NewStats: 3,259,482 , 8,170,247 topics. Date: Sunday, 25 May 2025 at 08:29 AM 3i3u2l

DrFunmisticGlow:
maybe the settle quarrel in da oza room and belle enter as a result. That is how a number of middle and last-borns are conceived.

e for better make them no settle o.
Problem no dey finish after all.

We need to take back this country with force , fight or war, enough of these rubbish happening

Kobojunkie:
Pregnancy is a 9-month gig during which those who are intentional would have not only prepared themselves for that final emergency to come but also done all necessary to ensure they are prepared as far as the bill to come.

This here is a sad story indeed, but I can't really fault the hospital for choosing to protect its bottom line either.

u may be a bachelor

advanceDNA:
So sad......

Even Goverment hospital no send anybody papa let alone private...their motto is "you nor pay....U die sharpally"

.they see death everyday...they don't give a flying fvck..

They know she will die , instead of them to tell u, they will demand for money, after u pay them, ur loved one dies, ur money is gone, they do this all the time, nigerians are born criminals

TheOldGods:

This man is a clown. If he was the one, would he accept to give someone goods on credit or work for someone on credit and to get paid later? he should be ashamed of himself rather than looking for cheap pity. Pregnancy is not an Emergency, you don't just get pregnant. it is something that is planned for, even if a woman gets pregnant, She still has 9months. this man is clearly a mistake, he took the life of his wife all by himself for his lack of decision making or leadership experience in his marriage. His negligence should not be frowned from. he killed his wife by his hands. if this was an actual emergency like a gunshot, accident etc, then I would feel a bit more sad and remorseful, but pregnancy is never ever an Emergency.

you are an animal you get the money does not mean others too get what of if the money with him is not up to that This country can never move forward with animal like you they should have save the baby first

Oga, you mean you have finally killed someone's daughter and are trying to blame the hospital? Police should get involved and do a thorough investigation! Your wife is pregnant and you have nothing saved up, you wait till she is dying to just rush into some random hospital to begin to beg them to do what exactly? Was she not doing antenatal? Where was she ed? You expect them to just swing into action, without her history, case notes, file, nothing nothing... who does that?

Nigeria Police over to you ooo

SAMBARRY:
pickmeshas never learn.them no get money for condoms or family planning yet their genitals are more hardworking than their brains

That man and his wife are part of the problems of nigeria. Let's even leave tilubu out of this. You don't have a stable source of income, you bring children into poverty and illiteracy and then when
they grow up and hunger wan finish the kids, they'll go and look for who to Rob at oshodi Bridge or who to snatch him phone.no wonder psychopaths,grapists and dysfunctional people from poor homes no dey ever finish.if you listen to alhaji oriyomi on kokoro alate and hear women talking about their stories and you still give a broke man to you womb, you're a fool

Anytime I'm driving in traffic and I see little boys as young as 9 or 10 years washing windscreens of cars trapped in traffic,I feel anger and disgust for the parents. Producing children you have no resources or plans to take care of and leaving/exposing them to roam and search for food on the streets in this era of kidnappers, ritualists and wicked peopleeverywhere. Those parents are more evil than bokoharam and all the African leaders put together.how do you have the wicked heart to watch you kids cry of hunger and beg strangers on the streets for money but you're still having constant unprotected sex and Bringing more children into the world to suffer and be a danger to the society

They don't know the moment you birth a kid in extreme lack, you have created an easy target for predators. When men think of konji disposal, they think of your daughters. When gangs think of new recruit, they think your sons first. The system is already rigged against them. No need to do it thrice. 2 is fine. 1 is perfect.

You don't have 500k anywhere and you were on the 3rd child. Look at what they are eating/cooking.

Women who are the major victims and should take most caution are somehow the ones having baby fever and getting pregnant. Carry pregnancy in lack, birth in lack. If the marriage falls apart, you would be saddled with the kids and the stigma. What other reason do you need to birth only as much as you can take care of, emotionally, physically and financially?

RIP to her.

riceqey:
u may be a bachelor

Because in your head, only bachelors possess the ability to plan out their lives and pregnancy associated emergencies, right?

Kobojunkie:
Because in your head, only bachelors possess the ability to plan out their lives and pregnancy associated emergencies, right?

dey play

TheOldGods:
➜This man is a clown. If he was the one, would he accept to give someone goods on credit or work for someone on credit and to get paid later? he should be ashamed of himself rather than looking for cheap pity. Pregnancy is not an Emergency, you don't just get pregnant. it is something that is planned for, even if a woman gets pregnant, She still has 9months. this man is clearly a mistake, he took the life of his wife all by himself for his lack of decision making or leadership experience in his marriage. His negligence should not be frowned from. he killed his wife by his hands. if this was an actual emergency like a gunshot, accident etc, then I would feel a bit more sad and remorseful, but pregnancy is never ever an Emergency.

Is the woman in this case not equally culpable? Is she really a victim?

TheOldGods:

This man is a clown. If he was the one, would he accept to give someone goods on credit or work for someone on credit and to get paid later? he should be ashamed of himself rather than looking for cheap pity. Pregnancy is not an Emergency, you don't just get pregnant. it is something that is planned for, even if a woman gets pregnant, She still has 9months. this man is clearly a mistake, he took the life of his wife all by himself for his lack of decision making or leadership experience in his marriage. His negligence should not be frowned from. he killed his wife by his hands. if this was an actual emergency like a gunshot, accident etc, then I would feel a bit more sad and remorseful, but pregnancy is never ever an Emergency.

Hello , do you know whether the man have a good job paying substantial amount as salary at the moment. Or the man is living from hand to mouth with a meagre salary.

500k is not a small money. How many Nigerians have 500k in our various s

This is share wickedness from the hospital management.

May God Almighty continues to provide, guide, protect and bless us more on the surface of the earth and the hereafter.

Aamin

pocohantas:


They don't know the moment you birth a kid in extreme lack, you have created an easy target for predators. When men think of konji disposal, they think of your daughters. When gangs think of new recruit, they think your sons first. The system is already rigged against them. No need to do it thrice. 2 is fine. 1 is perfect.

You don't have 500k anywhere and you were on the 3rd child. Look at what they are eating/cooking.

Women who are the major victims and should take most caution are somehow the ones having baby fever and getting pregnant. Carry pregnancy in lack, birth in lack. If the marriage falls apart, you would be saddled with the kids and the stigma. What other reason do you need to birth only as much as you can take care of, emotionally, physically and financially?

RIP to her.

pickmeshas never learn till they learn the hard way. Even the people that they're risking their lives to please will turn around and insult them if things don't go their way

Tufiakwa to all pickmeshas and broke men that cannot think

And honestly if you can control your emotions and hormones you can win in this life.imagine person wey still dey writh in pain and you are telling her be strong because of me.so even in pain and lack it's still about him

Once again may I never jam broke selfish and unreasonable men .spits

Herkim:
➜Hello , do you know whether the man have a good job paying substantial amount as salary at the moment.
➜ Or the man is living from hand to mouth with a meagre salary. 500k is not a small money.
➜ How many Nigerians have 500k in our various s. This is share wickedness from the hospital management.
➜ May God Almighty continues to provide, guide, protect and bless us more on the surface of the earth and the hereafter. Aamin

Stop telling ridiculous tales! If he had a good paying job and eventually lost it, what business did he then have going to a private clinic he could no longer afford?

2. If he was already living from hand to mouth, what business did he have having a kid he could not afford?

3. All the more reason why they should not go to an unaffordable private clinic or engage in activities that would cost them money their salaries cannot cover.

4. Please stop throwing the mention of the word GOd around as a means of covering up for obvious ignorance!

Herkim:


Hello , do you know whether the man have a good job paying substantial amount as salary at the moment. Or the man is living from hand to mouth with a meagre salary.

500k is not a small money. How many Nigerians have 500k in our various s

This is share wickedness from the hospital management.

May God Almighty continues to provide, guide, protect and bless us more on the surface of the earth and the hereafter.

Aamin

wonderful. So he knows he can't afford N500k yet he's bringing another child to the world to come and suffer for his selfish wickedness


Women you see the men una wan marry . Tuehhhh

SAMBARRY:
pickmeshas never learn till they learn the hard way. Even the people that they're risking their lives to please will turn around and insult them if things don't go their way. Tufiakwa to all pickmeshas and broke men that cannot think. And honestly if you can control your emotions and hormones you can win in this life.imagine person wey still dey writh in pain and you are telling her be strong because of me.so even in pain and lack it's still about him. Once again may I never jam broke selfish and unreasonable men .spits

Is the woman a victim in all of this? The real victims here are the children— the unborn child who had to die because of the stewpid decisions made by its mother.

Let's hope this same man is not going to continue on to impregnating another foolish woman before the year runs out. We're still in April. Him fit go marry and impregnate another woman before years end dey talk say him children need another mother and all of the other nonsense excuses his kind dey like use.

Get health insurance BEFORE you impregnate her! e get why. RIP.

Kobojunkie:
Is the woman a victim in all of this? The real victims here are the children— the unborn child who had to die because of the stewpid decisions made by its mother.

lol the real victims are the mother and child

Mother: for marrying a broke man and giving him to her womb,for being stupid enough to accept I love you over financial security for being senseless to listen to society pressure of just marry meaning marry anything

Child; a casualty of his mothers inability to choose logic and stability over emotions

SAMBARRY:
➜ lol the real victims are the mother and child.
Mother: for marrying a broke man and giving him to her womb,for being stupid enough to accept I love you over financial security for being senseless to listen to society pressure of just marry meaning marry anything
Child; a casualty of his mothers inability to choose logic and stability over emotions

. Their mother was an adult, and she could have and should have done better. Adults are responsible for their own lives and she had every reason to have made the right decision as far as getting pregnant and preparing for the birth and all associated emergencies. She is not a victim as it is, unless it is proven that the man intentionally hoodwinked her into going to a hospital that he knew they both could not afford.

Herkim:


Hello , do you know whether the man have a good job paying substantial amount as salary at the moment. Or the man is living from hand to mouth with a meagre salary.

500k is not a small money. How many Nigerians have 500k in our various s

This is share wickedness from the hospital management.

May God Almighty continues to provide, guide, protect and bless us more on the surface of the earth and the hereafter.

Aamin

You're living from hand to mouth and the only thing you can think off is to bring another human being into this world while you can't clearly feed yourself. That's pure foolishness. There is nothing you can say to justify the man being a fool. We humans are responsible for our downfall or growth. Is he the only one that does not have job, alot of people don't including me but I have to manage and live within my means etc. The man killed his wife, because he is the only one that has life to bring another child here and he foolishly did it without planning for it.

Kobojunkie:
Is the woman in this case not equally culpable? Is she really a victim?

both of them are very foolish, but I wouldn't blame the woman that much cause the man has a responsibility to bring money for the child he is bringing to this earth successfully since the woman can't work while heavily pregnant.

Every one in the society should get ready for emergencies, whether u like it or not. Whether you pray against it or not, it will come one day. For crying out loud there are insurance companies every where. Get a health plan so that you stop blaming hospitals for not treating you free because it's emergency.

And if you are too poor to get a health plan, you don't have any business marrying someone's daughter

TheOldGods:
both of them are very foolish, but I wouldn't blame the woman that much cause the man has a responsibility to bring money for the child he is bringing to this earth successfully since the woman can't work while heavily pregnant.

Did the man rape the woman abi wetin? No be both of dem agree to bring the child in? And why can't a pregnant woman work to save up money for the child she herself has equally decided to bring into this world?

I am sorry, I do not agree with this generalized approach to viewing the role of the man in a marriage, given that in that same country it has been reported that a great deal of homes have the woman as the breadwinner.

Manchi25:
And if you are too poor to get a health plan, you don't have any business marrying someone's daughter

Wetin be the business of the someone's daughter with pregnancy is she is herself too poor to pay for a health plan for herself or her children?

Kobojunkie:
. Their mother was an adult, and she could have and should have done better. Adults are responsible for their own lives and she had every reason to have made the right decision as far as getting pregnant and preparing for the birth and all associated emergencies. She is not a victim as it is, unless it is proven that the man intentionally hoodwinked her into going to a hospital that he knew they both could not afford.

I don't understand. So she married and impregnated herself abi the child she was about to birth will carry her name? Or what are you saying? So for 9 months a woman pregnant with her husbands child should hustle for 9 months? When she's not a widow or single mom. Smh

Kobojunkie:
Wetin be the business of the someone's daughter with pregnancy is she is herself too poor to pay for a health plan for herself or her children?

You're beginning to sound like another typical pickmesha.always loving a man at the expense of their safety. Anyway I will agree with you if she's a widow or a single mom but as long as the man is alive he's as goo as useless because he literally killed his wife and child.

SAMBARRY:
➜I don't understand. So she married and impregnated herself abi the child she was about to birth will carry her name? Or what are you saying?
➜ So for 9 months a woman pregnant with her husbands child should hustle for 9 months? When she's not a widow or single mom. Smh

She didn't marry and impregnate herself, of course. She chose the poor man as her mate. She opened her legs wide to the poor man and got impregnated for a third time as a result. So, what part of that makes her a victim?

2. There are women across the world who work to save up until even the very day of their delivery. What makes this woman's case any different or special? From the looks of their abode, there is no sign they were living comfortably before now for to warrant her needing to have a third child.

Kobojunkie:
Did the man rape the woman abi wetin? No be both of dem agree to bring the child in? And why can't a pregnant woman work to save up money for the child she herself has equally decided to bring into this world?

I am sorry, I do not agree with this generalized approach to viewing the role of the man in a marriage, given that in that same country it has been reported that a great deal of homes have the woman as the breadwinner.

finally you have exposed yourself as a full fledged pickmesha. You're looking for male accolades on nairaland, right?

Kobojunkie:
She didn't marry and impregnate herself, of course. She chose the poor man as her mate. She opened her legs wide to the poor man and got impregnated for a third time as a result. So, what part of that makes her a victim?

2. There are women across the world who work to save up until even the very day of their delivery. What makes this woman's case any different or special? From the looks of their abode, there is no sign they were living comfortably before now for to warrant her needing to have a third child.

how can she work to save up money when she's pregnant?

SAMBARRY:
➜You're beginning to sound like another typical pickmesha. always loving a man at the expense of their safety.
➜ Anyway I will agree with you if she's a widow or a single mom but as long as the man is alive he's as goo as useless because he literally killed his wife and child.

1. Loving what man? I am telling you the woman is equally culpable in this case, and you are going off about always loving a man... what the heck for?

2. The wife was equally good for nothing since she could not provide her kids with a better life either. I mean, she chose this man to be their father, and ended up dying with the third, even with 9 months of preparation time, which she could have used to avert this disaster.

Basic123:

You are just being emotional. Which is normal.
Did they beg for tips from you when you had your first child?

people wey vex when I didnt give some of them during my second child birth. They practically told us we must find them drink. Even the yeye doctor asked if her own drink