cos of my Adultery. Like in the spirit the 30 minutes straight. I just dey shake my head.

What's your opinion about this, I plan to keep it on for as long as I can withstand the drama.

All I see is a man that is tired of having peace in his family cause what sort of senseless post is this? You didn't get a woman pregnant but you want your wife, her family and yours to think you did to see how long you can withstand the drama? Are you sure you're okay at all?

If you check now, you may find out that she has even been the one cheating on you before she left Lagos.

So your workers wife’s pregnancy scan is on your phone and you couldn’t call the person to it?..
1)Why didn’t you put a call to your worker so they could listen on phone to it wasn’t yours ?
2)You wife just came from lag right!
3)Seems your wife’s bf in lag done show her pepper that’s why she came back furious..
4)Both of you,are cheating..

COOL10:
If you check now, you may find out that she has even been the one cheating on you before she left Lagos.

On point..Her Lagos bf done vex am that’s why she came back with an attitude..They both playing themselves..

budaatum:


Seems to me like he has no regard for his wife at all, and his "I took a picture to keep it for him for hospital records and future reference", just sounds like a lie.

Like a big fat lie

Very simple thing Op could have done is call the farmer and his wife to be physically present with his own wife, show evidence that the picture of the breech pregnancy belongs to the farmers wife with the farmer and wife confirming it, but no, he wants to bring up unnecessary drama for no reason, shows he's lying.

Mtchewwwwwwwww

what do you hope to achieve by destabilizing your home