| Kobojunkie: 7:38pm On Mar 26 |
kingsceee:
➜ In December, her elder sister came to take the kids for Christmas holiday. When the school resumed in January, I went to pick them only to see that the sister had ed my kids in a school in the area they live. I asked her why, she said that since the kids' mum were not around, they should be closer to them. I wanted to take my kids back by force but her sister said I would refund her the money she used in ing them in the new school. During the heated argument, people advised me to leave the kids since they were with their aunt and grand mother, that they wouldn't hurt their own sister's children.
➜ Last week, my wife's sister posted my wife congratulating her on the new car she just bought. I made a comment on the post, and she blocked me. I'm just sitting on the fence. I don't know which way to go now or what my wife is up to. "
Have you not been in regular with your wife in all of that time? 
2. Again, have you not been in regular with your wife throughout the period, or were you both separate or something?
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| Techsinnovative: 9:46pm On Mar 26 |
kingsceee:
My wife left home since August 2024
One morning, she woke me up to tell me that she got a job in Abuja and would be leaving Asaba to Abuja for the job. I asked her how she got the job but she said that a friend of hers helped her get the job.
I was skeptical about it considering that she didn't have anyone in Abuja. We've been married for five years and we have two daughters. I told her not to go, but she got angry and called me an enemy of progress.
We are both graduates. I'm a keke driver. I take care of them, pay school fees, house rents and opened a small provision store for her. She had always complained about wanting it big and compared herself to other women living well.
I had to give in. she said that as soon as she got a job in Abuja, we would all relocate.
One month after she went to Abuja, I asked her the name of the company, but she refused to tell me. I kept pestering her to tell me where she works,her phone number became off till date.
I called her mother to tell her everything, but her mum and immediate younger sister insisted she's an adult and could take care of herself. Moreover she went to look for greener pastures.
When I couldn't reach her on the phone, I asked the sister if they were in , but she said no.
In December, her elder sister came to take the kids for Christmas holiday. When the school resumed in January, I went to pick them only to see that the sister had ed my kids in a school in the area they live.
I asked her why, she said that since the kids' mum were not around, they should be closer to them. I wanted to take my kids back by force but her sister said I would refund her the money she used in ing them in the new school.
During the heated argument, people advised me to leave the kids since they were with their aunt and grand mother, that they wouldn't hurt their own sister's children.
Last week, my wife's sister posted my wife congratulating her on the new car she just bought. I made a comment on the post and she blocked me. I'm just sitting on the fence. I don't know which way to go now or what my wife is up to. "
Na wa o 
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| missjekyll: 12:04am On Mar 27 |
ChinemeremFidel:
The wife is finally here to defend herself
Boring. That's all you could come up with. I am a fully empowered woman ,in case you missed it. This will all have gone a different way for me.,I tell you 
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| Kobojunkie: 12:07am On Mar 27 |
voortrekker966:
You guys will just regurgitate stories. This story is nothing less than 7 years old.
Oh, ok! Nevermind then! 
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| deewhydoski(m): 5:05am On Mar 27 |
ibechris:
I wouldn't want to say things that would make u feel bad,because u are man and a husband like me.
However,that ur wife must have ed ladies gang here,I won't be specific.
With all due respect sir,u have lost that woman.
Your in-laws are aware of everything and in fact,it's ur wife that is now paying for the children's fees they only disguised it to make it look as if is ur sister in law.
Your mother in-law is an evil woman for pretending not to have her daughters .
Man,starts looking for ways to prove them all wrong.
Make ur money and let them all see that u have made it and pls,let it be genuine hustle ooh.
That is the only way and while at that,note that u have no wife and she is not coming back soon.
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| deewhydoski(m): 5:07am On Mar 27 |
ChinemeremFidel:
I wish you will take my advise...
Those children are the only thing you got in this life oh...By swear and blood fight for those kids,,fight for their custody, take the case anywhere..in as much as you paid her bride price..na you get those kids...They can't short change you completely...
Fight for those kids and have them in you custody....after that, sit them down and explain life to them if they come of age... don't even think of marrying again for the sake of your children...
Train those kids yourself...show them love and provide for them with your strength...also don't forget to involve them in technical skills as they grow too,,be involved in their life..be their friends and watch them grow..
They are all you got ohhh..don't leave them like that..
As for your wife..leave her alone...don't divorce her (I know what I am saying...she will win the kids if you go through that route..don't agree to divorce her..no sign any paper..leave everything hanging there)..in 20 years from now you will understand why I said so
That's my 2cent
@kingsceee
This is the best advice. Pls forget about your wife for now and focus on the custody of your children. If I were you I would have withdraw those children from that school without giving your sister-in-law a dine. They did that so that their mother can be coming once in a while to check on them.
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| Janeola: 9:41pm On Mar 27 |
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Sorry bro. The only solution is this-Make money
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| Techsinnovative: 2:59pm On Mar 28 |
Janeola:
Sorry bro. The only solution is this-Make money
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| TyroneP(m): 7:24am On Mar 30 |
Your wife has walked out of the marriage in case you don't know. This exact thing happened to a friend of mine but in his case, the woman left from Akure to Abuja. The shocking part was that the man that facilitated the Abuja job was her lover and not her friend because she had no connect in Abuja at the time. I may be wrong with your case but I think your wife may have moved on for her family to come for the kids. I'm sorry this is happening to you.
kingsceee:
My wife left home since August 2024
One morning, she woke me up to tell me that she got a job in Abuja and would be leaving Asaba to Abuja for the job. I asked her how she got the job but she said that a friend of hers helped her get the job.
I was skeptical about it considering that she didn't have anyone in Abuja. We've been married for five years and we have two daughters. I told her not to go, but she got angry and called me an enemy of progress.
We are both graduates. I'm a keke driver. I take care of them, pay school fees, house rents and opened a small provision store for her. She had always complained about wanting it big and compared herself to other women living well.
I had to give in. she said that as soon as she got a job in Abuja, we would all relocate.
One month after she went to Abuja, I asked her the name of the company, but she refused to tell me. I kept pestering her to tell me where she works,her phone number became off till date.
I called her mother to tell her everything, but her mum and immediate younger sister insisted she's an adult and could take care of herself. Moreover she went to look for greener pastures.
When I couldn't reach her on the phone, I asked the sister if they were in , but she said no.
In December, her elder sister came to take the kids for Christmas holiday. When the school resumed in January, I went to pick them only to see that the sister had ed my kids in a school in the area they live.
I asked her why, she said that since the kids' mum were not around, they should be closer to them. I wanted to take my kids back by force but her sister said I would refund her the money she used in ing them in the new school.
During the heated argument, people advised me to leave the kids since they were with their aunt and grand mother, that they wouldn't hurt their own sister's children.
Last week, my wife's sister posted my wife congratulating her on the new car she just bought. I made a comment on the post and she blocked me. I'm just sitting on the fence. I don't know which way to go now or what my wife is up to. "
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| Waffarianman(m): 9:25am On Mar 30 |
kingsceee:
My wife left home since August 2024
One morning, she woke me up to tell me that she got a job in Abuja and would be leaving Asaba to Abuja for the job. I asked her how she got the job but she said that a friend of hers helped her get the job.
I was skeptical about it considering that she didn't have anyone in Abuja. We've been married for five years and we have two daughters. I told her not to go, but she got angry and called me an enemy of progress.
We are both graduates. I'm a keke driver. I take care of them, pay school fees, house rents and opened a small provision store for her. She had always complained about wanting it big and compared herself to other women living well.
I had to give in. she said that as soon as she got a job in Abuja, we would all relocate.
One month after she went to Abuja, I asked her the name of the company, but she refused to tell me. I kept pestering her to tell me where she works,her phone number became off till date.
I called her mother to tell her everything, but her mum and immediate younger sister insisted she's an adult and could take care of herself. Moreover she went to look for greener pastures.
When I couldn't reach her on the phone, I asked the sister if they were in , but she said no.
In December, her elder sister came to take the kids for Christmas holiday. When the school resumed in January, I went to pick them only to see that the sister had ed my kids in a school in the area they live.
I asked her why, she said that since the kids' mum were not around, they should be closer to them. I wanted to take my kids back by force but her sister said I would refund her the money she used in ing them in the new school.
During the heated argument, people advised me to leave the kids since they were with their aunt and grand mother, that they wouldn't hurt their own sister's children.
Last week, my wife's sister posted my wife congratulating her on the new car she just bought. I made a comment on the post and she blocked me. I'm just sitting on the fence. I don't know which way to go now or what my wife is up to. "
Try retrieve your kids from your in-laws E get Y and take them to your mom's or yours sister place, don't leave them with your in-laws
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