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This Guy Is 39 And Says I’m Perfect For Him. Me Wey Dey 23: Lady Cries Out (30654 Views)

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Allwell96: 1:09pm On May 21
I believe the guy is not financially loaded that's why.

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nairalanda1(m): 1:15pm On May 21
Dalohad:


Na God go bless you.

She thinks the 7 years between 23 and 30 is 100 years. cheesy

E go too shock when 2 election cycles come and she don clock 31 years fast fast.. grin

Not every woman has the maturity to do age gap romance/relationship

At least this one is itting it indirectly. Better she does, rather than go into a relationship with the man, and then after you will hear long story about 'immaturity'.

She also is prbly looking for her agemate or someone close in age to her.

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nairalanda1(m): 1:17pm On May 21
Allwell96:
I believe the guy is not financially loaded that's why.

No, he probably is. The issue is, the girl knows she won't be his equal in maturity...that is why she is focusing on the age, not whether he has stuff or not.
jojothaiv(m): 1:29pm On May 21
Axis313:

Nobody bates eyelids or raised eyebrows when Juma Jux (35) weds Priscilla Ojo (23) years,but if na ordinary people now,everyone will get an opinion.
Ned Nwoko married Regina Daniel nobody talks cause the guy is a moneybag.

You're not wrong, man.

I take most of the comments here with a pinch of salt, many are outright hypocrites and it's glaring.
Blitzking: 1:30pm On May 21
Dalohad:


How old are you?

I laugh. Do you think that your university classmates who 21 and you are 23 is really your age mate in of suitor and the kind of husband she will marry?
I married my classmate and I married my age mate we earn almost similar and we have a child not marrying a gal that I will later become a burden to.

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Ashirioluwa: 1:34pm On May 21
Age is just a number. If Reginal Daniel, who was 18 at the time, was able to marry a 63-year-old man, I don't see any reason why you can't marry a 49-year-old man.

Go for the money.

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danzaki63: 3:11pm On May 21
Wait till you are 39 and your Grandfather age mate will be your new suitor.

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zedegit: 4:08pm On May 21
Chilipepper:
This guy is 39 and says I’m perfect for him. Me wey still dey 23” — Lady cries out over age gap romance offer


Younger girls have gotten married to far older men. If she no dey ready make she getat.

Small pikin still dey worry her.
Jb95(m): 4:17pm On May 21
nairalanda1:





MUST SHE MARRY HIM?

I mean, not everyone does age gap marriage. And let's be serious, 39 year old man no dey think like 23 year old woman. He marries her, in five months he will be complaining that he married a little child who can't take care of herself.

If the woman does not want to marry him, ye must not mock her.

Also, I have heard of women who turned down older men, and then in a year accepted younger men.

If she was your sister, would you agree for her to marry him if she accepted?

You guys are behaving childish. Women have choice. Just as you are not obligated to marry a woman who is not up to your 'taste' so also women are not obligated to marry men who don't meet their standard. She probably wants someone closer in age to her.


Also, come now, you guys should stop despising women. No be every woman be woke femminist abeg. Just because she said no to a 39 YEAR Old does not mean she be some femminist who wants to head her company by age 30 before she marry. cheesy

Oga it is not a must to marry him, but the guy did absolutely nothing wrong in asking her out, but of course you will not see the childishness on her part to bring it online and ridicule the guy as if he did something wrong.

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Kipaji: 4:39pm On May 21
Moniya4Real:

God bless your brainy brain bro. To the ladies; it's all about interest regardless of the man's age.


That's the first time someone said this to me bro. Thank you.

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DIVINEEVIDENCE: 4:54pm On May 21
suckprick:
All these men going after ladies that is 10yrs+ younger, how una dey do am? Shame no dey catch una? Personally I can't marry someone that's more than 5yrs younger than me. It would look as if I am with my niece. Someone that should be calling you uncle is calling you honey? Da fvck.

Its not about the age difference.
Its about the age of the woman.

Mugabe married a woman 40 years younger than he was.

Give that woman 20 years.
Your eyes go clear.

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Tradepunter2: 5:02pm On May 21
suckprick:
All these men going after ladies that is 10yrs+ younger, how una dey do am? Shame no dey catch una? Personally I can't marry someone that's more than 5yrs younger than me. It would look as if I am with my niece. Someone that should be calling you uncle is calling you honey? Da fvck.

Omoo shattttappp..... You can't tell a difference when a man in his 40s is marrying or dating a Lady in his 30s.... Una brain dy work one dimension.... Also majority of runs girls are in their 20s... Come Lagos clubs at night and see things for yourself

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Tradepunter2: 5:07pm On May 21
Blitzking:

I married my classmate and I married my age mate we earn almost similar and we have a child not marrying a gal that I will later become a burden to.

Good on you... Am 8 years older than my wife... I married way into my financial strengths... Most of una when marry age mate una na the call for help.... Except you married woman with sense and you married in your 20s

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nnamdi282(m): 5:13pm On May 21
My guy, hustle ooo. If na Dangote or Ned Okwonkwo, this mumu no go come online dey post rubbish

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Arthur02(m): 5:20pm On May 21
Chilipepper:
This guy is 39 and says I’m perfect for him. Me wey still dey 23” — Lady cries out over age gap romance offer

Wetin my classmate like 😂 all the girls in my class married rock of ages.
Blitzking: 5:39pm On May 21
Tradepunter2:


Good on you... Am 8 years older than my wife... I married way into my financial strengths... Most of una when marry age mate una na the call for help.... Except you married woman with sense and you married in your 20s
i married in my late 20s and was already earning half a mill monthly..had landed properties from my school days..would never advise a guy to try wat I did cos my pop c already bought me a house since I was a teenager.. but even at that maintaining the house is more expensive than rent in some areas..if you look at utility bills, light bill..etc
femi4: 5:43pm On May 21
Chilipepper:
This guy is 39 and says I’m perfect for him. Me wey still dey 23” — Lady cries out over age gap romance offer

Age is just a number. Look at Sade n Regina

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eeithis(m): 6:18pm On May 21
This one thinks say she's still young....my uncle wey dey 60+ talk say he no dey like knack any girl from 21+ that they are too old to be a girl he dey anything 18 and 19 he can manage 20
cuffee: 6:24pm On May 21
nairalanda1:





MUST SHE MARRY HIM?

I mean, not everyone does age gap marriage. And let's be serious, 39 year old man no dey think like 23 year old woman. He marries her, in five months he will be complaining that he married a little child who can't take care of herself.

If the woman does not want to marry him, ye must not mock her.

Also, I have heard of women who turned down older men, and then in a year accepted younger men.

If she was your sister, would you agree for her to marry him if she accepted?

You guys are behaving childish. Women have choice. Just as you are not obligated to marry a woman who is not up to your 'taste' so also women are not obligated to marry men who don't meet their standard. She probably wants someone closer in age to her.


Also, come now, you guys should stop despising women. No be every woman be woke femminist abeg. Just because she said no to a 39 YEAR Old does not mean she be some femminist who wants to head her company by age 30 before she marry. cheesy
you are a big fuul
cuffee: 6:25pm On May 21
eeithis:
This one thinks say she's still young....my uncle wey dey 60+ talk say he no dey like knack any girl from 21+ that they are too old to be a girl he dey anything 18 and 19 he can manage 20
your uncle dey do hookup?
FameGlory(f): 6:28pm On May 21
Why can't men in the 40's marry women in their 40's too?
2RightHands1Coc(m): 6:35pm On May 21
Biologically doesn't make sense
FameGlory:
Why can't men in the 40's marry women in their 40's too?
gawu1: 6:36pm On May 21
Maybe, the man has no money
FameGlory(f): 6:48pm On May 21
It is well
nairalanda1(m): 6:58pm On May 21
cuffee:
you are a big fuul

You can do much better than this.

God bless
Quodseverismete: 7:18pm On May 21
Nwaiyoo:
Small girl with very big God 😂😂😂😂

Are you Regina Daniel??
Godschild007(m): 7:23pm On May 21
FameGlory:
Why can't men in the 40's marry women in their 40's too?
Because men and women biological clock are not the same

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