| mclloyd22(m): 3:38am On Feb 11 |
Lakebib:
Good morning romancelanders, I would love you guys to help me judge a complicated situation. My girlfriend visited me early this year, we had unprotected sex but before she left I personally bought contraceptives for her to take whenever she gets home. She travelled back to abj where she's serving and we kept communicating.
Fast forward to three weeks later, she complained to me that she missed her period, she opened up that she forgot to take the pills as at when due which led to the pregnancy. I was mad at her but the deed was already done. I told her that it was her mistake and she would have to fix it because I obviously don't a child now, she also agreed to terminate the pregnancy.
An incident occured while we were making arrangements for the abortion that led to a serious issue. We had a minor misunderstanding and didn't speak for a day, she called the second day around past eleven at night sounding a bit tensed, before I could ask her what the issue was, I heard a guy's voice asking her who she was talking to, she ended the call immediately. I called her back twice without response. When she picked up later she denied that she wasn't with a guy bla bla, I simply told her to stay away from me till she's ready to tell me the truth.
She sent me a message after 4 days about missing me and all, I asked her if she was ready to come clean about what happened that night, she still denied everything even contradicting herself in some parts. I insisted that she was lying while maintaining my stand that she must come clean before we settle any issue. She then asked me about the pregnancy because it was beginning to get obvious, I informed her that I'm not sure that the pregnancy is mine because she's obviously seeing other guys so she should do with it whatever she deems fit. She proceeded to insult me calling me stupid and all. I asked her if she thought insults could solve anything, madam told me that I should know that she can easily sleep with any guy she fancies and pin the pregnancy on him so I shouldn't think that leaving her would make her stranded. I wished her goodluck and she went into another barrage of insults, I just blocked her everywhere and deleted all her s.
My friend asked me about her last night and I told him what happened and he said I shouldn't have blocked her, he insisted that I should have taken care of the pregnancy first before cutting ties with her. I would love to get other opinions on the matter.
I'm sorry for the long post, please ignore any typos, I typed on the go and yes all insults are welcome.
You should have asked her to do scan on life video then you could confirm how long it has been then start your judgement. Meanwhile..
Your friend is a Simp or probably been eying your ex.🚩🚩
Even if it’s your pregnancy still kwechiri because she lied to you.🚩🚩🚩🚩
‘I can easily sleep with any guy and pin the pregnancy on him’ 🚩 🚩 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
That particular girl is very manipulative
I understand your situation and emotional state rn which may make you feel you are doing the wrong thing but STAY STRONG, that belle fit no be your own.
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| Hotspurs: 3:42am On Feb 11 |
haahaa bros wetin dey sup,talk to me
James4358:
My wife can't even get pregnant... And I'm reading this. Chia... 'Inside Life'
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| Hotspurs: 3:53am On Feb 11 |
OgideAgu:
The truth is that no woman that is not stupid forgets to take her morning after pills.
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| Invest4growth: 4:33am On Feb 11 |
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This is purely madness and I think it cheapens the womenfolks. How can this guy be talking like this on another person's daughter. You bought contraceptive for her etc etc. What nonsense. I think we should know the limit. Thank God, some of these women are getting strength to tell a man they are not having any babies.
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| BluntCrazeMan: 5:38am On Feb 11 |
davillian:
I personally bought contraceptives for her to take whenever she gets home.
if you bought it ?
then she should take it before she leaves your place.....
the higher the hrs before she takes the pills
the lower the chance of its effectiveness
The guy sef..
I don't know why he allowed her to step out of the house without taking the thing.
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| TheFinesseKid: 5:42am On Feb 11 |
Homeboiy:
One of my girlfriends tried that with me
I simply told her to born the child but I will not marry her
She ran away and pinned it on another man
The man gave her money for abortion
I didn’t even bother myself
After her abortion we continued knacking
She now have a new boyfriend but I still de knack her anytime I want
this girl is she a baby mama?
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| Odibembem: 6:04am On Feb 11 |
Lakebib:
Good morning romancelanders, I would love you guys to help me judge a complicated situation. My girlfriend visited me early this year, we had unprotected sex but before she left I personally bought contraceptives for her to take whenever she gets home. She travelled back to abj where she's serving and we kept communicating.
Fast forward to three weeks later, she complained to me that she missed her period, she opened up that she forgot to take the pills as at when due which led to the pregnancy. I was mad at her but the deed was already done. I told her that it was her mistake and she would have to fix it because I obviously don't a child now, she also agreed to terminate the pregnancy.
An incident occured while we were making arrangements for the abortion that led to a serious issue. We had a minor misunderstanding and didn't speak for a day, she called the second day around past eleven at night sounding a bit tensed, before I could ask her what the issue was, I heard a guy's voice asking her who she was talking to, she ended the call immediately. I called her back twice without response. When she picked up later she denied that she wasn't with a guy bla bla, I simply told her to stay away from me till she's ready to tell me the truth.
She sent me a message after 4 days about missing me and all, I asked her if she was ready to come clean about what happened that night, she still denied everything even contradicting herself in some parts. I insisted that she was lying while maintaining my stand that she must come clean before we settle any issue. She then asked me about the pregnancy because it was beginning to get obvious, I informed her that I'm not sure that the pregnancy is mine because she's obviously seeing other guys so she should do with it whatever she deems fit. She proceeded to insult me calling me stupid and all. I asked her if she thought insults could solve anything, madam told me that I should know that she can easily sleep with any guy she fancies and pin the pregnancy on him so I shouldn't think that leaving her would make her stranded. I wished her goodluck and she went into another barrage of insults, I just blocked her everywhere and deleted all her s.
My friend asked me about her last night and I told him what happened and he said I shouldn't have blocked her, he insisted that I should have taken care of the pregnancy first before cutting ties with her. I would love to get other opinions on the matter.
I'm sorry for the long post, please ignore any typos, I typed on the go and yes all insults are welcome.
No woman "forgets" to take a contraceptive after unprotected sex. I repeat, no woman "forgets" to take a contraceptive that has been paid for after unprotected sex.
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| bewla(m): 6:46am On Feb 11 |
Lakebib:
Good morning romancelanders, I would love you guys to help me judge a complicated situation. My girlfriend visited me early this year, we had unprotected sex but before she left I personally bought contraceptives for her to take whenever she gets home. She travelled back to abj where she's serving and we kept communicating.
Fast forward to three weeks later, she complained to me that she missed her period, she opened up that she forgot to take the pills as at when due which led to the pregnancy. I was mad at her but the deed was already done. I told her that it was her mistake and she would have to fix it because I obviously don't a child now, she also agreed to terminate the pregnancy.
An incident occured while we were making arrangements for the abortion that led to a serious issue. We had a minor misunderstanding and didn't speak for a day, she called the second day around past eleven at night sounding a bit tensed, before I could ask her what the issue was, I heard a guy's voice asking her who she was talking to, she ended the call immediately. I called her back twice without response. When she picked up later she denied that she wasn't with a guy bla bla, I simply told her to stay away from me till she's ready to tell me the truth.
She sent me a message after 4 days about missing me and all, I asked her if she was ready to come clean about what happened that night, she still denied everything even contradicting herself in some parts. I insisted that she was lying while maintaining my stand that she must come clean before we settle any issue. She then asked me about the pregnancy because it was beginning to get obvious, I informed her that I'm not sure that the pregnancy is mine because she's obviously seeing other guys so she should do with it whatever she deems fit. She proceeded to insult me calling me stupid and all. I asked her if she thought insults could solve anything, madam told me that I should know that she can easily sleep with any guy she fancies and pin the pregnancy on him so I shouldn't think that leaving her would make her stranded. I wished her goodluck and she went into another barrage of insults, I just blocked her everywhere and deleted all her s.
My friend asked me about her last night and I told him what happened and he said I shouldn't have blocked her, he insisted that I should have taken care of the pregnancy first before cutting ties with her. I would love to get other opinions on the matter.
I'm sorry for the long post, please ignore any typos, I typed on the go and yes all insults are welcome.
She play her part well and you have to do what is right or you will be guilty all your life
Simple go back play Mr nice guy till she give birth and you did DNA
Before then you be mai guard
If you no you no
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| Harrisonwo(m): 6:50am On Feb 11 |
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If you know the time frame you had unprotected s*x, go with her for pregnancy test to know how many weeks old then juxtapose it the timeframe.
If it falls in place then congratulations on advance, if otherwise then you know what to do.
If you are still not convinced, go through with the term and do a DNA test later on
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| Bankowner: 6:51am On Feb 11 |
She then asked me about the pregnancy because it was beginning to get obvious
A month old pregnancy beginning to show?
While some people are 8 weeks gone and are not even aware of it.
Wetin I sabi?
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| Osanoghodua1: 6:51am On Feb 11 |
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Abortion is murder, you're a killer.
You don't want a child but you get engaged in unprotected sex and have the guts to block her? This is what actually bring curses upon a people. Stop fornication.
Unlock her and take care of the pregnancy till after delivery before you go for DNA
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| Kobicove(m): 6:57am On Feb 11 |
AllBlack:
You say na your friend be this? Abi na Lucifer in FRIENDS clothing? Better run from that friend.
There is nothing wrong with what the friend said!
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| spiceadole: 7:15am On Feb 11 |
Lakebib:
Good morning romancelanders, I would love you guys to help me judge a complicated situation. My girlfriend visited me early this year, we had unprotected sex but before she left I personally bought contraceptives for her to take whenever she gets home. She travelled back to abj where she's serving and we kept communicating.
Fast forward to three weeks later, she complained to me that she missed her period, she opened up that she forgot to take the pills as at when due which led to the pregnancy. I was mad at her but the deed was already done. I told her that it was her mistake and she would have to fix it because I obviously don't a child now, she also agreed to terminate the pregnancy.
An incident occured while we were making arrangements for the abortion that led to a serious issue. We had a minor misunderstanding and didn't speak for a day, she called the second day around past eleven at night sounding a bit tensed, before I could ask her what the issue was, I heard a guy's voice asking her who she was talking to, she ended the call immediately. I called her back twice without response. When she picked up later she denied that she wasn't with a guy bla bla, I simply told her to stay away from me till she's ready to tell me the truth.
She sent me a message after 4 days about missing me and all, I asked her if she was ready to come clean about what happened that night, she still denied everything even contradicting herself in some parts. I insisted that she was lying while maintaining my stand that she must come clean before we settle any issue. She then asked me about the pregnancy because it was beginning to get obvious, I informed her that I'm not sure that the pregnancy is mine because she's obviously seeing other guys so she should do with it whatever she deems fit. She proceeded to insult me calling me stupid and all. I asked her if she thought insults could solve anything, madam told me that I should know that she can easily sleep with any guy she fancies and pin the pregnancy on him so I shouldn't think that leaving her would make her stranded. I wished her goodluck and she went into another barrage of insults, I just blocked her everywhere and deleted all her s.
My friend asked me about her last night and I told him what happened and he said I shouldn't have blocked her, he insisted that I should have taken care of the pregnancy first before cutting ties with her. I would love to get other opinions on the matter.
I'm sorry for the long post, please ignore any typos, I typed on the go and yes all insults are welcome.
It's amazing how people still have unprotected sex in 2025 with people they are not even married to.
I'm sorry for the future of Africa
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| AllBlack: 7:16am On Feb 11 |
Kobicove:
There is nothing wrong with what the friend said!
Really? And you would follow through with that advice since there is NOTHING wrong with it? Yes?
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| AmbassadoR100(m): 7:20am On Feb 11 |
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| DarkJeddi(m): 7:21am On Feb 11 |
AmbassadoR100:
God bless you for the insults. The girl is loose, I agree but why will the guy sleep with her raw and release inside of her. This is clearly a case of two people who were not thinking of the consequences of their actions. The girl is now pregnant and the only way the guy can find out if he's the one is to run a DNA test.
I don't Abortion especially when the baby has started growing.
He gave her contraceptives,which she conveniently forgot to take..
Where do we start and stop to apportion blames?
Whatever is going on.
And obviously there's more to the issue than she's letting on,she and only she is the main architect of the whole show.
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| AmbassadoR100(m): 7:24am On Feb 11 |
For someone to be pregnant means fertilization has taken place and there's growth.
The girl could have easily flushed out the sperm immediately after sex but she didn't.. She left it until she discovered she's pregnant.
Abortion is not the way out right now. Let her deliver the baby. The child might turn out to be great in the future.
Gotocourt:
Growing, just last month 
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| DarkJeddi(m): 7:30am On Feb 11 |
Gotocourt:
Growing, just last month
I doubt you know how pregnancy dates are calculated.
The girl is already about 8 weeks gone..
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| Gotocourt: 7:31am On Feb 11 |
DarkJeddi:
I doubt you know how pregnancy dates are calculated.
The girl is already about 8 weeks gone..
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| Kobicove(m): 7:33am On Feb 11 |
AllBlack:
Really? And you would follow through with that advice since there is NOTHING wrong with it? Yes?
If I were in his position I would follow up with the advice from the friend.
He and the lady have been in a relationship for the past 3 years, this is not just a casual fling.
There is no definite proof that the pregnancy does not belong to him, what he has is merely circumstantial evidence!
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| AmbassadoR100(m): 7:34am On Feb 11 |
I clearly understand you. But you can't exempt the guy like that.
The story is like two people that went for robbery but one told the other not to come with life gun. But the colleague didn't ahere. He shot someone during the operation out of frustration.
If the Police comes around.. They will arrest the two thieves!
DarkJeddi:
He gave her contraceptives,which she conveniently forgot to take..
Where do we start and stop to apportion blames?
Whatever is going on, and obviously there's more to the issue than she's letting on,she and only she is the architect of the whole show.
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| Kobicove(m): 7:36am On Feb 11 |
spiceadole:
It's amazing how people still have unprotected sex in 2025 with people they are not even married to.
I'm sorry for the future of Africa
Yes go ahead and put your inferiority complex on full blast...
Is it only in Africa that people have sex without condoms?!
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| Bobbynobobby: 7:47am On Feb 11 |
Lakebib:
Good morning romancelanders, I would love you guys to help me judge a complicated situation. My girlfriend visited me early this year, we had unprotected sex but before she left I personally bought contraceptives for her to take whenever she gets home. She travelled back to abj where she's serving and we kept communicating.
Fast forward to three weeks later, she complained to me that she missed her period, she opened up that she forgot to take the pills as at when due which led to the pregnancy. I was mad at her but the deed was already done. I told her that it was her mistake and she would have to fix it because I obviously don't a child now, she also agreed to terminate the pregnancy.
An incident occured while we were making arrangements for the abortion that led to a serious issue. We had a minor misunderstanding and didn't speak for a day, she called the second day around past eleven at night sounding a bit tensed, before I could ask her what the issue was, I heard a guy's voice asking her who she was talking to, she ended the call immediately. I called her back twice without response. When she picked up later she denied that she wasn't with a guy bla bla, I simply told her to stay away from me till she's ready to tell me the truth.
She sent me a message after 4 days about missing me and all, I asked her if she was ready to come clean about what happened that night, she still denied everything even contradicting herself in some parts. I insisted that she was lying while maintaining my stand that she must come clean before we settle any issue. She then asked me about the pregnancy because it was beginning to get obvious, I informed her that I'm not sure that the pregnancy is mine because she's obviously seeing other guys so she should do with it whatever she deems fit. She proceeded to insult me calling me stupid and all. I asked her if she thought insults could solve anything, madam told me that I should know that she can easily sleep with any guy she fancies and pin the pregnancy on him so I shouldn't think that leaving her would make her stranded. I wished her goodluck and she went into another barrage of insults, I just blocked her everywhere and deleted all her s.
My friend asked me about her last night and I told him what happened and he said I shouldn't have blocked her, he insisted that I should have taken care of the pregnancy first before cutting ties with her. I would love to get other opinions on the matter.
I'm sorry for the long post, please ignore any typos, I typed on the go and yes all insults are welcome.
Please avoid that Mr Simpleton that is disguising as your friend. He is your enemy. Cut all ties with that fool immediately. Stop talking to him. Block him everywhere. If he comes knocking on your door knowing fully well that you are indoor, do not open. Also forget that confused slutt. Stop talking to her. Block here everywhere. And please stop throwing away your good fortune/spiritual energy by laying with these slutts who don't know how 'conscience' should work. Value your soul, brother
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| Bradford111(m): 7:48am On Feb 11 |
Lakebib:
Good morning romancelanders, I would love you guys to help me judge a complicated situation. My girlfriend visited me early this year, we had unprotected sex but before she left I personally bought contraceptives for her to take whenever she gets home. She travelled back to abj where she's serving and we kept communicating.
Fast forward to three weeks later, she complained to me that she missed her period, she opened up that she forgot to take the pills as at when due which led to the pregnancy. I was mad at her but the deed was already done. I told her that it was her mistake and she would have to fix it because I obviously don't a child now, she also agreed to terminate the pregnancy.
An incident occured while we were making arrangements for the abortion that led to a serious issue. We had a minor misunderstanding and didn't speak for a day, she called the second day around past eleven at night sounding a bit tensed, before I could ask her what the issue was, I heard a guy's voice asking her who she was talking to, she ended the call immediately. I called her back twice without response. When she picked up later she denied that she wasn't with a guy bla bla, I simply told her to stay away from me till she's ready to tell me the truth.
She sent me a message after 4 days about missing me and all, I asked her if she was ready to come clean about what happened that night, she still denied everything even contradicting herself in some parts. I insisted that she was lying while maintaining my stand that she must come clean before we settle any issue. She then asked me about the pregnancy because it was beginning to get obvious, I informed her that I'm not sure that the pregnancy is mine because she's obviously seeing other guys so she should do with it whatever she deems fit. She proceeded to insult me calling me stupid and all. I asked her if she thought insults could solve anything, madam told me that I should know that she can easily sleep with any guy she fancies and pin the pregnancy on him so I shouldn't think that leaving her would make her stranded. I wished her goodluck and she went into another barrage of insults, I just blocked her everywhere and deleted all her s.
My friend asked me about her last night and I told him what happened and he said I shouldn't have blocked her, he insisted that I should have taken care of the pregnancy first before cutting ties with her. I would love to get other opinions on the matter.
I'm sorry for the long post, please ignore any typos, I typed on the go and yes all insults are welcome.
You have a very bad friend permit me to say what kind of friend will advise you such yet seeing the obvious? Move on with your life bro don’t her again
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| Blackdisciple(m): 8:02am On Feb 11 |
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she complained to me that she missed her period, she opened up that she forgot to take the pills as at when due which led to the pregnancy
@bold they always do that, for she to quickly end the call and when you called back she refused to pick it was obvious that she was with a guy that night y'all talked, well you know what to do and no need blocking her.
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| AllBlack: 8:06am On Feb 11 |
Kobicove:
If I were in his position I would follow up with the advice from the friend.
In summary, YES.
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| WoroSeeWoro(m): 8:24am On Feb 11 |
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@OP Thanks God you heard that dude voice in the background.....God don save you from yeye naija gals.....they are ll useless
@savedday2 always warn us about them
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| ChiefOkporghe: 8:35am On Feb 11 |
brain54:
If it's confirmed it's your pregnancy...
Then I think it's not right to abandon her. You ought to be responsible for your actions. I can never advise anyone to abandon a woman carrying his baby. Even though I am sure you aren't ready to keep it.
To think she made that statement about pinning the pregnancy on any guy she sleeps with is quite chilling. It says a lot about the kind of person she is.
Who knows if she is trying to pin the pregnancy on you?
Responsible for what actions bro?
He already settled her....she was the one who failed to take the pills.
That's fraud.
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| fitinwell: 8:36am On Feb 11 |
Lakebib:
Good morning romancelanders, I would love you guys to help me judge a complicated situation. My girlfriend visited me early this year, we had unprotected sex but before she left I personally bought contraceptives for her to take whenever she gets home. She travelled back to abj where she's serving and we kept communicating.
Fast forward to three weeks later, she complained to me that she missed her period, she opened up that she forgot to take the pills as at when due which led to the pregnancy. I was mad at her but the deed was already done. I told her that it was her mistake and she would have to fix it because I obviously don't a child now, she also agreed to terminate the pregnancy.
An incident occured while we were making arrangements for the abortion that led to a serious issue. We had a minor misunderstanding and didn't speak for a day, she called the second day around past eleven at night sounding a bit tensed, before I could ask her what the issue was, I heard a guy's voice asking her who she was talking to, she ended the call immediately. I called her back twice without response. When she picked up later she denied that she wasn't with a guy bla bla, I simply told her to stay away from me till she's ready to tell me the truth.
She sent me a message after 4 days about missing me and all, I asked her if she was ready to come clean about what happened that night, she still denied everything even contradicting herself in some parts. I insisted that she was lying while maintaining my stand that she must come clean before we settle any issue. She then asked me about the pregnancy because it was beginning to get obvious, I informed her that I'm not sure that the pregnancy is mine because she's obviously seeing other guys so she should do with it whatever she deems fit. She proceeded to insult me calling me stupid and all. I asked her if she thought insults could solve anything, madam told me that I should know that she can easily sleep with any guy she fancies and pin the pregnancy on him so I shouldn't think that leaving her would make her stranded. I wished her goodluck and she went into another barrage of insults, I just blocked her everywhere and deleted all her s.
My friend asked me about her last night and I told him what happened and he said I shouldn't have blocked her, he insisted that I should have taken care of the pregnancy first before cutting ties with her. I would love to get other opinions on the matter.
I'm sorry for the long post, please ignore any typos, I typed on the go and yes all insults are welcome.
Your friend is responsible for the pregnancy
Your friend is a backstabber
Your friend is your potential enemy
Your friend as been screwing your ex
Your friend will kill you someday.. with is failed advice already..
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| NEUDUDE: 8:52am On Feb 11 |
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| NEUDUDE: 8:56am On Feb 11 |
FashionTrend:
Thats insensitive to say
Insensitive is doing countless abortions when you still plan to marry. Whose going to handle your post trauma, one simple-innocent dude? You will be pushing to church everyday or telling to have faith for your many sins. Common be realistic
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| NEUDUDE: 9:23am On Feb 11 |
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