NewStats: 3,261,893 , 8,175,486 topics. Date: Friday, 30 May 2025 at 10:45 PM 372c49

olisaEze:
Just because someone can afford a camera phone and data doesn’t mean he comes from the same background as u. A lot of these folk empowered to show off on SM by YY are from face-me-I-push-u origins. Being served food on a platter is a very big achievement to most!

Very very true

Sebi that was how eve 'control the resources' for garden of Eden.
See where we are today.

Even the son of man sef, the creator of the universe had rather allow a thief - judas iscariot - manage his resources than allow a woman amongst the 12 talkless of managing his resources.

Dey play.

Olokobintin:
Every man want this type of marriage but they won't do that one thing to have this kind of marriage.

If you as a man want to be happy in your marriage, you want to be fed, showing affection to by your wife and going to the promise land the way you want, all that you need to do is to let the woman be in charge of your home. Gaskia.

Every month, you present your salary to her, she will give you the one that you will take to bar and enjoy with your friends.

I put it to anyone on this forum to find out why the man house is peaceful. It is because she let the woman be in charge and control his resources.

If you like shower her with gifts and everything. If she doesn't know how much you are earning there will never be a peace at home. Even though you let her know the exact amount but you won't hand over your monthly salary to her every month, there will still be no peace in the house.

Enjoy it while it is going well. Pray that your woman remains contented in this life, so that the confusion she has started to create for you, does not kill you.

He is 100% correct....


Marriage is not for 2 smart people.. No
Nairaland is flooded with men that grew up with single parents..that why most of them don't have a balance behavior.

Silentgroper:



I'm struggling to grasp what you're trying to say ma'am ...


Where's the jealousy in that typo

Mhmm!

Olokobintin:
Every man want this type of marriage but they won't do that one thing to have this kind of marriage.

If you as a man want to be happy in your marriage, you want to be fed, showing affection to by your wife and going to the promise land the way you want, all that you need to do is to let the woman be in charge of your home. Gaskia.

Every month, you present your salary to her, she will give you the one that you will take to bar and enjoy


with your friends.

I put it to anyone on this forum to find out why the man house is peaceful. It is because she let the woman be in charge and control his resources.

If you like shower her with gifts and everything. If she doesn't know how much you are earning there will never be a peace at home. Even though you let her know the exact amount but you won't hand over your monthly salary to her every month, there will still be no peace in the house.

Mumu

Mariangeles:


Mhmm!

Talk na ..




😏😏😏

EmperorCaesar:


Just because of one normal wifey act, person go run go marry

Seems most men grew up so badly treated by everyone that a lil courteous act from anyone is enough to make them fall in love

This is the reason why people should start ignoring you. You’re indeed a child. People should avoid reading from you. No wife. No child. No school fees. No feeding. Just feeding from your mom and begging for data up and down.

This one likes food

Na both side. He sweet no lie he bitter. Na after you taste both you fit conclude. For now enjoy

Silentgroper:


Talk na ..




😏😏😏

Swear say you no know wetin I dey talk about.

Obstacle osofia language

GOFRONT:
What is sweet in this your marriage??

A marriage wey wife no see money take buy Meat for stew......Is that one a marriage??

See empty stew for plate......No sign of Obstacle No symbol of fish inside!! And you say your marriage sweet die??

See mouth like our ekuke Iyansh

You could hire a cook and save yourself grief and money.

WriterX:
Someone of you guys comment only make me shake my head in pity of what is wrong with the young men of this country.

Firstly this is his wife

Secondly this is his wife

Thirdly This is his wife

My God, give the man a break, see the nasty comments here like why all the hate for a man clearly expressing his own opinions about his marriage, abeg!!

Don't carry your past hurt, mistakes, experience, trauma, people's opinions and experiences, your idea about woke men or woke women and paint his marriage black and blue. Let him breath!!

I thought I was he only one seeing all the negativity o

I come UK see say them get more male chef than female chef. I begin cooking myself. Common food person use am impress u

Why all the excitement, plain white rice and oil tomato soup

The man is obviously happy in his home and probably used this example as one of the examples to show he is loving his marriage

But due to the bad indoctrination that many people have gotten about marriage, body dey pepper then say the man dey happy. Most of those people hating on the man are probably unhappy so they don't want others to be happy either

Ogbeni, na only bad story dey make am most times to news. If na story of infidelity and violence in marriages na so most people go happy to comment which only would reinforce their hatred for marriage

If marriage dey so bad, why people dey marry every weekend, if you nor wan marry and want to stay single all your life,by all means nor marry but then nor beef person when him own dey work

Nor let anybody deceive you, marriage sweet when u marry the right partner. You cannot go and marry wrong or treat your partner badly and expect something good and go further to blame the marriage institution

Na body go tell you later ...lose your job first.

Mariangeles:


Swear say you no know wetin I dey talk about.

i swear down ...

Lol 🤣

Fiscus105:


At ur bolded.
What about Olu Jacob and joke? Goodluck Jonathan and patience? Your dad and ur mummy, abi you are talking from ur ugly upbringing experiences.


Tell me anything good you want to involve/achieve that won't bore or bring challenges?


UR OWN LIFE JOURNEY, HAS IT BEEN SMOOTH AND ROSSY, IF NO, WHY THINKING MARRIAGE WOULD BE ROSSY ALL THROUGH

Oga, what if my dad and my mum are no longer together? How will you know?

Talking about Olu Jacobs and Joke, how come she is not bearing his surname?

See,so many marriages are hanging by the thread but till they tell you, you will never know.


Just last week i overheard my neighbours wife telling her friend who came to visit that she is tired of the marriage. And you will never know because they don't even quarrel.

Fear women oooo

Yugoslavia247:
Something wey normal gf dey do

Hookup sef dey do am

Because of food? come on... My husband is already a good cook... He even motivated me to perfect my cooking skills because I'd always get jealous of how good of a cook he is...😂😂😂

I only started learning how to cook when I was in varsity... My first year was a total disaster, but at least I wasn't the only first year who couldn't cook in my residence...😂😂😂

And whenever I'd call my mother asking for instructions, the lady would make sure to make fun of me before she can assist me...😂😂😂

But now I'm a good cook.

Silentgroper:


Isn't marriage sweet??


Shouldn't you be ing that motion



🤭🤭🤭

GOFRONT:
What is sweet in this your marriage??

A marriage wey wife no see money take buy Meat for stew......Is that one a marriage??

See empty stew for plate......No sign of Obstacle No symbol of fish inside!! And you say your marriage sweet die??

See mouth like our ekuke Iyansh

No be bad belle region you dey come from?

I could swear I saw the horse move. Nairaland hasn’t flogged it enough.

Olokobintin:
Every man want this type of marriage but they won't do that one thing to have this kind of marriage.

If you as a man want to be happy in your marriage, you want to be fed, showing affection to by your wife and going to the promise land the way you want, all that you need to do is to let the woman be in charge of your home. Gaskia.

Every month, you present your salary to her, she will give you the one that you will take to bar and enjoy with your friends.

I put it to anyone on this forum to find out why the man house is peaceful. It is because she let the woman be in charge and control his resources.

If you like shower her with gifts and everything. If she doesn't know how much you are earning there will never be a peace at home. Even though you let her know the exact amount but you won't hand over your monthly salary to her every month, there will still be no peace in the house.

Na mumu you be

WriterX:
Someone of you guys comment only make me shake my head in pity of what is wrong with the young men of this country.

Firstly this is his wife

Secondly this is his wife

Thirdly This is his wife

My God, give the man a break, see the nasty comments here like why all the hate for a man clearly expressing his own opinions about his marriage, abeg!!

Don't carry your past hurt, mistakes, experience, trauma, people's opinions and experiences, your idea about woke men or woke women and paint his marriage black and blue. Let him breath!!

I don't get it. The man appreciates his wife's cooking. If same wife doesn't cook, they will say she is an evil feminist. Now look at the vile comments? Goodluck to the women that will marry these guys o. You must really think you are special and different. 🤦‍♀️

GistMedia0:
A Nigerian man has sparked online reactions after excitedly gushing over his wife for serving him a meal. In a viral video, the married man joyfully declared that "marriage sweet die," while encouraging single men and women to settle down before hitting 39.

"If you like, do playboy reach 39 years, marriage still sweet ," he bragged, hyping his wife for taking care of him. His excitement over the simple act of his wife serving him food has, however, stirred mixed reactions online.

While some netizens agreed with his perspective, others found it unusual that such an ordinary aspect of marriage would be celebrated. One commented: "Isn't this supposed to be a normal and ordinary thing in marriage? This explains how much society has lost its values. Imagine a man having so much joy because his wife cooked and served him in a tray. That's what your wife should do normally, bro."


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yeUVzR3dieg

No come here con dey cry later ohh

Olokobintin:
Every man want this type of marriage but they won't do that one thing to have this kind of marriage.

If you as a man want to be happy in your marriage, you want to be fed, showing affection to by your wife and going to the promise land the way you want, all that you need to do is to let the woman be in charge of your home. Gaskia.

Every month, you present your salary to her, she will give you the one that you will take to bar and enjoy with your friends.

I put it to anyone on this forum to find out why the man house is peaceful. It is because she let the woman be in charge and control his resources.

If you like shower her with gifts and everything. If she doesn't know how much you are earning there will never be a peace at home. Even though you let her know the exact amount but you won't hand over your monthly salary to her every month, there will still be no peace in the house.

To give u rat poison for sweet me so much......... Behaving like Edo men...

Enjoy your marriage. No mind all these bad belle people who envy you in secret. May your marriage continue to give you joy and peace

GistMedia0:
A Nigerian man has sparked online reactions after excitedly gushing over his wife for serving him a meal. In a viral video, the married man joyfully declared that "marriage sweet die," while encouraging single men and women to settle down before hitting 39.

"If you like, do playboy reach 39 years, marriage still sweet ," he bragged, hyping his wife for taking care of him. His excitement over the simple act of his wife serving him food has, however, stirred mixed reactions online.

While some netizens agreed with his perspective, others found it unusual that such an ordinary aspect of marriage would be celebrated. One commented: "Isn't this supposed to be a normal and ordinary thing in marriage? This explains how much society has lost its values. Imagine a man having so much joy because his wife cooked and served him in a tray. That's what your wife should do normally, bro."


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yeUVzR3dieg

Eriokanmi:
In the olden days, at 39, you're already a grandpa if you or your first child married at 18 or 19. What's really happening nowadays? I guess it's due to the time spent on education and the utopian standard we set for ourselves before we marry.

Education and economic misfortune. Then, people started getting groomed early enough for whatever occupation they wanted. Not this, read and read, graduate, no job, then before you figure out your life...also, this affects ladies too...late marriage, then fertility issues creep in.

This is one of the modern men : effeminate, useless and totally oblivious to reality