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My wife left home since August 2024

One morning, she woke me up to tell me that she got a job in Abuja and would be leaving Asaba to Abuja for the job. I asked her how she got the job but she said that a friend of hers helped her get the job.

I was skeptical about it considering that she didn't have anyone in Abuja. We've been married for five years and we have two daughters. I told her not to go, but she got angry and called me an enemy of progress.

We are both graduates. I'm a keke driver. I take care of them, pay school fees, house rents and opened a small provision store for her. She had always complained about wanting it big and compared herself to other women living well.

I had to give in. she said that as soon as she got a job in Abuja, we would all relocate.

One month after she went to Abuja, I asked her the name of the company, but she refused to tell me. I kept pestering her to tell me where she works,her phone number became off till date.

I called her mother to tell her everything, but her mum and immediate younger sister insisted she's an adult and could take care of herself. Moreover she went to look for greener pastures.

When I couldn't reach her on the phone, I asked the sister if they were in , but she said no.

In December, her elder sister came to take the kids for Christmas holiday. When the school resumed in January, I went to pick them only to see that the sister had ed my kids in a school in the area they live.

I asked her why, she said that since the kids' mum were not around, they should be closer to them. I wanted to take my kids back by force but her sister said I would refund her the money she used in ing them in the new school.

During the heated argument, people advised me to leave the kids since they were with their aunt and grand mother, that they wouldn't hurt their own sister's children.

Last week, my wife's sister posted my wife congratulating her on the new car she just bought. I made a comment on the post and she blocked me. I'm just sitting on the fence. I don't know which way to go now or what my wife is up to. "

I wouldn't want to say things that would make u feel bad,because u are man and a husband like me.

However,that ur wife must have ed ladies gang here,I won't be specific.

With all due respect sir,u have lost that woman.

Your in-laws are aware of everything and in fact,it's ur wife that is now paying for the children's fees they only disguised it to make it look as if is ur sister in law.

Your mother in-law is an evil woman for pretending not to have her daughters .

Man,starts looking for ways to prove them all wrong.

Make ur money and let them all see that u have made it and pls,let it be genuine hustle ooh.

That is the only way and while at that,note that u have no wife and she is not coming back soon.

Hmmm.........Natasha disappointed Akpabio by rejecting his sexual advances.

I hope your wife has not played into Akpabio's trap in Abuja Especially as she has started displaying Car so quickly.

Ur wife is cold hearted being that is if what u posted is the truth. We only heard from one party.

I wish you will take my advise...
Those children are the only thing you got in this life oh...By swear and blood fight for those kids,,fight for their custody, take the case anywhere..in as much as you paid her bride price..na you get those kids...They can't short change you completely...

Fight for those kids and have them in you custody....after that, sit them down and explain life to them if they come of age... don't even think of marrying again for the sake of your children...

Train those kids yourself...show them love and provide for them with your strength...also don't forget to involve them in technical skills as they grow too,,be involved in their life..be their friends and watch them grow..

They are all you got ohhh..don't leave them like that..
As for your wife..leave her alone...don't divorce her (I know what I am saying...she will win the kids if you go through that route..don't agree to divorce her..no sign any paper..leave everything hanging there)..in 20 years from now you will understand why I said so
That's my 2cent

Dirty wife + Dirty inlaws..... Only you.??

Damn nigga ....u unlucky asf

kingsceee:
My wife left home since August 2024

One morning, she woke me up to tell me that she got a job in Abuja and would be leaving Asaba to Abuja for the job. I asked her how she got the job but she said that a friend of hers helped her get the job.

I was skeptical about it considering that she didn't have anyone in Abuja. We've been married for five years and we have two daughters. I told her not to go, but she got angry and called me an enemy of progress.

We are both graduates. I'm a keke driver. I take care of them, pay school fees, house rents and opened a small provision store for her. She had always complained about wanting it big and compared herself to other women living well.

I had to give in. she said that as soon as she got a job in Abuja, we would all relocate.

One month after she went to Abuja, I asked her the name of the company, but she refused to tell me. I kept pestering her to tell me where she works,her phone number became off till date.

I called her mother to tell her everything, but her mum and immediate younger sister insisted she's an adult and could take care of herself. Moreover she went to look for greener pastures.

When I couldn't reach her on the phone, I asked the sister if they were in , but she said no.

In December, her elder sister came to take the kids for Christmas holiday. When the school resumed in January, I went to pick them only to see that the sister had ed my kids in a school in the area they live.

I asked her why, she said that since the kids' mum were not around, they should be closer to them. I wanted to take my kids back by force but her sister said I would refund her the money she used in ing them in the new school.

During the heated argument, people advised me to leave the kids since they were with their aunt and grand mother, that they wouldn't hurt their own sister's children.

Last week, my wife's sister posted my wife congratulating her on the new car she just bought. I made a comment on the post and she blocked me. I'm just sitting on the fence. I don't know which way to go now or what my wife is up to. "

what other sign are u waiting for?, move on, ur wife already did and you know it.

Hmmmm!!!

She might not be in Nigeria again.

You guys will just regurgitate stories. This story is nothing less than 7 years old.

voortrekker966:
You guys will just regurgitate stories. This story is nothing less than 7 years old.

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She used you to have kids,

Time for OLOSHO work

Damn!!!!

The kind of family you marry into is very important..
Marriage isn't something you enter causally, do ur due deligence as to know the type of family you're entering, that alone would solve 85% of ur marital issues.. Move on bro she's lost already

kingsceee:
My wife left home since August 2024

One morning, she woke me up to tell me that she got a job in Abuja and would be leaving Asaba to Abuja for the job. I asked her how she got the job but she said that a friend of hers helped her get the job.

I was skeptical about it considering that she didn't have anyone in Abuja. We've been married for five years and we have two daughters. I told her not to go, but she got angry and called me an enemy of progress.

We are both graduates. I'm a keke driver. I take care of them, pay school fees, house rents and opened a small provision store for her. She had always complained about wanting it big and compared herself to other women living well.

I had to give in. she said that as soon as she got a job in Abuja, we would all relocate.

One month after she went to Abuja, I asked her the name of the company, but she refused to tell me. I kept pestering her to tell me where she works,her phone number became off till date.

I called her mother to tell her everything, but her mum and immediate younger sister insisted she's an adult and could take care of herself. Moreover she went to look for greener pastures.

When I couldn't reach her on the phone, I asked the sister if they were in , but she said no.

In December, her elder sister came to take the kids for Christmas holiday. When the school resumed in January, I went to pick them only to see that the sister had ed my kids in a school in the area they live.

I asked her why, she said that since the kids' mum were not around, they should be closer to them. I wanted to take my kids back by force but her sister said I would refund her the money she used in ing them in the new school.

During the heated argument, people advised me to leave the kids since they were with their aunt and grand mother, that they wouldn't hurt their own sister's children.

Last week, my wife's sister posted my wife congratulating her on the new car she just bought. I made a comment on the post and she blocked me. I'm just sitting on the fence. I don't know which way to go now or what my wife is up to. "

It is quite clear that she and her family planned her move. Infact, it is a carefully planned method of ending the marriage.

She has moved on and you should equally try to do too.

Just make sure you crate your own plan of being in the life of your children and always make sure they come to your place for the holidays. Now that they are in school, always buy things they like plus food stuffs and take it to them.

How on earth will a man that hasn't seen his wife for 9 months religuish custody of his kids to a family that has refused to step in to resolve marital issues with his wife!? Munu nen plenty

ChinemeremFidel:
I wish you will take my advise...
Those children are the only thing you got in this life oh...By swear and blood fight for those kids,,fight for their custody, take the case anywhere..in as much as you paid her bride price..na you get those kids...They can't short change you completely...

Fight for those kids and have them in you custody....after that, sit them down and explain life to them if they come of age... don't even think of marrying again for the sake of your children...

Train those kids yourself...show them love and provide for them with your strength...also don't forget to involve them in technical skills as they grow too,,be involved in their life..be their friends and watch them grow..

They are all you got ohhh..don't leave them like that..
As for your wife..leave her alone...don't divorce her (I know what I am saying...she will win the kids if you go through that route..don't agree to divorce her..no sign any paper..leave everything hanging there)..in 20 years from now you will understand why I said so
That's my 2cent

Rubbish advice. Fight for custody for the sake of fighting. He is always out of the house driving his keke. H

He can file for divorce on grounds of abandonment. They can share custody of the children as the parents and judge can order child . The inlawz have no legal right to the children.

Any partner can divorce the other. You dont need any signature or consent. "Leaving everything hanging " is bad advice.

It's always a toxic igbo man with archaic ideas of how it all works. They always want sole custody like the mother doesn't exist

missjekyll:


Rubbish advice. Fight for custody for the sake of fighting. He is always out of the house driving his keke. H

He can file for divorce on grounds of abandonment. They can share custody of the children as the parents and judge can order child . The inlawz have no legal right to the children.

Any partner can divorce the other. You dont need any signature or consent. "Leaving everything hanging " is bad advice.

It's always a toxic igbo man with archaic ideas of how it all works. They always want sole custody like the mother doesn't exist

The wife is finally here to defend herself

Hard truth.
1. Those kids aren't yours.
2. That woman was never your wife, you were the side ni****er.
3. Those in laws aren't yours.
4. The gods just rescued you from suicide
5.because you are a simp, take the red pill and start over.
6. When next you meet, you are up

kingsceee:
My wife left home since August 2024

One morning, she woke me up to tell me that she got a job in Abuja and would be leaving Asaba to Abuja for the job. I asked her how she got the job but she said that a friend of hers helped her get the job.

I was skeptical about it considering that she didn't have anyone in Abuja. We've been married for five years and we have two daughters. I told her not to go, but she got angry and called me an enemy of progress.

We are both graduates. I'm a keke driver. I take care of them, pay school fees, house rents and opened a small provision store for her. She had always complained about wanting it big and compared herself to other women living well.

I had to give in. she said that as soon as she got a job in Abuja, we would all relocate.

One month after she went to Abuja, I asked her the name of the company, but she refused to tell me. I kept pestering her to tell me where she works,her phone number became off till date.

I called her mother to tell her everything, but her mum and immediate younger sister insisted she's an adult and could take care of herself. Moreover she went to look for greener pastures.

When I couldn't reach her on the phone, I asked the sister if they were in , but she said no.

In December, her elder sister came to take the kids for Christmas holiday. When the school resumed in January, I went to pick them only to see that the sister had ed my kids in a school in the area they live.

I asked her why, she said that since the kids' mum were not around, they should be closer to them. I wanted to take my kids back by force but her sister said I would refund her the money she used in ing them in the new school.

During the heated argument, people advised me to leave the kids since they were with their aunt and grand mother, that they wouldn't hurt their own sister's children.

Last week, my wife's sister posted my wife congratulating her on the new car she just bought. I made a comment on the post and she blocked me. I'm just sitting on the fence. I don't know which way to go now or what my wife is up to. "

When are you going to give us the 2nd part your super story? Keep hallucinating on imaginary story in other to hit front page.

It's funny how I know a married woman who is also trying to abscond to Abuja, but in her case, the people around her - her siblings and parents - won't allow it, even though her reasons are somewhat justifiable. The difference between her and your wife lies in the parents.

I made this post last year.

Acidosis:

4. Your in-laws have a majority stake in your marriage whether you believe it or not. The longer you grow in marriage, the lower their stake. Prior to your wedding, they hold about 90% stake, 10 years after and all things being equal, that stake should drop to 55%. But they're never going below 50%.

I think you're very stupid SIMP, your wife left you,you try to get the children back they refuse, forget about them and those bastard children, make money and get a new woman and children. Your in-laws advice your wife to leave you. Mumu man.

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aieromon:


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Interesting.


Agenda must never fail to agend.

ibechris:
I wouldn't want to say things that would make u feel bad,because u are man and a husband like me.

However,that ur wife must have ladies gang here,I won't be specific.

With all due respect sir,u have lost that woman.

Your in-laws are aware of everything and in fact,it's ur wife that is now paying for the children's fees they only disguised it to make it look as if is ur sister in law.

Your mother in-law is an evil woman for pretending not to have her daughters .

Man,starts looking for ways to prove them all wrong.

Make ur money and let them all see that u have made it and pls,let it be genuine hustle ooh.

That is the only way and while at that,note that u have no wife and she is not coming back soon.

Oil full ya head bro, best advice so far, apparently you see things my way, it's the wife paying them school fees and the wife sister and mother all working in synchronization with her, she give them directives and all the weird behavior from them is proudly sponsored by the wife, he should chin up and move on, get better, make money and be a better version of his former self, relocate to fresh state or new favorable location and take a new wife if he must, the wife is a lost course but las las the wife and the family go regret am.

Baronthecelebri:
I think you're very stupid SIMP, your wife left you,you try to get the children back they refuse, forget about them and those bastard children, make money and get a new woman and children. Your in-laws advice your wife to leave you. Mumu man.

Stop misusing the word simp, the guy never simped in anyway, where I would have called him simp is when he start crying and begging the wife family to beg her to come back, this is marriage bro not relationship, you reason and weigh options before you act.

The only thing he got do now, is chin up and move on, become a better version of him self reinvent himself that no one could easily recognise him again, make money and take another wife if he must, lifes too short to come dey worry about one useless woman way single pretty girls full everywhere begging to be married

Your wife has ed the big ladies sugar daddies babes. Hmmm! She is lost already. Please move on. Anytime she is ready to talk to you, listen to her, don't say a word. When she is done saying all, make sure the divorce papers are on ground, give her the papers to sign. If she refuses, don't worry. Just move on. It will hurt but you will surely survive this.

You don't need a soothsayer to tell you your marriage is over, judging by your wife and her family' actions.

You can only act now to avoid future regrets. By "act now", I mean
1. Get your kids back under you care and watch over them or
2. Kiss them goodbye forever and get tagged a deadbeat dad by your kids and strangers on the internet who have no idea on what happened, especially when any of your kids make it in life.

The sooner you detach emotions and use logic, the better it is for you because that woman isn't coming back.

If you are too busy to look after your kids, take them to your parents if they are still alive or them in after school care program or lesson till you com back from work. Make sure to make arrangements on what they will eat either by giving someone money to feed them or get some lady/woman in your neighbourhood that can act as a non-live-in cook (cook and go) or maybe a nanny.

Your kids are your future, and not fighting for them now may end in future regrets. Consider yourself a single father and ask your relatives for guidance. If you ever leave your kids with their mother's relatives, they will soon their mom in Abuja, and that's it forever. That's a reality no father should have, especially in their old age.

What more can I say?

After one school term, go get your kids for Holiday and from there on, hold onto them.

Jehovah....and you're still saying "my wife!" Tor, I have nothing else to say. Let's just stop being enablers of nonsense.

So you still have the time to insert a fancy picture from the internet while all this is going on?

This is your chance to develop and make your self better since the kids are not in your custody.

This will translate to more time and resources to improve on yourself and wealth.