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There is a lady in my husband's office. She is undisciplined. My husband managed her for long. Always late to work, challenges authority, misses work with excuse duties.

Her work relationship with my husband the boss wasn't good because of her indiscipline. Eventually, she sent a colleague to speak with my husband. My husband said she had no personal issues with her only she must be committed to work. She feigned some remorse and began doing right.

After this, she tried seducing my husband. She would gaze at him, tap him, bring him food, go to his house uninvited (my husband would not let her in) etc. My husband didn't fall for her. Then she began the misconducts again and now aspersing that my husband was rather into her. My husband reported all these actions to his supervisors.

Now here is the thing:

Three different people who my husband hasn't discussed the matter with, have walked to my husband to tell him that the lady is a witch sent specifically to sleep with him and destroy him. Three different people. What should my husband do about this?

My husband is not interested in her. I know this as a fact. And has never done anything with her.

Mods, please this is a serious issue ongoing, kindly frontpage for urgent assistance. Thank you.

Preciousgirl:
There is a lady in my husband's office. She is undisciplined. My husband managed her for long. Always late to work, challenges authority, misses work with excuse duties.



After this, she tried seducing my husband. She would gaze at him, tap him, bring him food, go to his house uninvited (my husband would not let her in) etc. My husband didn't fall for her. Then she began the misconducts again and now aspersing that my husband was rather into her. My husband reported all these actions to his supervisors.

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You husband has a house that you the wife ain't staying

Should have been "she comes to OUR house uninvited"



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What do you guys gain when you come up with fake stories

Did your husband at anytime eat the food She brought him?

Candidlady:
This your imaginary husband

Oh,

The OP Dey whine us?

Aren't you living with your husband?

Even though ur story seems fake. But assuming ur story is true, why would u just believe ur husband's story, cos it could be that ur husband has slept with her and that is why she is now disrespecting him. Think about it this way too!

Carcholce:
Did your husband at anytime eat the food She brought him?

Yes

Candidlady:


@bolded
You husband has a house that you the wife ain't staying

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What do you guys gain when you come up with fake stories

Why will I lie?

He works in a different city

Carcholce:


Oh,

The OP Dey whine us?

True story please

mariobalotelli09:
Aren't you living with your husband?

Not always due to work

Preciousgirl:


Why will I lie?

He works in a different city

Makes a whole lota sense now

But istill don't believe this your story judging from your previous post

Anyways all the best

Preciousgirl:


Yes

If he indeed ate the food, he’s not telling the whole story.

Mods, please this is a serious issue ongoing, kindly frontpage for urgent assistance. Thank you.

Candidlady:


Makes a whole lota sense now

But istill don't believe this your story judging from your previous post

Anyways all the best

What do you advise?

Carcholce:

If he indeed ate the food, he’s not telling the whole story.

Why

Preciousgirl:
There is a lady in my husband's office. She is undisciplined. My husband managed her for long. Always late to work, challenges authority, misses work with excuse duties.

Her work relationship with my husband the boss wasn't good because of her indiscipline. Eventually, she sent a colleague to speak with my husband. My husband said she had no personal issues with her only she must be committed to work. She feigned some remorse and began doing right.

After this, she tried seducing my husband. She would gaze at him, tap him, bring him food, go to his house uninvited (my husband would not let her in) etc. My husband didn't fall for her. Then she began the misconducts again and now aspersing that my husband was rather into her. My husband reported all these actions to his supervisors.

Now here is the thing:

Three different people who my husband hasn't discussed the matter with, have walked to my husband to tell him that the lady is a witch sent specifically to sleep with him and destroy him. Three different people. What should my husband do about this?

My husband is not interested in her. I know this as a fact. And has never done anything with her.

Mods, please this is a serious issue ongoing, kindly frontpage for urgent assistance. Thank you.

Why can't he just fire her. I mean with all the things you said about her, he'll have more than a thousand reasons to do so.

For him to still keep her despite her nonchalant attitude towards the job which she's being paid to do shows that even though he might not it it, he's clearly into her. That's definitely something going on between them that you're not yet aware of.

I'm sure if it was a male employee who was guilty of all these, be would have been laid off a long time ago.

Nazgul:

Why can't he just fire her. I mean with all the things you said about her, he'll have more than a thousand reasons to do so.

For him to still keep her despite her nonchalant attitude towards the job which she's being paid to do shows that even though he might not it it, he's clearly into her. That's definitely something going on between them that you're not yet aware of.

I'm sure if it was a male employee who would guilty of all these, be would have been laid off a long time ago.

The bus doesn't stop with him. He has reported her several times. My husband is never into her

Preciousgirl:
The bus doesn't stop with him. He has reported her several times. My husband is never into her

I thought you said he's her boss. If he's her superior, he can give her a query. And if she continues with her nonchalant attitude, he can report her to the management that she's unproductive and keeping her with them would be a deficit to the company.

It's so easy. If I'm your superior in any office and you're nonchalant towards the job, it would take me less than 5 minutes to deal with your attitude. There's something he's not telling you.

Nazgul:

I thought you said he's her boss. If he's her superior, he can give her a query. And if she continues with her nonchalant attitude, he can report her to the management that she's unproductive and keeping her with them would be a deficit to the company.

It's so easy. If I'm your superior in any office and you're nonchalant towards the job, it would take me less than 5 minutes to deal with your attitude. There's something he's not telling you.

I am sure that he has sent every needed report dear.

Preciousgirl:
I am sure that he has sent every needed report dear.

So you're telling me that the company's management would prefer to remain mute and take no action despite the incessant reports against an unproductive staff who's attitude can put them out of business?

It either you're making this up or you don't have the full details of what is going on.

Nazgul:

So the company's management would prefer to remain mute and take no action despite the incessant reports against an unproductive staff who's attitude can put them out of business.

It either you're making this up or you don't have the full details of what is going on.

I have

Read the last parts of my post

Preciousgirl:
I have

Read the last parts of my post

Are you talking about the people who told your husband that the lady in question is a witch?

This is africa where everyone is fighting for relevance. And the only way to become relevant in a very religious continent like Africa is through prophecies. The trick is to keep talking until you hit something similar to what the person is currently going through, and boom, you don hammer.

If I tell you how many times people (both the ones I know and the ones I don't) have approached me with one prophecy or the other, I just ignore them and move on.

If you husband cannot get the management to terminate her appointment, it means there's something going on between them. That's the fact.

Nazgul:

Are you talking about the people who told your husband that the lady in question is a witch?

This is africa where everyone is fighting for relevance. And the only way to become relevant in a very religious continent like Africa is through prophecies. The trick is to keep talking until you hit something similar to what the person is currently going through, and boom, you don hammer.

If I tell you how many times people (both the I know and the I don't) have approached me with one prophecy or the other, I just ignore them and move on.

If you husband cannot get the management to terminate her appointment, it means there's something going on between them. That's the fact.

Nothing is going on between them, I assure u

Nazgul:

Are you talking about the people who told your husband that the lady in question is a witch?

This is africa where everyone is fighting for relevance. And the only way to become relevant in a very religious continent like Africa is through prophecies. The trick is to keep talking until you hit something similar to what the person is currently going through, and boom, you don hammer.

If I tell you how many times people (both the I know and the I don't) have approached me with one prophecy or the other, I just ignore them and move on.

If you husband cannot get the management to terminate her appointment, it means there's something going on between them. That's the fact.

Why would he send the countless reports then

Carcholce:


Oh,

The OP Dey whine us?

You never Get the update. Compose and Share a sorrowful Story . You go cash out.

I don't put mouth in husband & wife matter, especially Nigerian couples.

Your simple husband should sort himself out in a simple way!

ObalendeCMS:
I don't put mouth in husband & wife matter, especially Nigerian couples.

Your simple husband should sort himself out in a simple way!

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U haven't read the post

Preciousgirl:

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U haven't read the post

I did!

It's either he fuccckss the said lady or he fires her!

Preciousgirl:


Nothing is going on between them, I assure u

Be deceiving yourself! So you think your husband will come & tell you this?!

With what Op wrote about the woman's conduct and behavior, I believe the woman is a witch. Tell your husband to anoint his office and declare Holy Ghost fire in and around the office. He must triple his prayer life against any temptation from the witch.
He must by any means necessary stay away from the witch.

keymatt:
With what Op wrote about the woman's conduct and behavior, I believe the woman is a witch. Tell your husband to anoint his office and declare Holy Ghost fire in and around the office. He must triple his prayer life against any temptation from the witch.
He must by any means necessary stay away from the witch.

Thank you for the advice

ObalendeCMS:


Be deceiving yourself! So you think your husband will come & tell you this?!

I know the story and my husband..He is never into her