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Bahamas95(m): 12:33pm On Mar 26
Benbisco:


My Bro, I agree with you wella, especially no. 2. But you see that number one, it depends on what you want and where you have been going. If na Anglican, Catholic, Methodist, Protestant etc go give you joy, pls locate one and worship your God since it is like Pentecostal no favour you. But pls don't stay away from God completely..

Cherrs
All churches are the same, you'll still find hypocrites and all sort of people with bad characters in the churches you mentioned.

Personally I believe in personal relationship with God than be in the midst of useless so-called church .


On friday she'll be in a hotel knacking someone's husband while on sunday she would turn saint.

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Dpaulie(m): 12:35pm On Mar 26
Prisco4luv:
Pastors hating themselves or some people going to church are envious, how does that affect you bro.. if the church you attended practise such things , how does that affect the body of Christ.

All am saying is this, this generation have already lost it. I can imagine you, saying that since you stop going to church you have peace of mind, does that make sense....... ?

You mentioning names of pastors, talking about what is happening in the church doesn't affect your peace bro.


Since you stopped going to church, you claimed you had peace of mind, but that's not a yastic for you to criticise the church.


If truly you are seeing Jesus in your home, that same Jesus I know will not prompt you to write this post here....


The generation lacks morals....

Let's repent from all this things , it won't help us.


And let me remind you, some people find peace whenever they goes to church.


If na Baba lawo , you for no mention am here.. 😂

Let this guy be, it's his peace not yours; he didn't even seek for your advice, stick with whatever gives u peace too... His life, not yours

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Bluntemperor: 12:36pm On Mar 26
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed

O P-And you think you are making Sense by including the Church?
That is the very place you should have respect for.
May God deliver your Soul .

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Bmaster(m): 12:37pm On Mar 26
pay me my money,there is absolutely nothing like a chill pill...never seen before in a pharmacy!



Back 2 The Topic.


Op,your peace of mind is Temporary if actually it is church you quits amongst many other things

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ak22(m): 12:39pm On Mar 26
Skooltynz:
I have peace of mind since I stopped this
two things
1) going to church
2)trying hard to impress people

Most of these modern churches don't have God In them, it's just business and slavery,they set up these churches for the sole purpose of profit tithes,offering and the are slaves or stepping stones,they keep pressuring you to bring more to the church in guise of soul winning you will just waste all your time and productive years if you are not careful.

As for the latter,you can never impress people impossible! Stop trying to impress people because it is an endless journey you want to embark on,you will never impress them, I personally don't give a damn! Sometimes last year a lot of my friend and family always insult me saying I am lazy and ambition less they say it the reason why I am not doing well in life .
I heard their advice and became hardworking God willing things started to change for me financially ,money started coming in,did you know most of these my friends and family started becoming envious and jealous ,these are the same people that always advise me in the past now what happened?
My observation about people is that humans love bad news more than good news,people will more excited to hear you went to steal and got caught than to hear you bought a new car,so why worry yourself over people who are mostly sadists ... grin

There is peace in going to church

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ayokunl: 12:39pm On Mar 26
You can't rule God out of your life. U need him than u need life itself. The root of your frustration is lack of divine leader.

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BABANGBALI: 12:40pm On Mar 26
Me too. I now use my tithes to carry olosho

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nwirinedu(m): 12:42pm On Mar 26
I am not trying to be intrusive here, but why will not going to church make you have more peace of mind? Is it the offerings? There is no compulsion for offerings in most churches. Sometimes I feel like going to a circus than go to church on Sunday. At least you get value for the money spent.

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qtx(m): 12:43pm On Mar 26
Skooltynz:
I have peace of mind since I stopped this
two things
1) going to church
2)trying hard to impress people

Most of these modern churches don't have God In them, it's just business and slavery,they set up these churches for the sole purpose of profit tithes,offering and the are slaves or stepping stones,they keep pressuring you to bring more to the church in guise of soul winning you will just waste all your time and productive years if you are not careful.

As for the latter,you can never impress people impossible! Stop trying to impress people because it is an endless journey you want to embark on,you will never impress them, I personally don't give a damn! Sometimes last year a lot of my friend and family always insult me saying I am lazy and ambition less they say it the reason why I am not doing well in life .
I heard their advice and became hardworking God willing things started to change for me financially ,money started coming in,did you know most of these my friends and family started becoming envious and jealous ,these are the same people that always advise me in the past now what happened?
My observation about people is that humans love bad news more than good news,people will more excited to hear you went to steal and got caught than to hear you bought a new car,so why worry yourself over people who are mostly sadists ... grin
A drowning guy ! If you stop going to church and start having peace of mind, it means no more sermons that will make you feel guilty to stop sinning. Which means destruction is near bc sin is = death if no repentance is sought. I come in peace

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judewrites: 12:44pm On Mar 26
Skooltynz:
I have peace of mind since I stopped this
two things
1) going to church
2)trying hard to impress people

Most of these modern churches don't have God In them, it's just business and slavery,they set up these churches for the sole purpose of profit tithes,offering and the are slaves or stepping stones,they keep pressuring you to bring more to the church in guise of soul winning you will just waste all your time and productive years if you are not careful.

As for the latter,you can never impress people impossible! Stop trying to impress people because it is an endless journey you want to embark on,you will never impress them, I personally don't give a damn! Sometimes last year a lot of my friend and family always insult me saying I am lazy and ambition less they say it the reason why I am not doing well in life .
I heard their advice and became hardworking God willing things started to change for me financially ,money started coming in,did you know most of these my friends and family started becoming envious and jealous ,these are the same people that always advise me in the past now what happened?
My observation about people is that humans love bad news more than good news,people will more excited to hear you went to steal and got caught than to hear you bought a new car,so why worry yourself over people who are mostly sadists ... grin

What many people don't realize is that in this world of billions of people, there is no one exactly like you.

That's why it's so silly to compare yourself to others. There is simply no one like you.

That's why self discovery leads to destiny discovery. Until you discover who you are, you will be a slave to the opinions of people and inferiority complex.

As for church, there is no perfect church.

There are good churches/pastors, you just need to take time to find them, but no church is perfect or perfect pastors.

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Smartwave: 12:45pm On Mar 26
Nelsondiego69:
bro you should change your church, it’s allowed. Going to church isn’t wrong but the church you go to might not be for you
They're all the same

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latiephwald(m): 12:45pm On Mar 26
Why not choose to go Mosque where you'll enter, pray for just 10-15mins and go back to your business. No one is asking you to pay any money, no one is asking you to bring at all cost, no one is asking you to work for God in the mosque. Just enter any mosque, pray and leave. I started this when I came back from a near death experience, I was shown what would have happened to me if I eventually died. Since that Nov 22. 2024, I have stopped taking alcohol, stopped playing bet, stopped masturbating, stopped womanising and tying to walk inline with God. Sincerely, my life changed rapidly.

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izombie(m): 12:46pm On Mar 26
Nelsondiego69:
bro you should change your church, it’s allowed. Going to church isn’t wrong but the church you go to might not be for you
Bro there is no more good churches in nigeria that's there to serve and win souls for God. What we have now are business centres masquerading as churches.

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DextrousD: 12:46pm On Mar 26
Nelsondiego69:
bro you should change your church, it’s allowed. Going to church isn’t wrong but the church you go to might not be for you

simple thing. i tire for that guy oo

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izombie(m): 12:49pm On Mar 26
Benbisco:


My Bro, I agree with you wella, especially no. 2. But you see that number one, it depends on what you want and where you have been going. If na Anglican, Catholic, Methodist, Protestant etc go give you joy, pls locate one and worship your God since it is like Pentecostal no favour you. But pls don't stay away from God completely..

Cherrs
Even these ones you mentioned don turn to business too. Every church in nigeria is after money. Period

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kennie2015(m): 12:49pm On Mar 26
Skooltynz:
I have peace of mind since I stopped this
two things
1) going to church
2)trying hard to impress people

Most of these modern churches don't have God In them, it's just business and slavery,they set up these churches for the sole purpose of profit tithes,offering and the are slaves or stepping stones,they keep pressuring you to bring more to the church in guise of soul winning you will just waste all your time and productive years if you are not careful.

As for the latter,you can never impress people impossible! Stop trying to impress people because it is an endless journey you want to embark on,you will never impress them, I personally don't give a damn! Sometimes last year a lot of my friend and family always insult me saying I am lazy and ambition less they say it the reason why I am not doing well in life .
I heard their advice and became hardworking God willing things started to change for me financially ,money started coming in,did you know most of these my friends and family started becoming envious and jealous ,these are the same people that always advise me in the past now what happened?
My observation about people is that humans love bad news more than good news,people will more excited to hear you went to steal and got caught than to hear you bought a new car,so why worry yourself over people who are mostly sadists ... grin

Life without Christ is crises, only Jesus can grant you eternal Peace. When Jesus becomes your only focus and walking with Him becomes a lifestyle, you will never have issues with fellowshipping with brethren.

As long as your peace is tied to some factors, you have no Life of Christ in you!

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qtx(m): 12:51pm On Mar 26
Bahamas95:
All churches are the same, you'll still find hypocrites and all sort of people with bad characters in the churches you mentioned.

Personally I believe in personal relationship with God than be in the midst of useless so-called church .


On friday she'll be in a hotel knacking someone's husband while on sunday she would turn saint.
Salvation is a personal thing, if you go to church to look for those who sin and get discouraged then u will never make it to heaven. Church and heaven dont mean the same thing. A church is a place of preparation for the journey to heaven while heaven is a place where righteous departed souls are already staying. So let me shock u except you dont want to serve God, you will always find one person doing something wrong in any church you go. A church is like a mechanic village where bad cars are brought in for repair, repainting, and so on. Are you saying in the church you only see that lady alone who does that without seeing one person atleast that does the right thing? Why not be encouraged by one or two people who do the right thing and face your God with your own life? Do you just want to get angry and go to hell because one sister in your church knack another woman's husband? Wake up guy. Dont be decieved God is not going to judge people in groups like a church but individually. If you like go and keep searching for those u feel are sinners in church just to encourage yourself from staying away from the church service. Na u know

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kuntash: 12:51pm On Mar 26
Imagine the gibberish all to throw tantrums at the church!

how many hours do you spend in a day in the church ?

do you sleep and wake up in the church? what a weird mindset. And to even imagine this can make front page, chai,
Basic123: 12:51pm On Mar 26
Skooltynz:
I have peace of mind since I stopped this
two things
1) going to church
2)trying hard to impress people

Most of these modern churches don't have God In them, it's just business and slavery,they set up these churches for the sole purpose of profit tithes,offering and the are slaves or stepping stones,they keep pressuring you to bring more to the church in guise of soul winning you will just waste all your time and productive years if you are not careful.

As for the latter,you can never impress people impossible! Stop trying to impress people because it is an endless journey you want to embark on,you will never impress them, I personally don't give a damn! Sometimes last year a lot of my friend and family always insult me saying I am lazy and ambition less they say it the reason why I am not doing well in life .
I heard their advice and became hardworking God willing things started to change for me financially ,money started coming in,did you know most of these my friends and family started becoming envious and jealous ,these are the same people that always advise me in the past now what happened?
My observation about people is that humans love bad news more than good news,people will more excited to hear you went to steal and got caught than to hear you bought a new car,so why worry yourself over people who are mostly sadists ... grin
The last paragraph is the reason why ruling party doesn't fucking care about opposition party and their ers criticism.
Not as if they want good thing to happen to the country,they are just pained they are not in power.That is the reason they tend to downplay any good things that happening to the country and escalate the bad ones.

The lesson is that,as a citizen focus on your life and dont let any politicians use their shenanigans to use your head to play ping pong!..They don't wish us and the country well but themselves .
Built2last: 12:51pm On Mar 26
Skooltynz:
I have peace of mind since I stopped this
two things
1) going to church
2)trying hard to impress people

Most of these modern churches don't have God In them, it's just business and slavery,they set up these churches for the sole purpose of profit tithes,offering and the are slaves or stepping stones,they keep pressuring you to bring more to the church in guise of soul winning you will just waste all your time and productive years if you are not careful.

As for the latter,you can never impress people impossible! Stop trying to impress people because it is an endless journey you want to embark on,you will never impress them, I personally don't give a damn! Sometimes last year a lot of my friend and family always insult me saying I am lazy and ambition less they say it the reason why I am not doing well in life .
I heard their advice and became hardworking God willing things started to change for me financially ,money started coming in,did you know most of these my friends and family started becoming envious and jealous ,these are the same people that always advise me in the past now what happened?
My observation about people is that humans love bad news more than good news, people will more excited to hear you went to steal and got caught than to hear you bought a new car,so why worry yourself over people who are mostly sadists ... grin

Since you are an evangelist spreading the gospel that people should stop going to church and getting the likes.

Is that what God told you to go doing after praying. or perhaps you work for another master.

Even in the days of Jesus. True believers were very few. They had the Pharisees whom Jesus accused of forsaking the weightier matters and focusing on Money. You see, It's not new. The Saduccees, the sanhendrin all claimed to be godly but Jesus kept rebuking them.

All thaat didn't stop Jesus from inviting people to the Kingdom, neither did it stop him from going to the synagogue.

Just in case you are enjoying your supposed peace of mind and your prayer life has nose dived, you don't study your bible anymore. Find a true church and go back.

Nobody stops going to hospitals because there are many quack doctors and nurses.

Sincere advise. No argument intended

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latiephwald(m): 12:52pm On Mar 26
latiephwald:
Why not choose to go Mosque where you'll enter, pray for just 10-15mins and go back to your business. No one is asking you to pay any money, no one is asking you to bring at all cost, no one is asking you to work for God in the mosque. Just enter any mosque, pray and leave. I started this when I came back from a near death experience, I was shown what would have happened to me if I eventually died. Since that Nov 22. 2024, I have stopped taking alcohol, stopped playing bet, stopped masturbating, stopped womanising and tying to walk inline with God. Sincerely, my life changed rapidly.

Aside that my life changed, I now have cool breeze and feeling of going to Heaven if I die now which is really telling in my dreams. To be candid, there God, There is Heaven and Hell exist as well. Fo those who mocks the ones that serves God, believe me Honestly if you don't serve God it's going to be eternal Torment which will start immediately you die and the torment will increase immediately you enter grave. It's going to be unbearable but you would not have iota of power to it over.

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izombie(m): 12:55pm On Mar 26
Prisco4luv:
Pastors hating themselves or some people going to church are envious, how does that affect you bro.. if the church you attended practise such things , how does that affect the body of Christ.

All am saying is this, this generation have already lost it. I can imagine you, saying that since you stop going to church you have peace of mind, does that make sense....... ?

You mentioning names of pastors, talking about what is happening in the church doesn't affect your peace bro.


Since you stopped going to church, you claimed you had peace of mind, but that's not a yastic for you to criticise the church.


If truly you are seeing Jesus in your home, that same Jesus I know will not prompt you to write this post here....


The generation lacks morals....

Let's repent from all this things , it won't help us.


And let me remind you, some people find peace whenever they goes to church.


If na Baba lawo , you for no mention am here.. 😂

op has truly said the plain truth but you issue with him is that he stopped going to church. Like op said, you don't have to go to church to worship or talk to God. Abegii.

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Guestmale: 12:55pm On Mar 26
Skooltynz:
I have peace of mind since I stopped this
two things
1) going to church
2)trying hard to impress people

Most of these modern churches don't have God In them, it's just business and slavery,they set up these churches for the sole purpose of profit tithes,offering and the are slaves or stepping stones,they keep pressuring you to bring more to the church in guise of soul winning you will just waste all your time and productive years if you are not careful.

As for the latter,you can never impress people impossible! Stop trying to impress people because it is an endless journey you want to embark on,you will never impress them, I personally don't give a damn! Sometimes last year a lot of my friend and family always insult me saying I am lazy and ambition less they say it the reason why I am not doing well in life .
I heard their advice and became hardworking God willing things started to change for me financially ,money started coming in,did you know most of these my friends and family started becoming envious and jealous ,these are the same people that always advise me in the past now what happened?
My observation about people is that humans love bad news more than good news,people will more excited to hear you went to steal and got caught than to hear you bought a new car,so why worry yourself over people who are mostly sadists ... grin

There is no way you can run from God and you said you have peace of mind that kind of peace of mind Is a fake one from the pit of hell.

As for people who are envious of you for making it ,it is adamic nature we inherited from Adam and Eve and the only person that can set them free is our Lord Jesus Christ.

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Capernum: 12:55pm On Mar 26
I have peace of mind when I started going to church. Sorry for your case op.

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qtx(m): 12:56pm On Mar 26
latiephwald:
Why not choose to go Mosque where you'll enter, pray for just 10-15mins and go back to your business. No one is asking you to pay any money, no one is asking you to bring at all cost, no one is asking you to work for God in the mosque. Just enter any mosque, pray and leave. I started this when I came back from a near death experience, I was shown what would have happened to me if I eventually died. Since that Nov 22. 2024, I have stopped taking alcohol, stopped playing bet, stopped masturbating, stopped womanising and tying to walk inline with God. Sincerely, my life changed rapidly.
Lol. but when u do something that is against the rules, you fit lose your hand, or leg or eye or even your life.
Metordman: 12:56pm On Mar 26
Skooltynz:
I have peace of mind since I stopped this
two things
1) going to church
2)trying hard to impress people

Most of these modern churches don't have God In them, it's just business and slavery,they set up these churches for the sole purpose of profit tithes,offering and the are slaves or stepping stones,they keep pressuring you to bring more to the church in guise of soul winning you will just waste all your time and productive years if you are not careful.

As for the latter,you can never impress people impossible! Stop trying to impress people because it is an endless journey you want to embark on,you will never impress them, I personally don't give a damn! Sometimes last year a lot of my friend and family always insult me saying I am lazy and ambition less they say it the reason why I am not doing well in life .
I heard their advice and became hardworking God willing things started to change for me financially ,money started coming in,did you know most of these my friends and family started becoming envious and jealous ,these are the same people that always advise me in the past now what happened?
My observation about people is that humans love bad news more than good news,people will more excited to hear you went to steal and got caught than to hear you bought a new car,so why worry yourself over people who are mostly sadists ... grin
from your write up, YOU ARE BROKE
izombie(m): 12:57pm On Mar 26
ak22:


There is peace in going to church
who said that? There is peace in God, not church
izombie(m): 12:58pm On Mar 26
ayokunl:
You can't rule God our of your life. U need him than u need life itself. The root of your frustration is lack of divine leader.
Did the op say God is not in his life? He said he stopped going to church but he still communictes and prays to God personally. Haba

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TemmyT002(m): 1:00pm On Mar 26
You probably attended two churches and then concluded that all churches are the same.
There are so many benefits one can get from being a church member.
So that first one you listed is somehow childish.

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Demerchant1994(m): 1:00pm On Mar 26
Iseoluwani:
lol
normal normal, i mean seriously oo
u are not normal

is either your pastor doesnt teach sound doctrine or you actually love God, i think its d second, because u suppose love God look for better church
You're obviously the one who's not normal. These pastorpreneurs are something else.

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biafranrealson: 1:01pm On Mar 26
Am a free person ever since i realized that the concept of God plays no role in defining what you will be. Set goals and work towards it.
Am free because there is no God, satan, heaven or hell.
Everything is man made.
And every atom of fear in me is gone and gone for ever
Bahamas95(m): 1:02pm On Mar 26
qtx:

Salvation is a personal thing, if you go to church to look for those who sin and get discouraged then u will never make it to heaven. Church and heaven dont mean the same thing. A church is a place of preparation for the journey to heaven. Are you saying in the church you only see that lady alone who does that without seeing one person atleast that does the right thing? Why not be encouraged by one or two people who do the right thing and face your God with your own life? Do you just want to get angry and go to hell because one sister in your church knack another woman's husband? Wake up guy. Dont be decieved God is not going to judge people in groups like a church but individually. If you like go and keep searching for those u feel are sinners in church just to encourage yourself from staying away from the church service. Na u know
So those people who didn't go to church or heard about Christ before they died will all go to hell shebi?

Going to church doesn't change people, they just do it to fulfill all righteousness. A bad person will still remain a bad person.

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