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Samantha125:
Because of food? come on... My husband is already a good cook... He even motivated me to perfect my cooking skills because I'd always get jealous of how good of a cook he is...😂😂😂

I only started learning how to cook when I was in varsity... My first year was a total disaster, but at least I wasn't the only first year who couldn't cook in my residence...😂😂😂

And whenever I'd call my mother asking for instructions, the lady would make sure to make fun of me before she can assist me...😂😂😂

But now I'm a good cook.

Exciting ..


You're a good cook or you fall to youtube for help ??

😋😋😋


Before varsity who does the cooking and why did you never cook

Olokobintin:
Every man want this type of marriage but they won't do that one thing to have this kind of marriage.

If you as a man want to be happy in your marriage, you want to be fed, showing affection to by your wife and going to the promise land the way you want, all that you need to do is to let the woman be in charge of your home. Gaskia.

Every month, you present your salary to her, she will give you the one that you will take to bar and enjoy with your friends.

I put it to anyone on this forum to find out why the man house is peaceful. It is because she let the woman be in charge and control his resources.

If you like shower her with gifts and everything. If she doesn't know how much you are earning there will never be a peace at home. Even though you let her know the exact amount but you won't hand over your monthly salary to her every month, there will still be no peace in the house.

Prof. ma fii ejó pà waa .. you sef enter twitter post Marriage sweet die as you handover your two kidneys to your wife


No be una fault naa cheap data and social media open to all

pocohantas:


I don't get it. The man appreciates his wife's cooking. If same wife doesn't cook, they will say she is an evil feminist. Now look at the vile comments? Goodluck to the women that will marry these guys o. You must really think you are special and different. 🤦‍♀️

Oh so you're planning on not getting married to the one you're with??


Have you let him know that before you strip him of his hard earned resources

Uchesis:


Oga nobody drag the wife with him

Marriage is like every other phase in life. At a point you will get tired of it.

I'm sure Annie served 2baba dishes 10x more than this when they got married. Howfa the marriage today?

Great Confucius or Sun Tzu of marriage institution or should I call you King Solomon since you feel you have seen or known all marriage and the way or manner they will end. Let the man breathe.

There are hundreds of marriages that are growing, happily and moving. Marriages that are still going stronger than ever. Marriages that still make people feel thankful about having people in their lives. Marriages that and protect. Some of us came from such marriages

So Please don't raise an argument if you have not considered the two sides of the coin.

pocohantas:


I don't get it. The man appreciates his wife's cooking. If same wife doesn't cook, they will say she is an evil feminist. Now look at the vile comments? Goodluck to the women that will marry these guys o. You must really think you are special and different. 🤦‍♀️

The thing is just crazy, like why the hate and unnecessary bashing? Its really crazy

Eriokanmi:
In the olden days, at 39, you're already a grandpa if you or your first child married at 18 or 19. What's really happening nowadays? I guess it's due to the time spent on education and the utopian standard we set for ourselves before we marry.

Economy and a lot of other social factors too.

Uchesis:

Oga, what if my dad and my mum are no longer together? How will you know?

Talking about Olu Jacobs and Joke, how come she is not bearing his surname?

See,so many marriages are hanging by the thread but till they tell you, you will never know.


Just last week i overheard my neighbours wife telling her friend who came to visit that she is tired of the marriage. And you will never know because they don't even quarrel.

Fear women oooo

Anyway, you are talking from negative perceptive, I won't blame you, just like another person answered you
Millions of us, not only come from beautiful marriage of parents, we, the products also enjoying marriage with our wives, I tried to read about ur past posts,so,I inferred things about ur personality. If you married today, it would take grace from the throne of Almighty to make it work.

The only pipo complaining here are the feminine

If una like no go marry, naa small pikin go dey oil una kpekus at last that is if dem never start sef

Habib101:
when I first saw the post title I was thinking he got served with some special kind of dish, but off this is just normal white rice and stew and no additions to it and bottle water, hhh well maybe something different is making him say that

You gorrit right.
It's still the 'free' sex that is shacking him.

His eye will soon clear.

Na bad belle go kee Una wey Dey do Alpha male upandan for this NL

When you the other side let us know

veekid:
Please teach your sons that they don’t have to tolerate bad attitudes from badly raised girls for them to be seen as good men.

God bless you

Yugoslavia247:
Something wey normal gf dey do

there's is blessing in someone's wife's meal

Namaster:
This is why men put up with so much NONSENSE.
LITTLE things impress them TOO much.

Imagine a grown-ass man taking to Social Media to HEAP praises on a woman just because of ORDINARY white rice and stew.

That is why it's important for EVERY man to LEARN how to cook and take care of himself so that he'll not be WOWED by something so MUNDANE.

Give a man like this Fried Rice and he'd happily pay the bride price of a SEMI-RETIRED olosho.

Danger of being a Chronic bachelor statement

pocohantas:


I don't get it. The man appreciates his wife's cooking. If same wife doesn't cook, they will say she is an evil feminist. Now look at the vile comments? Goodluck to the women that will marry these guys o. You must really think you are special and different. 🤦‍♀️

Isnt that the same white rice and stew you made derogatory remarks about, stepping on a sista .... see as meat full these one

fake axe beach

In the beginning, I used to rely on YouTube and recipe books, I'd also call my sisters for instructions and they were very much helpful and didn't make fun of me like my mother would... But I can say that I spent about 70% of my first year surviving on takeaways...😅😅😅

Even now I still rely on YouTube whenever I want to learn a new recipe... In 2023 I learnt how to make an apple pie and pizza, all thanks to YouTube...💃💃💃

I can now cook both western and traditional food perfectly...👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

Before varsity, there was always someone to cook around the house and I spent most of my time at school, by the time I get home, it'd be around 5pm, I need to rest and do my homework afterwards, then go to bed at around 8pm or 8h30pm... During the weekends my mom was usually around the house and she'd be the one cooking because she still had a husband to cook for, and she can't cook for the husband without including the children... I'd usually do other house chores around the house while she's cooking.

But I have to it, I never bothered paying attention to her whenever she was cooking, I had to learn the hard way...

Silentgroper:


Exciting ..


You're a good cook or you fall to youtube for help ??

😋😋😋


Before varsity who does the cooking and why did you never cook

They no really love the OP from house

veekid:
Please teach your sons that they don’t have to tolerate bad attitudes from badly raised girls for them to be seen as good men.

GBAM

Marriage sweet if you marry a godly woman

Tis one ma mumu.. madam don tell am to put up the show, for police College meal. Gosh

Olokobintin:
Every man want this type of marriage but they won't do that one thing to have this kind of marriage.

If you as a man want to be happy in your marriage, you want to be fed, showing affection to by your wife and going to the promise land the way you want, all that you need to do is to let the woman be in charge of your home. Gaskia.

Every month, you present your salary to her, she will give you the one that you will take to bar and enjoy with your friends.

I put it to anyone on this forum to find out why the man house is peaceful. It is because she let the woman be in charge and control his resources.

If you like shower her with gifts and everything. If she doesn't know how much you are earning there will never be a peace at home. Even though you let her know the exact amount but you won't hand over your monthly salary to her every month, there will still be no peace in the house.

Nice, even if you give her your salary and all, please know that it's not even a guarantee fir these creatures. God bless all good women out there. A good woman is truly priceless, if you have one please treat her right.

Samantha125:
Marriage is sweet because of mere food? Some men are indeed big babies.

You lot are missing the point here. It’s his wife serving him. In his home. There’s a lot of joy in that. It’s not about the food. Can’t blame him for feeling blessed.
It’s your type that will say relationship is sweet because of mere baecation trip. When I’ve travelled to 4 countries last year alone. What’s the fun in baecation trips
You get the point ??

Samantha125:
In the beginning, I used to rely on YouTube and recipe books, I'd also call my sisters for instructions and they were very much helpful and didn't make fun of me like my mother would... But I can say that I spent about 70% of my first year surviving on takeaways...😅😅😅

Even now I still rely on YouTube whenever I want to learn a new recipe... In 2023 I learnt how to make an apple pie and pizza, all thanks to YouTube...💃💃💃

I can now cook both western and traditional food perfectly...👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

Before varsity, there was always someone to cook around the house and I spent most of my time at school, by the time I get home, it'd be around 5pm, I need to rest and do my homework afterwards, then go to bed at around 8pm or 8h30pm... During the weekends my mom was usually around the house and she'd be the one cooking because she still had a husband to cook for, and she can't cook for the husband without including the children... I'd usually do other house chores around the house while she's cooking.

But I have to it, I never bothered paying attention to her whenever she was cooking, I had to learn the hard way...

Woah .. you had your mum cooking for you..

You're lucky you're not Nigerian, that would've never happened except you've got cooks or a younger siblings ...


By the age of 10, a Nigerian mum already received requires you to understudy her preparing every meal there is .. by the time you're a teenager, a Nigerian mum es the baton of the cook of the house to you and there is never ever going to be an excuse for you to miss a day of doing that. Not being exhausted from school activity and whatnots ..

Omoh una dey enjoy oo..


You spent 70% of your year on takeouts being female 😂😂 .. I can't imagine how frequently you must've been mocked for that 😂😂esp if you had room mates and other female friends..

Lol . I knew YouTube would still be your go to platform to help out with cooking . Talking bout learning new recipes.. something tells me you've checked on how to cook jollof rice multiple times 😋😋😋 and my gut feelings is always right... 😋😋😋😋

Olokobintin:
Every man want this type of marriage but they won't do that one thing to have this kind of marriage.

If you as a man want to be happy in your marriage, you want to be fed, showing affection to by your wife and going to the promise land the way you want, all that you need to do is to let the woman be in charge of your home. Gaskia.

Every month, you present your salary to her, she will give you the one that you will take to bar and enjoy with your friends.

I put it to anyone on this forum to find out why the man house is peaceful. It is because she let the woman be in charge and control his resources.

If you like shower her with gifts and everything. If she doesn't know how much you are earning there will never be a peace at home. Even though you let her know the exact amount but you won't hand over your monthly salary to her every month, there will still be no peace in the house.

I know a man earning over 3m in a month, and he do present his salary to his sit-at-home wife every month, the woman is in charge and control his resources, but he's not happy in his marriage because the woman his showing him hell and she gave birth to just 2 girls

Adekunle gold said marry right when Simi bought him a watch and una no call am all these names but because it’s food that made this man talk his own he’s not valid or right ?? Make una dey play ehn

My mother wasn't cooking specifically for me, but for the entire family which also included her husband.

And also she mostly only cooked on weekends, unless she had some time during the week... My father is also a good cook and he's not the type of a man that would sit around and wait for someone to come and cook for him when he's alone in the house.

Keep in mind that I was doing other house chores like cleaning, the laundry, and washing the dishes... But on weekends, even though sometimes I'd do the dishes even during weekdays...😅😅😅

No one made fun of me for buying takeaways, like I said, I wasn't the only one who couldn't cook in my place of residence and it was a girls' only residence... Besides, I was buying those takeaways with my own money and I wasn't bothering anyone about it... My mother was the one who kept convincing me to learn to cook because I was wasting money on takeaways.

I'd buy foodstuffs and store them in the fridge for so long that they'd even spoil and I'd have to throw them away... If I'm lazy to go out and buy myself something to eat, I'd either eat cereal, instant noodles, or sandwich either for lunch or dinner...😂😂😂

I've never checked how to cook jollof rice before, it never crossed my mind.

Silentgroper:


Woah .. you had your mum cooking for you..

You're lucky you're not Nigerian, that would've never happened except you've got cooks or a younger siblings ...


By the age of 10, a Nigerian mum already received requires you to understudy her preparing every meal there is .. by the time you're a teenager, a Nigerian mum es the baton of the cook of the house to you and there is never ever going to be an excuse for you to miss a day of doing that. Not being exhausted from school activity and whatnots ..

Omoh una dey enjoy oo..


You spent 70% of your year on takeouts being female 😂😂 .. I can't imagine how frequently you must've been mocked for that 😂😂esp if you had room mates and other female friends..

Lol . I knew YouTube would still be your go to platform to help out with cooking . Talking bout learning new recipes.. something tells me you've checked on how to cook jollof rice multiple times 😋😋😋 and my gut feelings is always right... 😋😋😋😋

One Adewale on the beats.



Yoruba women give birth to only simps.

Samantha125:
My mother wasn't cooking specifically for me, but for the entire family which also included her husband.

And also she mostly only cooked on weekends, unless she had some time during the week... My father is also a good cook and he's not the type of a man that would sit around and wait for someone to come and cook for him when he's alone in the house.

Keep in mind that I was doing other house chores like cleaning, the laundry, and washing the dishes... But on weekends, even though sometimes I'd do the dishes even during weekdays...😅😅😅

No one made fun of me for buying takeaways, like I said, I wasn't the only one who couldn't cook in my place of residence and it was a girls' only residence... Besides, I was buying those takeaways with my own money and I wasn't bothering anyone about it... My mother was the one who kept convincing me to learn to cook because I was wasting money on takeaways.

I'd buy foodstuffs and store them in the fridge for so long that they'd even spoil and I'd have to throw them away... If I'm lazy to go out and buy myself something to eat, I'd either eat cereal, instant noodles, or sandwich either for lunch or dinner...😂😂😂

I've never checked how to cook jollof rice before, it never crossed my mind.

yup, I understand she isn't cooking for you specifically ... In Nigerian set up she wouldn't do the cooking either for her husband or anything when she has you around ..you'd be sharing the kitchen with her which might eventually become yours until some man comes for you or you're away to school or something ...


Hehehehe, you do dishes... 😁😁😁 .. that sounds like some damage control to me ... You should be doing all chores 😋😋😋😋 ...


You must've been a tad bit lazy back then .. 😋😋😋😋


I do like your family setup.. Sounds like some modern family type thing...

But fr .. you dey enjoy no be small oo ..

😁😁😁

It seems your marriage is still fresh,don't worry bro you'll come back and tell us again

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Just because of one normal wifey act, person go run go marry

Seems most men grew up so badly treated by everyone that a lil courteous act from anyone is enough to make them fall in love



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There are some families who teach their children how to cook from a young age, my nephew and niece who are 15 years old already can cook because my sisters taught them as soon as they became teenagers.

My mother also taught my siblings how to cook from when they were still young, but as time went by, her workload increased and she started having less time to do the things she used to do before... Me being the youngest, I got left out.

I'm just lucky to be having understanding parents...😂😂😂

Silentgroper:
yup, I understand she isn't cooking for you specifically ... In Nigerian set up she wouldn't do the cooking either for her husband or anything when she has you around ..you'd be sharing the kitchen with her which might eventually become yours until some man comes for you or you're away to school or something ...


Hehehehe, you do dishes... 😁😁😁 .. that sounds like some damage control to me ... You should be doing all chores 😋😋😋😋 ...


You must've been a tad bit lazy back then .. 😋😋😋😋


I do like your family setup.. Sounds like some modern family type thing...

But fr .. you dey enjoy no be small oo ..

😁😁😁