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This Guy Is 39 And Says I’m Perfect For Him. Me Wey Dey 23: Lady Cries Out - Romance (3) - Nairaland 3a263m

This Guy Is 39 And Says I’m Perfect For Him. Me Wey Dey 23: Lady Cries Out (30672 Views)

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Don27tiky(m): 12:10pm On May 21
suckprick:
All these men going after ladies that is 10yrs+ younger, how una dey do am? Shame no dey catch una? Personally I can't marry someone that's more than 5yrs younger than me. It would look as if I am with my niece. Someone that should be calling you uncle is calling you honey? Da fvck.
All this talk of a girl below 18yrs is a minor are just man made laws, God create a woman different from a man. A girl at 13years of age starts menstruating and is ready for child bearing . Getting pregnant above 25years stresses her body that’s why the change in physique. Women who give birth when they were suppose to, usually recover and feel better compare to those who gives birth late(above 25). To avoid wives looking older than their husbands it’s better to marry girls 23yrs and below

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cyberbro(m): 12:10pm On May 21
columbus007:
Abeg make this one carry her craze go front undecided

LOL... Don't mind her. 23 year old woman complaining about relationship with a 39 year old guy, as if the guy is 50.

Na that shakara she go do, she go enter 30, nobody wan marry her again. Na she go come dey beg 40+ guys for marriage. 😹

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UpaIweka: 12:10pm On May 21
Talk to Ned

suckprick:
All these men going after ladies that is 10yrs+ younger, how una dey do am? Shame no dey catch una? Personally I can't marry someone that's more than 5yrs younger than me. It would look as if I am with my niece. Someone that should be calling you uncle is calling you honey? Da fvck.

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Ofemannnu: 12:11pm On May 21
You are a woman for God's sake.
God created the world for men to be mostly older than their women.
Ask Adam,Solomon etc.
39 to 23 is not too much,ma.
In a few years,you will look older than him.
If you become fat,it is even worse.

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Abokinmanoma: 12:12pm On May 21
At 23... Before you go reach 35 u no go Sabi...

That time u go dey find to be person 4th wife u no go see sef

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meobizy(f): 12:16pm On May 21
He’s looking for a baby. He will settle with a twenty-nine year old when all is said and done.
Bintasukai: 12:18pm On May 21
Chilipepper:
This guy is 39 and says I’m perfect for him. Me wey still dey 23” — Lady cries out over age gap romance offer


You go soon dey dis same exact position.
8starmember: 12:23pm On May 21
She never dey ready

Very soon she no go see men of 50 self grin

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dododawa1: 12:24pm On May 21
Ned Nwoko.






comes to mind

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onadana: 12:30pm On May 21
Jb95:
At 40 she go still still tell us how one 69 yrs old said she is perfect him 😏

No be banny...nah so Dem be.... especially our own.They keep looking for what is not there.

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onadana: 12:31pm On May 21
Kipaji:
If it was a 40 year old Ned Nwoko, it wouldn't have been a problem.
The real issue here is not the age, she just isn't interested in that man.

No cash....long throat is a factor
nairalanda1(m): 12:31pm On May 21
Jb95:
At 40 she go still still tell us how one 69 yrs old said she is perfect him 😏
columbus007:
Abeg make this one carry her craze go front undecided
papyjaypaul:


She still wants to cruise in one mumu freedom. Experience is the best teacher. She will realise a little too late what she could have done if she took her life more seriously.

Let no one come and tell me about pressure. Marriage is not for everyone but if your own is to waste your life sleeping with men and checking them out, it's better to ignore men completely. Our parents knew what's up, dem no just tell us. These are the best times for her to give bouncing babies but it's her body, her choice. Let her enjoy the beauty and the beasts of 23&me. No one wins an argument by preaching, experience teaches the best.


MUST SHE MARRY HIM?

I mean, not everyone does age gap marriage. And let's be serious, 39 year old man no dey think like 23 year old woman. He marries her, in five months he will be complaining that he married a little child who can't take care of herself.

If the woman does not want to marry him, ye must not mock her.

Also, I have heard of women who turned down older men, and then in a year accepted younger men.

If she was your sister, would you agree for her to marry him if she accepted?

You guys are behaving childish. Women have choice. Just as you are not obligated to marry a woman who is not up to your 'taste' so also women are not obligated to marry men who don't meet their standard. She probably wants someone closer in age to her.


Also, come now, you guys should stop despising women. No be every woman be woke femminist abeg. Just because she said no to a 39 YEAR Old does not mean she be some femminist who wants to head her company by age 30 before she marry. cheesy
uvie66: 12:31pm On May 21
suckprick:
All these men going after ladies that is 10yrs+ younger, how una dey do am? Shame no dey catch una? Personally I can't marry someone that's more than 5yrs younger than me. It would look as if I am with my niece. Someone that should be calling you uncle is calling you honey? Da fvck.
Nonsense talk, this is a very myopic way of thinking, what is age got to do with love and common interest that two people share, some young people have a mature outlook in life, while some so called mature people are the worst set of people you can come across, all these corrupt Governors that have stiffled the growth of this country are in their 50s and 60s.
Emefiele that built over 70 or 700 duplexes with stolen money is in his 60s.

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nairalanda1(m): 12:35pm On May 21
suckprick:
All these men going after ladies that is 10yrs+ younger, how una dey do am? Shame no dey catch una? Personally I can't marry someone that's more than 5yrs younger than me. It would look as if I am with my niece. Someone that should be calling you uncle is calling you honey? Da fvck.

cheesy..but in some cases, they do that because they want a woman with a high chance of getting pregnant, and women's pregancy chances diminish with age (yes, I have seen women deliver kids in their late 40's)

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nairalanda1(m): 12:36pm On May 21
uvie66:

Nonsense talk, this is a very myopic way of thinking, what is age got to do with love and common interest that two people share, some young people have a mature outlook in life, while some so called mature people are the worst set of people you can come across, all these corrupt Governors that have stiffled the growth of this country are in their 50s and 60s.
Emefiele that built over 70 or 700 duplexes with stolen money is in his 60s.

Not everyone does age gap. Yes, some young women have the maturity to pull it off, but most young women want a boyfriend closer in age to them.
CharlesNavy(m): 12:37pm On May 21
And low key one 70 years old man de bend her over
Hisroyalbeat(m): 12:40pm On May 21
Lies,All for the gramm, Bunkum angry
chi4ik4(m): 12:43pm On May 21
Blitzking:
I know that women of these days grow very fast but 10years far oo...men who do these thing are looking for caregivers in old age when dey go begin piss and shiit for body.
and you will not grow old right?
Emeskhalifa(m): 12:44pm On May 21
Kipaji:
If it was a 40 year old Ned Nwoko, it wouldn't have been a problem.
The real issue here is not the age, she just isn't interested in that man.

You dey mind her

He probably does not have enough money to win her heart.

, what money cannot solve, more money will solve it

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Blitzking: 12:54pm On May 21
chi4ik4:
and you will not grow old right?
Will those women stay..if money is wat attracted when you are 80yrs and they are 45yrs.
ufotunang: 12:57pm On May 21
It's not by force..so do not disturb us

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Dalohad: 12:57pm On May 21
Kipaji:
If it was a 40 year old Ned Nwoko, it wouldn't have been a problem.
The real issue here is not the age, she just isn't interested in that man.

Na God go bless you.

She thinks the 7 years between 23 and 30 is 100 years. cheesy

E go too shock when 2 election cycles come and she don clock 31 years fast fast.. grin

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Snowx: 12:58pm On May 21
Jb95:
At 40 she go still still tell us how one 69 yrs old said she is perfect him 😏

No mind her

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Moniya4Real(m): 1:00pm On May 21
God bless your brainy brain bro. To the ladies; it's all about interest regardless of the man's age.

Kipaji:
If it was a 40 year old Ned Nwoko, it wouldn't have been a problem.
The real issue here is not the age, she just isn't interested in that man.

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Lazenby007(m): 1:00pm On May 21
Pls, you are too young for him, wait till when your are 39 and then start looking for a man who is 63. If you don't find any, wait again till you are 49 and start looking for a 73. You are beautiful girl you hear !

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Dalohad: 1:01pm On May 21
Blitzking:
I know that women of these days grow very fast but 10years far oo...men who do these thing are looking for caregivers in old age when dey go begin piss and shiit for body.

How old are you?

I laugh. Do you think that your university classmates who 21 and you are 23 is really your age mate in of suitor and the kind of husband she will marry?

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bewla(m): 1:02pm On May 21
columbus007:
Abeg make this one carry her craze go front undecided
when she is 50 she will appreciate him more

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uvie66: 1:07pm On May 21
nairalanda1:


Not everyone does age gap. Yes, some young women have the maturity to pull it off, but most young women want a boyfriend closer in age to them.
....I concur, because most times they want to start a family and grow old with there partners.

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