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fidelmarshal199:



A more knowledgeable fellow is trying to educate but you are proving stubborn. After 30 years in marriage you may end up finding out that your first child isn't yours biologically.

What knowledge?

I can guarantee that
1. You are not yet married
2. You are young and inexperienced
3. You don't know the power of values.

Patoski7:

Am telling you ooo

I almost sick when E no open

Basicend:


Lol. . I am guessing it is either the govt or a women clique that organized the shutting down of Nairaland.

Those two have constantly received bashings on this forum. .

They will continue to get bashing till dem get sense

TenQ:

What knowledge?

I can guarantee that
1. You are not yet married
2. You are young and inexperienced
3. You don't know the power of values.

Read news, Be informed. Visit Instablog. You trust less when you see how Wives are betraying their partners on a daily basis

TenQ:

I can guarantee that
1. You are not yet married
2. You are young and inexperienced
3. You don't know the power of values.



A woman who remained faithful before marriage is most likely to remain faithful after marriage.

1. I am married
2. I am in my late 30s, experenced and very experienced
3. I know the power of values.

Maybe I got it wrong by tending to generalize, sorry about that.

But my claims are very true for some women. Some women might have olosho tendencies, yet kept their virginity for some reasons best known to them and will blow out after marriage.

nairalanda1:


1.Can you give us links to the studies by the way?

2.You are also implying that your wife, mother and sisters all ran after other men after getting married as virgins.



You guys should stop hating women.

No, I am not hating on women.

Maybe I got it wrong by tending to generalize, sorry about that.

But my claims are very true for some women. Some women might have olosho tendencies, yet kept their virginity for some reasons best known to them and will blow out after marriage.

Doubting your wife is wrong, you said u married her avirgin and you have been having sex raw ooo even condom is 100% save not to talk of withdraw method or natural. I had three kids with natural las las I had to do family planning cos there's no space between my kids. What will you do if u find out the child is your, have you thought about your wife reaction if she found out you are doing secret DNA.

Efna55:

I tried to get counter DNA kit but no online store seems to sell it in Nigeria, pls can you suggest one?

Medplus pharmacy has it in port Harcourt..

I tried to get counter DNA kit but no online store seems to sell it in Nigeria, pls can you suggest one


Bro i have another suggestion for you, why can't you consult ifa oracle 😁

Efna55:
I got married to her a virgin and we never intend having babies early because I intend putting her in school, to cut the long story short she became pregnant and I was very sure about the natural methods I used, there were also many circumstances that made me think the baby may not be mine, the baby is few months old and I took her to do a secret DNA test while the mother went to school for some registrations, the diagnostic centre said without the mothers consent it cannot be done..
Pls advice..

Guy, REST! If you force her for DNA test and the child turns out to be yours, she will resent you!
How can you be having sex with a young girl and not expect pregnancy?
Even tubal ligation which is the highest for for precaution fails!
Allow peace reign and stop looking for problems where there is none!

God has given you a beautiful family enjoy it. Don't ruin it!

Beremx:
Even men that married virgin wives are doubtful of their kids.

Na wa o!

He is just too insecure or even jobless cos I no understand this one at all.

superlanny:
Trusting a Nigerian girl is as good as believing APC will change Nigeria, you are just wasting your time. Its being a while I heard the word virgin, and I can categorically state that being a virgin is totally useless in this times, only a fool and simp will believe all this virgin crap. Nigerian ladies are easy pickings for legit sex romps if you know how to go about.

Hmm...

A girl saved herself and gave you her virginity and you are still doubting her child

Wtf do men want sef?

superlanny:
Trusting a Nigerian girl is as good as believing APC will change Nigeria, you are just wasting your time. Its being a while I heard the word virgin, and I can categorically state that being a virgin is totally useless in this times, only a fool and simp will believe all this virgin crap. Nigerian ladies are easy pickings for legit sex romps if you know how to go about.

That's the women in your family, I know lots of chast young girls pls

UptownVibes:
Are laws obeyed in Nigeria in the first place? Laws are for the poor in Nigeria

Ehennnn.
Laws are for the poor in Nigeria?

Na wa oooo!!!

saasala:


1. I am married
2. I am in my late 30s, experenced and very experienced
3. I know the power of values.

Maybe I got it wrong by tending to generalize, sorry about that.

But my claims are very true for some women. Some women might have olosho tendencies, yet kept their virginity for some reasons best known to them and will blow out after marriage.

The key is the power of values.

Most ladies who are married as virgins have some certain values that had kept them while they were between 16 years old to 24 years of age (this is when most girls lose their virginity).

What are their reasons?
1. Spiritual (they don't want to sin against their God).
Why would they now choose to sin against God when they are married?
2. Cultural (this is what they grew up to know as normal around them)
I don't know any Nigerian african culture that promotes promiscuity for married women: do you?
3. Personal resolve (a choice they made by themselves as a way of life)
What would make them change suddenly to the opposite?

Statistically, married women do not crave more sex than single women.
If truly you are married, you should know that a married woman's libido is on the average low. Why would they suddenly think that promiscuity would solve the problem.

Now even about you as a man: after you got married, did you suddenly lose control of your sexuality? Are you now more promiscuous than before marriage?
Why do you now expect that a virgin wife would be promiscuous after marriage?







If any married woman would be promiscuous after marriage, it is a woman who was married as a non-virgin!

Why?
1. She may discover that your gbola is the smallest amongst all the guys she has handled and thus crave for her best experience
2. You may be a two-three minute man and most of her exes can go for 45minuites straight while giving her multiple orgasms. Shouldn't she crave for this experience again while h you can't give?
3. You may be awkward in bed compared to some of her exes that she misses them instead of the boring you.


A virgin has only you as a reference for everything sexual, therefore she is most likely to accept you as you are. Except she is a witchand it is a ritual where her virginity is only to trap forever the guy she'd married, it usually never happens that a virgin wife would go outside marriage for sex.

saasala:
@TenQ


See this one.

Studies have shown that when women keep themselves as virgin until marriage, after being deflowered they start to long for other d1cks to make up for the years they have been chaste while their friends are riding several priks. They suddenly have this urge to explore and see life from different angles.

Your virgins wife who might have olosho tendencies might only be keeping herself till after marriage because her parent or pastor or wheoever told her its the right thing to do. After marriage, her real colour can show.

Dey play my fans.

PS: My claims are only valid for some virgins, not all.

What Studies Can you show a link or statistics report to corroborate your claim? You just spoke like an uneducated person. SMH

fidelmarshal199:


Read news, Be informed. Visit Instablog. You trust less when you see how Wives are betraying their partners on a daily basis

I still insist that
1. You are unmarried else you would have known that a married woman's libido does not increase in marriage but reduce.
2. You are in experienced else, you would have known the above.

If you heard anything in news, it is because it is strange and an aberration from the normal.

Change your circles
Change your associations
Change your friends

You probably are exactly like this, thus your close associates are expected to behave like this.

No one has claimed that a wife married as a virgin can NEVER commit adultery BUT, the probability is low.

TenQ:

I still insist that
1. You are unmarried else you would have known that a married woman's libido does not increase in marriage but reduce.
2. You are in experienced else, you would have known the above.

If you heard anything in news, it is because it is strange and an aberration from the normal.

Change your circles
Change your associations
Change your friends

You probably are exactly like this, thus your close associates are expected to behave like this.

[bold]No one has claimed that a wife married as a virgin can NEVER commit adultery BUT, the probability is low.[/bold]

You just shot yourself in the neck. When you know the action is possible then why do you have to castigate the OP because he was trying to clear his doubt

Beremx:
Even men that married virgin wives are doubtful of their kids.

Na wa o!

Indicating their insecurities are because they themselves cannot be trusted. And that misogyny is their backbone. Whatever happened to the innocent teenage virgins they would train like puppies to their taste?

Don't be surprised he has a child somewhere being used for a paternity fraud with his unreliable method he proudly told us about.

fidelmarshal199:



You just shot yourself in the neck. When you know the action is possible then why do you have to castigate the OP because he was trying to clear his doubt

No sir.
What is the probability that you will commit murder?
Probably very low!

Does the probability exist?

Yes! You can commit murder!

fidelmarshal199:



You just shot yourself in the neck. When you know the action is possible then why do you have to castigate the OP because he was trying to clear his doubt

I can see that you truely expect to marry a hoe when you are ready!

Is this a correct assumption?

You just want to scatter your home..if she finds out you did this behind her back..It's another talk of another day oooo...

EVEN when it's obvious u are the father by 999.9999% results..She won't take it likely for not trusting her..thread with caution sha.

Efna55:
I got married to her a virgin and we never intend having babies early because I intend putting her in school, to cut the long story short she became pregnant and I was very sure about the natural methods I used, there were also many circumstances that made me think the baby may not be mine, the baby is few months old and I took her to do a secret DNA test while the mother went to school for some registrations, the diagnostic centre said without the mothers consent it cannot be done..
Pls advice..

You just want to scatter your home..if she finds out you did this behind her back..It's another talk of another day oooo...

EVEN when it's obvious u are the father by 999.9999% results..She won't take it likely for not trusting her..thread with caution sha.

I know a private company that can do it for you. got married to her a virgin and we never intend having babies early because I intend putting her in school, to cut the long story short she became pregnant and I was very sure about the natural methods I used, there were also many circumstances that made me think the baby may not be mine, the baby is few months old and I took her to do a secret DNA test while the mother went to school for some registrations, the diagnostic centre said without the mothers consent it cannot be done..
Pls advice..[/quote]

Says alot about you OP and his view towards sex, true Og's know the child is yours .I don't understand how you think women gets pregnant. A good number of 22yrs old doesn't need your frequent thrusting before getting pregnant, they are highly fertile.
Abi you haven't seen when just a sec with an 18yrs results into a child despite applying the natural way.

TenQ:

The key is the power of values.

Most ladies who are married as virgins have some certain values that had kept them while they were between 16 years old to 24 years of age (this is when most girls lose their virginity).

What are their reasons?
1. Spiritual (they don't want to sin against their God).
Why would they now choose to sin against God when they are married?
2. Cultural (this is what they grew up to know as normal around them)
I don't know any Nigerian african culture that promotes promiscuity for married women: do you?
3. Personal resolve (a choice they made by themselves as a way of life)
What would make them change suddenly to the opposite?

Statistically, married women do not crave more sex than single women.
If truly you are married, you should know that a married woman's libido is on the average low. Why would they suddenly think that promiscuity would solve the problem.

Now even about you as a man: after you got married, did you suddenly lose control of your sexuality? Are you now more promiscuous than before marriage?
Why do you now expect that a virgin wife would be promiscuous after marriage?







If any married woman would be promiscuous after marriage, it is a woman who was married as a non-virgin!

Why?
1. She may discover that your gbola is the smallest amongst all the guys she has handled and thus crave for her best experience
2. You may be a two-three minute man and most of her exes can go for 45minuites straight while giving her multiple orgasms. Shouldn't she crave for this experience again while h you can't give?
3. You may be awkward in bed compared to some of her exes that she misses them instead of the boring you.


A virgin has only you as a reference for everything sexual, therefore she is most likely to accept you as you are. Except she is a witchand it is a ritual where her virginity is only to trap forever the guy she'd married, it usually never happens that a virgin wife would go outside marriage for sex.

See you analyzing a woman like mathematics. If 1+1 = 2, then 2+2 should be = 4. Sadly, they are different from mathematics.

Women cheat for several reasons, and some of the reasons are not even in your list.

And the truth remains that there are women who married as a virgin and still cheat. So why did they do it?

The same way men claim they like varieties, so do some women. Some women also get bored of the same thing and as humans, we love to explore and seek new experiences.

Okay, I have a friend who slept with a married woman whose hubby disvirgined her. And she practically 'toasted' my friend. Her reason: "She felt left behind. She needed to taste another dick. She wanted to explore and see how another man tastes"

Virgins these days have high level of fantasies than the non virgins. They consume more porn than the non virgins and engage in other sexual acts aside penetration. These fantasies, they want to fulfil. It is only a matter of time before some of them (The ones who have olosho tendencies) go out and explore. Abu you don't know that some virgins have olosho tendencies?

I am not a kid in the game of women. I have deflowered three women, slept with four married women (Something I am not proud of and won't do again) and have two friends who have slept with married women who married as virgins.

Most of the ladies who stayed chaste from 16 to 24 as you claimed did so under some obligation, oath, churchy sh1t or whatever thing they believe in and not because they have some real values.

While I was in my early twenties, I was in the choir and was dating my pastor's 19 year old daughter who was a virgin. The only reason she stayed a virgin is because her Dad's biggest wish was to give his daughters hand in marriage as virgins, for his own pride and ego. But this girl will suck my d1ck, I will robb her cl1ts till she gets madly wets, gave me her bobbi to sock and all....And guess what, she still married as a virgin. But I know her too well, she was exposed to a lot of rubbish already and will likely cheat on her hubby to fulfil these fantasies.

There are a lot of ladies like this who are staying till wedding night to have sex just because of the pride, and so they can go around and say "I got married as a virgin" Make their parents proud and all that.....And after wedding, all hell can be let lose.

Bro, my body count is astronomically high, something I am not proud of tho, but thought me a lot of things about women, sex and life generally. I am most likely more experienced than you, so you listen to me. I have fvcked different kinds of women, from different age group, ethnicity, tribe, nationality and all. Married, single, engaged, name it, except olosho. I detest olosho. I have fvcked a woman a day to her wedding cos she needed to do send off for me. Three days after her wedding we continued

Life is not mathematics bro. No dey calculate am like that again.

So again, let me reiterate: Marrying a virgin lady does not guarantee fidelity. Don't lose guard because you married a virgin. They can fvck your wife 6 months after your wedding.

Edipet:

how did you carry the baby alone on the road, Because in some areas man is not allowed to Carry a New born baby alone, if Police catch you, you go explain tire

No need to carry the baby around, just a sample of hair, blood or saliva will do.

Efna55:
I got married to her a virgin and we never intend having babies early because I intend putting her in school, to cut the long story short she became pregnant and I was very sure about the natural methods I used, there were also many circumstances that made me think the baby may not be mine, the baby is few months old and I took her to do a secret DNA test while the mother went to school for some registrations, the diagnostic centre said without the mothers consent it cannot be done..
Pls advice..

This story is not complete.

Beremx:
Even men that married virgin wives are doubtful of their kids.

Na wa o!

Dey play

NL WEY JUS OPEN BACK URNA DON START FAMILY PROBLEM

saasala:


See you analyzing a woman like mathematics. If 1+1 = 2, then 2+2 should be = 4. Sadly, they are different from mathematics.

Women cheat for several reasons, and some of the reasons are not even in your list.

And the truth remains that there are women who married as a virgin and still cheat. So why did they do it?

The same way men claim they like varieties, so do some women. Some women also get bored of the same thing and as humans, we love to explore and seek new experiences.

Okay, I have a friend who slept with a married woman whose hubby disvirgined her. And she practically 'toasted' my friend. Her reason: "She felt left behind. She needed to taste another dick. She wanted to explore and see how another man tastes"

Virgins these days have high level of fantasies than the non virgins. They consume more porn than the non virgins and engage in other sexual acts aside penetration. These fantasies, they want to fulfil. It is only a matter of time before some of them (The ones who have olosho tendencies) go out and explore. Abu you don't know that some virgins have olosho tendencies?

I am not a kid in the game of women. I have deflowered three women, slept with four married women (Something I am not proud of and won't do again) and have two friends who have slept with married women who married as virgins.

Most of the ladies who stayed chaste from 16 to 24 as you claimed did so under some obligation, oath, churchy sh1t or whatever thing they believe in and not because they have some real values.

While I was in my early twenties, I was in the choir and was dating my pastor's 19 year old daughter who was a virgin. The only reason she stayed a virgin is because her Dad's biggest wish was to give his daughters hand in marriage as virgins, for his own pride and ego. But this girl will suck my d1ck, I will robb her cl1ts till she gets madly wets, gave me her bobbi to sock and all....And guess what, she still married as a virgin. But I know her too well, she was exposed to a lot of rubbish already and will likely cheat on her hubby to fulfil these fantasies.

There are a lot of ladies like this who are staying till wedding night to have sex just because of the pride, and so they can go around and say "I got married as a virgin" Make their parents proud and all that.....And after wedding, all hell can be let lose.

Bro, my body count is astronomically high, something I am not proud of tho, but thought me a lot of things about women, sex and life generally. I am most likely more experienced than you, so you listen to me. I have fvcked different kinds of women, from different age group, ethnicity, tribe, nationality and all. Married, single, engaged, name it, except olosho. I detest olosho. I have fvcked a woman a day to her wedding cos she needed to do send off for me. Three days after her wedding we continued

Life is not mathematics bro. No dey calculate am like that again.

So again, let me reiterate: Marrying a virgin lady does not guarantee fidelity. Don't lose guard because you married a virgin. They can fvck your wife 6 months after your wedding.

I think I now fully understand your point of view. You have frolicked a lot with loose women because this is your circle and thus, this is the only life you know.

My own circle is unfortunately (different from yours) more civil and less wild.

Most of my circle and people I relate with are not the wild, undisciplined, untrained or loose individuals.


Since we can only speak of what as a norm exists around us,
It would then be safe to say that you are not truely different from these adulterous women as this is your normal expectation : Is this view of mine correct?