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ElasmoBranchii(m): 8:23pm On Jan 02
Rizzputin:


Dear lord. Are you guys actually having sex with women?
Sexual pleasure is about enjoyment, depth and satisfaction

It takes women longer to get satisfied. Meaning they require more pleasure to get satisfied. Meaning they require more stimulation experience that satisfaction. Their orgasms are also stronger and more than men

How don't you guys get this?

And it's Not just my hypothesis. Go and ask any real playa getting laid. They'll tell you the same thing

Don't ask red pillers like yourself. Majority of you have limited experience to speak on this. Go ask guys with real experience (NOT books) and they'll you how much more women love sex.

This is real life. Not books

Lol okay casanova. I think I know what the problem is. It's your level of comprehension which I realize is something you have to solve by yourself.

So this is my final attempt to break it down and make it easier for you to understand.

You said here

"Women have more sexual pleasure than men" (Which is a generalization)

"Sexual pleasure is about enjoyment, depth and satisfaction."

Now I ask. What is more satisfying during sex than an orgasm?

Secondly between men and women who generally ends up reaching orgasm more during sex?

So Mr. Casanova. Like I said what you have is a comprehension problem and your sole experience and the hypothesis you formed from it doesn't count in the grand scheme of things.

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Martinez39s(m): 8:27pm On Jan 02
SMH. Wonders will never end. grin

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Adasun(m): 8:39pm On Jan 02
Emodeee:





Ubunja is a bad boy😀.

truely ubunja is a bad boy... i know all this from him but sometimes my hands i tight.

i was travelling back to my base some days back, meet this fair sweet girl and as usual, vibe with her effortlessly, she willingly bought a bottle water for me. to start with, the choosing signals where there mehn...

i put on my 'A' game and guess what? she lied to her people of not seeing another vehicle in other not to follow another car when ours broke down and it was late.
most of all, i got kissed like her life depend on it when we where finally alone at the back of the sienna.

i told her to follow me home but she could not because her people already know where we are(her uncle to be precise, which i doubt because when that her said acclaimed uncle called, i saw 'my king' )... she told me she doesn't know what lie to tell them.


this where my challenges

(1.) she was already complaining of hunger since it was 12mid night and i don't have resources that night to feed two mouths

(2.) my house from point of drop is far and will cost me more to reach my home with her.

(3.) her whatever already knows we where close by and she could not come up with what to say.

(4.) i don't know her from Adam, neither do i know any sickness in her,taking her to my place can be quiet risky, police no go hear abeg.


i know the whole ion will drop once we separated, i already know. she gave me one last deep Kiss before we exited the car. i called her around 2am if she arrived at her place safely and text her the next morning. she called by evening but i missed her call. i called later but a man picked and said hello, she quickly snap the phone from whosesoever he is and we spoke. her answers where monosyllabic and i smile and said we will talk later.

of course i did not called her... she text me new year message which i replied with thanks and that's it. this all happened between 30th-1st


my encounter validate many things Ubunja have taught in this forum.

1. hit the iron while it is hot... if i push harder for her to follow me home, maybe she would have. she will just off her phone and damn the consequences. because at that point, she was not thinking straight, she just kiss me at any opportunity, once non of the engers are looking.


2. go as far as possible... i should not have stopped at the kiss alone, what happen to fingering her and pressing her boobs? huh... i know, of course i would have done all that but she wore a tro not a gown.


3. never finish halfway... na my fellow man i helped that day to enjoy the water i engineered out of her. i made her Hot and wanting. she would not sleep like that. whose so ever she met finished the job and enjoyed it. all the fire i resonate within her was quench by another person, definitely. and she will grow more connected to him than to me.

4. the same day sex is highly and very possible if you know ur onion well.



special thanks goes to Ubunja, the fact is, i know wasup but my hands where tide due to so many factors i listed upthere.

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Rizzputin(m): 8:40pm On Jan 02
ElasmoBranchii:


Lol okay casanova. I think I know what the problem is. It's your level of comprehension which I realize is something you have to solve by yourself.

So this is my final attempt to break it down and make it easier for you to understand.

You said here

"Women have more sexual pleasure than men" (Which is a generalization)

"Sexual pleasure is about enjoyment, depth and satisfaction."

Now I ask. What is more satisfying during sex than an orgasm?

Secondly between men and women who generally ends up reaching orgasm more during sex?

So Mr. Casanova. Like I said what you have is a comprehension problem and your sole experience and the hypothesis you formed from it doesn't count in the grand scheme of things.

Quote me once you start having sex with women and not jerking off to books

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Rizzputin(m): 8:42pm On Jan 02
Tonnyray:
50 women!!!
Wow! This must be a joke. I'd crossed 50 before I left Ibadan 9 years ago (October 2015 to be precise).
This is a waste of time really since neither of us can substantiate these here... but to even start at 50 already gives me an idea what you feel is a considerable count. grin
I had the best O&G result in my set and conducted more than 65 deliveries in my career while in clinical practice but I'd never argue with a mother of even a single child about how exactly a woman feels during childbirth- why? because a person with an experience is equal to 1,000 with mere opinions no matter how academically sound.
You've never been a woman, stop menstruating on their behalf. The only pleasure you can relate to is yours.
The minute you convince serious minded people here you've had clitoral and vaginal orgasms before, the earlier anyone will take your claims seriously.

You've never had sex with up to 50 women. Stop deceiving yourself. NOBODY who has had that much sex would say the nonsense you've been saying. And like I said, this is not a debate on body counts. You can NEVER reach mine

Stop cooking up lies and theories in your head. Go and have sex with real women (NOT the one in your dreams) then we can talk

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ElasmoBranchii(m): 8:43pm On Jan 02
Rizzputin:


Quote me once you start having sex with women and not jerking off to books

Lol no problem sir. Quote me when you are no longer retarded.

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Martinez39s(m): 8:53pm On Jan 02
ElasmoBranchii:


Lol no problem sir. Quote me when you are no longer retarded.
This back and forth serves no purpose and it isn't productive. Long before now, the discussion deviated from the civility and manner with which redpillers handled discussions.

Just let it be. Those that can't conduct themselves or gently agree to disagree in the case of an ime should be left to keep swinging until they are tired.

Happy New Year.

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Tonnyray: 8:55pm On Jan 02
Rizzputin:
You've never had sex with up to 50 women. Stop deceiving yourself. NOBODY who has had that much sex would say the nonsense you've been saying. And like I said, this is not a debate on body counts. You can NEVER reach mine

Stop cooking up lies and theories in your head. Go and have sex with real women (NOT the one in your dreams) then we can talk
I repeat stop menstruating on behalf of the female gender.
The only sense you can make here is proving you've had clitoral and vaginal orgasm before. Then intelligent people will agree you're speaking from a place of experience.
Any other rant of yours is puerile and academic.

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ElasmoBranchii(m): 9:02pm On Jan 02
Martinez39s:
This back and forth serves no purpose and it isn't productive. Long before now, the discussion deviated from the civility and manner with which redpillers handled discussions.

Happy New Year.

I understand sha. I just couldn't resist the temptation to push his button lol.
Martinez39s(m): 9:04pm On Jan 02
ElasmoBranchii:

I understand sha. I just couldn't resist the temptation to push his button lol.
No problem.
Dizzyyish: 9:18pm On Jan 02
Please don't start 2025 quoting trolls & redpill detractors. If one were to attend the ashawo thread or go into a brothel, for example, to argue against prostitution and its patrons, would that be considered an act of wisdom? If you showed a wise man the aforementioned scenario and asked him whether doing That or Walking away from what is outside one's control is the wise option which would he choose?
It is self-sabotage at best and at worst foolishness.

If "The sky is blue" is a truism then you need not argue with anyone about it. You need not fight tooth-and-nail about it because reality is reality. But to believe you speak the truth yet you push it on others means, deep down, the truth is not truly the objective, because they are trying to prove something to themselves.

When you invest your sense of self, your ego, into some idea of a woman then most statements unflattering to female nature (and by extension a particular woman in one's life) will feel like a personal affront no matter how objective it is. This also goes beyond women - when one identifies themselves with what they are not, this is the price one pays.

If you see (ive) aggression in their comments, don't quote.

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Martinez39s(m): 9:24pm On Jan 02
Dizzyyish:
Please don't start 2025 quoting trolls & redpill detractors. If one were to attend the ashawo thread or go into a brothel, for example, to argue against prostitution and its patrons, would that be considered an act of wisdom? If you showed a wise man the aforementioned scenario and asked him whether doing That or Walking away from what is outside one's control is the wise option which would he choose?
It is self-sabotage at best and at worst foolishness.

If "The sky is blue" is a truism then you need not argue with anyone about it. You need not fight tooth-and-nail about it because reality is reality. But to believe you speak the truth yet you push it on others means, deep down, the truth is not truly the objective, because they are trying to prove something to themselves.

When you invest your sense of self, your ego, into some idea of a woman then most statements unflattering to female nature (and by extension a particular woman in one's life) will feel like a personal affront no matter how objective it is. This also goes beyond women - when one identifies themselves with what they are not, this is the price one pays.

If you see (ive) aggression in their comments, don't quote.
Nice. Unfortunately, in the past, this simple advice has been shown to be hard to follow by many. Let me hope against hope that 2025 will be different.

Good night.

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Rizzputin(m): 9:26pm On Jan 02
PinkNature:
@pukkalolo, rizzputin

Could you please put out a piece advising the younger audience here (25yrs and younger) that will help us navigate 2025 and make good use of this new year and also how to become a better version of ourselves.

Thank you.



Alright, a few things. Navigating a new year requires four things: Goals, Mindsets, Areas/Parameters, systems/processes

Each one build on top of each other. Take note that noticeable improvements tend to appear after 6 months of CONSISTENT improvements.

I say consistent because in the game of improvement, momentum is your best friend. Slacking off, procrastination sets you back and delays progress.

So let's start with goals.

----Goals.

You want to divide your goals into 4 categories. A) Big Crazy Goals. B) Big goals C) Medium Sized goals D) Mini goals


A)Big crazy goals.
These are goals that scare you. Generally if your goals here dont make you think "Am I crazy?" Then they're not big enough. Ideally you want things that make even you shake.

B) Big Goals. These are goals that while big enough aren't as crazy as the first ones.

You always want to aim High as much as possible. You may not hit it but it's not a bad idea if you come close.

C) Medium Sized goals

These are goals you set every month. What do you hope to achieve in the Arras of your life you want to achieve. And what process/systems do you have to achieve them .

D) Mini - Goals.

These are daily and weekly goals. They build on each other. Daily goals impact weekly goals which further impact monthly goals and which further impact Big goals.

Following this path is how you gain leverage over average people and create your own luck.

Tomorrow, I'll talk about Mindsets/beliefs

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Rizzputin(m): 9:28pm On Jan 02
Red pillers leave books and theories and meet women.

Jèrking off to Rollo Tomassi Rationale male is how yall do badly with women. Even guys that can barely do cold approach are talking.
Lmao. It's your dick you keep wanÄ·ing to that's suffering tho.

Guys that barely get laid, and can't even approach women talking about detractors. Smh. Wonders shall never end

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ElasmoBranchii(m): 9:38pm On Jan 02
Dizzyyish:
Please don't start 2025 quoting trolls & redpill detractors.

Correction taken

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Emodeee: 10:04pm On Jan 02
Adasun:


truely ubunja is a bad boy... i know all this from him but sometimes my hands i tight.

i was travelling back to my base some days back, meet this fair sweet girl and as usual, vibe with her effortlessly, she willingly bought a bottle water for me. to start with, the choosing signals where there mehn...

i put on my 'A' game and guess what? she lied to her people of not seeing another vehicle in other not to follow another car when ours broke down and it was late.
most of all, i got kissed like her life depend on it when we where finally alone at the back of the sienna.

i told her to follow me home but she could not because her people already know where we are(her uncle to be precise, which i doubt because when that her said acclaimed uncle called, i saw 'my king' )... she told me she doesn't know what lie to tell them.


this where my challenges

(1.) she was already complaining of hunger since it was 12mid night and i don't have resources that night to feed two mouths

(2.) my house from point of drop is far and will cost me more to reach my home with her.

(3.) her whatever already knows we where close by and she could not come up with what to say.

(4.) i don't know her from Adam, neither do i know any sickness in her,taking her to my place can be quiet risky, police no go hear abeg.


i know the whole ion will drop once we separated, i already know. she gave me one last deep Kiss before we exited the car. i called her around 2am if she arrived at her place safely and text her the next morning. she called by evening but i missed her call. i called later but a man picked and said hello, she quickly snap the phone from whosesoever he is and we spoke. her answers where monosyllabic and i smile and said we will talk later.

of course i did not called her... she text me new year message which i replied with thanks and that's it. this all happened between 30th-1st


my encounter validate many things Ubunja have taught in this forum.

1. hit the iron while it is hot... if i push harder for her to follow me home, maybe she would have. she will just off her phone and damn the consequences. because at that point, she was not thinking straight, she just kiss me at any opportunity, once non of the engers are looking.


2. go as far as possible... i should not have stopped at the kiss alone, what happen to fingering her and pressing her boobs? huh... i know, of course i would have done all that but she wore a tro not a gown.


3. never finish halfway... na my fellow man i helped that day to enjoy the water i engineered out of her. i made her Hot and wanting. she would not sleep like that. whose so ever she met finished the job and enjoyed it. all the fire i resonate within her was quench by another person, definitely. and she will grow more connected to him than to me.

4. the same day sex is highly and very possible if you know ur onion well.



special thanks goes to Ubunja, the fact is, i know wasup but my hands where tide due to so many factors i listed upthere.





Nice story🙂.

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Rizzputin(m): 10:20pm On Jan 02
Adasun:


truely ubunja is a bad boy... i know all this from him but sometimes my hands i tight.

i was travelling back to my base some days back, meet this fair sweet girl and as usual, vibe with her effortlessly, she willingly bought a bottle water for me. to start with, the choosing signals where there mehn...

i put on my 'A' game and guess what? she lied to her people of not seeing another vehicle in other not to follow another car when ours broke down and it was late.
most of all, i got kissed like her life depend on it when we where finally alone at the back of the sienna.

i told her to follow me home but she could not because her people already know where we are(her uncle to be precise, which i doubt because when that her said acclaimed uncle called, i saw 'my king' )... she told me she doesn't know what lie to tell them.


this where my challenges

(1.) she was already complaining of hunger since it was 12mid night and i don't have resources that night to feed two mouths

(2.) my house from point of drop is far and will cost me more to reach my home with her.

(3.) her whatever already knows we where close by and she could not come up with what to say.

(4.) i don't know her from Adam, neither do i know any sickness in her,taking her to my place can be quiet risky, police no go hear abeg.


i know the whole ion will drop once we separated, i already know. she gave me one last deep Kiss before we exited the car. i called her around 2am if she arrived at her place safely and text her the next morning. she called by evening but i missed her call. i called later but a man picked and said hello, she quickly snap the phone from whosesoever he is and we spoke. her answers where monosyllabic and i smile and said we will talk later.

of course i did not called her... she text me new year message which i replied with thanks and that's it. this all happened between 30th-1st


my encounter validate many things Ubunja have taught in this forum.

1. hit the iron while it is hot... if i push harder for her to follow me home, maybe she would have. she will just off her phone and damn the consequences. because at that point, she was not thinking straight, she just kiss me at any opportunity, once non of the engers are looking.


2. go as far as possible... i should not have stopped at the kiss alone, what happen to fingering her and pressing her boobs? huh... i know, of course i would have done all that but she wore a tro not a gown.


3. never finish halfway... na my fellow man i helped that day to enjoy the water i engineered out of her. i made her Hot and wanting. she would not sleep like that. whose so ever she met finished the job and enjoyed it. all the fire i resonate within her was quench by another person, definitely. and she will grow more connected to him than to me.

4. the same day sex is highly and very possible if you know ur onion well.



special thanks goes to Ubunja, the fact is, i know wasup but my hands where tide due to so many factors i listed upthere.



You did well. These are the kind of practical stuff I love to see.

However, there are a few things I should point so you're better armes at seduction.


--First, once you were aware that taking her home isn't possible, I won't have kissed her again. If she tried to kiss me, I'd turn it down then tell her I can't take her home because your house is fire. Kissing her and getting her Hot will just make the cooling off worse.

It would have been better you denied her the kiss then tell to text/call you later or you do it. Fingering or sucking her bòòbs is also not an option either. Because it will make her hornier even for another guy


--- Once you suspected she was with another guy, I won't have called that evening. Probably a text. Then call the next day.


---- Another guy fùcking doesn't change anything. You can text or call her later and still fùck her. It all depends on how you play your game.



---- The concept of Same Day Fùck is to arouse her IF your logistics are favourable. If they're not, like in your case, then no point turning her on and leaving her for no reason.


----- Your Next Moves.

If you still have her number, call and text her. Women FANTASIZE ALL THE TIME about meeting a stranger on a bus, taxi, plane, car and getting swept of their feet in mutual ion.

So how you met her fits into her sexual narrative and she'll want to see you again. Make sure you don't act needy for her pùssy.

Act like you not fùcking her was your choice due to bad logistics.

All the best

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Adasun(m): 10:52pm On Jan 02
Rizzputin:


You did well. These are the kind of practical stuff I love to see.

However, there are a few things I should point so you're better armes at seduction.


--First, once you were aware that taking her home isn't possible, I won't have kissed her again. If she tried to kiss me, I'd turn it down then tell her I can't take her home because your house is fire. Kissing her and getting her Hot will just make the cooling off worse.

It would have been better you denied her the kiss then tell to text/call you later or you do it. Fingering or sucking her bòòbs is also not an option either. Because it will make her hornier even for another guy


--- Once you suspected she was with another guy, I won't have called that evening. Probably a text. Then call the next day.


---- Another guy fùcking doesn't change anything. You can text or call her later and still fùck her. It all depends on how you play your game.



---- The concept of Same Day Fùck is to arouse her IF your logistics are favourable. If they're not, like in your case, then no point turning her on and leaving her for no reason.


----- Your Next Moves.

If you still have her number, call and text her. Women FANTASIZE ALL THE TIME about meeting a stranger on a bus, taxi, plane, car and getting swept of their feet in mutual ion.

So how you met her fits into her sexual narrative and she'll want to see you again. Make sure you don't act needy for her pùssy.

Act like you not fùcking her was your choice due to bad logistics.

All the best
thanks Rizz... but lemme point out some things

first and foremost, yours truely was practically experimenting to see how far things will go. although the theory where in my head, i have never tried it out... i was relax in my own skin while sending out signals to her... she closed her eyes after the first kiss and even apologise for it. i swept it under the carpet sha and later grap her myself for more dose of it. i never thaught of taking her home... in the nutshell, i was not ready from the start untill things heat up. my bad.


suspecting who she went to meet was not confirmed until after i saw her missed call and called back. hence why i stopped calling her.


thanks alot bro... i may text but will not probably call her for now...


all i will do is to position, anything can trigger her once more, and i need to be prepare when her call will enter for meet up

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Rizzputin(m): 12:01am On Jan 03
Adasun:
thanks Rizz... but lemme point out some things

first and foremost, yours truely was practically experimenting to see how far things will go. although the theory where in my head, i have never tried it out... i was relax in my own skin while sending out signals to her... she closed her eyes after the first kiss and even apologise for it. i swept it under the carpet sha and later grap her myself for more dose of it. i never thaught of taking her home... in the nutshell, i was not ready from the start untill things heat up. my bad.


suspecting who she went to meet was not confirmed until after i saw her missed call and called back. hence why i stopped calling her.


thanks alot bro... i may text but will not probably call her for now...


all i will do is to position, anything can trigger her once more, and i need to be prepare when her call will enter for meet up

Does she live in the area or came to visit? I wouldn't advise waiting for her call or text. Women are ive and would prefer men take the lead.

If this happened recently, give it a few days then text her

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Adasun(m): 1:43am On Jan 03
Rizzputin:


Does she live in the area or came to visit? I wouldn't advise waiting for her call or text. Women are ive and would prefer men take the lead.

If this happened recently, give it a few days then text her
ok... thanks alot

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CaveAdullam: 9:06am On Jan 03
ElasmoBranchii:


I agree with caveadullam's take but you might be right about some of the things you said.

For example you said Sex drive and Sexual pleasure are not the same which is true but in both case, it's still men that top.

In order for you to realize that, ask yourself what is the ratio of men to women that reach orgasm during sex and that will reveal the answer on who experiences more sexual pleasure.

Now, I don't know if women have the potential to experience more sexual pleasure than men because the way they get turned on is a little different than men and most men don't know how to turn women on, so that might be the reason.

So, all in all, your hypothesis is just based off your own experience which is limiting.

Having a good understanding about human behavior in matters of social interactions is very necessary.

Many of us are not ready to learn. We are just after validating our opinions because our ego is so much attached to it.

The worst about Mr. Rizz, is that he has conceptualized his personal experience as a wholesale possibility on a large demography.

He has good points. No denial about that.

However, he thinks that his experiences is the creme de la creme.

It is the same attitude of NAWALT - that because my mother and sisters are good people, definitely not all women are like that.

Meanwhile, AWALT is simply based on female tendency to act in a particular manner even if not all women will act based on it.

Everything about male and female sexual strategy is purely rooted in biology and evolutionary psychology. Although there are many environmental, cultural, and societal underlying. However, nature comes first.

How can women be of higher sexual pleasure yet are willing to sacrifice it for money, food, goodies, etc.

I can't love something and still be giving out in exchange of something.

It's just like saying I love money but I'm giving my money out in exchange of luxuries.

Meanwhile, it's men who are willing to exchange anything for female sexuality.

If men are willing to give anything for sex, what does that tell us in matters of sexual pleasure?

Women are not doing anything to have sex. If they so much desire higher sexual pleasure they will even outweigh men in the game.

But who do we call SIMPS? Men.

Why do we call men simps? Because they are willing to do anything for sex.

If that's the case, it means that men enjoy sex more but women benefits from the outcome of sex that are not sexually related overall.

I have provided two pieces of evidence now: testosterone and the research paper below.

But someone wants me to believe his multiplayer experiences as wholesale truth with obvious contradictory notes.

Sigh.

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ElasmoBranchii(m): 10:12am On Jan 03
CaveAdullam:


Having a good understanding about human behavior in matters of social interactions is very necessary.

Many of us are not ready to learn. We are just after validating our opinions because our ego is so much attached to it.

The worst about Mr. Rizz, is that he has conceptualized his personal experience as a wholesale possibility on a large demography.

He has good points. No denial about that.
Sigh.

This is very easy to understand.

A man can Bleep an unattractive woman and still cum same thing can't be said about women.

Between a dog you give a bland bone to and it devours it in seconds, salivate and still ask you for more.

And an other dog who won't eat the bland bone like that, unless you cook the bone to a certain degree then put other things on top of the bone before it can eat it.

Who would you say enjoys bone more.

I know where he is coming from but he is not smart enough to debate his case which is why he resorts to shaming tactics.

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Rizzputin(m): 11:52am On Jan 03
Lol. Ignorance at its peak. This is why girls complain red pill is only online. Cause spend more times with books than In real life.

Sexual pleasure is NOT the same as Sex Drive. If you had ANY tangible experience with women, you'd realize this.

Anyways you guys can keep circle jerking books all day, when you're ready go outside and touch grass

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luminouz(m): 8:33pm On Jan 03
Martinez39s:
Immediately you posted this, I knew very soon that at least one clown will misconstrue or twist this to say whatever he/she wants, even if it is a point that isn't contested or proposed. It came much sooner than I had expected.

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Where in this post does it say you should never have a plan (to avoid being useless) or fear marriage because of female nature? Did anyone bother to know the origin of that post as one with good critical thinking skills does? Did anyone not see "just be prepared and be realistic"? What about "... as I adviced"? grin What’s that particular advice I gave? Besides, who is fearing what? SMH.

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Anyway @JESHAL, I think it best not post excerpts of my discussion from the WhatsApp group. Seems for many who jump into conclusions, you will have to post the preceding posts and subsequent posts (all of which are responses to different people as they are part of a group discussion), and I don't want that. Other posts are okay.

N.B: For those who've read this post so far and are curious as to what was being discussed in the WhatsApp group, here it is: cheesy

(1) we were discussing about men being financially stable before going into marriage; understanding the need to set up yourself very well before going into marriage; and looking at economic realities.

(2) Pragmatic procreation. (Any redpiller interested can ask what this is all about, and I will discuss).

(3) being realistic with female nature and having realistic expectations. Knowing what to expect, and discussing different possible marital scenarios. One of the many scenarios happened to be a case of when men lose their income, can't meet up, or fall from great heights...

Of course, all these are done through the red pill lens. I hope one day the group comes alive as it was during it peak and redpillers can ponder on these things.
I saw the werey that quoted the post. No wonder the clown has been on our necks here. He is married but can't keep up in bed, a one minute man, then come here to pour his frustrations on us. Nawa o... Who knows maybe madam dey collect outside sef as he no sabi do his sexual duties, come dey wail for here

A one-minute clown!!!🙂🙂🙂

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luminouz(m): 8:36pm On Jan 03

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luminouz(m): 8:38pm On Jan 03
Martinez39s:
SMH. Wonders will never end. grin
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luminouz(m): 8:44pm On Jan 03
Some nice back and forths there!!!

You all have good points. It's just that no one has the absolutely correct take.

Let me go and jerk off and dream about some big booty latina. Maybe my sexual pleasure will/will not reach my sexual drive because as my drive dey push me ..I fit fûck ocean!!! 🤣🤣🤣

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Emodeee: 11:29pm On Jan 03
CaveAdullam:


1. I disagree.

Women can't "feel far more sexual pleasure" and at the same time have a lower sex drive.

Men feel far more sexual pleasures which include:

Higher sexual fantasy.
Higher sexual imagination.
Higher sex dream.
Highest viewers of pornography.
Highest masturbators.
Feels more disappointed when sexual need is declined.

The differences are not "too far". But overall, men have higher sexual needs than women as a result of testosterone.

2. Many people think women are of higher sex drive because of their sexual display on social media. If you should look at it and trace it to the bottom, you'll see that they are on social media for the money. And not for the fun of sex.

3. Women don't give sex freely without an exchange. Merge this with their (lower) sex drive, you'll come to understand why men hustle and pay for sex and women don't.

4. It is easier for women to get sex because they don't want it. And 99.9% of men are ready to fvck them.
It is difficult for men to have sex because they want it. And 99% of women are not ready to fvck them.

5. It is easier to say "abundance mentality...why chase one woman when there are more than 3 billion women in the world?"

The thing here is that those other 3 billion women aren't gonna fvck you just like the one that rejected you if are not ready for exchange. And this exchange bothers on hypergamy: her alpha and or beta needs.

6. Women and sex are not free. There is always an exchange to get both. You just need to be wise with your exchange though, and the reason why it is expedient that a man must learn GAME.

7. Forget what women do on social media. Women are not careless with sex. Their sexual pursuit bothers on a subconscious evolutionary demand or conscious act or both.

DAY 351, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Learn Game.



"They are on social media for the money." shey caveadullam go lie for you? No lies detected. Girls are going crazy on tiktok. They are there for the money.

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Tonnyray: 3:38am On Jan 04
Tonnyray:
Words on marble.
Many will be familiar with these two scenarios:

1.
Deji (27) and Maryam (23) cuddling up in Deji's crib.
Maryam: Deji it's getting late I need to start going don Allah come and drop me
Deji: Oooh you're always doing this, it's still early now, babe chill small na
Maryam: Gaskiya it's like you want papa to kill me. Everybody gets home before 7pm in my house. Not even my big sisters dared. It's 6:30 already please hurry up all this talk is wasting time, I'll call uber o..
Deji: Alright alright.. let me get my car keys. So when next are we seeing?
Maryam: As soon as I'm opportuned. Don Allah hurry na, that's your key over there on the bookshelf.

2.
Deji (27) and Toyosi (22) in Deji's crib
Toyosi: Send me that video on your status I want to it on mine too
Deji: Sure. Damn! omo time don go o, it's 9:15 already sha
Toyosi: Yeah, time flies when you're having tons of fun especially with someone special
Deji: You don't plan going home again tonight?
Toyosi: Nope.
Deji: You never told me that
Toyosi: Oh are you driving me away now?
Deji: Noo, but last time we talked you mentioned me buying sharwama for you on your way home so I naturally assumed you planned going home.
Toyosi: Well I changed my mind.
Deji: Did you call home to inform them?
Toyosi: I'll whatsapp my sister later. I'm an adult nowww, what's all this? I can handle my business
Deji: Ok o. Popsie nko? He no go talk?
Toyosi: That one? Mtsheeeeeeew (looong hiss) when was the last time he slept at home himself? laughs
Deji: O da naa. Warm the rest of that take away we bought earlier let me grab some CDs from Shehu's kiosk. We don run out
Toyosi: You and these your CDs sha, it's like you still don't trust me
Deji: Heeey! Don't go there. Just do what I asked you to do. I dey come.

Different fathers, different outcomes.
I believe NOT every woman is a hoe, but there's a potential hoe in every woman. Given the right (more like wrong) ambience that hoe will likely manifest.
Maryam's father has set boundaries. He has done his bit in exemplifying fatherhood. The females in his life naturally take their cue and conform. In the clime he has created the hoe remains dormant, waiting for an opportune time and circumstance cos obviously Maryam's father has said "Not on my watch".
Toyosi's dad could care less. To hell with his nagging wife, who is she to tell him how to live his life by the way? To hell with his lousy daughters (they are just exact replicas of their mother anyway)

Neither of the 2 men changed female nature.
Just like a garden one painstakingly cultivated it and grew a garden of irable roses.
The other went AWOL and weed naturally overthrew it.
Same soil.
Different men.
Different natures.
Different actions.
Different outcomes.

We will never be able to change innate female nature, but we can always considerably influence the manifestation of it in our individual worlds.
We will never be able to change innate female nature, but we can always considerably influence the manifestation of it in our individual worlds.

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imustsaymymindo: 6:02am On Jan 04
Nice points here.

IMO:

Sexual drive is a primary function of biology and thus can be quantified. Sexual pleasure is a function of biology, and various factors and IMO can not be easily quantified. Moreso, for the fact that sexual pleasure mostly diminishes with time. How do you measure? When the pusssy or dicck might not be pleasurable anymore for some persons, when scatting and rimming is just the beginning for some persons, while others get pleasure from seeing blood.

So, when there is an argument whether males or females like sex more, the only realistic quantifiable measure is sexual drive. And to understand this clearly, you’d have to again think beyond the blank slate as men and women get this drive wired differently.

For men, the drive is constant and always active. I want to believe this is, in fact, the source of our "hustle" energy and embedded in our biology as a survival mechanism. However, it is most often channeled in several directions due to conditioning that higher needs in levels 2-5 in Maslow’s hierarchy of needs are more important than our basic/primary needs - level 1. Even in this thread, you’d hear men saying to focus on making money and having a higher purpose.... Those various channels are by-products of the sexual drive. In Sigmund Freud's voice: "all energy is sexual".

Talking about a male body count of 50 could only be a good number today because of that conditioning. If men prioritize their sexual needs without re-channeling much, trust me you can only imagine the amount of sex men would be having due to the drive. An average man who is being driven and is maximizing his primal energy from the drive could have 1000 body counts in a year (3 different girls per day) not to talk of a celeb doing the same. An average woman can't have this, if she does it's not a function of sex drive, but rather other needs above the hierarchy such as that Guinness Book of record lady trying to have the highest body count in a day, in this case, the need is fame. If you earn well, have a lot of spare money to experiment/waste, and have game, I’d advise men here to tour other African countries if you want to test your sex drive. In a country like Senegal for instance, where prostitution is legal, the girls are mandated to go on monthly checkups et al, try and see how much you can knack in 3 months and you'd be surprised.

For women, the drive is ive, therefore it needs the right amount of energy to wake it up - be it ovulation, a man whose drive is deeper - in summary, a higher form of energy. And depending on how novel the energy is, the more intense the drive. This is why a female sex drive can never be as much as a male sex drive. Could be more intense as long as the novel energy exists but not more frequent and potent. Don’t think that when a girl decides to do the most debasing thing with/to you, this makes her have a higher sexual drive. No. Also, since a female's sexual drive has to be sourced, it is useless, the drive can not be channeled to a by-product of anything higher in the hierarchy (in Ubunja's voice, the womb only wants what the wombs want).

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Rizzputin(m): 9:30am On Jan 04
imustsaymymindo:
Nice points here.

IMO:

Sexual drive is a primary function of biology and thus can be quantified. Sexual pleasure is a function of biology, and various factors and IMO can not be easily quantified. Moreso, for the fact that sexual pleasure mostly diminishes with time. How do you measure? When the pusssy or dicck might not be pleasurable anymore for some persons, when scatting and rimming is just the beginning for some persons, while others get pleasure from seeing blood.

So, when there is an argument whether males or females like sex more, the only realistic quantifiable measure is sexual drive. And to understand this clearly, you’d have to again think beyond the blank slate as men and women get this drive wired differently.

For men, the drive is constant and always active. I want to believe this is, in fact, the source of our "hustle" energy and embedded in our biology as a survival mechanism. However, it is most often channeled in several directions due to conditioning that higher needs in levels 2-5 in Maslow’s hierarchy of needs are more important than our basic/primary needs - level 1. Even in this thread, you’d hear men saying to focus on making money and having a higher purpose.... Those various channels are by-products of the sexual drive. In Sigmund Freud's voice: "all energy is sexual".

Talking about a male body count of 50 could only be a good number today because of that conditioning. If men prioritize their sexual needs without re-channeling much, trust me you can only imagine the amount of sex men would be having due to the drive. An average man who is being driven and is maximizing his primal energy from the drive could have 1000 body counts in a year (3 different girls per day) not to talk of a celeb doing the same. An average woman can't have this, if she does it's not a function of sex drive, but rather other needs above the hierarchy such as that Guinness Book of record lady trying to have the highest body count in a day, in this case, the need is fame. If you earn well, have a lot of spare money to experiment/waste, and have game, I’d advise men here to tour other African countries if you want to test your sex drive. In a country like Senegal for instance, where prostitution is legal, the girls are mandated to go on monthly checkups et al, try and see how much you can knack in 3 months and you'd be surprised.

For women, the drive is ive, therefore it needs the right amount of energy to wake it up - be it ovulation, a man whose drive is deeper - in summary, a higher form of energy. And depending on how novel the energy is, the more intense the drive. This is why a female sex drive can never be as much as a male sex drive. Could be more intense as long as the novel energy exists but not more frequent and potent. Don’t think that when a girl decides to do the most debasing thing with/to you, this makes her have a higher sexual drive. No. Also, since a female's sexual drive has to be sourced, it is useless, the drive can not be channeled to a by-product of anything higher in the hierarchy (in Ubunja's voice, the womb only wants what the wombs want).

You're repeating the same nonsense everyone in the red pill jerk off club has already said. It's as if you dont read to understand but to argue

Sexual pleasure is NOT the same as sexual drive. They are different. Men have a higher sex drive but women require and have more pleasure during sex.

Everything you explained just proved what I already said about sex drive: Men have it more

Notice you didn't say anything about sexual pleasure? But chickened out to say "not quantifiable" lol. Do you know why you did that? Because you dont have enough experience to know and/or you dont know someone that has experience


You made a comment "make no mistake a woman willing to do naughty things for you doesn't mean she has high sex drive" Well that comments shows you didnt anything I said nor do you understand it. Because I SPECIFICALLY said a woman doing naughty things with you is more of her sexual pleasure. Her need to experience maximum pleasure as much as possible.

The case for their sexual pleasure is seen in orgasms. They have more orgasms in quick sessions. Have various points of stimulation more than men. Have more and naughtier fantasies.


Some clown here was saying the only way I can know what a woman feels is if I'm a woman. But that stupìd logic contradicts this very thread. If the only way to know what women experience is to be a woman, then why are red pillers speaking like they know women when they're not women.

Again, DO NOT speak on this issue until you've had enough experience with men. If you cant do that, go and ask all the guys you know that fùck regularly between men and woman who derive more pleasure in sex as much as possible


DO NOT comment on this issue until you have real world evidence. Dont do mental gymnastics about biology and evolution. Go out and ask or experience then report

This book & head knowledge you guys are fond of doing is why people (and women) see you as jokes. You have no idea how comical you guys sound when you do your mental gymnastics with zero basis with reality

I will repeat, real world evidence only

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imustsaymymindo: 10:41am On Jan 04
1. Sexual drive: Can be quantified. e.g. ratio/timeframe/count/average/median/sum/frequency of times a person wants to have sex.

2. Sexual Pleasure: relative. Most times, it diminishes or changes. I understand some gay men who like being bleeped regularly in the ass and have enough experience with men might be so confident that women derive more sexual pleasure than men. Still, I am sure there’d be lesbians who also peg other females and believe that is the best pleasure anyone could have and would believe men have more sexual pleasure.

3. Orgasm as a form of measure for sexual pleasure: Yes. Orgasm could be used to quantify sexual pleasure if at all you can move past the problem of its definition(e.g. does pre-cum for men or squirting for women count). Again orgasm can’t capture all. A girl might be having hella of sexual pleasure from mouth action, or foot worship, or just being submissive and spanked, prefers it to the actual act, and no orgasm(depending on your definition), or a man from voyeurism, or dominance, or even plain masochism and not cumming.

Let’s even say you want to use the fact that women are capable of having multiple rounds of orgasms in a round of sex where a man would have one, which of course depends on the sex. But that logic would fail once more since for men, the longer you stay in sex without having an orgasm, the more sexual pleasure. I believe, a one-minute man that goes 3 rounds of sex in 3 minutes with 3 orgasms, can not find much sexual pleasure than a man that goes 2 rounds of sex in 2 hours with 2 orgasms. That’s a clear case of less orgasm and more sexual pleasure. People even report getting better orgasms from masturbation including females - which shows how orgasm is a faulty quantifier.

Conclusion: Men like/enjoy sex more than women and this is due to their sexual drive. Orgasm which is a wishful outcome(s) of sex cannot be the right quantifier to judge who likes sex(pre-action) more. Using orgasm to judge is similar to a man trying to be loved by a woman the way he understands. The RP is not contradictory. You are the one comparing using a blank slate.

Guys, never be ashamed of reading books. That is one of the fastest ways to unlearn. Most times unlearning is much better than learning/being an expert in conditioned untruths no matter how popular the knowledge may be. Stay Red.

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