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I got married to her a virgin and we never intend having babies early because I intend putting her in school, to cut the long story short she became pregnant and I was very sure about the natural methods I used, there were also many circumstances that made me think the baby may not be mine, the baby is few months old and I took her to do a secret DNA test while the mother went to school for some registrations, the diagnostic centre said without the mothers consent it cannot be done..
Pls advice..

That is not true, the owner or Associate of that Clinic or Lab are sympathetic to the women getting a blow back as a result of these frauds.

At the most, what you will need is the birth certificate of the child showing you are the father and your ID, some clinics don’t even stress you to that level.

Find another clinic or buy these off the counter DNA kits to do the test.

Efna55:
I got married to her a virgin and we never intend having babies early because I intend putting her in school, to cut the long story short she became pregnant and I was very sure about the natural methods I used, there were also many circumstances that made me think the baby may not be mine, the baby is few months old and I took her to do a secret DNA test while the mother went to school for some registrations, the diagnostic centre said without the mothers consent it cannot be done..
Pls advice..

how did you carry the baby alone on the road, Because in some areas man is not allowed to Carry a New born baby alone, if Police catch you, you go explain tire

What makes you doubt the the baby is yours?

Has she been walking and talking suspicious before she got pregnant?

Give us some hints...

linearity:
That is not true, the owner or Associate of that Clinic or Lab are sympathetic to the women getting a blow back as a result of these frauds.

At the most, what you will need is the birth certificate of the child showing you are the father and your ID, some clinics don’t even stress you to that level.

Find another clinic or buy these off the counter DNA kits to do the test.

I tried to get counter DNA kit but no online store seems to sell it in Nigeria, pls can you suggest one?

Coder2Client:
What makes you doubt the the baby is yours?

Has she been walking and talking suspicious before she got pregnant?

Give us some hints...

I have the child's birth certificate besides I'm in a paramilitary related job so that's not much of a problem, besides I contracted a lady to me..

Trusting a Nigerian girl is as good as believing APC will change Nigeria, you are just wasting your time. Its being a while I heard the word virgin, and I can categorically state that being a virgin is totally useless in this times, only a fool and simp will believe all this virgin crap. Nigerian ladies are easy pickings for legit sex romps if you know how to go about.

Why don't you confront her about the paternity of the child. For clarity sake man up and both of you should go and do DNA test whatever result that comes you both can determine how you want to seetle it. Instead of letting fear of unknown to ruin your marriage do the needful and allow peace of mind to reign in your life

If the story is true, I'll advise you try another centre.

In fact, there are some centres that will guide you on how to take specimen from "your" Baby's mouth. That way, you won't even need to take the child to the centre physically.

DNA centres also need patronage/money, so try another centre with relaxed rules.

Nairaland is back!!!!!!

Is that the only clinic in your location?

Dude go to another clinic and get the DNA done ASAP!

ok

A DNA test is legal in Nigeria right?

ceejay80s:
Nairaland is back!!!!!!

lol

Efna55:
I got married to her a virgin and we never intend having babies early because I intend putting her in school, to cut the long story short she became pregnant and I was very sure about the natural methods I used, there were also many circumstances that made me think the baby may not be mine, the baby is few months old and I took her to do a secret DNA test while the mother went to school for some registrations, the diagnostic centre said without the mothers consent it cannot be done..
Pls advice..

Check around you will see one to do without the mom. I had to ask another one after the first one refused without the mom’s consent.
I see dna like a must, before I got married I always told myself I was going to do dna for my kids it’s not about trust. I just feel it should be a must do. I did tell my wife I would have one after she gave birth in her words na me go waste my money she no get wahala. Later told my wife I did one, her reply was it’s a lie. I no even stress the matter my own is I have done what was on my mind. It’s expensive though

You go get wetin you dey find las las....

Breakfast before early morning....dey play...

It's well.

Efna55:
I got married to her a virgin and we never intend having babies early because I intend putting her in school, to cut the long story short she became pregnant and I was very sure about the natural methods I used, there were also many circumstances that made me think the baby may not be mine, the baby is few months old and I took her to do a secret DNA test while the mother went to school for some registrations, the diagnostic centre said without the mothers consent it cannot be done..
Pls advice..

Guy even me I sure my method but I had to switch to condom use cos I no wan hear say mistake enter. It is very, very possible you are responsible for the pregnancy despite your method..

ceejay80s:
Nairaland is back!!!!!!

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Efna55:
I got married to her a virgin and we never intend having babies early because I intend putting her in school, to cut the long story short she became pregnant and I was very sure about the natural methods I used, there were also many circumstances that made me think the baby may not be mine, the baby is few months old and I took her to do a secret DNA test while the mother went to school for some registrations, the diagnostic centre said without the mothers consent it cannot be done..
Pls advice..

Look for a woman to stand in as the mother simple. Prostitute Will be very happy to render such service

Efna55:

I have the child's birth certificate besides I'm in a paramilitary related job so that's not much of a problem, besides I contracted a lady to me..

You should have used the lady you went with to represent the mother

What formed your opinion that the baby is not yours?

Stop looking for what is not lost.

Ok Naa

Go to a private clinic...show prive u r the father...that is all

If you are in lagos, there are many DNA centers that you can visit.

Leave that one and visit the ones looking for customers.

Lol NL jus got back to life he Neva reach 1hr una don run dey bring family problem....

Even men that married virgin wives are doubtful of their kids.

Na wa o!